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another knotty question

October 31 2013

I had a conversation with a lovely lady just recently, the topic of kissing came up...she said that kissing is usually kept for relationships, most men don't kiss when they hook up....I can not imagine being with some one and not kissing even if it's just a one night fling...   your thoughts....xknots

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  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    I'm with you knots on both of those. If that's her choice then all good for her but to say that most men don't .... wouldn't think so but hey could be wrong ...

  • precious142

    precious142

    11 years ago

    Depends - got ya teeth in?????

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    That was what sex workers had as a rule ? Find it hard to believe most women would not want to be kissed on a hookup. Kissing for me is integral . It is that magic moment that really sparks things up . Passion intimacy desire , who doesn't want that?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    If you're not kissing me you get no further. I thought that was a sex workers prerogative of not kissing Johns (or Janes). It's a quintessential part of intimacy, isn't it???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yeah for real wam bam type of dudes they try and get away with that. I remember Tuscan telling a story about a friend who had a guy come over for a hookup and when he turned up she got straight on her knees to suck the guy off... He came in her mouth, then hot tailed it out of there while he was still going his fly up. She was still kneeling when the door closed FFS! No respect, and these guys are just using your friend knots as a hole to poke their dick in. She has to stand up for herself more. Although, at sex clubs and swingers there isn't a huge about of kissing either I don't think?? Just a lot of bobbin heads. :P

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'precious142'Depends - got ya teeth in????? hahah...funny girl

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Although, at sex clubs and swingers there isn't a huge about of kissing either I don't think?? Just a lot of bobbin heads. :P Must be apple season ...meeks

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' that's why she doesn't hook up any more...... in her words, shitty sex

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MissKay'If you're not kissing me you get no further. I thought that was a sex workers prerogative of not kissing Johns (or Janes). It's a quintessential part of intimacy, isn't it???   that's exactly what I said....blew me away

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'wingman2013'That was what sex workers had as a rule ? Find it hard to believe most women would not want to be kissed on a hookup. Kissing for me is integral . It is that magic moment that really sparks things up . Passion intimacy desire , who doesn't want that?- Posted from rhpmobile my friend luvs kissing, good at it too....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Isn't kissing part of the leadup to foreplay? Start with the chatting... Then with the light touching... Then the kissing... Then the heavy petting... Finally start with foreplay... How bout a kiss boy? Don't go charging straight for the clit... :) (Love my Monty Python skits... so educational) There is so much I think people miss in the rush to climax.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I love kissing and miss it if it is not there. I have played with a few couples who did not want to kiss. Which i always found a little odd, but each to their own. I would agree that kissing is quite a personal act and can understand why some might not want to share that. But at the same time if we are licking, fingering, sucking and fucking...well how personal can you get. I want kissing.

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Although, at sex clubs and swingers there isn't a huge about of kissing either I don't think?? Just a lot of bobbin heads. :P LOL, Now getting side tracked Meeks with my favourite suburb name in Sydney. Right up there wither Swinger Hill in Canberra.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    if kissing is just kept for relationships, I've farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrked up somewhere along the line!! FOXY

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I am sure I read somewhere within the forums about a couple and their boundary/rule for a couples club was strictly no kissing or was I told that by a couple at a meet and greet??Can't member where - but it was a couple, it was a very strict rule they had of no kissing.FOXY

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    NO kissing others in a club.FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But it's considered as an extra. Which means you get to pay for it. Others have said it's a no go zone as that's too intimate for them. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There is nothing more sensual than a lovely kiss. Passion oozing in the delivery. Tongues that slowly stroke the others' and not trying to impregnate her throat, or trying to force it's way into her cerebral cortex. A hand cupping her jaw before embracing her neck a shoulders. Yeah.....I like kissing - Posted from rhpmobile

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    11 years ago

    But your penis inside of someone's body - or letting them put their penis inside of your body - isn't personal? Allllrighty then.... For me, kissing is where it starts and where it ends. If the kiss doesn't do it for me I probably won't be interested in going any further. No Kissing = No Play.Jessxx

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'if kissing is just kept for relationships, I've farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrked up somewhere along the line!! FOXY ME TOO..knots

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Kiss me quick she saidand he gently held her headand lowered his mouth to hers.Her body relaxed in his armshe had great kissing charmsthat won the hole of herYep, if you don't kiss, kiss off is my mottoMet a frenchman once who wasn't into kissing and touching, just wanted to fuck . . . .I left him there without a care and whistled my way homefor without kisses and caresses I will not indulge in sexual messes.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Never known a bonk to NOT be preceded with plenty of passion raising kisses first. Dunno who you're talking to, knots..... Maybe they're simply not telling you the truth DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    It may mean emotional attachment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Maybe she doesn't kiss and tell??FOXY

