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brains or braun
December 09 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's both. A brain is a must of course. I'm physically fit and I'm also attracted to a man who also looks after Himself. If we are talking Arnold Schwarzenegger buff, well no, not my thing, I do like muscles and definition though. I've found as I get older, I am attracted to quirkiness, something I would have defined as "weird" in my teens and early 20's.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi party, You may not get fully truthful responses on this topic lol. I think the older you get the more you realise that looks don't matter as much. Personally i feel its impossible to fall in love on looks alone as the body is basically wearing down like a tyre on a daily basis. Its what you can't see and what doesn't change overtime that is the most powerful...and thats soul, spirit, personality, traits and demeanor. Applying a simple cup of tea test can be good....if you enjoy the company of someone over tea or coffee then there is a good chance you'll still enjoy that person when you are over 70...having tea or coffee. The physical won't matter then but the feeling, soul and spirit you had with that person when you were younger will still be there. Lets face it...when you are in your senior years it'll be bowls, gardening, tea and company that matter lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I remember a huge discussion a few years ago if good looking people were better in bed than average people. It's amazing how many people think that it's true. You are generalizing a lot there Partygoer, And you make whack a few noses out of joint with this one. Lol Same can be said for Barbie. I am sure she was a starfish with a personality of a wet mop. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have met some very intelligent people who are completely self absorbed!, it's not a simple as that, I would take kind over conceited. A bit of everything would be a good mix!.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is a DIVORCE Barbie out now eh... She comes with ALL Ken's accessories.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Braaaaaiiiiinnsssss!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
for me it is the whole person,intelligence is attractive but just because someone is intelligent doesn't necessarily make them attractive. Just as an amazing body, while I can appreciate it's beauty, doesn't mean I want to bonk it.Connection is what is important to me and it is either there or it is not. It's a person's life experiences and views that make them who they are that are all part of sexual attraction, as are taste,touch,smell,that chemical cocktail. Some people have it all,beauty and brains but that does not necessarily mean that everyone will be attracted to them. I have a male friend who is one of the most physically attractive people I have ever met.When he was younger he hated people staring at him,he was very introverted and shy .Now that he is older he is much more comfortable with his looks.He is also a very intelligent man and loathed being an object of attention just because of how he looked. For some people it is confidence that they find attractive,but I find very confident people are quite often boring because they lack emotional intelligence.It's the quieter person observing who actually tends to grab my attention. And of course the MOST important thing,someone with a similar funny bone,what's not to love in a laugh.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I try to take people for who they are.Some are smart ,some silly ,some sexy.We all have something to bring to the table of life.Its funny how people, who you think lack smarts ,are the ones who can blow you away on a certain subject. Then the ones who are smart can do silly things. Life is about having a healthy mind and healthy body.People are brainwashed thru an image that is projected on TV,just look at Hollywood ,they look good but boy are they out of touch on the realities of life.I tent to find when i am out of shape ,i lack confidence and can be bitter.When i have my health ,i am a trooper,nothing mentally gets me down and my brain is like a sponge.Humans need nourishment for our body to function as it should,we also need mental nourishment for our spirit and brains.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Both please, surely we can meet in the middle and not have to choose.Actually I'm finding age has more to do with the final decision." My experience" has been that the young hard bodies lack life skills, wisdom, wit, humour and the art of seduction.Whereas, men closer to my own age (with hard-ish bodies) have developed those over the years and I connect with them more.....and want to kiss them, and touch them...and nuzzle into their neck if they smell delicious.....oh my
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some have both so there is no need to choose. For me, your looks will get me interested but your brains will have me begging for your phone number.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... and age? My cut-off age is 30. But then a 22 year-old emailed... A big no no at first. However, they way he wrote, in combination with his wit, tiny ego and obvious experience, made me curious. In person he was even brighter and more mature. Not to mention very attractive physically. My answer turned into a yes. And then became Oh Yes! Seeing him again this week...
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RHP User
12 years ago
The more I love my husband He is not the most articulate man in the world, nor all braun but he keeps himself in good shape He is not a talker but he can make me laugh its neither for me its Respect how a man respects himself and others thats my turn on though a good body is good for some light entertainment at times. and a smart person is who makes me laugh can tickle my funny bone all the way to my Y
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I remember a huge discussion a few years ago if good looking people were better in bed than average people. It's amazing how many people think that it's true. You are generalizing a lot there Partygoer, And you make whack a few noses out of joint with this one. Lol Same can be said for Barbie. I am sure she was a starfish with a personality of a wet mop. :p I know after writing this i thought oh now im going to get attacked lol. It may sound like im generalizing meeka but its the same for women as well sometimes women only rely on their looks to get them through no brains needed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' There is a DIVORCE Barbie out now eh... She comes with ALL Ken's accessories. Quoting 'nameisinuse'I have met some very intelligent people who are completely self absorbed!, it's not a simple as that, I would take kind over conceited. A bit of everything would be a good mix!. Very good point i to am the same.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' The more I love my husband He is not the most articulate man in the world, nor all braun but he keeps himself in good shape He is not a talker but he can make me laugh its neither for me its Respect how a man respects himself and others thats my turn on though a good body is good for some light entertainment at times. and a smart person is who makes me laugh can tickle my funny bone all the way to my Y
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RHP User
12 years ago
And usually my body follows. Challenge me, debate views, and never give up. Unless I get my gaffa tape :p. but seriously though, looks fade as mine are starting to, but my mind constantly ticks over so I like someone that I can brainstorm with, bounce ideas off, even if they're insignificant, but the mind and our imagination can be our best adventure yet. AND it's our biggest sexual organ. Just my thoughts
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sexual compatibility is important. And personality. Then the physical aspects come into consideration. No particular order of importance it's the whole package that turns me on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Proof positive that evolution is a cunt and all men are bastards. Damn nature, you scary!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I want it all! There's no reason to choose between the two. You've got to admit though that they're both relative and subjective qualities. Intelligent people can be boring as batshit, it's really about finding compatability as well as desire.
