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being beautiful
June 17 2013
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flimac
12 years ago
Beauty is not how some one looks or in their material presentation. I had the pleasure of a "beautiful" mans company for a few months, visually one could only describe him as quirky, but he is one of my favourite people, his sense of humour, wit and all round personality made him beautiful (ok his rather wonderful cock did also help hahahha). Someone who is in touch with their emotions, can make me laugh and has is compassionate to othets is my idea of beauty. I like to strive to be beautiful in this way not through an expensive wardrobe and an incredible body (oh how I wish!!)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Beauty comes within... It's in their self belief, confidence, and the way they treat others. Doesn't have to have gorgeous face or a great body...it's just who they are, with beautiful souls... :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Is when one possess high self esteem/respect/confidence (but not arrogant), has a good heart, generous, friendly and down to earth :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
All the points mentioned above are very true....except for when it comes to selecting who one chats to on RHP. Thats why most guys have a shirtless selfie straight after a gym session and most women go for the cleavage or bikini body profile pics. Come on people...be realistic! Yes, a combination of ones traits will contribute to their 'overall' beauty but 90% of people on this site will choose a hot, sexy, buff, blah, blah, blah profile over someone who's not so buff but 'beautiful' because of their qualities. Just being realistic....physical attraction trumps all else on RHP.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are dead right, however to appreciate that you really have to be in their presence and on that front most of the people with inner beauty to share never get a chance to shine.Why? because,Quoting 'Justwannaplay78' All the points mentioned above are very true....except for when it comes to selecting who one chats to on RHP. Thats why most guys have a shirtless selfie straight after a gym session and most women go for the cleavage or bikini body profile pics. Come on people...be realistic! Yes, a combination of ones traits will contribute to their 'overall' beauty but 90% of people on this site will choose a hot, sexy, buff, blah, blah, blah profile over someone who's not so buff but 'beautiful' because of their qualities. Just being realistic....physical attraction trumps all else on RHP.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would say that I am a attractive girl. I am a professional dancer so my body is my living - (I havent eaten a carb since a year starting with 19) and it doesnt hurt to have a pretty face - that is true - in my profession Im fortunate that I had a mother who insisted that I got myself a decent education before I ran off to join the world of sequins and I did, but trust me, few men see or appreciate that I also have a PhD, a brain. Most cant see beyond my on stage persona - I am a chameleon and my appearance changes often , but again one forgets that when I do a photo shoot for my profession, (and I do many) its all smokes and mirrors, I only look really good due to great hair and makeup artist, clever lighting and a awesome photographer who uses me as his muse. I make his vision real - he seems me different that what I see me so my job is to make his vision real. Plus Airbrushing.LOTS of airbrushing. But what Im trying to say is this. Just because you are genetically blessed (and yes I am but I work out hard at the "great body" bit) does not mean you aren't lonely. I spend many nights alone. Many. And when I go out with my g/fs, Im often the one still sitting at the table when all my friends are up dancing and chatting with guys at the bar, because looks intimidate - both men and women. Great looks does not give you what you most long for. Trust me it doesn't. Women loathe you and bitch about you without even knowing you and guys just dont come near you. Im not complaining, not at all, Im just trying to clear up misconceptions . Ive come to embrace loneliness But Op what I think beauty is, is kindness I agree with all of what the other posters have written, all so very true but to me, being kind all day, every day in every way, is a true reflection of who you are. And if you pass that kindness on with random acts to those we both know and dont know - which I do try to do, then everyones world is then filled with beauty. Just my thoughts.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are the people who see beauty in everything around them. It shows in their faces and in their energy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a completely separate issu.Yes there is facial beauty and we all have people that we find beautifulBody beautiful....as aboveA beautiful person...someone whom shines from within...confidenceMany people who may not be a 'typical' beauty...can be very much so in my eyes...it can be a glint in your eye...your way with words...your 'charm' ...cracking sexuality etc that make you so
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's always being implied by the media that......if you 'look' good, then you 'feel' good.I've always believed it's actually the other way 'round?If you 'feel' good, then you 'look' good.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read a story about a man and a woman who just got married. She has horrific scars all over her body, after having been in a major fire. She cannot raise her arms because of them. He had a horrific accident that cost him his entire face. He had a full face transplant and is completely blind. He brushes her hair, as she can't, and she is his eyes. They notice only the beauty in each other. That makes them gorgeous.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' I read a story about a man and a woman who just got married. She has horrific scars all over her body, after having been in a major fire. She cannot raise her arms because of them. He had a horrific accident that cost him his entire face. He had a full face transplant and is completely blind. He brushes her hair, as she can't, and she is his eyes. They notice only the beauty in each other. That makes them gorgeous. Great story, real people.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' I've always believed it's actually the other way 'round? If you 'feel' good, then you 'look' good. Fuck yeah.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cheekyarses , you are Sooo right ;) As they say , First Impressions definately count . But ... I always like to try and give people the option to better the first impression they may have presented . I think I phase out all the first impression stuff when I get to know someone a little better . If that person engages me , Mentally or Spiritually , the Physical aspects they present start to dissolve . Never Judge A Book By It's Cover - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