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    most girls usually like to lean over and offer their lips for that first kiss anyway ? I thought all girls like to kiss, ? or am I generalising. ? maybe I just hav'nt meet one that doesnt.. ?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I love kissing, gets the juices flowing... Yes ?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Kissing? Essential! Nothing more to say.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Nope she is 100% telling the truth. What? Do you think all those chumps sending out emails with "wanna root?" Are planning for a kiss and cuddle session before they get their dick wet ?? I have met guys that have tried pushing my head down "there" after a brief pash. Not sure if they just have no respect, don't know much about sex and are totally inexperienced, or don't know the first thing about women... Or simply don't care about anything but their own pleasure. Or all of the above. :p Knots you tell your friend she is meeting the wrong type of guys. They are not all like that. She needs to ask the right questions and screen a bit better. I bet you if you ask her all the guys she has been with have expected oral sex but don't reciprocate as well. No wonder she can't be bothered with that.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    And that is why hook ups with randoms is totally unsatisfying and boring. Can not be fucked..... Obviously. ;-)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    by a man on another site...his first message went like this... If we were to have sex ,I am married so there will be no kissing,no wearing of perfume,no biting or scratching...there will be no emotional attachment either. Gosh ,I said,it's an attractive offer but sadly I must decline. I just can't live without a good biting

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    11 years ago

    I think I'd definitely want (and expect) to be kissed, and kiss in return. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    And there is kissing, Some kisses just can't be offered to someone you are not in love with, if you are in love already.There is lots of ways to kiss.Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69'And there is kissing, Some kisses just can't be offered to someone you are not in love with, if you are in love already.There is lots of ways to kiss.Mado, Tara xxI don't like kissing unless I'm involved and have feelings for the person,

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    a peck,a pucker,a nibble on the bottom..lip that is...a sloppy one,a dry as the bottom of a cockies cage one.....or like the awful flirt here says...an Aussie kiss downunder

  • Hardgs

    Hardgs

    11 years ago

    Sex without kissing is like cake without icing.Of course it's usually the first intimate contact and if that kiss, if you'll pardon the expression, gets the juices flowing, then the sex itself will be all the most pleasurable for both parties.It's not about getting the rocks off for me, it's the complete sensual experience, so exploring my partner's body with my mouth is very high on my list.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Exactly. All very special, never the less. Though there is only one kiss of a thousand words, it is the one that leaves you completely vulnerable to everything you ever were and everything you will ever be.It is the one kiss that could very well last a lifetime, it is one kiss that has it's own fate and you spend forever learning why you are afraid of it being forgotten. It is the one kiss that becomes more than just yourself.It's complicated

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    depends on what type of hook up/relationship.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I wouldn't even think about a mere fuck!I want the whole deal to make love kiss cuddle caress and make love again...until we have to move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    such beautiful words.....in that case,I have never been kissed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love kissing, it's a great start to the system especially if it's a brain scrambler. I have met one guy from this site that kissed the first time we played but each time we met up after that he skipped that step :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I agree with u mate :) however I was at a birthday swingers bash not long ago I for with a girl I'm the spa n as she slid down on my cock I went to kiss her n she said o we don't do that ? I was little lost n the interest in her did drop off (yes I still finished what I started but lol)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I meet a lady last week n the kiss is a big factor for me :) however when we did kiss sadly she was well simply nothing at all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Kissing is such an integral part of the whole experience for me. I don't play with anyone who doesn't want to kiss...I love kissing :P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I start at the upper lips of desire and finish up at the Lower Lips of desire......either end...high or low....I just love kissing....it is special on so many levels....cultural...biological..emotional....physical....it gets those neurotransmitters flowing and get your randy juices factory on the roll. Ready to root n toot, all nite long like a pair of archaic sex gods. Mmmmmmmm the taste of your warm breath on my lips is soft as the touch of heavenly angels surly they must weep when they gaze upon the beauty you exude, one smile, or kind word from you and the fear of Ragnarock fads away. I would choose to be frozen for an eternity in a kiss with you..............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If you don't kiss, well then I will not fuck. There is something emotionally wrong with people that will not kiss while having sex, to me they are treating me as nothing more then a sex toy. Are they really so emotionally immature that a kiss will create problems.Kissing is very important to me, how can you fuck without kissing. Good kissing can turn a OK root into fantastic sex, why limit the connection, why hold back. That type of shallow emotionally detached sex is not for me at all. Oh well all to their own.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Haven't ever had a random hook up where kissing wasn't involved. Without passion and sensuality might as well use a penis pump and put on some porn.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Never known a bonk to NOT be preceded with plenty of passion raising kisses first. Dunno who you're talking to, knots..... Maybe they're simply not telling you the truth DG- Posted from rhpmobile Sometimes DG...I wonder if you know fuck all, and u got your badges out of a weetie's pack , Some

