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dick in your face vs intelligent conversation. what's the bigger turn on.
October 06 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's all too rushed, not enough lead up, not enought flirtation and teasing and allowing the tension to grow. So just like foreplay I think sometimes we jump into bed but we haven't really been turned on enough. Hence the sex is okay. It's alright but you can take it or leave it. I usually leave it. :) I rarely feel overpowered by list when meeting people for the first time. Maybe I am just not promiscuous enough? Low sex drive? Not really sure but random hookups bore me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oops. I mean overcome with lust.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
The tongues or body meet. Seduction still needs to occur for me.....wham bam thank you cock isn't me and anyone can fuck, some better than others.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
stimulation is what I think is key to getting someone interested. As has been mentioned in one of the other threads, a six-pack may be great for the initial visuals, if you are so pre-occupied, but I firmly believe that some mental foreplay is actually quite fun and starts to get you in the appropriate frame of mind. The mental stimulation need just be words only, but the subtle cheeky looks and expressions, the initial physical approaches such as the gentle stroking of the face or hair by your fingers, are all part'n'parcel of the seduction. Personally I love this type of foreplay - I think it puts both people in a better state of reception. Any takers ?? Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think a lot of guys do not realize asking asking what you like can turn a woman off. Who wants to give a blow by blow account of sex, when it depends on so many variables. I just say, let's meet first, and if we connect we tango. Yes, some poor guys rush it. And I have to say slow it down or at least try to hang in there till I get the train to the big O. Those cocks are like a runaway horse at times. But guys often just bugga off once they blow. I do as well, so it's like a race! Mee meet meet its AL about, moi, the down side is women talk so the wham bam guys end up on the, honey don't bother to go their list. I am on plenty of wham bam lists. I am a get in get off get out kinda girl
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Organ is between the ears.
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RHP User
10 years ago
very punny Smiling... or did you mean to say the Sexiest organ is between the ears?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Foot in mouth ? I can achieve that on the odd occassion :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
who is attached to the dick in my face..if we have only just met,I would be a little puzzled as to what Mr.Dick was trying to say...but if it is a lover I know well then sometimes the role play greeting is explicit and welcome...now that is a dick I lick xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Forelplay does not start in the bedroom.....it starts outside! Give us some mental stimulation ( not sex talks)
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Sorry OP.... but I read that and while I fully understand the importance of foreplay beginning even before the "hello".... I have to wonder about your screening methods, and why you decided to meet someone who clearly didnt tick all of your mental boxes first. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Sorry OP.... but I read that and while I fully understand the importance of foreplay beginning even before the "hello".... I have to wonder about your screening methods, and why you decided to meet someone who clearly didnt tick all of your mental boxes first. DG people can talk up a storm on the internet and the phone, and you think your on the same page. Then you meet them and its all out the window, as it was only a means to get to a sticky end. I never trust the words that people write to me or say, till I actually meet them. Who knows it could be some poor sexually inept fella who has built up himself through the brilliant way they write or event talk but in the end they are just a dick.
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Circe
10 years ago
Some guys, after you have gone past the screening stage and have decided to take things further, just rush it. They have little or no finesse (oafs). No idea about how to go from woah to woohoo (cavemen). They go straight into hard kisses and trying to get their hand down your pants without that sensual touching, sweet talking and caressing inbetween. Sometimes you just need to have the confidence to tell them to slow down, to enjoy. I've even told a guy that it's not a race before. I've also just stopped and said that it's not working for me and left. I need that sensual touching and talking, otherwise I'm really just not going to engage.
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nibblemebi
10 years ago
Is a gorgeous dick in your face that is attached to a fine intelligent man who knows how to turn on both your grey and pink matter ;) Oh YES!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yep Fucken oath.... Some people are too focused on the orgasm instead of relishing the journey that gets them there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'nibblemebi' Is a gorgeous dick in your face that is attached to a fine intelligent man who knows how to turn on both your grey and pink matter ;) Oh YES! What about the brown matter? Don't forget the chocolate starfish!
