RHP

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chicks bodies

May 26 2012

do women not being complimented on how good their bum and boobs look?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Assuming it's LIKE.This could be interesting.My own personal feeling is that if you don't know her intimately it might be a dangerous ploy!Though all women are different I guess. Depends on how you go about it too. Wow that dress really shows of your body, might work better than Phoooaaarrr babe, you have the most fuckable arse I have ever seen, then again...lolThen again there are probably women who will feign utter disgust...but secretly be kinda chuffed!I wouldn't have the temerity to say that to a woman I didn't know well. Seems kinda crass as well, but thats just me.Who know's, I could be wrong, certainly wouldn't be the first time.Cheers Felonius...@2012-260512

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    13 years ago

    Do women like not being complimented.....As in it is good to say nothing complimentary, or Do women not like being complimented.......As in do compliments offend?

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    13 years ago

    Sincerity is best,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just a general suggestion first mate, try to avoid using "chicks" unless you're talking about baby chickens. Many women find it degrading or disrespectful, even if that's not the intention. You did much better in the body of the post when you said women instead, good show! Now as to your question, I think subtlety is usually a better approach. If you target just breasts or bum the woman might think she's only being valued because of those bits. Instead you could compliment the whole woman. Of course, you're including breasts, because that's a part of the whole package. But you don't have to name them specifically and the compliment will be much more likely to be appreciated. Instead of "You have amazing boobs," try, "You look amazing." If she's in a dress that really shows off those assets of hers you like, you could try, "That dress REALLY suits you!" She knows that it shows off her cleavage and you know it too, but because it isn't honed in upon she's more likely to feel good from the compliment rather than feeling like a piece of meat.Unfortunately though some women can't or won't accept or feel good about any compliment, even if it's completely sincere and delivered tactfully. That's their "stuff", their confidence and value has been affected by this sometimes cruel society we inhabit. Some women (and men, and transgendered persons) would benefit from changing the way they think when they receive a compliment so as not to automatically dispute and dismiss it. But that's easier said than done, it could take the better part of the lifetime, and that's really out of the control of the person making the compliment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You are simply gorgeous ! Xo

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'slippery_halo' Just a general suggestion first mate, try to avoid using "chicks" unless you're talking about baby chickens. Many women find it degrading or disrespectful, even if that's not the intention. You did much better in the body of the post when you said women instead, good show! Now as to your question, I think subtlety is usually a better approach. If you target just breasts or bum the woman might think she's only being valued because of those bits. Instead you could compliment the whole woman. Of course, you're including breasts, because that's a part of the whole package. But you don't have to name them specifically and the compliment will be much more likely to be appreciated. Instead of "You have amazing boobs," try, "You look amazing." If she's in a dress that really shows off those assets of hers you like, you could try, "That dress REALLY suits you!" She knows that it shows off her cleavage and you know it too, but because it isn't honed in upon she's more likely to feel good from the compliment rather than feeling like a piece of meat.Unfortunately though some women can't or won't accept or feel good about any compliment, even if it's completely sincere and delivered tactfully. That's their "stuff", their confidence and value has been affected by this sometimes cruel society we inhabit. Some women (and men, and transgendered persons) would benefit from changing the way they think when they receive a compliment so as not to automatically dispute and dismiss it. But that's easier said than done, it could take the better part of the lifetime, and that's really out of the control of the person making the compliment.Most men do not make sure their brain is engaged before putting their mouth into action .. The use of Chicks instead ow women .. The use of Baby instead of babe .. And to say to a woman .. your titts are huge .. .. HELLO .. she would already know she has good / large assets .. after all she has lived with them for the best part of her life .. It would suffice to replace that comment with .. I love your assets, just my style of lady .. or similar .. not to make the initial contact opening lines be BABY.. you have massive tits / your tits are huge ... I would love to fuck them .. A message like that has and still does ..personally turn me off, and it is probably the main messages which get a not so nice reply or an ignore .. from me ... As others have said .. Chicks +=baby chickens, and Baby = infant child ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'QLDtwo4fun'Sincerity is best, Quoting 'celebree' BABY.. you have massive tits / your tits are huge ... I would love to fuck them .. A message like that has and still does ..personally turn me off, and it is probably the main messages which get a not so nice reply or an ignore .. from me ... I'm sure such a message about wanting to fuck your tits would be sincere.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    - you can talk dirty, esp compliments, I luv itOtherwise ... how dare you! LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I get complimented all the time about my legs. As for my boobs and arse it would not worry me if someone complimented on either. For starters boobs look so much different in a bra than out of it, well mine do anyway and I also get told not to get a boob job done cause they are fine as they are. What us woman perceive as yuk, men see it all in a different way. As for my ares...lol. well I can't see it so if your enjoying staring at it, then all good. Normally it's all said in fun so don't take it to seriously. If your with a guy and he loves it then all the better. I just think people take some comments to seriously.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Jeesh,slippery wot u thinkin'...huh...us chicky babes love it when u guys say,'SHOW US YA TITS'....makes us feel too special. Aferall isn't that what the PGs for?xHugs H

