twowithnolimits

twowithnolimits

M59 F44

closet bi's

October 24 2013

The other night we set up a listing in datefinder.. we asked for bi guys or bi gurls for a 3some.. guess what 8 out o f10 guys who responded had their profile as "straight", either   1 they are bi and too ashamed to admit it   2 straight desperate and hopeful   3.illiterate   or   4. ??   which of these??

Comments

  • zoe69r

    zoe69r

    11 years ago

    hi two I will stand up and say loud n proud im bi and love playing with cpls , but now im in a r/ship we just want to play with cpls and she wants to try her first bi time alone with a girl

  • BriteLite

    BriteLite

    11 years ago

    As a male, your "hetero" sexual orientation can be such an important part of your self image, that often people cant let go of being straight.

  • Jarod007

    Jarod007

    11 years ago

    Number 1

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    Maybe alot of them perceive themselves as straight. But really have a curious itch they want to scratchMany are confused I guess and not quite sure what they are.Or they are hopeful to shag Mrs and clear off before any sausage juggling happensI'm in the 4?? categoryI'm straight and staying that way. Happy to help the lady with her needs but hubby can either .1. Watch2. Join in but no touching (of me)3. Go make us a drink/sandwich/whatever

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    11 years ago

    Is that a confession Hoffy? ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    maybe they just havent tried yet so not ready to call themselves bi. like myself, have thoughts about it but have never tried it so still wouldnt say i am bi

  • thirstywa

    thirstywa

    11 years ago

    I am bi though I tend to be a bit shy and haven't played with a male/female couple before though I am keen to find such a couple to teach me the ropes sort of speak. For me its hard to find such a couple willing to give me the opportunity to do so.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am bi and have had only one mmf experience I love having both there and was turned on by being with a guy in front of the girl. I desperately wanted him to fuck me as she watched but it didn't happen ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As a Bi guy on another site all I got was guys asking, one of the ladies suggested saying you were straight, as it may discourage some of the ladies. If you want a guy or couple with a bi guy you look and ask. Not that hard to find them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sex is the main goal, doesn't matter if it's female or male but if you say your bi, you may eliminate the females.. Keeping all options open I believe.

  • undieszip

    undieszip

    10 years ago

    What about hetro-flexible or just sexual.... Some people may only find emotional attraction to the opposite sex. Don't find members of the same sex ''attractive". But when the lights are low and the mood is up blood pumping couldn't care less who owns the warm hands or hot mouth as long as it feels good........ Just remember don't make eye contact you might scare them off Maybe they should just put the Kinsey scale test on this site let the answers tell the story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Perhaps you just made them horny

  • zoe69r

    zoe69r

    10 years ago

    hi I love the fact that im bi and love playing with couples , but now that im single again not many couples want a single guy as some think that the guy just wants to get into the ladies knickers , and I understand that but there are some of us that do love both the guys and girls just as much

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Its probably cause theres some awful people out there that will not be discrete and show your family and other friends the profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    should have said discreet not discrete.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Id like to see the options like experimental/curious/bi curious removed and as forthe guys who have straight on their profiles and then say im bi, it all says one thing to me, " i might be able to tolerate a guy sucking my dick if i can root his mrs"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ive never met a bi closet but i did meet a gay table once

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think it comes down to a contextual situation for some. I personally see myself as straight and dont find the same sex attractive or arousing, but, although I still havnt had any straight group play yet, id be lying if the thought of mmf bi didnt hold some excitement and eroticism to it. I think its more the act itself rather than the actor, the dynamic and power play at work. its a bit of a grey idea in terms of sexual identity but should be more treated as isolated, independent experiences for some, however I can see how frustrating and difficult it makes it in organizing the finer points of your affairs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'LumberJack87' I think it comes down to a contextual situation for some. I personally see myself as straight and dont find the same sex attractive or arousing, but, although I still havnt had any straight group play yet, id be lying if the thought of mmf bi didnt hold some excitement and eroticism to it. I think its more the act itself rather than the actor, the dynamic and power play at work. its a bit of a grey idea in terms of sexual identity but should be more treated as isolated, independent experiences for some, however I can see how frustrating and difficult it makes it in organizing the finer points of your affairs Where you at has become known as heteroflexible, wherein given the right circumstances you'll have a little play just coz.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    send me a message if you like ;)

  • jaspmyers

    jaspmyers

    9 years ago

    Mmmm good conversation! A friend suggested I join RHP to meet more gay men. To my surprise (and delight) I'm regularly contacted by straight men wanting to discuss their fantasies, flirt or to meet up and have some fun. Its made me realise that sexuality is far more fluid than I ever imagined. Unfortunately there is still a stigma attached to male bisexuality in our community while female bisexuality or being gay is more commonly accepted. I think this is the reason why these guys are so secretive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi two, instead of asking the question are guys bi or not if they but straight on their profile? ask are the guy's willing to try another guy. If he's willing and came prove that touching sucking or being willing to be penetrated or to penetrate another guy??. If a guy is willing and happy to go down on another bi-guy is he classed as being bisexual. If a bi-guy is welling to be regularly penetrated is he then more gay than bi. Just may observation and not intended to upset... Take care

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    9 years ago

    Maybe they are scared if the wife/girfriend finds out they are bisexuall...that she will think they are less manly...or maybe they feel guilty for being attracted to men....nearly every couple profile... lists the wife/ girl friend as bisexuall.. there is still a preception that girl on girl sex is hot where as boy on boy sex is weird...there is also the odd woman that doesnt trust bi men....maybe they think their man will run off with another boy.. ha ha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    twowithnolimits, you are certainly one of the sexiest couples on RHP in Perth, in my opinion, so im am not surprised by the level of contact you had from people who just fancied you (female) and didn't read. as a bi (crossdressing) guy who loves it all im gutted i missed the opportunity! Shiny x

  • kerningpairs

    kerningpairs

    7 years ago

    I've been bi & out since I was 18. I can imagine being on the other side of that line; being incapable of being open to oneself and others. A terrible, lonely place. Bi people can end up somewhere outside heterosexuality and homosexuality. It can be a lonely place. Its no surprise there is ambivalence and antipathy about us. I am awed at the transitions men make when they play for the first time with a man. I remember my own at 18 very well. That first moment when mirror neurons fire as you're holding a cock that's not your own. Something profound reorders our consciousness. Its like when you finally see those magic eye pictures in random dot stereograms. I have been honoured to be part of seven men transitioning to bisexuality/heteroflexibility. Each of them had their own journey but the commonalities I saw were increases in self acceptance, reductions in fear and increased capacity for empathy. The women in their lives were invariably moved too. Those moments of eye contact between us, the witnesses of his self-initiation. Priceless.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    1) Im only attracted to women 2) I love sucking cock 3) I love dressing in sexy lingerie and tottering around in heels 4) I love playing with couples and pleasuring both 5) Can i come and play sometime, twowithnolimits? Daytimes are best :D

  • rodger0410t

    rodger0410t

    6 years ago

    you never asked me for that 3some lol

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    5 years ago

    bicouples.. love them eat them up yum