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commitment/happily married?

October 20 2008

sex

here is a topic i have a big problem with.a lot of you people on here say ur either happily married or play around while your partners away working, my question is how can a husband be okay seeing his wife getting gangbanged by a group or sex with somebody else or visa-versa, to me thats wrong to say your committed /happily married i could not share her with another yes i can see certain people getting in line to give me a verbal flogging judging by recent posts a lot of you women dont really know if you want to participate in in this group/other bloke play please serious replies

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I thought teh exact same thing Toolboy.. i often asked myself.. are these "marriages" failing?.. or are they not getting enough satisfaction from each other? etc etc etc

  • HotOzCouple_cc

    HotOzCouple_cc

    16 years ago

    People are turned on by all sorts of things. Just have a flick through the forums here! Breast milk, strap-ons, girls watching 2 guys go at it... Whats to say that guys can't enjoy watching their partner cop it from other guys? There's so many points of view on this... The wife likes seeing the guy get off on her being done by others. The guy likes seeing her getting off with another guy. Maybe there's some cuckholding going on and she likes seeing him powerless to stop it. Perhaps she likes not having any control and letting him do what he wants with her body. Of course, there's also the fact that they just all love getting off together on it. Maybe your 'her' wouldn't want to see you with another girl? There goes your hopes and dreams of a threesome... Hypothetically, if you were out without 'her' and the opportunity to go to bed with two gorgeous girls came up that night, would you have a few drinks and leave with them? Would you then not be happy and committed? Why would you then continue that relationship? Many couples that invite others, male or female, into the bedroom, have an enormous amount of trust between them, not to mention little or no envy, and hopefully no jealousy! Sure, some do it once and the relationship falls apart, but really, you would hope that you were both secure enough and had talked things through to start with! Maybe it's just that you're looking at it from a single's point of view, and that you don't currently have another half, so you don't have that level of trust with a person? Once you can distinguish the line between love (making), sex and/or relationships, many many couples are able to enjoy watching the other with someone else. Not for everyone, but different strokes for different folks! Personally, we enjoy it for a few reasons, but one that was not mentioned is that he thinks she's so good at it, he loves to share her around! And from that, she knows that he's enjoying it, to which she then enjoys it (more)!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    tool,,, you said it,, to you its wrong...Different strokes for different folks buddy.... The thing with it is,, I absoloutly love seeing mrs G pleasured by others. To see the expression on her face is priceless. You need to seperate love making from just having pure sex for fun and enjoyment. Hard to explain but we love it,,and before you think we dont have a sex life together,,, we have an awesome sex life.. this has just made it better... end of the day,, if you both happy,, go for it.. My 2 cents :S Mr G