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On_Safari
10 years ago
You can draw your own conclusions from there sweetpea. 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' You can draw your own conclusions from there sweetpea. 😝 Although having ones arse kissed is tolerable....
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Are you stalking me? 😍 because I have air holes in the boot of my car....and my rape kit has fluoro zippy ties.
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
'A little more conversation, baby'..... Like the old saying - honey catches more than.... Bugger, forgot the rest. Wait - what? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes OP, but allow me to be curious... how do you pick the partners in crime for your "just OK" encounters? Isn't the conversation about how and where to meet partly an interview of the other party's ability to stimulate you more than physically? You see - if those participating in the discussion want to prove they are worth their salt perhaps they should demonstrate that they get my name and become friends with me - and not just on this site... is that an intellectual enough challenge for you all?
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RHP User
10 years ago
take your pick..Hieronymous Bosch an artist worthy of the RHP culture...Bosch...a quality drill...Bosch sparks a quality plug..:-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
A genuinely intellectual conversation doesn't belong in the bedroom: blood flow increases in one of two directions, the organ upstairs or the one downstairs. Sure you can have both, but not at the same time.. and if you don't believe me, go have a little peak at the findings of neuroscience on the topic. In the bedroom, it then not about "intellectual" conversations, but the interplays of body and psyche, and that's something else altogether. Master Guru Genius take your pick.
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dysturbd
10 years ago
Well I guess I'm not the only one. \m/ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bye?
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RHP User
10 years ago
WellI agree with the female point of view on this one.Why rush what is going to be maybe the start of an awesome ongoing friendship that will take both of you to who knows where?Half of the fun is seeing how long you can keep your hands off each other.And then when the time does arrive the thrill of the slow reveal and finally discovering each others body.So far I have had no luck on RHP maybe its my profile or the fact that i'm married who knows.We are all on here for our various reason and as the old saying goes - God loves a tryer
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes,you are married and"looking for fun"...that is a turn off for many women...single ones in particular.... You are a guest ,you can't be proactive in your search...single women guests no longer have a weekly message ,so to send them a flrt is s waste of time...and your profile needs to be far more enticing xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think a quote from comedian Chris Rock will sum up this whole problem................ "It's easy for a woman to turn down sex because you've been offered dick every day of your life since you were 14. But when a man get's an offer for sex it's like "DAMNNNN, this must be my lucky day." You just happened to come across one of those guys. And to the women commenting here, feel free to send me a message as I have a lot in mind for us long before any part of my anatomy is produced before your face. Some of us guys actually know what we're doing but we just don't get many opportunities because they always seem to strangely go to the guys that then whip their cock in your face ???Just saying...............Guys like me can't work out how those guys get a foot in the door to begin with, yet going by the above comments, for it to be the problem that many here suggest, then how did those guys even get a start with you ? For women to claim to know as much about men as they claim to know, how didn't you pick up that he was one of those types of guys ? I am NOT defending these guys at all, but just take into account for one second what it is like being a guy that only gets sex if a woman agrees. That guy after waiting and waiting and waiting finally gets a chance and maybe just goes in a little too gun ho. Did you talk to him at the time and maybe say something like "slow down" or "take your time". Maybe even sugar coat it a little by saying "be patient with me and you'll be more than rewarded in return" ? Did this conversation take place at all, or was nothing said but couldn't wait to talk about it on a forum ? I'm not accusing you of either, but which approach did you take, that could of eased the situation and then have no need to complain about it on a forum. But I'm glad it did get mentioned because I got to quote Chris Rock !