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67'If you don't kiss, well then I will not fuck. There is something emotionally wrong with people that will not kiss while having sex, to me they are treating me as nothing more then a sex toy. Are they really so emotionally immature that a kiss will create problems. Kissing is very important to me, how can you fuck without kissing. Good kissing can turn a OK root into fantastic sex, why limit the connection, why hold back. That type of shallow emotionally detached sex is not for me at all. Oh well all to their own. Good comment ....but your sending me blind with that arse pic bloke

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Warning69'I meet a lady last week n the kiss is a big factor for me :) however when we did kiss sadly she was well simply nothing at all it seem's to be more miss than hit for you at the moment..warning, you need the super foxy magic touch to get u back on track...when I think about it so do I...knots

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Youre right knots.... I don't know fuck all. Perhaps.... You can teach it to me ;-) lol

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Youre right knots.... I don't know fuck all. Perhaps.... You can teach it to me ;-) lol

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Nice double negative there DG :-p

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Youre right knots.... I don't know fuck all. Perhaps.... You can teach it to me ;-) lol DG...I can't help u mate, my badges definitely came out of a weeties pack

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I'm not that fussy. I guess it's my way of saying I like you and .. um ... what do you taste like? A little oral tango with a nibble twist makes my knees weak. Bite me hard and I'll cum a little in my knickers.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'paint_me' I'm not that fussy. I guess it's my way of saying I like you and .. um ... what do you taste like? A little oral tango with a nibble twist makes my knees weak. Bite me hard and I'll cum a little in my knickers. Promise?

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JessicaRabbit'But your penis inside of someone's body - or letting them put their penis inside of your body - isn't personal? Allllrighty then.... For me, kissing is where it starts and where it ends. If the kiss doesn't do it for me I probably won't be interested in going any further. No Kissing = No Play.JessxxKiller frock Jess....

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JessicaRabbit'But your penis inside of someone's body - or letting them put their penis inside of your body - isn't personal? Allllrighty then.... For me, kissing is where it starts and where it ends. If the kiss doesn't do it for me I probably won't be interested in going any further. No Kissing = No Play.JessxxKiller frock Jess....

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'paint_me' I'm not that fussy. I guess it's my way of saying I like you and .. um ... what do you taste like? A little oral tango with a nibble twist makes my knees weak. Bite me hard and I'll cum a little in my knickers. Promise? a dare? ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Knots   ur friend is one SEXY Lady

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    11 years ago

    No kiss - no riding dirty with me or Mr Cheeky! Kissing is all part of the experience for us... But I like a good kisser, someone who isn't afraid to explore with their mouth n tongue - Mrs Cheeky x

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    where there was hardly any kissing and even then not very passionate needless to say the whole thing was just kinda flat , not bad but nothing to rave about. Months later we decided to try for a second time and this time there was lots of passionate , knee trembling , ...pashing!! Truly ended up being some of the best sex Ive experienced!! So yes kissing can make it or break it!!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'paint_me' Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'paint_me' I'm not that fussy. I guess it's my way of saying I like you and .. um ... what do you taste like? A little oral tango with a nibble twist makes my knees weak. Bite me hard and I'll cum a little in my knickers. Promise? a dare? ... A dare!?!?!... Absolutely!You bring the nibbles and spare knickers,I'll bring the bubbly and voracious appetite.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'lana63' Knots   ur friend is one SEXY Lady     Amen....., knots

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'paint_me' Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'paint_me' I'm not that fussy. I guess it's my way of saying I like you and .. um ... what do you taste like? A little oral tango with a nibble twist makes my knees weak. Bite me hard and I'll cum a little in my knickers. Promise? a dare? ... A dare!?!?!... Absolutely! You bring the nibbles and spare knickers, I'll bring the bubbly and voracious appetite. I'll shoffer, can't have you taking a wrong turn now....