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Mate, we're happily married - but different things work for different people. That's pretty much the end of it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    please believe me when i say im not passing judgement on anyone each to their own as they say i just find it hard to get my head around this subject by the way hot oz couple im not single by choice my wife died from bone cancer in june08 but appericate your responce by the way very cute wife cheers toolboy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This is one that will inevitably come up (no puns intended) over and over on a site like this..... I had a guy today send me a flirt wanting to meet up...no biggie! However, when I read his profile he said he was happily married and had been for 23 yrs which in itself is not an unusual occurance here on rhp. He also went on to mention he works away on a remote mine site...again nothing unusual for rhp. I answered his flirt with a msg as to how the two statements gelled cos to me one contradicted the other......after all when working away do you not want to get home to your loved ones, specially if happily married? I then thought back to something that occured to me during one of my more reflective moments when I was thinking about sex and rhp in general. I was thinking about the difference between "recreational" sex and the sex we have within a relationship or marriage. As all who know me are well aware, I do not have any interest in girls what so ever, yet it dawned on me that during "recreational" sex all lines are blurred and it is all about the pleasing of the others you are with and some self gratification. It has nothing to do with love or being happily married or faithful or anything of that nature. It could be likened to a drug .... some smoke, some drink, some gamble, some have sex with lot of people....... This is not to be read as me condoning married guys, or women, being unfaithful without partners consent or knowledge. It is me accepting and understanding that married couples out there do have an interest in more for their sex lives than they can offer each other. I honestly believe that if a couple have openly discussed and genuinely both agree on the boundaries, then a couple can have other partners and indulge their fantasies within safe boundaries, then go home to a loving and fulfilling relationship. It is all about communication, trust and faith in your partner. I am not in a relationship at the moment and some may ask what gives me the right to write all this..... When my marriage was floundering and the sex was drying up, I asked, suggested, told my ex to go and have fun with a hooker, or another woman in an effort for us to work out what was missing from our relationship. He was horrified that I even suggested it and of course did nothing. Would it have changed things? In hindsight I doubt it, but it sure as hell would have spiced things up for a short while hehehehe. At the end of the day we are ALL on a sex site, a SWINGERS site at that, and it has nothing to do with us what an individual, or a couple are doing unless it directly involves us personally. Everyone has different kinks....if you dont like then stop judging and either enjoy or move on ........ Sorry for the ramble.....must be late at night hehehehehehe... lava xoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And a comment from the female half of a couple. We haven;t swung for ages and didnt much anyway, but i'm happy for him if we end up in a club and he has a good time, as he is with me. He isn;t going to leave me and i know he loves me. it is only a sexual experience. It is not making love. At the end of the night we walk out and get back to our own lives. Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It takes two very well adjusted individuals with good communication skills. I know my wife would never agree to it, she just isnt mature enough, let alone us having the communication skills and lines. I reckon those that can & do do it while maintaining their relationship and desire for each other would have the best marriage (& not just the variety of sex). It shows they actually care about the other person and their needs/wants/desires and work out how each can get as much as possible without ignoring or making them conform to something their not. Most marriages have a lot of unwritten and unspoken restrictions, usually caused by fear and jealousy. I would love to try experimenting, but I have enough problems getting past my wifes hangups & physical problems to have a relationship with her, without even considering introducing more variables.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes its all a matter of sexual preferences but it all has to be based on trust and as stated we all have our own boundaries. My husband and myself trust each other 100% that neither of us will ever cross those boundaries. sparty .. u know me and roy and u also know brenbob .. and u know how strong and committed our marriages are .. Cheers Tina

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    When we first began our voyage of sexual experimentation I asked myself the same question... However over time, I can say that my emotional nest is with mrs tekematwo and any thing sexual we do is play and even thought we like to "know" the people we play with ultimately they also have their own emotional and relationship bases WE really dont want to marry or live with our playmates, not because they are not compatible, but because we havent chosen them as our life partner... So for us, its a voyage of experimentation by two people and not each of us cheating on each other

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that still leaves me wondering what you guys are committed to and i got a lingering thought that there should be another vow trown in there somewhere maybe when the minister asks"do you take this woman etc etc maybe your reply should be yes but if you,d like to have a crack at the missus later by all means and by the way on most couples profiles it rearly asks for single guys figures as mostly blokes replying to this post i think spartanis got it right

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    16 years ago

    Some men can share, some can't. Doesn't mean one is more committed to the marriage or happier than the other. In my case, we've been together for almost 14 years, have two wonderful children and have enjoyed recreational sex (and yes, it's recreation when it involves other people) for about 7 years. We've had no issues as long as we have been open about what we do with other people. It's a fluid arrangement and we don't tear our hair out agonising about it. My hubby loves seeing me have fun with other guys. He gets off on my enjoyment and the fact that other men find me hot :) We are selective however and my husband won't tolerate disrespectful guys who view a 'shared' wife as being fair game, if that's what you're getting at?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    For some its just too hard to deal with and the jealous types should probably stay well clear of swinging. It is the art of swinging, to be able to enjoy someone elses enjoyment without you being the cause of it. If you get my drift. There is something very special to me to be able to see her pleasure, its something you dont see when your with her because your so caught up in the moment to pay attention. We all have our rules and there are others that need to learn some lol. My most important one is that I WONT kiss another mans woman, to me that is being intimate with her and thats not my place or want. or to put it simply I fuck her I dont make love to her. Once you get your head around that lot your on the way to having some fun, If you can't do it, thats ok too, but dont venture into the swinging world. I never see another man with a woman, I see a woman getting what she wants, he could be a robot for all I care. Be happy PD

