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anal stimulation on men.

June 29 2011

Hi guys I'm new to rhp so I thought I would start with a question. What are your thoughts on anal stimulation. Firstly I am straight. Personallly I realy enjoy it during masterbation. Is that abnormal. I am keen to experiment this with a sexual partner. Is this Homosexual behavior? Also how do I ask a sexual partner to explore these things with Me? (Be that via oral or manual stimulation.) What are your thoughts

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Exceptional I must say, Yes it is abnormal to masterbating and playing with your arse at the same time....you know guys cannot muti task luckily you only have two hands. Ha Ha ....Is it Homosexual behaviour? I have been on RHP Forums too long and not sure what normal is anymore! Other things you need to consider: What birth control precautions you are going to take. It will stunt your growth. It will wreck your night vision. Maybe your girlfriend could buy a strap on and use it on you while another guy has sex with girlfriend?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hmm I guess my majour issue is if I was to find a partner who I thought migh be up to it, how should I go about talking to them about it(without sounding strange and perverted) . I get the feeling that most women wouldn't be into such an activity.?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Be sure to write that on your profile - At least then, anyone you meet, will know what you want! No awkwardness, or attempting to bring up the subject - it's already out there for all to see. (MRS)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hmm I guess my majour issue is if I was to find a partner who I thought migh be up to it, how should I go about talking to them about it(without sounding strange and perverted) . I get the feeling that most women wouldn't be into such an activity.?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sooooooooo.......most boys like rimming and even like a vibe or something to enhance things but with fingers are you talking just a little digit dip or a full on prostate massage?hmmmmmm? What can i say, i'm an inquisitive gal. Love to know what buzzes your tower

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Anal stimulation is a normal part of sexual play and doesn't make you a homosexual. Men and women have the same reactions to anal stimulation but men have an added bonus. If you excite the prostate in the right way you may have a different orgasm than you would have with penile stimulation. I am told that it is more intense this way.Many girls in your age group don't understand this so you will need to approach the subject carefully with them. As suggested by Mrs Foreverlove you could start by putting it on your profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    In the world of RHP.. anal stimulation is not an unusual topic of conversation... so frankly nobody here should be surprised that you're adding yourself to the list of interests. Put it in your preferences... then there can be no complaints if you discuss it during foreplay... none the less.... maybe you should show your friend the way its meant to be done.... and you could be surprised what people do when they're horny, even without prompting.By the way.... the mental picture of anal sex can feel mighty uncomfortable to people who are unprepared to be on the receiving end... and condoms are a must do.Homosexuality is a preference for having same sex relationship.... it's not a preference for anal sex.... just saying.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Nothing homosexual about it at all. The majority of men like thier prostrate being massaged and most women are not adverse to have a well timed finger inserted up the back passage either. Just make sure her fingernails are cut short first. You are not strange nor perverted and if any woman thinks that, they may not be the one for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Bottoms are for playing with! Boys ones especially. It feels good. You have aprostate, which is apparently the equivalent of female g-spot. Plus, being versed in how it feels to have your own arse played with gives you a much better insight on how to play with a chicks arse.Ahh, it's only homesexual if you want a bloke to play with you arse. :)And, believe me, a lot of girls are happy to play coits.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You know... I've always been a bit dubious about this. And I've been known to squirm and make all sorts of weird noises when I am probed down there. But since sitting on the back of a Ducati, with my arms wrapped around a burly blonde man who told me that the pillion seat may have been designed for small female Italian bottoms, but I should give it a go.... I might be coming around. I mean there's something to be said about popping your arse onto a finely tuned petrol powered vibrator.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    @goodgirlssayplz. Well rimming and a small dip would be the logical place to start with a partner. But hopefully in future I would love to try even more adventurous play. Be that more fingers or toys. Currently however on myself I only use 1 or 2 for a small dip Hmm yea I think putting on my profile is a great idea.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    LOL JeanGirard... motorbikes, vibrations, arses and burly blonde men. Sounds like my wet dream : )xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Blow jobs.... is that gay too? HugsStalky No its not gay when a lady gives a guy a blow job. Did we get that right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lmfao Jean. I'm guessing you're nearly sober while writing that... So I figure I'll start the bidding with three beers and a finger dipped in Vaseline! Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    it all depends.......do you wanted to be stimulated anally by a male or female finger but no..wanting to feel something on or in your ass while wanking or using a vibe (for the ladies lol) is really bloosy normal, so normal here in fact that the only question I ask myself in relation to this , is "Hmmmmm do I use the balls, mini vibe, or just a finger in there today ?" I dont worry about asking myself why.......just what and how big lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Precisely HOW adventurous are you talking you dirty boy. Playing with the big boys? ....erm girls. Fisting? You know there is many a lad out there who adore a nice well lubed fist up their..........erm.....where the sun don't shine. I have a little hand young dirty Quoting 'dirtylilsecret44'@goodgirlssayplz. Well rimming and a small dip would be the logical place to start with a partner. But hopefully in future I would love to try even more adventurous play. Be that more fingers or toys. Currently however on myself I only use 1 or 2 for a small dip Hmm yea I think putting on my profile is a great idea.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I promise i'll respect you in the morning darling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Oh gawd. I can hear the unmistakable snap of rubber gloves all the way down here in Sydney. :pHugsS Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' I promise i'll respect you in the morning darling

