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body & cock photos too much to ask?
June 19 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seems they have all been taken down after another thread complaining about the amount of cock pics. It was however pointed out that you could keep them in a private album for those who request them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont think it is too much to ask... But i dont think everyone has a picture of thier cocks on the profile... But its your right to ask...
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justswingingbi
13 years ago
For us it seems to be the other way around, we get a lot of cock pics but they seem to be hesitant to provide face pics...
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RHP User
13 years ago
we dont want to be confronted by a dic pic first up... as good as any dick might look' it needs to be attached to someone who ticks the rest of the boxes first.. Rather the PG have tastefull face and body pic's then once the attraction is there we would ask for more... not the other way around...
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shyvoyer
13 years ago
you see so many no photos (even no gallery) or just cock ... want see bit more as not just the cock we would see in meet lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
to the usual discussion about too many cock shots (personally I dont mind them one little bit as long as they are done well)!! LOL. No, you are quite right to request them if that's what you want to see. The genuine ones will have no problems as long as you share yours in return (of course) and the fakes will just dissappear.....Great way of weeding them out I think! XXX
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
You see we get frustrated when that's all there is. While we both totally appreciate a hot body it's the faces which determine our level of attraction.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And to get things rolling, put some pics of him in your public gallery.
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Monkey24
13 years ago
I have removed cock pics from my profile, just have face pics in PG which seems to be the go. Happy to show cock pics once both parties feel comfortable. That is my take on it, simple as it seems. Have fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey guys, My input to this discussion is my idea of private galleries are face pics and body pics, not interested in seeing penis and vagina as this no way shows what you look like!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
im also sick of seeing tits, cock, vaginas and ass pics or too many pics of the female and none of the males,
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry.. i should have elaborated or clarified that I am referring to the profiles that have no pictures at all... or only a face shot... I too think that profiles that ONLY have cock shots are blah... but hey... its the cock (or pussy) that is going to be the focus at the end of the day....I am just getting increasingly frustrated at the profiles that have no pics, and when contacted cannot offer any pics or its like pulling teeth to get them! (either body, face or naughty ones). I like to see the menu before I order my meal ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes!!! exactly how it should be!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting Waterbabes....to the usual discussion about too many cock shots (personally I dont mind them one little bit as long as they are done well)!! LOL. No, you are quite right to request them if that's what you want to see. The genuine ones will have no problems as long as you share yours in return (of course) and the fakes will just dissappear.....Great way of weeding them out I think! XXXYES!!!! YES!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ive just added mine and its fuckin huge too :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Photo was rejected :S
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well unsurprisingly there seems to be a difference of opinion, which is great because it means there is variety out there. For us, no pic no contact. If you're not bold enough to even put up an anonymous pic what chance is there of you turning up? To cock or not? Well I guess sexy pics are fun but what is sexy? If you want to meet, best have a full body shot and a face. They are our rules. We don't mind if members don't want to post pictures they just limit their possibilities. We don't feel we do because we don't feel pictureless profiles represent people we would be succesful with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To 50zcool, yes there are pics of him... in our private gallery... for us to open for whoever asks...;) my forum was aimed at the ones that don't have any pictures at all in their profiles (public or private) that contact us and then when asked to provide pics is like we have asked for photos of an endangered species! Especially when our profile states "do not contact us unless you are willing to provide face and body shots".
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RHP User
13 years ago
LMFAO @ some of these posters.... what is "fakes" when it comes to "cock shots". do they not have cocks? jeez some poeple like to pretend on the internet big time. LOL.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'daveandfee' im also sick of seeing tits, cock, vaginas and ass pics or too many pics of the female and none of the males, I am like that. I don't bother taking any of mine. If I did it would be in the PG. But I would feel lie a jerk if I bothered. I just feel that it is something that I would only share if I were to meet someone on here. I feel it should be left to the discreet place.
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RHP User
13 years ago
if you see the cock on propfile then you now wat your getting you now the but not the size and more desert yum yum if you want the cock pics of face dont matter lets cee your face ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
to geminilibra ive got a big cock and now how to please a woman ,and my tounge to go with it ,if you want to see more pics let me now , instead of view my profile do something a bout it and lets get together trust me you will beg for more ive got the meal and lots of desert
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RHP User
13 years ago
I noticed the other thread complaining about too many cock shots, now this one specifically requesting cock and body shots. My 2 cents (for what it's worth) is it shouldn't be too hard to have at least one public photo, and seperate your private gallerys. For people who don't like their face all over the internet, put your face shots in one album, and at least have one or two body shots and/or cock shots in the other album. At least then you are providing for both. Also I might add if you don't tell the person what kind of photos you want to see then you shouldn't get offended if they grant you access to their private gallery and there's a cock in your face...just saying...