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This has to be one of the beast posts i have read on here so far ! Everyone is being quite mature and open minded about the whole thing. I can see toolboy' is not being critical at all. Just curious. i can see where he is coming from. Myself, i am from the other side of the fence. My wife and i have played with other couples. Now, i play without her as it is not her thing any more. However, she is very happy for me to play away without her. I am quite happy for her to play away when she chooses to. it is easier for 'us' to get our heads around how toolboy' sees things. It is harder for toolboy' to get his head around our way of things. It is much like the Tattoos issue. I do not see recreational (it is all about fun and pleasure) sex as sharing ones partner. That smacks of ones partner being regarded as property. Even though i have said myself, that i am 'allowed' to play away. It too smacks of being property. a better way of thinking is that one is allowing ones self to let go of ones own insecurities, jelousy, fears of losing, feelings of possession, and self doubts. To allow ones self to be comfortable with our partners sexual wants, needs, and desires. And be happy that those things can be met. If not by you then by others. Do we not want our partners sexual pleasures and enjoyment before our own? It's the little things that mean so much. Sex is only a small part of a strong relationship. Important, yes absolutely. It is part of the cement that holds it together. But if it is the bricks the relationship is built with, then there is a good chance the whole thing will fall apart. Just because your partner is free to play does not mean that they will. And so too, just because they are not free to play away does not mean that they won't !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I dont think it makes any difference how we explain this to toolboy, he wont understand the art of swinging and the bond between the married couple because he doesnt want to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Here is a view point from the other side of things. I have swung with a married couple who were totally committed to each other and very happily married and i have a lot of respect for the way they conduct themselves in this situation. I was put totally at ease but was never given to opportuntiy to enter into the relationship side of things there were feelings and whispers and loving touches that passed between these two that i was no part of and yet all 3 of us totally connected and had a fantastic time. I knew thru body langwage that if i showed his wife any kind of disrespect the mr would have torn me limb from limb. when it was over. they lay in each others arms, the love between them very obvious but at the same time continued to chat and make me feel welcome comfortable and thankful for allowing me to share there experience, and when i left them i i knew that they were then going tohave a moment in time that was just for them behind closed doors. toolboy and spartanis there was nothing disrespectful or failing in this marriage.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gee Toolie, I seem to recall in your previous profile you were busting for a threesome. You wanted to be with two women playing together. Or is it okay to have threesomes if you are not committed to any of the participants or until the ring is on the finger? As for people questioning whether or not they want to enter the world of swinging, at least they are discussing it openly, seeking opinions from people who have experience it and not rushing into it. Its called informed consent. At the end of the day, what consenting adults do is noone else's business. And Tina, I think you are right. Wildly curious about swinging

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Tina, I think your right. PD

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    but swinging an art???

  • HotOzCouple_cc

    HotOzCouple_cc

    16 years ago

    Maybe not the specific act of sexual play, but the way in which one (or more) conduct themselves could be considered an art form. But to us, as it is many, there's so much more to swinging than just sex. The whole embodiment from initial contact to after the act and beyond is swinging to us. = Friendships formed and lasting friendships with others (couple + singles) is just as important.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    benthebuilder, what a great post. Thanks for describing what sounded like a brilliant experience for everyone. That's how it should be, I reckon. For those of you who think Tool doesn't want to understand swinging... don't you remember when the whole idea of swinging, to you, was THE MOST COMPLETELY FOREIGN CONCEPT you could have imagined and at the time you thought there was no way you could ever get your head around it all? I do! I know that I had ALOT of questions to ask, and luckily I had a really friendly, experienced couple who's heads I could pick, and I eventually ended up playing with them, and it was just as benthebuilder described too. And I can credit them for bringing my head around the whole idea. Maybe Tool won't ever get his head around it.. heaps don't, and that's ok :) At least he is asking out of a curiosity and not laying judgemental shit on people as so often happens in here. Great post. xxSoubi

