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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Lovely classy photographs for a start. A very articulate profile, and I think you have made it clear that you are only looking for regular but casual. The one thing that might stop women messaging you, and it might sound strange....your profile may be too attractive? If a guy like you was looking at my profile () Id be a tad intimidated as I have a few insecurities. There was a post on here not long ago about punching above your weight which can explain what Im trying to say. Some of my friends on here are stunning women, but Ive heard them say "Look at this guy, but hes too good looking for me". I see you have met up with people though, so think yourself lucky....the amount of guys on here who complain they have not met one person since they joined....... it must be frustrating. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Im agreeing with Koko. I couldnt see anything wrong.You even explain that you connect and are attracted to an older agegroup without calling them cougars.( brownie points for that). You are very articulate and descriptive. Nice job.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Maaate.... 25, washboard tummy, me thinks your using the free advertising to fish for compliments.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  So my only question is, when you send messages or flirts, are you checking that you fit the criteria of what she is looking for?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  @ kokoflamingo - That is very kind of you to say, I'm flattered :) I have had brief success with about 3 members of RHP, which I am very grateful for. I welcome every opportunity to connect with like minded people and share my sexuality. But after being on here since April, those few encounters are far from being enough to keep me satisfied.. The most regular I had was once a week for roughly a month before the arrangement ended. I understand your point regarding insecurities, we all have them in some form or another. its part of being human :) In fact anyone who attended the recent meet and greet at Bayswater Hotel in Perth might have seen me awkwardly making my way around the room, I am very shy on first meeting people. But if insecurities or low confidence are what is holding women back from connecting with me on here then that is a bitter irony, as it is in my nature to be considerate and patient. In fact I identify myself as being largely Sapiosexual, meaning that to me sexual attraction is only about 40% physical, the remaining 60% contributing to the psychological and emotional makeup of whoever i'm interested in. Which means that factors such as age, bodytype and on occasion even gender are purely circumstancial. A level head, good values and a cheeky sense of humour will get you almsot anything from me if we have the right chemistry. Thats not to say I'm not turned on by a fit body :p but I don't expect everyone I sleep with to be a model! This is one reason I enjoy the company of older women, they have a higher tendency to appreciate a deeper connection than those my own age. @ wiccawitch - On the odd ocassion I will contact a member who has specified a higher age bracket, and ask if they might be willing to consider an exception. But for the most part I keep to those looking for men my age. @ wet_paint - If I was having much success, I wouldn't need to fish for compliments.. Id be out there enjoying the beautiful women I see on here

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I can throw out a heap of comments based on very little (what else is new), but let me ask you this: How does approaching women work out for you in the real world compared to on here?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hey Meander.. when I meet women through friends it generally goes great. But when I have approached them myself as an individual I get no where. I have debated with friends about this for years and never found a reason why. I have always kept myself in good shape, dressed well and been upfront/respectful. There are a number of RHP members who could confirm that after having met me. I dont understand it one bit. This is why I am online in the first place - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  you assume too much - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Seachange

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'JTL_90' @ kokoflamingo - In fact anyone who attended the recent meet and greet at Bayswater Hotel in Perth might have seen me awkwardly making my way around the room, I am very shy on first meeting people. But if insecurities or low confidence are what is holding women back from connecting with me on here then that is a bitter irony, as it is in my nature to be considerate and patient. In fact I identify myself as being largely Sapiosexual, meaning that to me sexual attraction is only about 40% physical, the remaining 60% contributing to the psychological and emotional makeup of whoever i'm interested in. Which means that factors such as age, bodytype and on occasion even gender are purely circumstancial. A level head, good values and a cheeky sense of humour will get you almsot anything from me if we have the right chemistry. Thats not to say I'm not turned on by a fit body :p but I don't expect everyone I sleep with to be a model! This is one reason I enjoy the company of older women, they have a higher tendency to appreciate a deeper connection than those my own age. I have met you at the Perth Meet and Greet earlier thismonth and I appreciate you sought me out in the crowd. Very kind of you. In person, you are more good looking than your pics and so maybe your pics dont do you justice. Firstly your profile is just excellent. The type of man I would respond to positively if I ws contacted. and I have done so with you, Your messaging was very good, quite articulate and very respectful. You present yourself as a multidimentional person that has interests more than just the physical and sexual. Your pictures are interesting, sexy and suggestive. Leaves more to my imagination. The fact you have a great body is a bonus. Do not worry about your profile. It is all a matter of numbers here and 'flogging' yourself. lol. forums and chat is a good way to get noticed and start a conversation. which you have done already. yes, you are a bit shy but awkward is not what I would consider you. After meeting you in person and having a good chat with you, I find you very engaging, articulate and highly intelligent. we covered a good number of topics of a cerebral nature adn I thoroughly enjoyed my chats with you that night. I think we briefly covered the issue of your success n meeting women in rhp. I would not be bothered with anything else. I think just keep sending messages when you can to the women of Perth. If they can not recognize an attractive man like yourself on rhp, they are either not looking close enough or you dont match their needs. But then again, there is always the Eastern states women. so chin up, and march East. Lol Good luck.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  You are far too kind ☺ Thank you for everything you have said, and for the wonderful chat we had at the meet and greet. It was a pleasure to meet you, I only regret not staying longer.. you have alot of very interesting things to say and an awesome sense of humour! 😆 perhaps I really am living in the wrong city, seems like people over east have much more success on RHP - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  9 years ago

  Watching....

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  to say ppl over east have much more success isn't always true...they say the same about perth ppl....and ive lived on both sides of the country....there are a lot of good ppl in perth ...as well as the east its what you make of it.....rhp can be a great place to meet ppl ....but so can those random chats outside of rhp world

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  Seachange

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'MzRanni' to say ppl over east have much more success isn't always true...they say the same about perth ppl....and ive lived on both sides of the country....there are a lot of good ppl in perth ...as well as the east its what you make of it.....rhp can be a great place to meet ppl ....but so can those random chats outside of rhp world Loving your new pic... Gorgeous...

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