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RHP User
13 years ago
hahahaha @ mischievious lad
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RHP User
13 years ago
Curious_bravo you have said it all!!! Now surely that is not too much to ask is it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I want a man with a face, before I decide if I want to see his cock - for sure ! Go the brave fellas /couples who show a bit more than headless body bits! Anyone can do that- call me old fashioned but Id rather leave a bit more to the imagination! A guy with a not so great looking dick can get me real wet if he knows how to use it and thats what counts anyway isnt it ? A flabby "beer belly" on the other hand is a useless obstruction to getting pussy close enough to said cock and a big turn off and you can tell if someone has one of those without them needing to take off their clothes ! PS. 50zcool - just for the record -for 52 I reckon you're pretty cool ;) !
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
For me its nice to see at least one pic of a cock on the profile. What i object to is seeing pic after pic of the same cock. We all know what one looks like and i know everyone is a little different but shit one cock shot is enough. Some people for privacy dont want to show their face in the main profile (we are them people) purly because we are from a small town where everyone almost knows or claims to know everyone else. So headless shots it is until we are requested for face shots which we are happy to show once we have determined that we dont know the people that are asking. For us all cocks look good its whats attached above the shoulders that turns us on or off.
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RHP User
12 years ago
arent all the guys here male anyway? dont we have cocks? we think its the face and body that needs to be attractive, and are happy with cut and average for tackle...oh and hair free. we dont need to see pics of his willie to decide if hes good looking or not....good looking with clothes on is ok too...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'darknite64'to geminilibra ive got a big cock and now how to please a woman ,and my tounge to go with it ,if you want to see more pics let me now , instead of view my profile do something a bout it and lets get together trust me you will beg for more ive got the meal and lots of desert And some guys wonder why we don't message back!!!! With messages like that who could blame us?? What is even more worrying is that this is not some horny 20 year old.. this is a 50 year old saying this!!!! WTF????
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'decibels' true if you want a pic of face just ask Quoting 'fleurtatious81' Quoting 'darknite64'to geminilibra ive got a big cock and now how to please a woman ,and my tounge to go with it ,if you want to see more pics let me now , instead of view my profile do something a bout it and lets get together trust me you will beg for more ive got the meal and lots of desert And some guys wonder why we don't message back!!!! With messages like that who could blame us?? What is even more worrying is that this is not some horny 20 year old.. this is a 50 year old saying this!!!! WTF???? And not many 20 year olds talk like this either, theyre usually more subdued than this lol. Argh, too many cock shots, not enough cock shots. Cant please everyone. Just move on people. If its not what you want or have requested its easy; NEXT! Give me a nice face, body and mind any day. Most guys are endowed enough and know know how to use it anyway, anything more is just a bonus really Quoting 'decibels' Quoting 'fleurtatious81' Quoting 'darknite64'to geminilibra ive got a big cock and now how to please a woman ,and my tounge to go with it ,if you want to see more pics let me now , instead of view my profile do something a bout it and lets get together trust me you will beg for more ive got the meal and lots of desert And some guys wonder why we don't message back!!!! With messages like that who could blame us?? What is even more worrying is that this is not some horny 20 year old.. this is a 50 year old saying this!!!! WTF???? And not many 20 year olds talk like this either, theyre usually more subdued than this lol. Argh, too many cock shots, not enough cock shots. Cant please everyone. Just move on people. If its not what you want or have requested its easy; NEXT! Give me a nice face, body and mind any day. Most guys are endowed enough and know know how to use it anyway, anything more is just a bonus really
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'geminilibra' To 50zcool, yes there are pics of him... in our private gallery... for us to open for whoever asks...;) my forum was aimed at the ones that don't have any pictures at all in their profiles (public or private) that contact us and then when asked to provide pics is like we have asked for photos of an endangered species! Especially when our profile states "do not contact us unless you are willing to provide face and body shots". Curious why you don't have at least body pics of Mr Geminilibra in the public gallery alongside the pics of Mrs Geminilibra? Seriously, is there a reason for that? I know it's your choice - but why is that your choice?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I completely agree with u guys I have the same problem but on the other side of the fence I hav partaken in a few MFm with couples but it would have been a lot more if people would agree to chat then swap pics before u drive twenty km to see a sore red cock or vag!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Surely noone could know whether there was an attraction or manage to get any idea of whether they would be compatible enough to sacrifice the time to meet someone, just by seeing a photo of their cock ( or pussy ). Usually when my Mrs see's a males profile with just a photo of a cock, she assumes that that the pic pretty much sums up the man's personality.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We're reluctant to put identifying photos - even in private gallery. But an acceptable alternative for us is email. As for the explicit shots - I'd rather see it in the flesh ;) Discovery is part of the adventure for us
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RHP User
12 years ago
for us, and i imagine many others, seeing cock shots really isnt going to impress us one way or the other...attraction is about physical appearance, ie body and face etc. we'll ask for the pics of bits, if we feel so inclined, otherwise we find it much more appealing when guys dont flash their cocks etc in our faces....... heres a clue guys...if a cock shot is your main profile shot....we see that as juvenile, so while it might amuse us, (not in a kind way) it will never ever attract us........