is indeed about perception,physical beauty is transitory and as easyvirtue has said,can indeed be a great burden .Not just because of the barrier it can create but because it can also create anxiety because it is transitory. But what is beautiful to me?The city I love most is Glasgow,the most ugly quirky city, but in it's ugliness there is true beauty..to me. The sound and sight of children playing and laughing is beautiful.The winter sky,the sunsets of aqua and pink.I live near the water and I love the moodiness and ever changing view of the island on the horizon.....it's magical . So many sights and sounds to fill the senses....birdsong,the language of crows,spiders spinning silk.....all of this is beautiful to me. The people who I find to be the most beautiful are the ones who are content just to be.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm struggling with this very question at the moment. At my very best I'm full of life and sparkle, and I think that compensates for my average looks. I think that's the kind of inner beauty some posters have mentioned. I'm not at my very best at the moment and I had an awful experience this morning. I saw an attractive man on the opposite side of the road, crossing towards me. As we approached I hid my face behind my hair. I felt shame and embarrassment at how ugly my face is and I was almost shaking. It's a vicious cycle - lack of confidence strips away your sparkle, which makes you less attractive and means you don't get noticed, which makes you less confident. I can see and feel what's happening but I don't seem to be able to stop it at the moment. It's overwhelming, actually. And of course, I look the same physically, so my 'attractiveness' is all really coming from within. Such a difficult, and often painful, topic. I do think the more you know and like someone the more physically attractive they become. Maybe the lesson is to give people a chance, even if they're not immediately gorgeous to you. Maybe?
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RHP User
12 years ago
effortless one minute and fleeting the next.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are attracted to people normally due to physical appearance and this is especially true at a smorgasbord like RHP where it is a shopping mall for sexual experiences. However, the inner beauty of someone is the thing that we settle for when looking for a life partner. It is the way we treat others, the way we speak and relate to those less fortunate than ourselves, the way we view the world and conduct ourselves accordingly. Beautiful people give back without expectations of rewards because it is the right thing to do. Beautiful people actually do care and don't just give lip service to the word empathy. True beauty comes from within and does not need makeup or trendy expensive clothes. They have no need for jewels as the brightest diamond can not compare to the light shining from within.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Funny but.... everyone and everything looks soooo beautiful to me when I cum!! (But if you don't make me cum, there'll be Hell to pay :P)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You mean that having spent all this time developing "...the pretty face with the perfect hair and incredible body, the expensive clothes, top of the range car, high paid job, or exclusive jewerlly..."I now have to work on a personality.FFS you lot are picky.Mr C
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RHP User
12 years ago
Asked your lover and it seems beauty is you, and there was no wool to pull over eyes. So many are lucky to be beautiful and to know that only others can know, never can you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is in the eye of the beholder!! Plain and simple.. You can write pages on what YOU find beautiful, but those same attributes are a complete turn off to some else..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your hair is indeed beautiful. Honks, that goes for you too.
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custardapples
12 years ago
I think that beauty (to use an old quote) is "in the eyes of the beholder". Might sound a little cliche but holds true. It's a subjective thing and really lies at the heart of - why would she be with him and what does he see in her!All I know is that once you've found that person who embodies all that is beautiful to you .. you need to cherish them and enjoy the ride. Here's a question.. How many people out there choose who's profile to read based on the profile pic's alone? How many ignore the pic's and read deeper to gain some insight into the person or couple in every case? I think we are all guilty of using the visual filter. Nothing wrong with that though - this is RHP.Great topic Cheeky - well done!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct'Your hair is indeed beautiful. Honks, that goes for you too. and the high cheekbones?
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Three wise words - you n I need to meet!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Direct' Your hair is indeed beautiful. Honks, that goes for you too. Most people never see past the pretty face
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Chiko rolls are beautiful when eaten with great friends!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cheekyarses' Three wise words - you n I need to meet!! You need to be face to face with people who can mirror back to you the beauty that is you and who you actually are. I think you will find that your opinion of yourself is just that, an opinion. You are not ugly. If your posts are any indication, then in my book, that is just not true.
