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define "predictable"....
June 07 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
pre·dict·a·ble /prɪˈdɪktəbəl/ Show Spelled<prih-dik-tuh-buhl> Show IPA adjective 1. able to be foretold or declared in advance: New technology allows predictable weather forecasting. 2. expected, especially on the basis of previous or known behavior: His complaints are so predictable. . But to give you an informed opinion as to whether or not this applies to you, I'm going to have to shag you first.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a sensual person by nature and not really into sex involving pain (as such) but recently i was told that i was "predictable" when it comes to sex. To be honest I hadn't realised that and when i was told - well it hurt the pride a bit.... But on the same token - I've never really had a man tell me what he enjoys in bed - so i just go with what i know.... Does that make me predictable??? or is there something that i'm just not getting where men are concerned???
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are sooo predictable x Hugs H....waiting...waiting
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just after foreplay started, you should have rolled over, pulled out a vibrator and handed it to him informing that he could slap that around all he likes and you're going to go and watch Women Gone Wild while you do your nails.Wouldn't have predicted that!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Homomyny is fun! Well, not in this case.Is it that your sessions tend to follow the same pattern? You go down on him, he goes down on you, he enters you in the missionary, you roll him over and mount him, lather, rinse, repeat...I find myself falling into that pattern sometimes. There are dozens of reasons why: familiarity, you enjoy them, feeling uncreative, going through the motions, you're good at it etc.Sometimes I have to remind myself that there are hundreds, if not thousands of different sensuous things one person's body can do to another. Multiply that by all the variables, like different locations (tables, walls, beds, couches etc.), different props (toys, dress ups, blindfolds, restraints etc). Then you start introducing extra partners and the mind is positively blown (amongst other organs...)If you haven't guessed already I'm fairly analytic, so I regard'sex' as a pick 'n mix of all these options, resulting in literally millions of rollercoaster permutations and combinations before you get to the big bang. Even if you're not a spontaneous person by nature, put some thought into it before hand. Sounds unsexy when I write it here, but if your partner has no idea what's coming next they tend not to worry about how you got there!Of course, be ready to adapt and go with the motion. And sometimes sure, I can't be fucked (boom tish) putting any extra effort in, so predictably I'll just go through the very comfortable and enjoyable motions.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We might need a little bit more info but yes you probably are I was too so was my sex life and until I seperated I didnt have a clue what I was missing. Maybe thats why people swing. Different sexual experiences excited new thoughts touch techniques,I have definatley experienced a few and need and want to experience more. I was in the one relationship cocoon and we werent open with each other. So maybe thats the key OPEN up ask learn explore, read watch and have an adventure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You try to get all linguistic-y and you get the spelling wrong. Severely lacking in cunning. I want my damn 'edit' function!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Allbymyself said,"I've never really had a man tell me what he enjoys in bed - so i just go with what i know"So tell him what you like ! Don't just run through a routine and wait for him to mix it up, make some moves of your own.Reading between the lines my guess is you could tar him with the same brush !Eanie meanie minie moe !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sounds like a little communication is lacking between you and partner. Do you both know where the line in the sand is, for each other, you know, those places/things you wont do? Once you know those things, then it is easy to vary each experience, so you 2 don't do exactly the same thing, each and every time. I also agree with most of the above comments, they will add spice and variety, if followed, too. Don't do the same positions, every time. Role play sometimes, dress up sometimes (cheap outfits from Salvo's etc), take turns being the submissive one, do it on the lounge, not the bed, use toys on each other occasionally. Basically, don't do the full repertoire, each and every time, leave somethings, for next time.Good luck, and please let us know, how it goes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess the old saying you never know until you try is true and you can have a lot of fun along the way. Saying that Some times with your long term partner you just do what works . Is it predictable ? yes but So is the outcome and if Its a good then why not.There are times when Jane has been with a guy and I cant help but think to myself. Hmm that isn't going to work if your trying to make her cum. If know one communicates then know body know's any better. Why do I know what works for Jane. 14 years of trial and error has refined what works and doesn't and everyone is different. So some pradictability - familiarity has its merrits.Nothing wrong with mixing things up a little to great something fresh though.cTim
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RHP User
13 years ago
allbymyself,you don't say whether or not this man was someone you know well or just a casual hookup. If he is a regular fwb, then why has he not told you what he wants?. Men Have lists.They watch porn and in general, women are expected to have a range of toys ,tricks,positions,locations costumes,cum on demand,squirt in a second,run the gamut of sex from A to Z...never been able to work out what the Z is though.perhaps it stands for zambra....or zausted. It does indeed take two to tango...and you could always explore the idea of more partners in your dance.However ,communication is the key,you could develop a whole repertoire for this man and still not please him.Ask him what he would like to try, to explore with you. Do some sexy things for you.Glam up a little,buy some outrageously sexy and gorgeous lingerie,expensive perfume,visit a spa,look your very sexiest best.A confident woman is a sexy woman . If he was a casual hookup....just say Next if that was the case then what was said to you was indeed a put down. x Hugs Hps I understand there are heaps of men now, coming to your town.You go girl.
