am I doing something wrong

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yeah... have a gander at the 9 pages of forum topics, asking the exact same thing, just below this one. :) Whatever I say will be a poor rehash of all the great advice that has been handed out to many who came before you. Good luck

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Every woman will be different in what appeals to them but here's some things that get my wife's interest on our couples profile; - eye catching photos - short complimentary message that isn't straight to the bedroom and shows you read the profile - well written profile The competition is stiff ;) so put your best foot forward as you only get one first message. I don't get many replies either but that's how it is, patience is a virtue. Maybe I should put up a dick pic as a social experiment lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  After a brief look mate I did notice a small error in your grammer. Some people can be spelling Nazis and be put off by the smallest thing. Not a huge issue but one that you could correct. If I could give my opinion and totally up to you if you choose to listen.I'd suggest you put in more detail in who you are as a person and what your looking for in a partner. People will be more inclined to contact you if they feel they have similar interests or a outlook. not easy to open up yourself but the only way to find someone compatible.Good luck m8. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  EarthQueen

  8 years ago

  My 5 cents worth, you need a profile pic, thats clear and in focus. Couple of extra body shots as well. Partial face pic is always nice. You need more wording as well but can't help you with that because only you know what you want/like. Good luck.

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  Forus1234

  8 years ago

  Perhaps if you broaden your search to couples as well, you would have more opportunity, but if single women are what you are after only.....the competition is pretty heavy for any single male on here. Gold Coast is one of our favourite playgrounds!

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If you want an honest answer, from me that is, body type average and no pictures equals no reply from me. I think the biggest mistake people make, men and women, is not showing themselves. You might assess your body a certain way, or it might not be perfect, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The beholder just needs vision to work with. Different looks appeal to different people, but your 'look' needs to be seen IMHO to have any chance of getting replies. Just my opinion. Chuck heaps of pictures on, make sure they're relatively current, nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck 😀

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I know the feeling..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  mexicans

  8 years ago

  You just fed the ladies ego . The genuine ones reply ,the others just take it as a notch on there garter . It will happen someday .

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  MissRedFox

  8 years ago

  The Mexicans may have cracked the code. I'd tend to agree with this - make a woman feel good about herself and she may let you feel her. If I feel there's something unique about me rather than just "hey she fits the category of female" that tends to draw a response. I tend to see this as ordering pizza - I can order pizza online and it'll be ready in 10minutes and delivered to my door at a cheap rate - and I'll get cheap generic pizza But if I want really good pizza - the best place I know - I have to drive to the next suburb, make sure I have cash and bring it back home myself But boy is the extra effort worth it XX - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ...but I'm betting that projecting confidence here is just as important for a man as it is in the real world.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Abs don't maketh the man. You also need some substance.

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  Is send messages and don't check for responses for days. If a favorable response sits in your box too long, you won't get another shot. A chance wasted.....

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  Is send messages and don't check for responses for days. If a favorable response sits in your box too long, you won't get another shot. A chance wasted.....

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  God, you are like the wise guru of the forum. Exactly how I feel, it appears complacent and unappreciative and I've let a swag of men go for that reason. Having said that, I'm now guilty of doing the same thing, only worse because I sometimes forget to reply altogether 😊 not deliberately, just lack of time and the state of mayhem my life is lol I really am losing my mind with the craziness 😝 and I don't know what's in the water over here atm but Perth is a GREAT place to live 😉

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  AnnieWhichWay's comment; I actually respond to each message that I have recieved on RHP however the curtiousy has not been reciprocate in anyway from ladies on this site. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  Ok for us to do it. We aren't the ones complaining about lack of attention and I'm sure if you see one that stands out from the crowd, you'll give the necessary attention. And that's the key for them. Standout in the field of lemmings.........

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