RHP

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clit tips

September 10 2014

Gals, what are your tips for how to handle the glorious clitoris? For me ... never directly on the nub, always to the side or top. Get a rhythm going and stay with it! It will pay off soon enough :) With oral, lick, suck, keep it wet, no teeth. Probably obvious but given everyone is different, what rocks your clit?

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  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    If I am ever lucky enough too meet you I will know what to do

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It is interesting to note that the clit and the head of the penis are indistinguishable before the third month of gestation, and that the very same nerves carry the data from the head of the penis and the clit, to the brain. The nerves that take sensation from the balls, are the same nerves that register sensation on the labia. We are basically the same, once you understand that and are proficient in your own body you will naturally have insight in stimulating the opposite sex. But as the OP has said, we are all different. It is best to listen to the body of the person you are attempting to pleasure very carefully if you wish to do the job right.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Big circles, keep it wet , don't touch the tip directly until I am arching my back for more ......keep a rythum, don't get so excited yourself you stop that said rythum . Use your other hand to finger me while circling my clit - get a rain coat :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    all women tell you what "rocks their clit" ? I have not had a single one tell me (have had to try and work it out for myself), and as you pointed out, every women is different, or have I just been picking the wrong women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    pretty similar, one side is way more sensitive than the other, pushed against the pubic bone helps with pressure. Enjoy having it rubbed between the fingers, circled with the tongue, flicked with the tongue, stimulated by a days growth facial hair, being sucked....yum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' all women tell you what "rocks their clit" ? I have not had a single one tell me (have had to try and work it out for myself), and as you pointed out, every women is different, or have I just been picking the wrong women. apparently all you guys are sex gods and 'know how to please a woman'. Well that is the lines I get anyway only to discover Mr Sex God is actually Mr 5 Minute Man.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    Bite it, suck it, lick it, flick it, slap it and don't complain about a sore tongue or lock jaw ;) All feels good but if you haven't got something working inside me getting me to cum will take a long while. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    I hear you, and I am certainly no sex God. However, if women know this, why do they not offer helpful suggestions. I am sure some do, and I am also sure some men have egos (definitely not all), but I suspect a lot of men would welcome some helpful suggestions in order to provide more pleasure to the lady (after all that is what it is all about, as most men are going to climax anyway, the beauty or best outcome is to make it as enjoyable as possible for the women so that they enjoy it as much or more than you) So why don't they help ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    consistent licking...no sucking ,biting....or moving the tongue all over the place!Youll know when you have the right spot.....DO NOT deviate from it!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As they say, if she isn't squirming, you're not licking it right ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That's what this thread is for :) Women on here are, (and I generalise), fairly liberal. It could be more likely they'll tell you straight up what they want. Maybe. Lots of women are shy though. Have never been encouraged to speak explicitly. Don't know their own bodies so don't really know what works. Have never orgasmed. Are embarrassed. Etc. Same can be said for a lot of men too, I guess. I'd recommend encouraging a woman to tell you what she likes. It helps if a man isn't panting like a rabid dog a time. Slow things down, look her in the eyes, connect, and ask her to tell you what really turn her on. She might resist but you never know, if she feels safe and you offer a bit of encouragement, she might open up. Just an idea. Won't work for or suit all women :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    :O please tell me that by bite you mean nibble very gently??!! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    About two months ago there was a link on a lets say how to give great oral to females. Let me just say come on guys even if you think you know it all there is still more. Every woman is different on what they like pressure wise but as JayJay said once you have the right spot dont deviate :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Never ever touch my clit unless you're lubricated. If you've done your job well enough thus far, all you need to do is reach back a little and scoop some wetness up, but if it's freshly washed and dry, for god's sake don't touch it with a dry finger - OUCH!! Other than that, at the start a finger each side and a circular motion will be just the ticket. It can take more direct and firmer pressure the more turned on I get and if you want me to come, something will need to be inside me at the same time. Oral, start soft and slow and when I start gripping the sheets and saying 'fuck' a lot - don't change ANYTHING! I don't care if your tongue cramps up ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Circular motion just nudging the bud with a regular rythum. If you can sense me reaching the top, please please just keep it at the same pace. Don't make it faster or slower..... Just the same rythum easy does it and I'm there. Now I need a cuddle:) How do you spell rythum?? Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Unfortunately I take a while to cum from oral vs. penetrative sex, where it can take less than a minute :). Consequently i tend to avoid oral because I get self conscious about how I take to get there and it just ends up being a viscous cycle where the more Im aware of (usually self-imposed) time pressure, the less likely I am to cum. br> But... br>br> If someone does have the patience, I like a broad, flat tongue, consistent licks and a finger or three inside me at the same time. Exquisite :). Much live, Micki

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Apologies for the br's in last post... Line breaks not working for me today lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It does change from woman to woman.. but I found it is mainly on the sides or circles taking care to avoid the clit until such time she's ready to jump.. I found a little pressure with the other hand just above the pubic bone at the same time helps. That lil magic spot can also move.. up up up.. no too high.. lower lower.. now u gone too far.. over to the side, no not that side.. But thats where it just was ffs.. ? Thank god these are rare..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thought it was just like Santa ,,, much talked about but were a figment of our imagination Damn :-p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    Ummm sure we can call it nibbling gently after all they should start that way and then when I grind it on there face they can get a little harder and make me gasp. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • just_sayin69

    just_sayin69

    10 years ago

    Noted sunrise 😜 Rhythm... Btw lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have been on my knees plenty times in the past and I like a role reversal and have him on his knees - yes like you said never directly on it - circles , wet at all times , softly , keep the rhythm , and yes oh yes it will pay off ... 🎉🎉Not too much pressure for me as that just makes me numb and I'll never get there ...🙈

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Na me tinks you have confused it with the G spot!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That the cock tips thread is going stronger than this one. With all the dissatisfied women (based in endless previous posts) you'd think we'd be busting to tell men what works and what doesn't. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Burning_Love' With all the dissatisfied women (based in endless previous posts) you'd think we'd be busting to tell men what works and what doesn't. It's pointless telling them what, where, when and how unless they're in my bed at the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I grab a fly swat and beat the crap out of that little pointy fucker.!!! Guaranteed to make her buck, quiver and SCREEEEEEAM!!! But.... If it doesn't..... Wiping my dick on the curtains is sure to!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Circe

    Circe

    10 years ago

    Sir Stir, you are a pisser!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My post is too negative due to my humourous take on it; but obviously I won't share my tips for all and sundry to see, as it would no doubt remove any encouragement for a potential partner to find out for themselves :) Which is hardly negative..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I had a giggle. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    RHP is so great. I could talk about sex all day. I'm soooo happy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The rythum's in the music, if the music stops,, I'm....f@#ked! Knots....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love circular and flicking right on the bean, mixing it up and slide a couple of fingers in there too! Def keep a good rhythym if you want me to climax. Once I have cum from that give me a minute and go back down with no fingers and really REALLY lightly just flick the bean with your tounge and I will be cumming again soon after! I love multiples from oral!