RHP

RHP User

M34

bi

January 31 2018

Where are all the real bi men in couples? myth or legend?

Comments

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    to not advertise that they are bi / bi curious , due to the stigma attached to it . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Most of the bi guys in couples have listed themselves as straight Most of the straight women in couples have listed themselves as bi. It's a strange world this casual dating thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hit the (fleshy) nail on the head right there haha Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There are lots out there, be patient and keep looking, most don’t advertise as bi to reduce unwanted attention from guys - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Even at bi events, guys are really shy. I wish they could be more confident about it, especially on sites like this and associated events - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Yup, it's all to do with the stigma. We live in a culture which objectifies female bisexuality as "hot", and stigmatizes male bisexuality as icky. My theory is that the underlying proportion of people who are somewhat "flexible" sexually is spread evenly among individuals, regardless of gender. But the culture is such that female bisexual tendencies are prized while male bisexual tendencies are pushed underground.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I am a bi guy totally out and proud. My wife has known since I met her and she has my back with it. I never got tied down to the stigma because she always accepted it. She loves me for it. I'm pretty sure it turns her on.

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    7 years ago

    Well don’t be scared anymore, and the bi run free 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We are out there - Posted from rhpmobile