RHP

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couple or party??

May 13 2012

At this stage we have only played with couples and love doing so, and have not yet been to a swingers party. So the question is which do you prefer?? Should we stick to the intimate and fun 4sum or go to town with a group...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We have experienced both sides throughout our time in this game of life and enjoy both equally. The couple does seem to be more relaxed arena but the group scene is exciting. For us we will take what comes. Weareheylook

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I would say just go with what you both feel like doing. If you both want to try a party then do it at least once as you will never know until you try.We tried the party's but we much prefer the intimacy of a couple or single joining us in a private setting.Tim

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That's really a personal choice. If you are both up for it, go have fun! Personally,I'm rather shy and the thought of a party is a little too much for me, but my partner would be into it. In any case it's really important that what you choose to do is chosen out of good communication with your partner. If the idea of a party excites you both then go for it and have some fun! - M

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    13 years ago

    Like Tim I would say it really depends on yourselves. We fluctuate a bit. Sometimes we like the intimacy of four people in a relaxed private setting other times we enjoy the fast, frantic pace of a party. If you have never tried something then you really have to give it a go before you write it off as a non-option.   Remember like everything the most important thing is how you are both feeling and where YOU are both at. Just because someone else says it is heaps of fun doesn't mean you will feel that way. Also there are parties and there are parties, just like there are couples and there are couples. One party could be the hottest thing you have ever done and the next one could be just plain creepy. You just gotta try it out for yourselves.   Mrs Jones

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    13 years ago

    I take it by party you mean group sex. The parties we have been to have been parties where couples meet. Do you mean sex with a few couples you already know. If your considering group sex, with people you dont know, that's different again. If your considering group sex randomly pick some profiles from the here. Now pretend you have just had sex with them, read their profiles are you happy with knowing youngest fucked them?

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    13 years ago

    We've been in this scene for about 12 years and have experienced all the varioations of fun to be had LOL. 3 somes, 4 somes, more somes etc. It really depends what you are ready for? Intimate 4 somes are great and more relaxed.3 somes can get very hot..either FMF or MFM. But then group sex (with the right people) is senstational....when you have six, eight or ten people all playing together it can get very intense!! But just remember..safe sex all around, only get into group sex with trustworthy friends who you know will all use condoms & change them between each partner, that's so important!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    parties were definitely the way to go! I could play when and with whom I wanted - it was a single girl's dream!! No pressure to play. EVER. Hmmmm..... Actually, nothing much has changed now that I'm hooked up with my man!!! Bonus is that I now love watching him play :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As with the above comments, it really comes down to your level of comfort. I personally find big groups somewhat daunting in general life and kinda the same with sexual groups, I prefer smaller more intimate meetings. However if the thought of a larger group setting is appealing to you I say give it a shot.I believe in life its often better to regret something you did than regret an opportunity passing by.Mr Threesum4fun :)