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree with most of what u said, but i disagree, toolboy in my opinion was being judgmental and downright disrespectful when he made the comment about the marriage vows and the minister " Do u take this woman etc. and maybe ur reply should be, yes but if u'd like to take a crack at the mrs later, by all means.. I found this offensive, when i made my marriage vows to my husband i took them very seriously and still do. Yes some ppl can accept and some cant, but those who cant and want to ask questions should keep it factual and not have little slutty digs about it. Tina

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    as a young one this post has answered a lot of questions for me i have to agree that toollboy69r4u will not listen his mind is clearly made up that if you are a swinging couple the wife is anyones and all you have to do is ask your sex life is crap your in a failing marriage sounds pretty judgemental to me soub hbk1212

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I dont understand why you are on this site when it is a "hook up" for warrant of a better phrase for people from all walks of life who get off on different things. Whether you or I agree with it is irrelevant, its how these people choose to live their lives and no one has the right to judge them. At least these "couples" are open with eachother. Openess and communication is much better than cheating isnt it? But even on that token...we are not here to judge. If you dont like it...then leave. No one is forcing you to be subjected to situations and peoples personal relationships that you find offensive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    oi toolmaster what the fuk has this got to do with the thread? this happens all the time when a thread is started.. someone always comes in with a personal issue that is nothing to do with the discussion .. geez

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well I guess this ones had the dick too. did i mention the couple really need to be stable in both their mind and relationship. THIS IS A SWINGERS/SEX SITE PD

  • brenbob_68

    brenbob_68

    16 years ago

    Well we were right,on the surface it seemed like a genuine question.The main reason we never contributed to this post was we had our suspicions of this chap.Toolboy or tool master whichever it is now as descibed in secrets womens business "abusive guest" and you asked to be taken seriously pfffffft,run along grab a drink and don,t waste your time here brenbob

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Its his thread so I guess he can take it anywhere he wants.

  • starshootin

    starshootin

    16 years ago

    if u have a problem with them tool dont talk to them and dont take offers of playing with cpls... look for someone single to fuck.. plain n simple as for bringing in a personal issue with someone that wasnt called for best deal with that in private with that person insteaqd of bringing it out in the open... very uncalled for i beleive

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Have to agree with hbk1212 and Tina and their comments.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Great post Gazza but hey i know one way a girl can be double penetrated by one guy and with out the use of a dildo too!!!!!!!!!!!! My man was amazed when i gave him that idea. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Rosanna here,i must say ,i agree with TOOLBOY,How on earth can a woman/lady let another man touch/feel/fondle her.I really cannot understand this at all.I have never desired to touch another man,As my man is all i ever wanted,as far as me playing with other woman,I look at it as abit of fun ,nothing more .Truly i think it,s disgusting what you ladies/females let other guys do to you.It,s on the border line of being a whore,Sorry to say.Absolutely disgusting,I really cannot understand how.If their is a female that can some how explain it,or try to ,please do so im all ears..regards.........ROSANNA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    There is a difference between making love and fucking. Making love has emotion, fucking is purely physical!