  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    13 years ago

    Such a wise young man

  • RogueGeek

    RogueGeek

    13 years ago

    I am always disappointed when slippery posts, because I know he lives on the wrong side of the country I was discussing this with a friend yesterday and said almost exactly the same thing:"It's a hard thing for me to accept from anybody. *shrug* leftover insecurites from teenage years I guess. Some days I can see it, some days I can't."Personally, I am a huge fan of people who compliment my brain/intelligence. My son painted a portrait of me when he was in pre-primary and the caption was "I love my Mum because she is smarter" - I put it up so that it is the first thing I see when I walk in the front door :) . One day, my hair will be all grey (not just some grey as it is now), I will be covered with wrinkles and my tits will be so saggy they drag on the floor when I am walking. I have given my family strict instructions that if my brain goes the way of my tits, they are to put me down because I don't want to live like that.I think my point is that some women may struggle to accept compliments about their physical body because that is not what is important to them. Cheers,MS Quoting 'slippery_halo' Just a general suggestion first mate, try to avoid using "chicks" unless you're talking about baby chickens. Many women find it degrading or disrespectful, even if that's not the intention. You did much better in the body of the post when you said women instead, good show! Now as to your question, I think subtlety is usually a better approach. If you target just breasts or bum the woman might think she's only being valued because of those bits. Instead you could compliment the whole woman. Of course, you're including breasts, because that's a part of the whole package. But you don't have to name them specifically and the compliment will be much more likely to be appreciated. Instead of "You have amazing boobs," try, "You look amazing." If she's in a dress that really shows off those assets of hers you like, you could try, "That dress REALLY suits you!" She knows that it shows off her cleavage and you know it too, but because it isn't honed in upon she's more likely to feel good from the compliment rather than feeling like a piece of meat.Unfortunately though some women can't or won't accept or feel good about any compliment, even if it's completely sincere and delivered tactfully. That's their "stuff", their confidence and value has been affected by this sometimes cruel society we inhabit. Some women (and men, and transgendered persons) would benefit from changing the way they think when they receive a compliment so as not to automatically dispute and dismiss it. But that's easier said than done, it could take the better part of the lifetime, and that's really out of the control of the person making the compliment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If anyone's looking for me, I'll be at slippery's learning how to take a compliment :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    women take compliments well, in my experience, but only so long as thats what they truly are...... if you load a compliment up with sexual innuendo, or it come out sounding less than genuine, or is even poorly timed..............its not going to have the desired effect, and may land you in trouble...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    fuck what a response, some people look way to far into things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I love getting compliments, but they seem few and far between and when I do I love it :) . I make sure if I see or hear something sexy, positive or deserving I say so it can really make someones day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't mind the odd compliment now and again, it warms the soul, especially if it comes from somebody I like and respect. Having said that, it depends on the compliment, how it's delivered and from whom. I recently walked passed a construction site wearing my work clothes so nothing elaborate and got a chorus of "nice tits love". Did I like it? Not really (though a little tiny bit because it was nice to be noticed). Would I expect a playmate to say that? Absolutely not! The stark contrast of a recent and delightfully subtle "wow, you look hot in black" made my skin tingle, it was felt head to toe. And remembered. Black's my new favourite colour