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Promise I'll be gentle! xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'Oh gawd. I can hear the unmistakable snap of rubber gloves all the way down here in Sydney. :pHugsS Quoting 'goodgirlssayplz' I promise i'll respect you in the morning darling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Is this the new "What's Wrong With My Profile" technique at work?? I have no doubt that a well-qualified nurse will be in touch with you soon dirtylilsecret44 . Hey Meeks, that trip north that we were discussing a while back ... Date night anyone? *giggle* . Oh and JG, did you know, that in this rapidly developing technological day and age, you can get all kinds of online posts "digitally signed"? *smirk* . Flirty x . PS. Stalky, I think someone's propositioning you. Just sayin ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lol well I wouldn't want to get to carried away with myself. Baby steps lol. But hey u never kno what the future brings

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Slumber party at my place, toasting marshmellows around the fire place, jumping up and down on the bed listening in our Jammies to Jon Bon Jovi sing Bad Medicine at full volume (when he was young and boodiful, hell; he's old and boodiful) and drinking passion pop?!?!??!?! Yay!!!! Pillow fight!!! hehehehe Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Is this the new "What's Wrong With My Profile" technique at work?? I have no doubt that a well-qualified nurse will be in touch with you soon dirtylilsecret44 . Hey Meeks, that trip north that we were discussing a while back ... Date night anyone? *giggle* . Oh and JG, did you know, that in this rapidly developing technological day and age, you can get all kinds of online posts "digitally signed"? *smirk* . Flirty x . PS. Stalky, I think someone's propositioning you. Just sayin ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Slumber party at my place, toasting marshmellows around the fire place, jumping up and down on the bed listening in our Jammies to Jon Bon Jovi sing Bad Medicine at full volume (when he was young and boodiful, hell; he's old and boodiful) and drinking passion pop?!?!??!?! Yay!!!! Pillow fight!!! hehehehe Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Is this the new "What's Wrong With My Profile" technique at work?? I have no doubt that a well-qualified nurse will be in touch with you soon dirtylilsecret44 . Hey Meeks, that trip north that we were discussing a while back ... Date night anyone? *giggle* . Oh and JG, did you know, that in this rapidly developing technological day and age, you can get all kinds of online posts "digitally signed"? *smirk* . Flirty x . PS. Stalky, I think someone's propositioning you. Just sayin ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Doing the splits in mid air and playing air guitar to Bad Medicine. Great potential for a fun night. Except for the most ungraceful landing meh, who cares.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Wooohooo! I'm saving up for one of those shamwows for the trumpy! :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Meeka100' LOL JeanGirard... motorbikes, vibrations, arses and burly blonde men. Sounds like my wet dream : )xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hows the research going with the strap on? Anything to report? We now think it would be a great educational tool! every girl should have one hehehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have just re-read the comments I posted the other day and I seemed to infer that homosexuality was not normal. What I should have said was anal sex is a normal sexual activity and not soley a homosexual act. Homosexuality is normal and natural and there is nothing abnormal about it.Have fun with your anal play, whatever your orientation!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78'Promise I'll be gentle! xx Sarah Your new photo, bet your mail box is full. Best of luck out there! U get them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Grin n bear....I have to admit... I have enjoyed both with company and by myself.MistressT - certainly didnt come across like you were out of line when I read down the post. But I have to totally agree with you. Each to their own and good on em I say ;) I might progress down that path myself someday.. hell you have to try...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Homosexuality is normal and natural and there is nothing abnormal about it. Thats pushing it a bit? Depends on your definiation or normal? For Homosexual / Bisexual behaviour , anal sex / play etc between two guys would be normal. But Hetro sexual / straight behavours Homosexual behavour is not normal, hetro sexual behavoiur is and a hetro sexual couple would consider anal sex / play etc between girl and guy normal. Agree everyone is entiltiled to have fun and its their choice. But what is normal is subjective depending on your orintation, which apperantly none of us can change its in our DNA, up to 15% of the population have homosexual tendencies.

  • BenDerovaGC

    BenDerovaGC

    13 years ago

    MissSarahCurious,   Did you end up finding your guinea pig yet? I can think of someone that would love to be experimented on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    miss sarah id love to be ur guinea pig. ur pleased to do what u want