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onepurpose2010
13 years ago
Love Making is not predictable... if it is love making...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Could always go down the rudimentary path of a little kissing hugging cuddles and then roll him over lube up his arse .. throw a handful of Grit into his hole a fuck him with your coffee thermos ... I doubt he will call you predictable again .. in fact I doubt you’ll here from him much at all .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Give him a nice blow job and then when he is really getting into it jam a dildo into his arse. And then ask him if he saw that coming...lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
allbymyself, people should accept you for who you are and if they don't. you are better off without them. It is your right to refuse painful sex, anal I presume, and men should respect that. Personally, I would never expect a woman to do anything that would cause her pain, even if it meant that I would be missing out on something that I would enjoy doing. Respect for others at all times. Good luck and all the best.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Men are fairly primitive creatures. If you give them what you want you're a princess. If you don't, well let's just say you're not.Would I be right in assuming this 'predictable' comment came about during a discussion about something he wanted but your weren't prepared to give? Why don't you suggest some dildo-anal action and see how 'adventurous' he is feeling?In the end, don't take it to heart. Do what you're comfortable with (maybe pushing the odd boundary if you feel so inclined) and find someone (or 'ones') you'd like to share the ride with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nothing wrong with predictable (my partner is predictably satisfying) but if you don't like it try something different for you not him- whatever you are into......OR Stick your finger in his bum that'll surprise him Just an idea but what about playing at a club together......the atmosphere may be stimulate the senses...Cass xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
... LUV IT!!! ouch, sore ribs from pmsl. Op please (oh please!), give the grit n thermos a go, and then send us the pics! Seriously allbymyself find yourself an attentive partner (one that doesn't have a gritty sorry arse!). You deserve so much better. KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
well i've read all your comments and i do appreciate the feedback... I met this man a couple of months ago and we were getting along pretty well - both in and out of the bedroom - enjoying each others company. A few of you mentioned about a lack of communication - yeah i guess with hindsight it was lacking regarding sex.... need to work on that if its still possible.In regards to opening up to new experiences - i would like to experience different things - just don't like the feel of vunerability that some experiences can bring.I really got to admit some of u have some outrageously hilarious ideas of surprising him!!!! damn near fell off my chair reading them....hmmm gritty thermos indeed... anyway i do appreciate your comments and will let u know what happens next
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RHP User
13 years ago
my spaghetti bolognese always taste the same... i like it, and no one has complained yet. but i always take notes on how others make theirs... i might learn something, or not
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sure, pain can be a sexual flavour, and not to everyone's taste, as is vanilla. But there are a kazillion other flavours out there, too ;D Like coodi's bolognese :P (although in the vote for experimentation, I used roo and port instead of beef and red wine last week and had the best spag bog of my life!) I guess, even if the person who made the statement that wounded your pride didn't do it in the most tactful way, perhaps it serves as a catalyst for you to tickle your tastebuds? You never know, you might really get off on doing some of these oh-so-helpful suggestions...? ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Vagabonde' Sure, pain can be a sexual flavour, and not to everyone's taste, as is vanilla. But there are a kazillion other flavours out there, too ;D Like coodi's bolognese :P (although in the vote for experimentation, I used roo and port instead of beef and red wine last week and had the best spag bog of my life!) I guess, even if the person who made the statement that wounded your pride didn't do it in the most tactful way, perhaps it serves as a catalyst for you to tickle your tastebuds? You never know, you might really get off on doing some of these oh-so-helpful suggestions...? ;) i eat skip on a regular basis... flavor, lean, still cheap, although it has tripled it's price in recent yearsi've done the red wine/white wine, combination mince's.... never thought to use roo and port though cheersto the OP... sorry for turning this thread into a cooking classVagabonde... a teaspoon of nutmeg works a treat too
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RHP User
13 years ago
I personally enjoy vanilla as much as chocolate...all about timing and inclination As to the spag bog....pork mince and lemon rind are my differences...x Hugs H
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