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On_Safari
10 years ago
If you truly believe a meet up is naturally going to end with sex then maybe you need to rethink your approach and actually value your body more? My "meet ups" are exactly that....a no pressure zero expectations meet over a drink. Hopefully there'll be a connection, flowing conversation, laughter and smiles. I met someone the other night for the first time....it's been a long time since any man truly turned my head but he did. Was I tempted to sample him? Yes. Did I? Nothing more than a kiss...definitely a good kiss. Intentions are to meet again. (Broad smile) it's anyone's guess what'll happen on that occasion as well. Can I ask why you think you have to fuck on first dates? And if I may....men are hunters, it's the thrill of the chase that stimulates and excites (no disrespect gentlemen and I'm not referring to game playing either; I don't do games) once the meat is dead who wants to play with it? If you aren't genuinely attracted to these men why are you fucking them? If your experiences aren't satisfying you only you can change that. Sex site or not you still choose who share your body with.....if you're going to be an "easy lay" don't be surprised you're being treated the way you are. You get what you give. Not attacking you or attempting to disparage you just wondering what's driving you. ~ On Safari
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' take your pick..Hieronymous Bosch an artist worthy of the RHP culture...Bosch...a quality drill...Bosch sparks a quality plug..:-) xxQ Ugh, Heironymous Bosch gives me nightmares. I kind of get what you mean though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe its the feline in me, but after the catch I like to play with miss mouse. Many a little death being the aim. No kill. No dead meat. Seriously though, I take meets as they come. Whether one coffee, a drink, or more.
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RHP User
10 years ago
😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
I read the OP again,I don't think Dysturbed is having sex with the Mr.Wavemedickabouts, on their first meet....what she is saying is that if they approached her in a different way ,she would....and in what antediluvian realm did you find that little pearl my friend...having sex with a man the first time you meet is not disrespecting your body...having sex with anyone,male or female who doesn't float ya little boat is just sad...and let's face it,sometimes we have all been a little sad xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Was that a shout out for more blondes to fawn at your mesh clad toes or the name of that beer you is tipplin':-) xxQ
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Guilty on all counts. My pearl of wisdom though is more based more on how silly I was in my late teens early 20's when I was looking for love in all the wrong places. And well....now I just find if the guy is willing to invest a little time instead of just his dick the sex is sooooooo much better as chemistry and attraction have had a chance to fuse. I know a lot of people here are just out for disconnected (hopefully pleasurable) fucking BUT then there are others looking for something deeper than 6 RHP inches and not as shallow as a kiddies wading pool. I'm not referring to couples here either because that's another dynamic based on the needs of and friendships developed as a couple with others. Singles however have certain other dare I say, hopes, desires and aspirations. And then some don't and it's just random sex to fill whatever void/requirement they have. But if someone actually states they naturally assume progression to sex as part of a first meet doesn't that just open the floodgates for equal amounts if potential fun and disaster?
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Din't tell me Go Indy Go was a palomino!!! And it's a hair colour mate not a mentality!!😏
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Missb4u
10 years ago
is there a hidden meaning there? I just figured you were a man that liked cars and engines and Bosch spark plugs. OP, it's really all been said ahead of me. I do find that sometimes men interpret messages wrong so be very clear in stating what your expectations are on a meet. If you mention things like "if it's all good" or "all being well" I'm happy to get to business then they will go in thinking sex is guaranteed. IMO.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I certainly don't shove my dick in women's face, unless asked first, but I do know that sometimes I overthink things and jump ahead of myself with my ramblings in my eagerness, to the point where I have been called eccentric and oddly sexual (which is a glass half full compliment I suppose). I also sometimes act as if one size fits all, instead of treating every woman as an individual with their own specific wants, desires and expectations. Sometimes I need a quick smack upside the head to bring me back to reality.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You assume that it's only the dick guys that rush so let me tell you, it's the nice "normal" guys who apparently don't get a look in who also rush. By the way we are not just talking about rushing once you get your clothes off. We are talking about rushing things way before we get to that stage.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seems like the art of seduction is slowly being lost with the wham Bam hook up culture. I am probably being old fashioned but I find it all a bit boring. zzzzzz
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Lol simpleneeds you've always treated me as an individual. When fools rush in though....xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like porn as a perfect list of 'do nots' for knowing how to play :) Take your time, and enjoy yourselves, the inevitable will occur, in the meantime relax a little :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
...that goes 'I want a lover with a slow hand...' I also like a man with intelligence, a sense of humour and the imagination to make me breathless with nothing more than his words; someone who makes me blush with fantasies of all the naughty things he'd like us to enjoy. Mmmm...