  • starshootin

    starshootin

    16 years ago

    excuse me totonrosanna but if ur not sleeping with men but sleeping with woman id consider it the same thing. so are you calling yourself a whore/slut etc??? ppl chose to do wat they want in their sex lives is their own business and if they choose to play with others then good on them... its no one else business but their own... tool boy has a issue with cpl married or not playing with others... u cant exactly pass judgement if uve not done it yourself... grow up tool... ur meant to be a mature male right??? maybe act like one and accept that different ppl like and do different things!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well i am staight, so u see to me i think what u do with another woman is whorish .... so its just a matter of personal preference for extra marital titilation dont u think ??? cant really explain it better than that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Wel since it aint ur fing wots it 2 u anyway ya tool ffs?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im amazed that this subject has brought in such a drawn out reply ... when you think about it the question didnt really dignify an answer anyway this was something he didnt understand isnt it up to him to find out why... all this help wasted on the ignorant... you guys sould know they are too foolish to appriciate the lesson... if you want answers its best to quietly observe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i read your post and was flabbergasted that you would pass your oppinion as you did ,,,,, sex is sex weather it be with a woman or a man so you your self are acting like (as you so rudely put it ) a whore..... what people choose to do in the sexual aspect of there lives is there business..... if both parties are open to it then where is the harm,,, if the trust and love is strong enough then they have what it takes to make the sexual part of there relation ship more exciting there for making the relation ship as a whole more enjoyable ....isnt love and marriage about doing what makes eachother happy and if that means sharing sexual experiences with others then if both parties are mature and willing i dont see where the problem is ............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am going to make my response short and sweet. Rosanna I have read your profile and everything that your profile states contradicts what you are writing here. In your profile you are looking for couples I cant see why you would be interested in meeting with couples if you dont agree with what is going on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im sorry but i cant believe what you just wrote in this forum we make a choice to explore with other ppl either male or female and you choose to play only with girls to me it is the same ... my partner and i have the deepest love for each other and are only just now exploring our sexuality but we know where we are going at the end of a night and it is to the arms of each other in our bed ........... and we are very safe about when we play with other ppl ............ and i dont appreciate bein called whore like look in ya own back yard before ya start callin other nasty names like that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well said......starshootin....... Why oh Why are you on this site toolboy..... That is the $64million question for me dazi

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    its that simple!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    62 (well almost) put downs towards your wife AusMale. You say your WIFE wouldn't agree to swinging, so are u saying she would agree to you being unfaithful? You say.. Most marriages have a lot of unwritten and unspoken restrictions, usually caused by fear and jealousy. I would love to try experimenting, but I have enough problems getting past my wifes hangups & physical problems to have a relationship with her, without even considering introducing more variables. I take it you are meaning YOUR MARRIAGE as in unwritten/spoken restrictions?? Seems your not restricted at all, after all your profile seeks women, and you have neglected to "introduce variables" to your wife, It would be interesting to hear her side of the story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well as perthdom has mentioned, this is a swingers/sex site. Everyone seems to forget that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think you should unblock your profile and come forth with your new nic...not for abusive comments, just to show your posting is something you believe in and stand by, we have so many questions for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    rosie,may i call you rosie? regarding your post i think you are just stirring the pot and just seeking attention,but these are my observations!!!!! on viewing your profile it says you play with girls ,you say you will play with couples but only girly action,then you say tonto is allowed to give and recieve pleasure from the woman as long as her partner is ok with it!!!!!!!!!!! So obviously this woman that plays with tonto in your words is a whore,are your playmates aware you think they are whores ,hmmmm i think not,are you happy with tonto playing with whores.it would seem tonto is the only happy one here ,having his cake and eating it too and hasnt he done a mighty good job convincing you that you are a one cock woman lol,nice work tonto. It s all about choice afterall you choose to be a whore with women and some women choose to be whores with men,so to take the moral high ground and pass judgement on others behaviour when you behave the same way is the height of hypocrisy. hbk1212

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Geez, how can it be so hard to figure out? My husband and I have been together for 18 years. We have great sex. But come on, no one could eat the same meal day in day out for 18 years and not want some variety. It has absolutely nothing at all to do with love or commitment, it is simply variety! We are very happy, and the fact that we like to have sex (not make love) with other people, so what? It adds that spice to our relationship to avoid it becoming boring. I could go the other way and say that those unable to share him/her with others is a case of jealousy and insecurity rather than being loving and committed. No different to what you have stated in reverse. It just proves that everyone is different, and its all good! Majick

