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December 25 2011

Why Do Guys Judge Ppl on there looks and body ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Oh please don't get all downtrodden. Cheer up... Some people judge others by their grammar, spelling, abbreviatng and text speak.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As casual sex partners i judge/choose people on various things. It's just normal. They see things about me that don't suit them i'm sure too. That's just how it is. I can't hold it against anyone because i'm just as bad if not worse than most :) Everyone does it, no one is blameless here. Not when it comes to casual flings, it's casual, it's shallow and i need to be attracted to someone i'm going to be intimate with as a first off instant thing, that first 10 seconds i need to see something that's going to work for me as i'm looking up at him/her. Personality, comes in next and then after that character, pheromones are somewhere in there as well, natural heat. You need to know that you're compatable as lovers, that you're going to be hot together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    no more than women do. its something we all do.... men, women, and even couples........... we are here to explore fantasy and desire...... for us, that means contact with exceptional people...perhaps others seek the same..... the 'average' couple, woman or man, from up the street, just doesnt do it for either of us............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Luckily you don't JG :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But I know we all do it to a degree. I mean, take a look at my pictures. I am actually missing my front four top teeth due to bad genes in the dental area. Can you tell? I have dentures but they don't fit. I am short and fat. Well, not as fat as I used to be. I've lost nearly 30kg but I'm still chubby!I smoke and I drink. Add all that together and it almost always spells bogan to those who don't really bother to really look at me underneath. I don't think I'm gorgeous by any means but I don't think I'm ugly either. It's perception really.Hugs.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes, it is true that I value four separate body organs of parts / features. However these four are (for me) a blend of physical and mental factors. They are:   1. Brain (the biggest factor). A series of open, honest, upfront, good communicator, emotional connection, generally non judgemental, an equal, respected, hot, educator, self dreprecating, trusted, loyal where appropriate and more.   2. Face. The positive outlook, eyes, mouth, kissability, more Morning wake up feelings   3. Sensitive boobs. Ones that I can nicely incorporate into sex plays   4. Pussy. But then again I am a guy who is a genuine good oral giver. Just adore it.   We are very visual. Nothing nicer to see my woman orgasm (as well as feel and hear). Or the look into my womans eyes as I bonk. Of course the view of my cock thrusting and penetratins and communicating that is cool too.   Just my blend......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    For me it's actually more about what's on the inside. I have been with stunning girls before and that's all they had going for them. So now I'm not overly bothered by looks as long as they aren't ferals. Of course it is always a bonus if they're beautiful as well, especially if they love to give oral as much as I do!!!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    There so much crap written about being judgemental, superficial, shallow, critical and blah blah blah and so on. To be honest i'm fuking over it - don't know about the rest of you?At the end of the day who really gives a damn! and to be perfectectly honest those who do judge or even offer their blatant opions, fukn good on you - at least you have the ballls to do it and know damn welll you will be JUDGED by those who DONT JUDGE hahahaha Me - l try not to judge but at the end of they day l have been known to...and i've also had a bitch about some one and i've been shallow and ..........so on. If you dont like what they say get over it and move on ......

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Many people on here have no personality at all by which we could judge them. Something has to be the decider.PS. JG you misspelled abbreviating, I'm afraid I can't possibly fuck you now. Soz!xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    JG had me grinning.... But Sarah had me rolling around on the floor laughing ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It is all relative and individual as you say and at the end of the day in reality land no matter how beautiful a man or a women there is someone, somewhere how has to put up with their shit

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' It is all relative and individual as you say and at the end of the day in reality land no matter how beautiful a man or a women there is someone, somewhere how has to put up with their shit No matter how gorgeous or sexy a woman is, there's some guy out there who's sick of fucking her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its in our genes Everyone on the planet does it. Its a mechanism for finding a mate. For RHP filters its the three FS find em filter em fuck em

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    THat's pretty much it in a nutshell Sarah     My nan also used to say Beauty does not bring happiness look at hollywood...filled to the brim with very beautiful and once very beautiful miserable, divorced and lonely fuckwits.......................erm...yes, my nan used those words. To look at her she was an absoloute pearl glad, chantilly laced lady...........with the mouth of a sailor on shore leave when she needed it

  • AboutTime70

    AboutTime70

    13 years ago

    I think guys judge people on appearance for similar reasons to why women do it - it is natural and normal. We have eyes to assess the world around us and that's part of how we're all (most) wired 'upstairs'. Of course it would be weird if it was the ONLY parameter, and to exclude appearance altogether is also pretty unusual. If it was the healthy, natural human state to be obese &/or, skeletal, covered in pustules, have curvature of the spine, toothless, a lumpy head, well, then we'd all naturally feel like that was desirable. In the interests of equity, I guess it is good for the human diaspora that some folk really 'go' for the dumpy and lumpy-headed. That way, more can have a naughty, happy good time. For me, an immediate 2nd preference to consider is personality. Afterall, I can usually see someone before I can engage them in conversation, to assess personality compatibility. A goddess can have the personality of a sea-sponge and it's 'instant soft-on' for me.   P.S. I think J.G. intentionally inserted half a dozen errors in his post ;-) but someone will bonk him anyway - hee hee!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' PS. JG you misspelled abbreviating, I'm afraid I can't possibly fuck you now. Soz! xx Sarah While I judge people on their spelling - I judge them even more on their ability to correct. .Can we come to some sort of compromise as to where or when I can make a mends and slip that missing 'I' back in?

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

  • MrJingles

    MrJingles

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'naughtychilli' The 99.99% of people who pretend they don't judge other people on the first 10 seconds of visual sensory information are LIARS The 0.01% who truly don't judge other people on the first 10 seconds of visual sensory information are.... BLIND Ms Chilli xx I could go on about the categorising people to according into your paradigm and world view but we can all read about the psychology of generalizations on wikipedia unless we're BLIND... WELL SAID YOUNG LADY!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There must be an attraction there before you can have sex with total stranger. I always like to see face shots first, due to some poor choices over the years lol.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'AboutTime70'   P.S. I think J.G. intentionally inserted half a dozen errors in his post ;-) but someone will bonk him anyway - hee hee! I'd misspell every damn word if it meant I'd get to play with she who does ;)xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I cant fuck someone that I am attracted to and every guy on here is the same. There is no point in trying to sugar coat it or beat around the bush about it. Us guys eat, shit, fart, shag then sleep it's in our DNA.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think you're over simplifying and underselling all males if you put them in that box and I'd be interested in none of them if that were really the case. Thankfully I know different. There are some exceptional males out there who WAY outstep that description thankfully Blossom, aunty goodgrlz would NEVER get laid!!!!! Eeeeep!!!! And NOBODY wants that.