M51
bi or not
February 24 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why "should" you do anything? If you like the idea and are keen to try it, go for it, but you say you don't even know how you feel about it. Until you do, just stick with the thins you know you like, I say. You certainly don't sound bi-curious to me, let alone bi. The fact that you like having your arse played with has nothing to do with that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you don't need to pigeonhole it. Maybe you should start with a woman and get her to probe you with a toy or strap on and see how you go. Maybe you need to assess whether your feelings are geared more towards enjoying receiving anal sex rather than actually being with a man as such. You can have anal sex without a man but if you would rather do it with a man and a real penis, then I would say you are bi-curious. Having toys and the real thing are pretty different. Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That if you like messing around with cocks you must somehow be some sort of bi way orientated.You would not believe the amount of guys who identify as hetero but just like fucking and sucking cock. They're like ewwww, men are fucking gross, dont want to know anything about them , I just want their cock. Simple really. Or if its still an obstacle, come round to mine and ill tell you boys what to do to each other.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think there can a big difference between enjoying anal play and being attracted to men. They can be mutually exclusive. Do you enjoy bi or gay porn, or do you tend to go for pegging and fem domme? Does the idea of a strapping fellow rogering you silly get you hot, or is it a female thrusting about with a dildo. Or are you quiet content with some anal beads or a vibrator while you enjoy so self love? Many options to explore and no need for labels.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
is a long lasting thing. How would you feel if you put it of for many more years before you try it and find being with another guy is something you love? You'll look back from the twilight years and wonder about all the studs you missed out on instead of the overweight wrinkly fucksters you are only eligible for at that point. Try it soon and put it to bed. Worst that can happen is you'll have an unpleasant meet and a sore arse. Best that can happen, an opening of a chapter in your life that will change your remaining years Life is short enough. To miss out on a chance for a life changing event. I take chances. Can't wait for the next experience that could turn my world upside down. Challenge yourself. I dare you...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dude if you enjoy anal play get a toy out, involve the wife, the girlfriend or both. If thats not enough then go coupling with another couple where he is experimental or Bi. Take it slowly as you burn relationships you can't get back, as Annie says though when you are old and fuggly is too late to find out you want cum in your bum.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is not a should thing. You are curious? you like the feeling of you arse played with? The next thing is to act on your curiosity or don't. Only you can answer that. There isn't a rush to do it either. Find the right person and situation if you are going to to it to give yourself the best opportunity to enjoy it. Personally, I did it and have enjoyed it ever since. You may try it an not like it, but at least you will know. Have fun!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't overthink it, just go with the flow in a situation where you feel comfortable and let your pleasure set the boundaries.We only live once and why deny yourself the pleasure to adhere to some sort of category that has been forced upon you by society?Regardless, just have fun and remember that every encounter is different, and it the people you choose to share yourself with that make all the difference.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh funguy6972 if you don't address the problem you will forever be frustrated, wondering what it would be like. Just do it. If you don't like it nobody will ever know and you will have scratched an annoying itch. If you do like it then you have opened the door to twice as much sex.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Omg ...it's SO hard trying to find BI guys for ourselves...anyone in brissy this weekend ? :)
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gazpacho
10 years ago
The difference between a straight guy and a bi curious guy is three beers of courage and a sneaky opportunity. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like the old saying," if it feels good do it". I wish I only started years ago .Being Bisexual opens up a whole new life If women enjoy it so much , why not men too. Guys know how they liked to be sucked ,so why not give another guy what you like. Feeling a cock in your ass is a great feeling .
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've done it, jerked off and sucked and being sucked. Most guys swallow my cum which turns me right on. Most women I have been with don't swallow cum....pity. I had 1 very sexy g/f do me with her strap on and I must say I loved it. Now I want the real thing mmmmmm. Spankii2
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RHP User
10 years ago
My former partner (blonde and sexy as) female did me with her strap on and it was fantastic.
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
You've got lots of sound advice the rest is up to you.
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funguy6972
10 years ago
Hi there I am willing to give it a go if you are willing to help me
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RHP User
9 years ago
After my first experience I couldn't believe how much I loved it. I'm pissed off now that I haven't hooked up more than the maybe 10 times I have had bi sex but I'm looking to not waste anymore time. Scratch that itch
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OkeyDoke45
9 years ago
G'day funguy, I agree with Meander on this one. If you were bi or bi-curious you wouldn't really have to think much about whether you should try having fun with a bloke, you would have given it a go by now. I was bi-curious until my early 20's (even as a teen), always waiting for an opportunity to present itself to have a bit of light fun (to start) with another bloke. I fantasized about men as much as I did women. Did not even dream of anything beyond just playing with a bloke and oral though. When one day an opportunity did present itself (and if you're genuinely interested it will, the ''gaydar'' thing is not a myth), I did indeed do that and loved every second of it. From that point on I was definitely bisexual, and I have gone onward from there. Not too far onward, mind - I still don't enjoy anal generally as a rule, giving or receiving. If any of what I have just described seems repulsive or off-putting to you, best not go there at all. I don't necessarily agree with others here who suggest just ''giving it a go'' - if you think you can walk away having not enjoyed it without having some kind of meltdown, then you probably can just give it a go. But I have seen blokes try it for the first time and it gets them quite distraught (''oh god, this means I'm gay'') afterward. They should probably have stayed away. As an extra point, sometimes fantasies are best kept that way - the reality can be disappointing. Picking which ones are best kept as fantasies - now there's the hard part.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hello everyone, for me I love receiving oral from a guy that's biggest trun on for me but never try giving oral back to a guy, I don't know I'm bi or not even doesn't matter if I'm bi only the matters is I need a good teacher lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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