daddy issues..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Read up on the Electra complex, but don't take too much of anything anyone else says seriously. Your profile shows you are looking for guys 30-40, which is hardly a father figure, perhaps you are simply attracted to stability or experience?.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Granted I am not 26, but I have always prefered older men. Married one my age and well, divorce!   I prefer older men due to maturity, they are more patient with women, overall are better in bed their demeanour is different, outlook different, conversation more mature. I prefer men who are 15+yrs my senior, I met one man once who was around 30yrs my sr and he was a great companion and friend, age is but a number.   I currently have a FWB who is only 29 and have been seeing him for a few yrs now. He doesnt match my usual age requirement, because its not about the number its about what the number generally represents - maturity on many levels. At 29 he is as mature and alike to many older men, plus with the fun young spriteful ways tossed in, its a perfect mix. he wasnt ignored due to his age.   I think people like to categorize. if they dont understand something then they will put a label on it due to ignorance or because its how they feel comfortable to justify something. Let them think what they want, our sexual needs as we get older are not to be blamed on our childhood, its how we see things and how we want our life to be lived... Agree to disagree and let them think what they want.. their problem not yours :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If what your ''friend'' said was indeed true Roxy ,then all the old men here would be inundated with flirts and messages from young women.....   You are probably not attracted to immature men,and they come in all ages.Don't worry what your friend thinks as nameisinuse said, 30-40 aint real old

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  thanx for the reassurance guys Roxy x

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well I suppose I have daddy issues but in a different way - he was around too much but he was never a role model & I really wish he hadn't been around at all! But back to the topic, I am not attracted to older men. Around 40ish max & that has to be a young looking 40. I think the age attraction cannot be boxed into any category, each to their own :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Verile, testosterone, aggressive to a point, as opposed to the older male who has perspective and more to his persona than a hard on.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Did you just say your persona has a hard on??? that's a bit egotesticle ins't it?? lmfao

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  HERE IT IS..   So a younger guy, who enjoys the maturity of an older women, does he have mummy issues??

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Rangas must think alike ;) hehe

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