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LeyMatt
10 years ago
Intelligent communication is very important from the beginning in Every relationship, one night stand or even you just catching up for drink, dinner, lunch and etc.. Lots of people probably gets very excited and want to rush into quick sex sessions, but that's the biggest mistake.. And not many people know how to treat women... Especially young boys... They might think they are the best on bed with dick in girl face.. But that's not true... And that lead to unsuccessful ending. Guys need to know how to be polite, how to treat and how to talk to women!!! That's first step to successfull happy ending.. Intelligent Communication.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Are you aspiring to becoming something akin to a big cat? Meow (cheeky grin)
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shucksta
10 years ago
Aside from a firm desire never to experience the latter, there does appear to be a high number of women that just go for eye (meat?) candy. Are men conditioned to assume/presume too much at that first meet? If women take the time to read through a profile and validations, the superficial ones get weeded out to assure we've settled on mutually compatible expectations before a meet. Some voice contact beforehand as well, to set the tone and expectations. But yes, a gorgeous mind gets me every time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
never end up in us having sex. It is for a chat over coffee or sometimes the guy buys me lunch. By the time I get to meet the guy concerned, we have usually chatted extensively online. I would advise meeting in a Public Place for your first meet and never agree to get into his car, though nice as he may seem. You don't want to place yourself in a vulnerable position. This way, you won't end up with a "dick" in your face unless you are willing. All my first meets to date, have revolved around intellectual conversation. To this date, I am involved in a relationship with only one.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would love to get invited to the ballpark, let alone swing my bat around hoping to hit a home run...just can't seem to even get a date these days. Lots of texting (from Tinder contacts...nothing from here) but no meetups. I think I'm playing the wrong game. Would love to go out for drinks and a chat with someone who shares my interests...Struck Out Silva
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Missb4u
10 years ago
Silvangold I can't believe that! I only spoke to you briefly and mostly I and others was just blown away at how different you look in person (hot gorgeous kind of different) maybe add a new photo?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lots of great things said on this post.... The whole thing is rushed thats neither a good or a bad thing just a sign of the times.Sometimes the chemsitry is just so good two people just say hello and say ök fuck this...take me to your place!" I meet up with a woman 2 months ago and we had the best time ever.....dinner, drinks, giggles and conversation i enjoyed what she was talking about and she listened to what i was saying and its never a bad thing if a man can make a woman laugh....i do tend to be a funny shithead so some chicks really dig my sense of humor....some don't at all and after 5 minutes of talking to me they have that look on thier face that says "you will never see my panties" When me and the lady got home....we took our time with the sex and cuddled and kissed for a long time before we got naked and it was really fantastic. I attempt to take my time and really with the competition here being fierce and also chubby hairy indian dudes not the top of the pecking order i HAVE to take my time :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' If you truly believe a meet up is naturally going to end with sex then maybe you need to rethink your approach and actually value your body more? My "meet ups" are exactly that....a no pressure zero expectations meet over a drink. Hopefully there'll be a connection, flowing conversation, laughter and smiles. I met someone the other night for the first time....it's been a long time since any man truly turned my head but he did. Was I tempted to sample him? Yes. Did I? Nothing more than a kiss...definitely a good kiss. Intentions are to meet again. (Broad smile) it's anyone's guess what'll happen on that occasion as well. Can I ask why you think you have to fuck on first dates? And if I may....men are hunters, it's the thrill of the chase that stimulates and excites (no disrespect gentlemen and I'm not referring to game playing either; I don't do games) once the meat is dead who wants to play with it? If you aren't genuinely attracted to these men why are you fucking them? If your experiences aren't satisfying you only you can change that. Sex site or not you still choose who share your body with.....if you're going to be an "easy lay" don't be surprised you're being treated the way you are. You get what you give. Not attacking you or attempting to disparage you just wondering what's driving you. ~ On Safari Was that directed at me ?If so, I never said that sex is to be expected on the first date. But it does also happen so it cannot be dismissed from the conversation. That's what's driving me :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You assume that it's only the dick guys that rush so let me tell you, it's the nice "normal" guys who apparently don't get a look in who also rush. By the