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am i bi curious ??
May 10 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Do you want to consider yourself bi-curious? Are you interested in having sex with women? Maybe you're experimental (open and interested in trying differing sexual experiences with same gendered, or other genders), or heteroflexible (happy to go along with what is happening at the moment, but might not continue to pursue it again, or pursue sex with a woman outside of a foursome), or a pillow princess (lay back and take it from anyone, but not likely to ever reciprocate), or straight, or whatevers and etc., (btw, those definitions are just my short interpretation, definitely not gospel) Or don't label yourself, and just enjoy and have fun
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RHP User
8 years ago
Do what makes you happy in the moment...I 100% agree with PepperRose "dont label yourself" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My opinion based on my own experience is you're not bi or bi curious. Stay with me here, this is just my opinion, but I was the same, when I found myself in a threesome with a couple, I was pretty far into it by the time they joined, was happy for her to work on me, her husband did a bit of the same, then me him, while she continued on to make me squirt. All good, but when she went to move up towards my face, I think I pushed her away or indicated to stop, can't remember exactly. I'm pretty sure they're on here so nothing negative to say, just that for me, it was that moment that made me question whether I ever could, and in my opinion, she needs to be getting more from the encounter, it has to be both, otherwise it's not fair. To add, fast forward about 6-12 months, maybe more, and I had evolved further, wanted to explore being with couples then, put it on my profile, but at the time, couldn't find a couple I was attracted to, both at least, so gave up in the end, merrily went about my heterosexual business. Fast forward to a few months ago, I had 2 couples who I was really attracted to, age was perfect for me, sexy and nice people, but I was honest with both couples, saying I would love to be with them, I'd love the experience, but I don't think I'm bi, so declined, reluctantly I might add, saying I didn't think it would be satisfying g for all 3 if all 3 weren't into full play and intimacy with the others. All or nothing in my opinion, is the only way it would satisfy all 3. I struggled with that decision but never went ahead. I think now, after all that, I was wanting to be bi, so to fully explore open sexuality, and so many guys are turned on by women being together, but ask yourself if that's the real reason you're thinking that way, for your partner's benefit, or is it for you? Also ask yourself whether you would kiss a woman the way you kiss a man, would it turn you on, and would you play with a woman alone? Lastly, do you check out women in public, are you turned on by them. Although many will disagree and say some bi or bi curious don't kiss or play alone, I still believe if you answer no to those questions, I would doubt you will enjoy bi play. Purely my opinion, welcome other opinions re my thoughts 😃
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On_Safari
8 years ago
😂😂😂😂😂❤️it!!!!! OP where was the other ladies partner when she climbed into bed with you guys? And I would be in the same boat as you....that'd be weird. The drink probably didn't help anyone either. I hope your friendship doesn't suffer as a result of this minor incident. Personally I'm heteroflexible. Not a Pillow Princess though come across a lot of them it's all about me types. Am I bi-curious? No I've chewed enough muff to know I'm not into women though if the moment seems to call for sharing what should one do? You went with your gut the other night and how you felt, you didn't do anything wrong. Don't psychoanalyse it. 👍🏽 As for your friend, discuss it with her if you want (if she remembers she's possibly feeling a bit awkies as well) and clear the air. Be a shame to lose a friend (if you value them) over a little alcohol induced error. All the best ~ Indy
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On_Safari
8 years ago
There's nothing sexual about that it's a subliminal thing firstly to look and feel good in themselves, then to look more appealing than their counterparts (again biological need to outshine the same competitors) for the last reason of having sufficient plumage/visible/aesthetic appeal to attract a mate. In nature it's usually the male who "poofs up". Lions and their Manes, Birds and their Feathers, Monkeys and their Arses 😂 There's a lot of them here!! I always check women out! Shoes, clothes, hair, makeup. They're fun to look at and oo and ash over certain things. Another reason I will, on occasion; openly compliment a Lady on her appearance. I'm not Bi or Lesbian or anything I'm just a human being enjoying the elegance or appeal of another human being. As for your couples you mentioned, you say you doubted the ability for all 3 to please each other. I think you made the right decision for you at the time and there's nothing wrong with that....but somewhere in the back of your mind you're still curious. Don't shut yourself off to it, one day you might surprise yourself and tick that off as a life experience. Oh and if any Ladies check me out and comment I say thank you 😊 ~ Indy
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On_Safari
8 years ago
Yes I've had sex with a woman one on one. No alcohol involved just primal lust and yes I kiss women like I do a man....the amount of pressure in that kiss may be softer more inquiring though. It's all a learning curve.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Who was that directed at? I hope you're not referring to me, I'm definitely a giver of pleasure, just not into it with women, men have to fight me off lol The op is asking whether we think she's bi curious, which you didn't seem to answer, or maybe you did and I didn't understand what you meant. I seriously hope you're not sneaking in a little starfish remark in there simply because we didn't take one for the team and 'chew muff' as you so elegantly put it 😉 or did you mean women in general when experimenting with bi play. But are you telling me you did take one for the team, chewing muff, really don't like that expression I have to say 😕 but isn't that as bad as having sex with a guy when you're not into him? You have to be into the person and the act, turned on by all of that for it to translate to pleasure for the other person? You say what are you to do in the situation? Do what turns you on, if that's not women, then I don't get it? Everyone is different I suppose but I couldn't think of anything worse than having sex with someone when I didn't want to be, or the other way around. You might want to clarify your comment a bit, what's with the pillow princess remark?