  • RogueGeek

    RogueGeek

    13 years ago

    We gave an answer.Perhaps the problem is you don't "look way to far into things".Cheers,MS Quoting 'downunderking' fuck what a response, some people look way to far into things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Haven grown in Argentina, it is very much part of the culture to compliment ladies....Of course there is nice tasteful compliments and gross and degrading ones.....Buts lets just focus on the tasteful ones. Ie :" You look great”, “ I love your hair", “You look very sexy in that cloth”, “That outfit really suits you” and even more intimate cheeky ones “ your curves are amazing”, “those high heels do incredible things to you body” , “I love the way you move when you walk” ETC....After more than 20 years living here, I have come to be dissolute with the whole compliment thing in Australia, I find that most women do not feel special or they feel awkward when given a compliment or they feel that you are weird by given them....So most times I censure myself and keep my mouth closed.....A shame really.....I love women and I like expressing it .....Cheers you all gorgeous women !!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I was out in the city just this Saturday night passed in my favourite 'going out' blue dress and heels, when a drunken boy with his mates shouted out from the other side of the street: "You in the blue, how about a screw?'   Ahhh, poetry these days   As much as it provided me with a laugh, the boy didn't get lucky.   As Slippery and everyone else has said, it's all about how you say it, not 'Great titties, love', or 'That's one luscious ass, honey'. True as it may be, there are more tactful ways of expressing your admiration.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'QLDtwo4fun'Sincerity is best, Quoting 'celebree' BABY.. you have massive tits / your tits are huge ... I would love to fuck them .. A message like that has and still does ..personally turn me off, and it is probably the main messages which get a not so nice reply or an ignore .. from me ... I'm sure such a message about wanting to fuck your tits would be sincere. because when I put the girls on display this is all I get. . YES MASSIVE TURN OFF! . I do however, understand the power of the girls and will wear low cut tops with great effect and yes, look with amusement when men do not quite meet my eye or they almost get whiplash following the progress of my boobs as I walk past. If someone comments in real life I know how to graciously accept the compliment by simply saying..... . "Thankyou. I am rather attached to them" . as for the arse...no one comments as they normally struggle to lift thier eyes further than my chest...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Or a man either for that matter.But it needs to be timed well and appropriate.For example, "that's a smoking hot pussy you have there" may work wonders in a sex club, but less so for the receptionist you are chatting up at your accountants office."I love what you've done with your hair" is a winner most of the time, but is not going to endear you when she's just got out of the shower.My personal favourite is from an obscure and very darkly funny Aussie movie - "You've a sexy woman Flo, and you've got a wonderful set of tits." Never failed for Bad Boy Bubby, but would be a long shot at the gym.By the way RHP women, your arses all look wonderful in whatever you are wearing.Cheers,Mr C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'chickcara' "You've a sexy woman Flo, and you've got a wonderful set of tits." Never failed for Bad Boy Bubby, but would be a long shot at the gym.Hahaha Mr C, I wouldn't be taking any relationship advice from Bad Boy Bubby!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It seems the well mannered gents know how to compliment the lady to make them feel sexy - and it's wonderful to get lovely comments about your body.That's what sets them (gents) apart from the bogan " Hey hun, you have great tits and theyd look even better in my mouth. Show me your pg, do you have more tits shots in there? x" Yar..... Wow... What a compliment. That just made feel womanly and sexy!NoFuzz seems to have nailed the compliment! It's the old "I hate to see you go, but I love to watch you leave"!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There is a philosophy I have lived by since I was 17..."Treat people the way you like to be treated"Everyone has insecurities, and it's important to think about the compliment before you say it. by complimenting one area, you detract the others. I completely agree with what slippery_halo said, it's good to see some people who have thought about what they wanted to say before saying it :P