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
Our rules, and there's only two...# 1 facial pics up front of BOTH parties (if couple) # 2 We speak on phone before meeting. 1 + 2 = Meet It's pretty simple really!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
isnt it funny how the poster and some people who agree, have closed accounts now? Do they make new accounts just to answer? Leave the doodle and pussy shots for PG...we can watch porn anytime... for us this about meeting people with face and body pics...to create some interest to meet them :>
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RHP User
12 years ago
There's just no pleasing you women is there?? I think that, everyone has the option of being asked, but the way I see it, you've got equal chances of being told no. And as mischievous said, if you don't like the answer, move on, complaining about it doesn't exactly make for positive outcomes. Chris
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Quoting 'geminilibra' To 50zcool, yes there are pics of him... in our private gallery... for us to open for whoever asks...;) my forum was aimed at the ones that don't have any pictures at all in their profiles (public or private) that contact us and then when asked to provide pics is like we have asked for photos of an endangered species! Especially when our profile states "do not contact us unless you are willing to provide face and body shots". Curious why you don't have at least body pics of Mr Geminilibra in the public gallery alongside the pics of Mrs Geminilibra? Seriously, is there a reason for that? I know it's your choice - but why is that your choice? Yes ... this always baffles me ... Couple looking for an extra lady or couple to play ... but only advertise her in the public gallery? ... He's not only watching so why don't they have pics of him in the public gallery? (Shit even still if he was only watching I'd want to know) ... To me this is akin to time wasting ... You get a flirt when they are members (why when they can msg?), then you flirt back (I'm a guest), then they message you, then you have to ask for pics of Mr, then there's no pic of Mr or you find out the reason why he was 'hiding' ... I'm not unwilling to have a bit of play and banter online but this is just wasting time! ... Yes / No / Thanks but No Thanks / Next ... If he is 'hiding' behind his Mrs it just indicates to me that he is lacking confidence in his appearance / attractiveness which in itself is not attractive ...???L x x x
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RHP User
12 years ago
i hate it when a guy flirts me with the i think yr hot what do u think of me and they dont even have a damn pic im thinking why did u ask me what i think of u if i cant even see u it is the most annoying flirt i get or the pic they have is the crack of there bum or there cock or there elbow or car or bike or them with a helmet on and glasses OMG what are they thinking if u want to get together have pics up im not going to meet someone who i have no idea what u look like or yr willy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Theres nothing wrong with window shopping
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RHP User
12 years ago
What do they expect, it's adult flirting site. Just keep them in private galleries to stop the whinging
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've just moved mine from gallery 1 to gallery 2. For those that want to see my face without everything showing they can request gallery 1. If anyone wants to see my cock and nudie pics, 'it's all in gallery 2. Simple really, you only have to ask. Some girls like to see it all, some don't.
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RHP User
12 years ago
"After all isn't swinging largely based on sexual attraction, which is mainly physical attraction..."Sexual attraction for me personally is not mainly physical attraction. A huge portion of sexual attraction for me is found in a person's personality. Physical attraction does play a part in it but I put at least an equal emphasis on personality.Also, I don't think a man should have to show his penis to a stranger over the internet. Just because you want to have a sexual relationship with someone does not mean you want to send them naked pictures before you have even met in person. It of course, is up to the individual and who they are/what they are looking for.Finally, I have NEVER seen an ugly penis that I would refuse to fuck lol. Every penis is different- but for me, what makes an ugly penis is the person it is attched to rather than the penis itself. Usually I get put off by the overhanging beer gut or excessive hair rather than the penis itself. Body, however, I do want to see pictures of- it can be clothed- as it gives me an idea of their body type (e.g. a lot of men say they are "average" but really they need to be listing themselves as "a few extra kg" or "an elephant".)These are just my personal preferences.
