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busting your partner/porn/the joys of it!

December 05 2009

Em here. I recently had an interesting encounter where my loving darling boy decided not to wake me but rather creep off downstairs and rub one out while watching porn. Now aftr i have tottered down and noticed his car keys were still here i wondered where he was, and as soon as i opened door one, there he was girls shagging big daddy dildos (thank you for that term jemma) on screen and him having a bit of a play. I found it quite amusing. Andleft him be with a "oh sorry, hun, didnt mean to disturb". I then proceeded to make our morning coffees having a bit of a giggle about the whole thing (and the pure shock on his face :-) ). A few minutes later he emerged. looking guilty and apologising, as all of his other ladies in his life have been offended by him "watching picture perfect women and not wanting them". Not quite the way i see it Now here is where i want some more opinions or quirky stories, I dont care about him watching porn/wanking even if i am in the house, i mean im happy for him to do so. i know that some people just need to cum and get on with their day. What i dont get is how other women can find this an issue, i mean ok with the exception of if it porn of his/ her ex or it is interferring with your sex life sure okay i get the problem, but as for just motivation to blow ones load is porn/masturbation an issue in relationships?

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RHP User

15 years ago

I've heard women get really upset about their man wanking to a skin flick. It's like when we marry some women think that a man's genitals are the property of... but that's actually not in the traditional vows. Nope. A man still own's his own genitals and is surely at liberty to indulge himself, by himsielf. Besides, I don't have any issues with my wife watching porn while masturbating. What's good for the goose is good for the gander around our place. Hugs Gazza

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RHP User

15 years ago

Dont care if the man watchs and wanks doing the porn thing he can do it til the cows come home BUT it is an issue when there are double standards in a relationship and he gets upset when I do it!!!! What he needs to understand doin it together just makes things hot hot hot!!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

And a healthy attitude :)In a solid sexy relationship, masturbation can be part of the program. Sometimes it's the focus of our session, and doing it when apart, is really just about feeling good :)

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Bubbaj

15 years ago

I wouldnt care if my partner had looked at porn! i would love to be invited to watch! I would also understand if he wanted his alone time wit his porn so as im not there to laugh at wats goin on screen and saying whether or not a persons tits are real or fake or whether that was a real moan or a fake one :P

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RHP User

15 years ago

Oh I remember in our courting days I had a few mates around and one brought a penthouse magazine. After all the boys had a look at what was on offer we went back to drinking and whatever else it was we were all there for. After a while I noticed the absence of Ms Pup, I had a fair idea and snuck off to the bedroom to find her hands buried down her pants with the porn mag splayed in front of her. Can't say I minded that at all, just another cute little memory in our journey together.

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RHP User

15 years ago

those who know me i love watching some good porn....mmmmm heck if i had a man and busted him rubbin one out im more likely to give him a hand lol I would much rather him rub one out then run off to get it else where .... no harm it in what so ever.... id like to think that if i was in a relationship with someone there would be no going behind anyones back to do anything.... if u dont feel comfortable with your partner in any situation then why be in the relationship ..... bring out the lube boys :) ohhh and while ur at it jump in the cam room and let me watch ;) hehe funfun xx

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