way we are not just talking about rushing once you get your clothes off. We are talking about rushing things way before we get to that stage. I made no assumptions, so please do not go down this road again. I commented in relation to the thread. I never said it was all or only about having a cock in your face, but it was mentioned in the thread, so why can't I not choose to talk about that point Meeka ? I could literally spell something out that the rest of the world will see for what it is, yet you will always takes issue with what I say. And did you have the conversation with those "nice guys" that then put their cock in your face, or did you say nothing but be more than happy to whinge about it on a forum ? Did you help the problem, or did you contribute to it with silence ? A man will usually respond to what a woman says she likes sexually. If the women doesn't say anything, then it probably explains why she has a cock in her face. And maybe,j ust maybe if men got to have the sex that they want more often, they probably wouldn't be so willing to pull it out so quickly, but that's another argument and I can only explain getting taken out of context by you one point at a time Meeka :)
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Dimeshreds
10 years ago
This is a crock, you say this in a forum to big note yourself but when it comes to the reality of the situation all you want is the cock. I always try to engage first and I get so much grief for it, I would much rather find out if your are crazy before pulling my dick out but when ever I do that it makes the situation awkward and they ask next time just hit it.... To be honest I have not met one single girl on these sites that is a sensible person, there always seems to be something off, I think you all get way too much attention from hot guys and it goes to your heads.... It is not a dating site.....maybe I need to heed my own words there too though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Dimeshreds' It is not a dating site..... According to the homepage it is. Dimeshreds, I think your vision is clouded and you are far too angry to be here. I suggest you take a break for a while, before someone gets hurt.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' Silvangold I can't believe that! I only spoke to you briefly and mostly I and others was just blown away at how different you look in person (hot gorgeous kind of different) maybe add a new photo? Thank you Missb72 for the compliment. Maybe you are right...a profile refresh after a time out is called for. I don't really engage in the forums or webcam. I'm not using the site to its full potential, so I may be missing out on opportunities to meet. Certainly I did have a great night at the meet up. My membership is up for renewal next month, and I'm undecided as to whether I drop off completely and try the more vanilla sites. I'll give a fresh approach and a better attitude a go first and then decide. Thanks again for the kind words, pepped me up at the end of a long day. Silva
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'shuckme2' Aside from a firm desire never to experience the latter, there does appear to be a high number of women that just go for eye (meat?) candy. You mean..... women..... arent allowed to make any form of judgement on what they find visually appealing?!!! They have to treat the world as a level playing firend and get to know everyone for their.... personality?!!! Booooooooo lol DG
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shucksta
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'shuckme2' Aside from a firm desire never to experience the latter, there does appear to be a high number of women that just go for eye (meat?) candy. You mean..... women..... arent allowed to make any form of judgement on what they find visually appealing?!!! They have to treat the world as a level playing firend and get to know everyone for their.... personality?!!! Booooooooo lol DG Indeed not what I stated, but happy to cull the illiterate ones!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are very prickly and take things too personally. So sorry wise one I can't really be bothered arguing over nothing. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
By the way quiteFrankly what's with the don't go down that road again comment? Have I ever spoken to you or am I supposed to know you or something? pS I don't whine about anything on the forum because I haven't done the online dating thing in a few years and I am not on any hook up sites either. I am just an observer and a listener although I has a little experience when I first joined.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I believe Safari's comments were directed to the OP xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well every individual is on here for their own reasons, be it a fast no fuss hook up, or the extreme of searching for that perfect life partner( good luck with that) For myself, At my age with a couple of failed marriages under my belt, I have used this site to meet ppl who, like me, arent lookin for more than fulfilling sexual encounters.Some have been repeats, some one offs.I must admit that the majority have been sexual encounters on the first meet. Call me a slut, but i know what I want and what i am attracted to and what kind of guy( or couple) flick my buttons. After generally havin phone conversations and swapping some pics for a few weeks, if im still turned on by them, then im going to sleep with them. Without sounding coldhearted, the hunt, catch and cat/mouse play is the foreplay for me. And funillu enough, the ones ive connected with, and weve specifically met up just to say hi and have a chat, there hasnt been that sexual spark with most of them and i havent then gone on to meet up again. And Mr Silverangold.... No luck on here hey?? I remember a nice little um "meeting" I had with you and a sweet petite lady friend of yours...several months ago???and I might add, that was a no meeting up first. But as I said, for myself, it work that way. Because its what I want and I enjoy the verbal build up and foreplay for a few weeks before. Just me. Peace out everyone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Note to self... Check spelling before posting. Lol