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Tool some things in life we are never meant to understand. I have spoken to a few couples who have written replies to this topic. To be truthful I still dont get it and why it happens. Maybe I will never fully understand why people do the things that they do and I dont think that I am meant to. What people do in there own time is there choice. We all have different beliefs and come from different background. I guess what I am trying to get across is I dont judge people for the things they do as that is there choice. I dont properly understand the whole swinging thing (in time I might) but I accept the fact that it does happend and will not judge anyone who is involved as it is there choice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Some people need the security and stability of a devoted partnership, whether that be for cultural or religious reasons. Others wish to experience all that life can offer, and take greater risks to achieve this. Which provides the best environment for a couple to grow and raise children is a matter of conjecture. There are so many permutations that it is hard to categorize people. What works for one couple may not apply for another, and it's easy to make value judgements based on one's personal viewpoint. It's interesting to see how things have worked in different cultures, before being subjected to missionary zeal. Some existed successfully for thousands of years before invasion and colonial rule. They have long been the study of scholars, and the more adventurous have experimented with these different social structures. It is unfair to say that one is right and another is wrong, when they have worked and maintained social cohesion for centuries. Many of the issues we confront today has more to do with selfish needs and less with social cohesion. We need to be responsible for the way we partake in sensual pleasures, because everything has it's consequences. The rules of a society were formed to maintain social cohesion and order. How one bends the rules depends on how surreptitiously one avoids any adverse consequences.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i have been reading this post over and over and honestly i dont think he meant to offend anyone firstly i think because his wife had just died he may have questioned as someone pointed out he may have felt guilty being on this site i dont think his remark about the minister was meant tooffend any one i didnt readhis origanal post as mentioning anthing about failing marragies wasnt that spantanis in fact tina didnt you dress him down over this i doubt very many ppl have read this properly and finally ms wet i think he may have gone pity really interesting fella and how he thinks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Amazing,this was all just a GEE UP,very slang i know. The forums section ,what a place for a laugh.To think people take what is said on here seriously?What a joke. Here is our real motto.Each to their own,Whichis i guess the way it is meant to be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think your contradicting yourself here, and Brighty69 had hit the nail on the head with her posting. I am bi sexual, i play both with my partner and women, or by myself with women....and as you say that is "just a bit of fun" I also have NO DESIRE TO PLAY WITH MEN ATM....but I am insulted that you, as a woman, could call other women WHORES, especially when u too have sexual encounters with other people besides your partner, when in reality your doing what u find a turn on. The ladies who play with other men, (as long as it is agreed by both partners) also are doing what turns them on, the same as yourself. I do believe that you too could be called the same insulting words, and others could think the same about you, for the sexual activities u conduct...as I said, you and I are both Bi-Sexual and i am not being slanderous in my posting,...something I think U could learn from Roseanna Regards Wet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Good backtracking there Rosanna .. oh and very funny ... NOT !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Back peddling!! guess u can only do that on a uni-cycle ya clown

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Rossana I think you are only back tracking on what you said earlier because you were caught out. People do take things serious here as it is there lifestyle. The concept of swinging or peoples sexualatity is to me a non laugthing matter. Think before you speak

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Succinctly put "get a dead dog up ya"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hbk1212 I couldnt have said it better myself .. good onya and maxwell what the fuk u on about ?? i didnt dressdown sparty at all,,, we are infact very good friends and i just pointed out he know me and roy and knows how stable our marriage is.. now read tools post regarding marriage vows .. this is what i took offence to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i noted toolie was mentioned as "abusive quest" with all the fuks youve trown around maybe 1 or two others should be considered like wise however having said that you fail to acknowledge the fact that toolboy never mentioned failing marraiges and your close friend spartanis suggested this i also note tool was talking about both partners not just the female

