delay in cumming

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  maddog  I know your not talking about me even though you live only 15 mins from me..hahahahaha...   Talk to her about it....are you just going vanilla?  Maybe you are happily focused on her and not yourself..which is wonderful if you are..     So you can go the distance....nothing wrong with that!   huggies   sweetpetite41 xxxxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Maddog, I've got a similar problem, on the odd occasion I can have a 15 min quikie, but a majority of the time it lasts for 60 mins plus, with the result either waiting for round 2 to reach climax, or not climaxing at all!!:( often I find myself reassuring the woman that it is my anatomy, not hers that is causing the delay. Make a joke that you're "insensitive", it might help;) cheers, Michael

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Have to agree with the last two posters. The concept of a 2-10minute quickie in our house just isn't a possibility. Our quickie is 30mins to an hour with normal lovemaking sessions going well, WELL beyond that. Longevity isn't always a bad thing, hey it's better than being a hair-trigger two-minute man in my opinion. But yes I do often yearn for the ability to just grunt n blow in 1 minute flat ;) However it is something that you two need to discuss in order for there to be no frustration on either part. We've both discussed the fact that an orgasm isn't the be all and end all of a healthy sex session. Just because you don't blow doesnt mean it's been any less emotional or powerful.   So we've had to shift thinking a little, take a different approach and realise that an orgasm isn't the end result but more the icing on the cake. If it doesnt happen before we fall in a sweaty heap then hey...more oomph and volume for tomorrow's session.   To be honest..once you talk through the frustration your partner will likely adore the fact that you're a stayer and not a minute-man. As long as you're also ensuring that she's enjoying too of course! No point in being able to roger away for hours if she's filing her nails and making calls throughout the process....then you may have a bigger issue.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  thanks guys , we do all different positions , she gets off heaps , which is good and  i prefer to see her do that , then me blowing my load , but when i do blow its good , usually i can go again in 15 mins after blowing or sometimes keep going until i blow again i try and talk to her tonight about it

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