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Genius_Ironman
10 years ago
<<< Member of Mensa and the Triple Nine Society. Jus sayin,
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RHP User
10 years ago
There you go...much betterer...you look wayyyy younger and very handsome:-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' A man will usually respond to what a woman says she likes sexually. If the women doesn't say anything, then it probably explains why she has a cock in her face. I'm surely taking this out of context, but are you for real?
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why are so many women so damn hypocritical? It's almost out of control. Very, very condescending attitudes too. Some women and men have an ordinary experience with one or more potential partners and go on the attack with the poorly worked out conclusion that most if not all men are lacking finesse and knowhow. As men and womwn, none of us want anything to do with over inflated egos and self gratifying opinions. Too judgmental and consumed by stereotypical attitudes. This is a sex thing though, so debate and opinion variation will be huge - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I don't usually waste my time by saying things that aren't for real, so to answer your question, yes I am for real. Did you notice how I said a man will "usually". I did not say always and every time, but what situations have you been in to prove me wrong ?Have you said to a guy what you really want and expect but then he did the complete opposite ? If he did the opposite, then the blame lies all with him for not listening. But if the communication was never there, then it would explain the bad results. Those bad results may include having a cock shoved in your face. If you said nothing but expected him just to know, then you have to accept some of the blame. Hopefully that should remove any need to be taken out of context, but it is RHP forums so I won't be holding my breath.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you. I wasn't sure and only asked because it was the comment after mine. It's always good to ask rather than assume and take them out of context. If only certain other members could display similar behaviour ?
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Naughtydouble
10 years ago
😊 dick in face guys Dont read forums ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I cant help but wonder at times if the guys that like to take there time, maybe have a nice meal and maybe a drink first. Game of Mini golf, whatever. Get overlooked as they are a little more subtle in their approach. I for one think that often things like mini golf, bowling, whatever can be a great ice breaker and a bit of healthy competition often leads to a bit of healthy flirting. Plus an activity is a great way to force a bit of sexual restraint while you get to know one another.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
My post was directed at the OP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' A man will usually respond to what a woman says she likes sexually. If the women doesn't say anything, then it probably explains why she has a cock in her face Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' Did you notice how I said a man will "usually". I did not say always and every time, but what situations have you been in to prove me wrong ? But if the communication was never there, then it would explain the bad results. Those bad results may include having a cock shoved in your face. If you said nothing but expected him just to know, then you have to accept some of the blame. Yes, I did not notice the "usually". I really don't think that's helping your case though. You're still saying that I haven't specifically told a guy I don't like him doing something, I have to accept some of the blame if he does it without asking. I really don't even know where to start. Comments like this just make the hair stand up on the back of my neck.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
Well hello mr silva... Great photo! 😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
