RHP

RHP User

M50 F45

boundaries and limits

July 09 2013

we often read on profiles that people are open to anything however when you start chatting to them you realise they have boundaries and limits as we all do. So what are yours.   Ours;   Within our rship   scat blood underage animals breath electro needle unless getting peirced by a pireeer   With another couple   All of the above Anal Unprotected sex Photos/videos being taken Meeting as individuals to start with or meeting one of a couple to start with.   In public;   Anything that would offend others by flaunting in their face, but hidden away but sitll in public another story.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Lots of guys say they are up for anything. I usually find that they are pretty vanilla but get quite offended when you say that they are not kinky enough. I guess you don't know what you don't know. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Anal, scat, wee, mushrooms, avocado... Hang on we're not talking food here, Frack.. Anal. Scat. Wee and poo on any part of body. Plastic bags and strangulation activities. Mysoginistic behaviour outside the realms of " you're a dirty girl, fuck me you dirty girl... Ohhhhhh you're a horny bitch... I like my girls wet and tight".... Oh and hitting... If a bloke hits me he's better make sure I stay down. I am almost benching 50kgs and I take boxing lessons... if I come back up, he's out the window

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's pretty rare to find anyone who really really are prepared to consider anything. Unsafe ones for me I guess, things like blood play, extreme breath play, scat, leading to anything that will leave much of a mark for more than a couple of days (thinking spanning there). Not too many others, for me limits are more found by experimenting. Rambling now, sorry

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Peoples limits can change as the relationship evolves. I also find that people often confuse fantasy with reality. ie: the thought of TPE is a massive turn on for some men, but as soon as tools are put in place for it to happen, they freak out. My limits are different with each submissives. I won't have sex with my sissy, but I would with a regular sub. I can't beat a female, but I enjoy hurting a man. I enjoy degrading and humiliating my sissy, but I don't do it to reg fem/male subs etc. My true limits are no age play or beastiality. Everything else I would be open to discussing with the right person.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Our limits are scat, blood, underage, animals extreme breath play and extreme whipping   Most other things are fair game depending our mood and who we are with.....

  • kinky_master

    kinky_master

    11 years ago

    Because as your boundaries and hard limits change you allready have the control. You just have to keep a firm grip on reality that because your limits have changed - your subs hard limits are still the same. But I have realised when playing that some previously set limits where too high - or that some boundaries where there to be pushed alittle. And I have even stuffed up and misread a situation - but that's what the safeword is for. But the limits I never change are: No Kids, animals, faeces, blood or any permanent damage

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    Hey the ladies are sometimes just the same all talk no courage the worst offenders are the ones who say sex in public LOL if only.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'chevtrek' Hey the ladies are sometimes just the same all talk no courage the worst offenders are the ones who say sex in public LOL if only. Your words Chevtrek. It would be great if you could explain your comment further. It seems you have much experience to share...