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May 11 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I would say .. Making love , as that is something we do as a married couple . He can fuck other people but not make love . I would be more upset if you had a relationship with someone else and less bothered by the sexual act . Xx mrs cock_sucker Or maybe suck a big hard cock , but only cause I would be jealous he didn't share it with me !! Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its the cheating, the betrayal that would be the issue, not which act it is, surely?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Way sort of question is that???? *confused* OOPSY DAISY Its not like walking, tripping over and a vagina falling onto a penis..... Cheating is Cheating...no excuses, no buts- no lies or deceit and definitely includes sexual acts!!!!! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
kissing
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RHP User
12 years ago
A blowjob is personal? As opposed to intercourse?My last girlfriend and I enjoyed swinging, so we were happy to watch each other perform sex acts on others, it was quite a turn on. Our only rule was no kissing on the mouth of other people, we found that to be a bit too personal. But i guess everyone is different.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
I expect a blowjob is considered very personal to most guys, because most guys see their penis as the centre of their sexual universe... and a blowjob is considered as a form of pleasure offering, and even "worshipping" of a penis. (sounds weird I know, but read a few profiles and see how highly they regard their own dick and it'll make a bit more sense). So to 'worship' another mans penis is to betray his penis. Personally, I find the "emotional affair"....., the thoughts, planning and secrecy the most offensive aspect of betrayal. DG
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Superfox - I agree with you :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
my dog
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' my dog BAHAHAHA.... See..... we all thought it..... and you went 'n dun it.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'. Personally, I find the "emotional affair"....., the thoughts, planning and secrecy the most offensive aspect of betrayal. DG I would rather catch my partner in sexual Act then have them in an "Emotinal Affair" with another.Defiantly the most hurtful of all cheating - I think this outdoes any physical "Sexual Act" myself. It's the thinking, the fantasizing, and then following though those fantasies with your partner...and then secretly to comparing your partner with that person and then thinking they are your soul-mate.That's just F*cked up!!FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I expect a blowjob is considered very personal to most guys, because most guys see their penis as the centre of their sexual universe... and a blowjob is considered as a form of pleasure offering, and even "worshipping" of a penis. (sounds weird I know, but read a few profiles and see how highly they regard their own dick and it'll make a bit more sense). So to 'worship' another mans penis is to betray his penis. Personally, I find the "emotional affair"....., the thoughts, planning and secrecy the most offensive aspect of betrayal. DG Seriously, what a load of tripe. You're taking a sample of single male profiles on here as your basis for male thinking? And blowjobs as "penis worshipping"? We know you like to pontificate and educate us all DG, but that's got us giggling!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I expect a blowjob is considered very personal to most guys, because most guys see their penis as the centre of their sexual universe... and a blowjob is considered as a form of pleasure offering, and even "worshipping" of a penis. (sounds weird I know, but read a few profiles and see how highly they regard their own dick and it'll make a bit more sense). So to 'worship' another mans penis is to betray his penis. Personally, I find the "emotional affair"....., the thoughts, planning and secrecy the most offensive aspect of betrayal. DG Seriously, what a load of tripe. You're taking a sample of single male profiles on here as your basis for male thinking? And blowjobs as "penis worshipping"? We know you like to pontificate and educate us all DG, but that's got us giggling!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't own Mrs C, she's her own person and free to make her own choices and decisions. Perhaps I say this because I love her unconditionally. I would feel hurt if she did something / anything and purposely choose not to share it with me, only because there isn't anything that she could do that wouldn't stop me loving her. Mrs C is my best friend and sole mate, witnessing her be truly happy and free to be herself is a reward beyond anything I could of dreamt of.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Otherwise you wouldn't even think of which sex act is worse catching your partner doing! It seems that cheating is no big deal to you makoman22 lol Foxy, totally agreed with you!
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PartyOrg
12 years ago
Mr and Mrs Cock_Suckers, I and most of rhp would be jealous of your relationship. Love you both :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...peering through an open window to see them playing "Patty-Cake"..I'd just take off full speed through some wall, leaving my body outline as I crashed through...