Outing people like that on the forums is seriously uncool in my opinion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Genius is,but are you? xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is not about how much you know about any particular subject,it's about your interest to engage with the other person...... We all have a story,if we are more than half way through our lives there will be many chapters already written...I certainly don't enjoy speed reading,I don't want or need you to give me all your story when we first meet and you certainly won't get all of mine.......A conversation requires you to converse with me not talk at me for two hours.........While I can appreciate that you may feel the need to do this, I am not your therapist,as nice as you may mistakenly think I am my boredom threshold is low and it won't take much time to put me in a coma.....If I make an attempt to make a contribution,don't talk over me or tell me to be quiet as one man did........... and yes I know that you might be nervous and chattering away is how you cope but resist ,ask me questions, not how I like to fuck every which way,but be curious about me..find out about who I am as a person.......for me social intelligence is far more important than whether or not you have a PhD in astro physics although I do find that sexy:-) ....and if you find when we meet that you have no interest in me,then let's keep the conversation brief ...XxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Or what it suppose to mean. Oh well. Sometimes these things are all about the moment and others build up over time. Rarely will I get down and dirty the first time I meet someone but it does happen. Am I a slut? Too right I am. If you can get into my twisted little mind and have me panting after you within an hour, I'm yours to use for a night. It's much more fun when it takes awhile and then you can have your way, a few times.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The brain of course, turn it on and wild things follow, try it guys its worth the effort - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Genius_Ironman' <<< Member of Mensa and the Triple Nine Society. Jus sayin, why have you put up that shower picture? tongue in cheek here honey lol just sayin, you could at least smile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' I certainly don't shove my dick in women's face, unless asked first, but I do know that sometimes I overthink things and jump ahead of myself with my ramblings in my eagerness, to the point where I have been called eccentric and oddly sexual (which is a glass half full compliment I suppose). I also sometimes act as if one size fits all, instead of treating every woman as an individual with their own specific wants, desires and expectations. Sometimes I need a quick smack upside the head to bring me back to reality. smack!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'shuckme2' Aside from a firm desire never to experience the latter, there does appear to be a high number of women that just go for eye (meat?) candy. Are men conditioned to assume/presume too much at that first meet? If women take the time to read through a profile and validations, the superficial ones get weeded out to assure we've settled on mutually compatible expectations before a meet. Some voice contact beforehand as well, to set the tone and expectations. But yes, a gorgeous mind gets me every time. but considering the topic and your user name...ya see where i am going with this
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'bartender67' Lots of great things said on this post.... The whole thing is rushed thats neither a good or a bad thing just a sign of the times.Sometimes the chemsitry is just so good two people just say hello and say ök fuck this...take me to your place!" I meet up with a woman 2 months ago and we had the best time ever.....dinner, drinks, giggles and conversation i enjoyed what she was talking about and she listened to what i was saying and its never a bad thing if a man can make a woman laugh....i do tend to be a funny shithead so some chicks really dig my sense of humor....some don't at all and after 5 minutes of talking to me they have that look on thier face that says "you will never see my panties" When me and the lady got home....we took our time with the sex and cuddled and kissed for a long time before we got naked and it was really fantastic. I attempt to take my time and really with the competition here being fierce and also chubby hairy indian dudes not the top of the pecking order i HAVE to take my time :) I do not know about your fat, hairy indian guys but I know us fat old jelly belly chicks have to hurry up, time is ticking and my blood pressure can only handle so much of all this sex! I think five minutes should do me
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shucksta
10 years ago
Quoting 'inthekiss' Quoting 'shuckme2' Aside from a firm desire never to experience the latter, there does appear to be a high number of women that just go for eye (meat?) candy. Are men conditioned to assume/presume too much at that first meet? If women take the time to read through a profile and validations, the superficial ones get weeded out to assure we've settled on mutually compatible expectations before a meet. Some voice contact beforehand as well, to set the tone and expectations. But yes, a gorgeous mind gets me every time. but considering the topic and your user name...ya see where i am going with this Hmmm, skewered by my penchant for oysters. But that's about it. It's all
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RHP User
10 years ago
whilst those of us on here all seek sexual encounters, otherwise why else would we be here, finding a connection is what usually results in mutual gratification.There is the element of personal chemistry that is often lacking in many hookups and simply getting naughty is often not enough, especially for the female contingent and from conversations with my female friends and former partners it is quite apparent that the emotional element is not to be underestimated.Sometimes we get lucky and to be honest, why should we settle for less than we what we seek?