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deltoid
12 years ago
the two are not mutually exclusive It is possible to have both
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RHP User
12 years ago
...has various means. Eva was Hitler's mistress, Werner was a real rocket scientist and I've got a nifty electric razor set that is made by the folks in Germany.Brawn can be genetic to large extent, kept or or maintained in a gym.I'm not nearly as concerned about someone being an elite athlete as I am about personality, good conversation and attraction.Brains are good, a mind is a terrible thing to waste.
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RHP User
12 years ago
its braun that gets me every time To keep me around you must also have a brain Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like intelligent women but there are things I find equally attractive. A pleasant disposition A kindness and kinship towards animals Enthusiasm for life Someone who loves unconditionally
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm amused at this thread, with people stating that brains are more attractive, when quite a few posters have continued to mis-spell 'Brawn' Braun = German electrical appliances Brawn = Solid and well-developed muscles, especially of the arms and legs Sorry folks - the spelling Nazi in me had to make an appearance - especially given the topic of the thread!
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Cavey you are a classic!! Divorce Barbie lol! I am attracted to personality first! Plus a person who can hold a conversation! If they can't then my interest is not there!! But I myself go to the gym, so if they can have a good personality, a brain n enjoy looking after themselves - then they have me won over!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What about Brawn? Pork brawn recipe. Ingredients 1 pig’s head a couple of trotters – preferably back trotters as they have a little more meat on them. 1 bay leaf mixed herbs mixed spices 1 onion lemon juice Method Cut the head and trotters into smaller pieces so that they fit in a large pan. Cover with water (salt can be added but I decided not to add any to my brawn). Add bay leaf, herbs, spices and pealed/chopped onion. Simmer the content and for the first half an hour remove any scum that floats to the top of the pan. Simmer the contents for about 4 hours. Remove the head and trotters – at this point I decided to just use the meat on the head and trotters and not the ears, skin, eyes or nostrils. I did use the brains which require you to remove the outer skin. Mix the meat and brains together and place in a dish. Add a dash of lemon juice and some parsley. Strain the stock and then boil up until the stock has reduced. Spoon a couple of spoonfuls of the stock over the meat and then refrigerate until set. Or you can buy it at your local deli....
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RHP User
12 years ago
i have neither. ra
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RHP User
12 years ago
the idea of a man being a combination of brains and bruin,batteries not included.
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RHP User
12 years ago
However - Brawn with Brain.......BONUS !!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good to see you back (your back????, always did like that photo)I find now I'm older, that a man's intellect and how he conducts himself is much more important to me. I can certainly still appreciate a fine body (see comment above), but there has to be something inside the box for me to be interested.Viking
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RHP User
12 years ago
Must have both......or preferably a brain....I'm very fortunate
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RHP User
12 years ago
Met a lady a while back that really rung my bell, had those HOT librarian glasses on with her hair in a bun, and was fairly intelligent to boot. Some kind of fancy degree things on her wall. She said words I never heard of, then took off those glasses and undid her hair. WOW! I'll say it backwards WOW! I have to rely on brains and whit, as I am short and sawed off. Tried the macho route, going to bars and finding the hottest woman there with the largest boyfriend.... And hitting on her. It would get my ass beat, but I got her attention (plus she berated her boyfriend for beating me up). But the black eyes, bloody nose and loose teeth just aren't worth it sometimes:(
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love a sturdy German appliance. As long as the man attached to it keeps his mouth shut.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with most of the gents posting... Brain and braun are a lethal combination when used for good and not for evil... well... some evil :) I have recently been heartened by some of the gents posting in the forums these days - there seems to be some seriously decent guys who combine their intellect, wit and charm with bodies that show discipline, courage and committment. All good traits to inspire the rest of us. A
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RHP User
12 years ago
Try the Braun Multiquick 7 Cordless... Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I love a sturdy German appliance. It also doubles as a rectal reamer and a glory key hole saw. Be sure to leave the rubber safety guard on unless you are trying to whip up a batch of Praun cracker batter,The Hitachi wand is just so...vanilla.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Braun... Sturdy German appliance....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will reply this using my experience with hot gorgeous looking girl and nerdy hot girl comparison.i've been with beautiful lady and the nerdy smart onegosh, conversation get boring with the less intelligent one! they talked about their hair, their shoes their frocks all the willy nilly, and when you need to changet the topic , they always. always refer back the situation to them self,the nerdy brain one, doesnt matter if she is cute or not, is great! you talked about things and chat the night away.as user Deltoid mention, the two are not mutually exclusivebut ill be damn if I ever get in a relationship with the hot good looking less intelligent one ( grab a 9mm and shot my self)
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