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custardapples
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cheekyarses' Chiko rolls are beautiful when eaten with great friends!! We couldn't agree more!!!Gunna push the Chiko Roll boundaries when we get together.Think we should start another forum topic on 101 erotic uses for Chiko Rolls. What do you think???
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RHP User
12 years ago
the bearer of bad tidings but soon the Chiko Roll will be obsolete....sooooo beautiful they were too...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Funny thing is today I found a bunch of old thumb drivesOn it were pictures of me taken over a few years. I sure look pretty but it was because I was happy.I also found some love letters and a story written by a very good writer, who wrote about his impressions of me when we met.He was an officer on an aircraft carrier and we met and had an affair over the years. Funny the impression that a person can make and how another can view you. both letter and story made me smile as both men were in love and its clear by the way they write. Its nice to know that though it was my outside beauty they admired it was my inside beauty that held them.I still have the officer on my face book, he is married again , he went to fight wars all over the place and our paths just did not cross again when we were both free.the other guy a pilot, he wrote this letter while flying home from Perth. Its nice to know that somewhere out there, a man or two found me to be a beautiful creature. Women are to hard on themselves at times. Men are not as superficial as we thinkgiven them a chance they will see past the saggy tits, the fat baby tummy the wrinklesif you love who you are,then its easy for others to see your beauty too.Being kind to people, forgiving and laughing at yourself is always the best fountain of youth you will ever drink at.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I like to believe I'm a kind person! I give alot of my time, energy n patience to many ppl on a daily basis - is this kindness given back - no it's not! But I am who I am! Bring on the chiko roll forum - think I shall start one ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It was a tough post for me to write, but great posts from everyone else for me to read :) Thanks for the thread x
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are right! It's the people who never get beyond the physical that leave us less than perfect people on the shelf. I think you need to reasses your profile and see if you fit that category. You never know what you could be missing 😜- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
So beautifully written, it seems you are as beautiful on the inside as the outside 😘- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Was pleasantly surprised to find he had a beautiful mind and personality as well. Lots of fun to be had!
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RHP User
11 years ago
On a book project called 'A Beautiful Body'. You can search for it including on kickstarter. Are the bodies beautiful?
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RHP User
11 years ago
... is Boticelli's 'Primavera'. I've seen it with my own eyes in the Uffizi. I dare you all to make the pilgrimage ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
is also in the concept of infinity and chaos theory.And NO, I'm not on the wacky weed And I'd still bonk Sheldon.
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RHP User
11 years ago
if he wanted me to.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol sounds like a good way to get your brain dissected.
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RHP User
11 years ago
as beautiful does.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Beauty is having such mental compatibility and connection..that looks mean nothing - Posted from rhpmobile
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
We could shag sheldon to help him decide if he wanted to or not!! Haha :D I think he's beautiful too! X
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RHP User
11 years ago
Provoking topic. I guess when you love someone you don't need to impress or be impressed by what they have, cock size,cup size etc....I always find women who make me laugh more attractive then a gym. Someone who can hold an intelligent is also an attractive feature. But everyone is different. What your core values are must align with your partners. If going to the gym and fitness is one if your core values than you will be attracted to a like minded person. In many ways finding a partner is like finding an employee for your organisation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Reading this forum has bad me cry I hate the way some people feel about themselves and all the pain and hurt is it worth it ?? Why do people make other people feel ugly and inferior life is too short for the nasty crap and people who make other people feel ugly etc just know that Karma is a Bitch and your day will come too !!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well said MsDirect .... A persons energy can be magical - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The thing I've noticed, and I meen everywhere I go, there are two classes of people the beautiful people, and the rest of the world,, now yes I know if your a member of the beautiful people, toned with the good looks, sports car and high payed job right now your screaming at me, people say that only ugly people say beauty comes from within but you ( the B PPL ) comment that its what is on the inside that counts, yet you all seem to gravitate together and whenever a non member asks or aproaches they get pushed away and looked down on and it happens everywhere not just on this site, or that site, it happens right from school to the work place I know you have a right to be proud, you work hard for your money and that toned body, but you have to realise that the not so beautiful people work just as hard if not harder granted yes there are those few who might choose to give up and let themselves go, but on the whole we all try to do our best with what we have, lots of people don't live where there is a heated pool and gym in the building or don't have the time as they might work two jobs to get half the money you get doing one anyway I will stop there, If I have affended or enraged anyone Sorry it was not my intention just wanted to open the eye's and hearts of the few to the wants and needs of the many Robbie,,,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Our perception of beauty changes and grows as do we. The good looking (or so we thought at the time) person we fell in love with many years ago is definitely not the same person we wake up next to now, yet the feeling that allows us to register each other as beautiful still works. Go figure. As for what we register as beautiful outside of our personal relationship seems to be quite different. Maybe our senses ore heightened in knowing we can not have something and we regard this as a safety zone and look upon it as more beautiful than things we are able to acquire before we even know if we really like it or not. So for us there is the perception of beauty in what we see and the knowledge of beauty in what we like.....Made sense at the time... As for chikko rolls, always preferred spring rolls, but everyone see's things differently.Have fun,Jelly Couple