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RHP User
10 years ago
When it comes to RHP forums, nothing I say will help my case because so many already have their minds made up in advance :) If you did see that I used the word "usually', then you should be able to see how my response makes perfect sense. But going by your original response, you obviously didn't see that word or I wouldn't of had to of pointed it out in my response :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Craigihe' whilst those of us on here all seek sexual encounters, otherwise why else would we be here, finding a connection is what usually results in mutual gratification.There is the element of personal chemistry that is often lacking in many hookups and simply getting naughty is often not enough, especially for the female contingent and from conversations with my female friends and former partners it is quite apparent that the emotional element is not to be underestimated.Sometimes we get lucky and to be honest, why should we settle for less than we what we seek? I think I am about to settle for no sex at all. Retire my sexuality. I wonder how long I can go without sex? I went for three years before I found RHP. Wandered in like Alice in Wonderland. I am sure everyone has an off button. Sometimes we settle because we run out of breath chasing the butterfly of illusion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love that you live in Lambton and have pet goats:-) and yes you are right xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do my best to pleasure and be the perfect company.I expect the same, sadly, most men do not.Women are far better company.love xxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes...........it can become disparaging..........has for me........Although not too............I have met wonderful people here.One has to be brave and forget "normal" Meet HUMANS........with feelings, who actually care.They are your friends.love grant x
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RHP User
10 years ago
However I completely understand and agree. Just recently I had an average hook up with a member. Dont worry im not calling her a dud nor myself. But we had msgd plenty of kinky stuff back n forth for a couple months sorta thing off n on, send a few pics to n fro. Via text msg because ya gotta agree rhp isnt the smoothest messaging system. Anyway just randomly out of the blue this day midayish. She text me and just wanted me to come over and from what I was hearing I couldn't resist. But on meeting in person I just did have any really sort of physical or any mental attractions to her but she was keen. So we did some skin slapping but it just felt so wrong with no mental connection. Is this the same thing but opposite?
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RHP User
10 years ago
When meeting someone new, I normally try to work hard to keep them mentally stimulated, and continue with foreplay until she cannot wait to move on to other things. However, once I have been with the same person for multiple encounters or an extended period of time, I probably forget about that kind of stimulation to get things started and will just rush into things. Not sure if other people do this too, but it is definitely important to try and keep that early effort going long into the relationship. Regardless, if someone can't put in that effort for foreplay and mental stimulation early on, it is unlikely they will do it later on either. It certainly does help things to be more satisfying and enjoyable.
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compressor
10 years ago
take it slow and talk and let the excitement build. also soft touching
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RHP User
7 years ago
It sounds like you have been giving the right chances to the wrong guys :( Find one that wants to know what turns you on and takes the time to make it happen :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm happily married and my hubby is the only one I'm really interested in a conversation with.... Whichever man we meet up with should try to impress with conversation..... He should just throw me down on the bed, whip it out and we'll get down to business!! I don't want nor need to make a connection with anything other than the cock he has!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That oughta fill the inbox for awhile !
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RHP User
7 years ago
Stop you talking with your mouth full.
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share_me_now_69
7 years ago
if we meet a guy for a group session on me, we have already met him ,felt him out and have accepted hes in or out of the next group. when we play its small talk a few drinks and a few laughs then im usually on my knees servicing the guys who have joined us for the night. mouth and pussy full of cock
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sure fast and furious appears the way to go...... to an empty climax..... Intelligent connection is far more sexy than just the wrapping.... No connection.... means no connection for me... Call me picky but I like to enjoy the whole person... not just a few bits..... especially when your talking hours.... not minutes... or gulp seconds😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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