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RHP User
12 years ago
does anyone actually read the profiles instead of making up their mind on a pic,wether it be a cockshot,vagina shot or pleasant face pic. Seems this site has become very shallow lately and personally trying it hard to find anyone with just a little bit of depth, wouldnt sex be so much better if you could actually understand the person a little and have a verbal attraction along with a visual one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes ... this always baffles me ... Couple looking for an extra lady or couple to play ... but only advertise her in the public gallery? ... He's not only watching so why don't they have pics of him in the public gallery? (Shit even still if he was only watching I'd want to know) ... To me this is akin to time wasting ... You get a flirt when they are members (why when they can msg?), then you flirt back (I'm a guest), then they message you, then you have to ask for pics of Mr, then there's no pic of Mr or you find out the reason why he was 'hiding' ... I'm not unwilling to have a bit of play and banter online but this is just wasting time! ... Yes / No / Thanks but No Thanks / Next ... If he is 'hiding' behind his Mrs it just indicates to me that he is lacking confidence in his appearance / attractiveness which in itself is not attractive ...???L x x x Omg couldnt agree more...perfectly said! s&s x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'trilogy' does anyone actually read the profiles instead of making up their mind on a pic,wether it be a cockshot,vagina shot or pleasant face pic. Seems this site has become very shallow lately and personally trying it hard to find anyone with just a little bit of depth, wouldnt sex be so much better if you could actually understand the person a little and have a verbal attraction along with a visual one. Trilogy ... out of curiosity I did read your profile and I'd say it's one of the more interesting ones ... I always read the whole profile ... pics never tell the whole story, but the content of the picture can tell a few stories ... nothing turns me on more (sarcasm) than beer swilling, cigarette in hand or mouth, yobbo banners on the wall in the bedroom, and of course the who's who of who of his gorgeous lady friends in the PG (that he hasn't bothered to crop out of respect for their privacy). The one that got me this eve was sent via email ... sprawled across the bed, hand firmly grasping his hard pride and joy but with a 'wrestling the python' grimacing look on his face ... hmmm not so sexy??? Grimacing? WT??Back to the profile content ... has he bothered to answer all the questions or thought that we don't need to know? ... has he just used the proforma phrases or been creative and put his personality out there? ... is he clever and articulate or just being lazy or down right rude? ... I want to be intrigued, curious, there's something different about him, what is it? ... There are many great guys who are 1st class with stimulating conversation, wit, charm, sexually skilled, intriguing, gorgeous and sexy but not so Adonis-like ... we all have our 'buttons' and in the end it just comes down to whether the whole package is for us or not? BTW ... do the guys realise that Guests can't see R Rated pics (cock shots) ... and single women don't really need to be members as they get plenty of attention ... so ... after all of this they'd be better off uploading clothed/partially clothed pics and then appeal to a wider audience ...??? The Gals will ask for the cock shots if they want them and usually when they do, the pics will rocket through cyberspace at warp speed leaving us wondering how the guys managed to type an email address, hit the attach button and then the send button at such super-human speed ... LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont mind if there r no pics in the profile pic but if you click then I would want to see face pics first to see if there is an attraction and then if we want to hook up defenatly cock and pussy pics are good, you wouldnt want to meet and then when they drop their pants (either male or female) you are like eeeew grossed out, be honest most of us are on this site to hook up and play and personly I have my tastes as would everyone I dont have the mentality of a cocks a cock or a pussy is a pussy, if its not my kind and I dont think oooh yummy the I am not going there so yes I would want to see a cock pic before I hookup !!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Profiles are very inportant to me the information given is what makes me decide weather or not to go there so the ones full of ask me's I just ignore !!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you decide to join Redhotpie then what are you afraid of showing some face pics , if you don't want people to know that your swingers then don't join a site like Redhotpie , also agree with placing photos in private gallery as you can give access to people whom are interested what is so hard in giving access .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Thanks for the Topic.. I guess it takes all tastes and priorities in what People are seeking before meeting.. A face Pic no more is what I require tho a nice artistic body, chest pic is a Plus.. I've no interest in a Guys cock or it's size the most important to me is if we have a Connection.. Chemistry present if yes I'll see his cock soon enough .If No it doesn;'t matter what it looks like I won't be playing with it .. Frankly I was all over the cock Pics as Profile pics no Face ...Put them where they belong give them to who wants to see as others have already said .Everyones happy then .. Enjoy Cheers Lu :)
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