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RHP User
12 years ago
But if I had a partner.. I'd be outraged if I caught her cheating at Carcassonne. That's real cheating!!The way the word cheating gets used to only mean "extra sex" sort of bothers me. It's a much bigger word than that.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'TongueCramps' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I expect a blowjob is considered very personal to most guys, because most guys see their penis as the centre of their sexual universe... and a blowjob is considered as a form of pleasure offering, and even "worshipping" of a penis. (sounds weird I know, but read a few profiles and see how highly they regard their own dick and it'll make a bit more sense). So to 'worship' another mans penis is to betray his penis. Personally, I find the "emotional affair"....., the thoughts, planning and secrecy the most offensive aspect of betrayal. DG Seriously, what a load of tripe. You're taking a sample of single male profiles on here as your basis for male thinking? And blowjobs as "penis worshipping"? We know you like to pontificate and educate us all DG, but that's got us giggling! Glad you're giggling.But Im curious to see what YOUR interpretation of the OPs view is........ why does he find the idea of another guys penis in his womans mouth, so offensive.DG
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'TongueCramps'Seriously, what a load of tripe. You're taking a sample of single male profiles on here as your basis for male thinking? And blowjobs as "penis worshipping"? We know you like to pontificate and educate us all DG, but that's got us giggling! Additionally..... yes, Im taking a sample of male profiles.... AND the comments women in here make about them, the pictures, the endless topics guys start about their dicks, the comments the women inhere make about these guys... their messages, and about penises in general.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cock_Suckers' I don't own Mrs C, she's her own person and free to make her own choices and decisions. Perhaps I say this because I love her unconditionally. I would feel hurt if she did something / anything and purposely choose not to share it with me, only because there isn't anything that she could do that wouldn't stop me loving her. Mrs C is my best friend and sole mate, witnessing her be truly happy and free to be herself is a reward beyond anything I could of dreamt of. I agree totally...This is me with my partner but it doesn't stop me being jealous though when she heads off... But that's OK too...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Being a voyeur and all....there's gotta be mutual pleasure here somewhere in my mind.... So I'd watch, wank, and THEN pack my shit... Then I'd probably get down the road and realise it was my fucken house!!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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mvagusta9
12 years ago
Cheating is not on. its disgusting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Probably to best reply I have ever read. Mrs Shyloving2 has a green light to do whom or as she pleases. All I ask is for open honest communication. If she chose to 'cheat' it would be the fact she didn't communicate / felt that she couldn't communicate, that would hurt the most.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry, I intended on utilising this quote in the post above but it appears the iPad had other ideas. I thought that Cock_Suckers reply was spot on and one of the loveliest, heartfelt replies I/we have ever read. "Belong I don't own Mrs C, she's her own person and free to make her own choices and decisions. Perhaps I say this because I love her unconditionally. I would feel hurt if she did something / anything and purposely choose not to share it with me, only because there isn't anything that she could do that wouldn't stop me loving her. Mrs C is my best friend and sole mate, witnessing her be truly happy and free to be herself is a reward beyond anything I could of dreamt of." Truly beautiful.
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RHP User
12 years ago
'any' sums it up pretty nicely......but then, as cheatings not only about sex...if my partner was putting herself out there and making herself available....i'd see her as having already betrayed our relationship to the point of non return... any dishonesty, deception, lies or betrayals, constitutes cheating in some way or form.........
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you so much for your thoughtful relpy on our post. Apologise to very one else this post is totally off the topic but I just needed to say thank you to ShyLoving2 and PartOrg for thier kind words. But seriously I've been infatuated with Mrc C from the moment we first met. The many years together have allowed us to fall into the unconditional love we have for one another. Fate or simply shear stubbornness prevented us from ever giving up when life got tough. Mrs C is an amazing person, she has stood by my side in my darkest hours when anyone else would simply find it less hurtful to just walk away. I used to regret the wasted years fighting but I believe if it wasn't for those hard years we wouldn't be where we are today and appreciate the good times and all we have. Thank you to everyone we have spoken to or met on this site for simply allowing and accepting us to be ourselves. PS Cheating is a cruel thoughtless act, and we all know that. Perhaps thats why we are on this site. Mr C
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