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RHP User
8 years ago
This site needs an edit button. This is a perfect example of things getting lost in translation and posting order screwing it up. I read your first comment, though I would have responded differently if I'd seen both your comments. God any wonder things get taken out of context. I still have issues though with women playing with women if they're not bi, admiring and being turned on are two entirely different things. I admire and compliment women too, but I most certainly don't dress to impress them, my focus is squarely on men when I dress 😉 but if you're 'chewing muff' just for her benefit? Sorry, I couldn't possibly imagine how that could be pleasurable for either, it's like porn stars faking it. Why?
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RHP User
8 years ago
is you took it out for a spin, faked it for a while, didn't like it, realised it wasn't for you, but got caught up in the expectation, momentum at the time, continued faking a bit more until you were finally true to yourself and those you were with. This might seem harsh but if this did it for you, and if you kiss a woman the way you kiss a man, really? If you did, you'd be wanting it every day yes? Yet you don't want it at all anymore? And waving the muff diving badge of honor around is seriously not impressing me. I would taste a woman (younger only, just my preference) first place I'd want to be, that's the yummiest part, and would be the most natural and easy part, so waving around the pussy licking badge of honour has a kind of 'been there done that' tone. Wouldn't do it again and didn't really want to do it at the time but you should try it? Confusing for the op I'm sure, certainly confusing for me 😃
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On_Safari
8 years ago
Pillow Princess is a term I haven't heard before and I think it's GOLD Pepper Rose!! Thank you for bringing it to my attention it made me laugh hence the emoticons laughing and loving it! You're taking all this rather personally ITM and waaaaay out of context. Everyone's sexual experiences are different as are their ever evolving interests. It's called experimenting and yes I've "chewed muff" (don't care if you like the term or not it's just an expression like many others here) when I didn't really want to but went with the flow....would I do it now....no. Would I in the future? Depends on the moment and the people....like anything I guess. My experiences are my experiences, and I speak from experience and having tried things that's what the forum allows, the sharing of experience. It's up to you what you do or don't do/try/experience/experiment. I wouldn't touch anyone younger than 35 but that's just me (having been there done that) ......I'm not a cougar (a term I find as derogatory to women as you do "muff diving") so it's all in your perspective. Yes reading helps to avoid going off half-cocked . Good for you that you dress for men......I know very well what they like to see a woman in
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Can't you just be curious, why do you have to put the Bi in front of it. I'm not Bi, I couldn't have a relationship with a woman like I have with my man. I'm what I like to refer to as hetroflexible, which means I'm mostly straight. Now in saying that, i have played with women and have enjoyed my experience with women, I am attracted to a particular kind/type of woman and it's quite different to what I find attractive in a man. I a curious and extremely naughty person, I don't like labels at all, because with labels come stereotyping. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am bisexual. Equally attracted to men and women. I've known it since a teenager, though I've only really explored it in the last few years. If you aren't attracted to women but are now considering sex with them under the right circumstances, then you could call yourself experimental. If you are concerned with the right "label". Ms U x
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just because you and/or your partner are not bi, doesn't mean you are not compatible with other bi people!
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prettyinpurple45
8 years ago
Guess I need to drop the bi and just be curious!!!! I always curious. I am still a raw naive beginner in everything! *goes back under my rock* - Posted from rhpmobile
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