  • HotOzCouple_cc

    HotOzCouple_cc

    16 years ago

    Kids, grow up... You're all on a SWINGING website, where morals were left at the login page. I don't see how you can say it's wrong when really, you're actively encouraging it by being part of the website...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Maxwell .. go away , ur missing the point ffs I think u and toolboy with be very happy together lol committed and happily married . Oh and by the way i rejected ur friends request.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    your fascination with tina and the facts is irrelevant yourself and toolster make a great couple, you can make a couple profile and call yourselves statler&waldorf,u know the two old boys in the balcony box seats on the muppet show that heckle for a living,except there funny. have a few beers together to try and wash down those rejection pills ur obviously having trouble swallowing and workout why the ladies dont like ya lol,good luck youre going to need it hears a tip if you cant handle confident women in control,rhp aint the place for you muppets hbk1212

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    16 years ago

    TINA,you come across as 1 of these lonely ladies?That has nothing better to do with her life then ,spend time on here?????????. Dongo, not back paddling at all.We have met so many couples at the LOTUS LOUNGE,Where the female is disgusted at the thought of another guy doing them,As one friend said,Really the whole forum is a joke,Especially when you have people asking total strangers for advice.Some on here really need to get of the PC,and get a life or even a job.,.........

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    16 years ago

    Just wanted to say ,how nice it is to know that people are actually reading our profile,We are both very surprised.Last thing ,my question was for the females,or did you MEREMALES not read that part?

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    16 years ago

    ok lets get this straight your first post was a gee up your second post confirmed that now your third post is for real........refer to midnights post if you think you werent dealt with fairly on your first post you are so confused on so many levels ,surprised i never got a mention in your last post,thinking me ....for real..... post hit the nail right on the head, your paddling on the slalom course now and avoiding your own issues, hbk1212

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    16 years ago

    Rossanna .. forgive me while i piss myself laughing hahahahahaaaa I am a really really nice lady just ask my friends lmao .. ummm and what a stupid irrelevant commen .. u seem to be on here as much as me ffs. heheheee ummmm get a life? whoooo hahhaaa

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    16 years ago

    Im still laughing hehehe ... Oh and hbk1212 i like u - will u be my friend? lol

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    16 years ago

    by the tone of your responce i see your finally stuck like the rabbit hit with headlights on a very dark night now you can hardly crititze tools remark about the minister AND DARLING I DONT REMEMBER ASKING YOU TO BE MY FRIEND you know the old saying "with friends like you" well ill let you finish it cheers!!!!!

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    16 years ago

    Rosanna, if you were to see Tina in her wellington boots feeding the alpacas and chooks, whilst fending off the marauding foxes... you would see her in a different light. But then cute Tina scrubs up rather well. She could even make a pair of muddy boots look like a fashion accessory. RHP is such a nice respite from our many mundane daily tasks...

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    16 years ago

    Think Toto is just to insecure to see her with another guy and just wants to get his rocks off

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    16 years ago

    I think you will find Tina to be one of the most well respected, nicest, genuine ppl on this site. Sadly there is not enuff like her. xx Miss Honey xx

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    16 years ago

    OI !! how did this end up bein about me ffs!! pmsl .. maxwell umm u did send me a friend request luv .. can i have some of what ur on ?? hehehehe I would love to visit the planet ur on hahaa. VNG and honey thanks for ur lovely comments - I do my best hahaha. geez .... VNG ur right it makes for a good change from the mundane. I love u all !! lmao even u mathew.. oops i mean maxwell. lol

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    16 years ago

    tina i loves you too am i forgiven sweet must have had a'SENIORS MOMENT"

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    16 years ago

    I can see one little black duck doesnt need my help with this one lol. Go get em tiger lmao Commitment and happy marriages happen when a couple totally understand where the other one is at .. as the old saying goes ' they become as one' the circumstances and lifestyle has nothing to do with this it is a total bonding between 2 ppl, and yes i am speaking from experience. Heaven

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    16 years ago

    I have met Tina and Roy and I dont think you would find a nicer couple anywhere. As for spending too much time in front of the computer you seem to be here a fair bit.

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    16 years ago

    Gazpacho .. thought u said u didnt know me .. lmao trouble is my middle name.

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    16 years ago

    Thanks for ur comments hun xx that is such cute lil puppy ! awww Tina