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Cointreaugirl
11 years ago
Forget the illusion of beauty, good sexual manners is what sells a person to me. It is no good being drop-dead gorgeous if you are so selfish in bed you are only interested in your own pleasure. Or you are so inept you have never bothered finding out what really turns the opposite sex on. It is well worth looking at someone who has "considerate lover" written in their profile even though their profile picture might not be considered classically attractive.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's like they say don't judge a book by it cover. And if you choose a magazine cover that's all you get a cover. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Justwannaplay78'Yes, a combination of ones traits will contribute to their 'overall' beauty but 90% of people on this site will choose a hot, sexy, buff, blah, blah, blah profile over someone who's not so buff but 'beautiful' because of their qualities. Just being realistic....physical attraction trumps all else on RHP.- Posted from rhpmobileAttraction is really important when deciding to meet someone on this site. Anyone can understand that. But I'd like to think personality and brains is what makes you stand out from the other 6 billion guys with their shirt off on this site.And I think it's wrong to insinuate someone who takes care of themselves is any less intelligent to someone who doesn't.In saying this - just based on the number of guys:girls, girls obviously have the luxury to be more picky. You might have a degree in medicine, but George Clooney's look alike might also have one.As men we can complain - but if it was the other way around, I'm sure we'd be a lot worse.****True beauty for me is, great chemistry, pretty eyes and a husky voice :) hehe.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Beauty to me would be tracing the outlines of the shadows cast by the leaves of the tree in my backyard as they fell across the small of my lovers back being warmed by this winter solstice afternoon sun. Unfortunatly I have no lover next to me but the sunlight is still warm and beautiful..
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RHP User
11 years ago
About when women feel beautiful. In it a friend of mine said we would all feel beautiful if we saw ourselves through the eyes of our lover. It's so true. I know that I am beautiful to my lover, I'm beautiful to my friends and family and especially to my children who say I'm the most beautiful mum in the world. I'm ok to look at but certainly not beautiful. People are beautiful when we care about them and grow more so the more we care about them. The inverse is also true.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are we talking feel-good theory or reality here? Let's indulge in a quick reality check (from the male's perspective) and a little cynicrism :-* No Pic, No traffic and no responses to your messages other than " Do you have a pic I can see? "* Hot Pic, stereo-typical physical beauty and a boilerplate "Fun Guy for Fun Times" profile .. good traffic and response rate, some unsolicited approaches.* Honest, average, unflattering pic combined with a well thought out, intelligent sounding honest profile ... No traffic, limited responses to your communication attempts and few if no unsolicited approaches... It is the collective action of the women over long periods of time that manifests the above described experience for the men - I'm sorry but the observed facts disprove the theoretical protestations to the contrary.Unfortunately we don't live in Shouldland.cyn·i·crism[sin-uh-criz-uhm] adjective1. criticism from a cynical disposition.originA misreading of the word cynicism among communications with D.G that went unnoticed due to its perfect fit with the context of the discussion Lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Idungeddit ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
nobody is truly beautiful all the time....we are all flawed,we need to accept that in ourselves and others....the nature of beauty is ephemeral,it is transitory .....there is beauty to be found though, if you have the eyes to see it,all around you....there is beauty in ugliness,it all depends on your view.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Contains an abundance of beauty Luv youse all xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Beauty to me is a combination of attributes that when arranged a certain way are incredible, yet when they are on their own they are imperceptible. They have no definition or explanation, they just "are". Freya said it perfectly, beauty is all around- if you choose to see it. Beauty is a mindset and an attitude, not a dress size or bodily features.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gentlemen :)
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captainkaos
11 years ago
It's what is inside you. A truly beautiful person is someone who is caring and a friend to everyone. Someone who will help anyone in need. Someone who has a wonderful personality and a heart of gold. My ex-wife is one such person and that is why even though we have had our disagreements in the past, we are still best friends. I cannot possibly stay mad with her. Even when I want to be mad with her, I can see the good in her and I get over it fairly quickly. lol. I have a few ex gf's who are very similar and they are trully beautiful people who I hope that I will be friends with for a very long time. You are probably asking why they are my ex's if I think that way but that explanation will take waaaay too long. lol.
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