M43
do women find guys with grilfriends more attractive
June 27 2014
Comments
-
RHP User
10 years ago
I will check out guys, period. Irrespective of whom they may be attached to. I challenge anyone to try and stop me! ;) I have never thought an attached guy was more or less attractive based on that information alone, although I sure have seen some rather gorgeous men who are partnered - and I think it's fine to admire them (from afar, using common sense and respect). Even worse when you find both members of the relationship (and the dynamic between them) attractive, but there's another conundrum in itself. :P - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Well firstly they are probably having a look at what your girlfriend is wearing, and secondly you are not giving off that "I am desparate and just want to get my dick wet" vibe that single men often do. So you are instantly more attractive. I hope this helps.
-
RHP User
10 years ago
;)
-
RHP User
10 years ago
But I think a little differently. I tend to feel I shouldn't even be looking if he's with another woman and I'd prefer to see a guy who's not with another woman checking out other women rather than a guy checking out women when he has one out with him. I've been out with a friend and noticed other women looking (but this may have been because he was opening a car door for me).
-
RHP User
10 years ago
If I can see that a guy is with a woman, then I won't check him out at all. I've been around long enough to know that just because a guy has a girlfriend / wife, doesn't automatically mean he's any sort of 'catch' .
-
Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
There are two schools of thought on this. 1. yes, if a guy iOS seen with an attractive women other women subconsciously accept that he is therefore accepted by other women., and 2. His behaviour is generally NOT unattractive... IE, he is not being needy, clingy, couch-baggy, or looking around the room with hungry lustful or desperate eyes. DG
-
RHP User
10 years ago
I have absolutely no problems checking out a man that is with a woman. I have even told friends that their husbands are spunks! Possibly not a very good move. Never thought there was anything wrong with that. You are just looking and appreciating a good looking man, but then again I rarely view men as potential roots as I need more than just a handsome man. Ahem... normally.
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes I think it's not just the look of the man But rather how he is treating the woman that can be attractive. Maybe we are picking up on the sexual tension 😜
-
MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
with a male, and we were asked if we were a couple... It was not until I said "No we're not", that made me think twice. We did not give off any signals, body language or anything like that. We were just two people catching up for drinks and that was it. Maybe because he was handsome/good looking/well groomed/presented well/respectful to me??? Or the other way around....I was just too SMEXY in my cute little classic white dress and heels..... LOL Who bloody knows???? It just goes to show, easy how people in the public can perceive and assume. Foxy
-
MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Oh dear....oopsy......Should read... the other week!!nibblesI was out for drinks and Foxy
-
MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I was out for drinks and NIBBLES the other week! Foxy
-
RHP User
10 years ago
I would say that women feel a bit safer, knowing that with another woman you are more likely not going to follow other women around like a lost puppy. In other words women tend to think yep he must be one of the good guys as he is taken.
-
Hottie1
10 years ago
Going out for drinks and nibbles on nipples Foxy! Mary xx
-
erotictouch4u
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Never thought there was anything wrong with that. You are just looking and appreciating a good looking man Try that if you are a man looking at other women while you are out with one...not received well at all by the woman we are with. ET xox
-
RHP User
10 years ago
Well i have never have any interest in checking other guys when they are out with their partner/s , i dont see the point doin that even if he is hot and bla,bla... first i have respect for the guy's partner and secondly i would be always looking/checking at a single guys , becouse thats how i like them, " single ! "
-
RHP User
10 years ago
She must have low self esteem lol I think it is unreasonable to assume, just because a female looks at you, it is to 'check you out' - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
10 years ago
We're actually checking out the girl by your side and thinking to ourselves, "Bitch! How did she hook up with a hot guy like that and I can't?" ;P If you've got a date, you know at least one person is interested in you. Just enjoy the attention from others, for whatever reason they may be ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
-
MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
This goes to what posters have posted checking other couples/people out.. I know when I am with anyone, I want to be proud being with them - a friend or who ever. I will dress with self pride - I love to put in the effort not just for them but for me as well. It's a feel good feeling. Plus my mum and nanna used to say, always leave the house feeling beautiful. :) So my question is.. When couples/people are out in public with another, do you think one gets embarrassed if one has self-pride and the other has no self- pride or do they just ignore the factor??? ** Example being why I ask the above question** I was having lunch during the week with my boss who's gay, @ David Jones cafe, celebrating a special occasion. we were checking out this couple ...we were both lost for words! We assume they were a couple (body language etc etc) and were both checking out the guy... Oh my lord he was a walking God! Very handsome, beautiful facial features, divine body, clean cut, dressed well and trendy just beautiful and very very eye catching. Loads of self pride - by the way he walked, talked and body language. The woman on the other hand - complete opposite - very very greasy long hair, P/H was poor (could tell by her facial skin, hair and dress sense) He top was a very stained over shirt (like a an over size potato sack)...Just not appealing the eye nor was it attractive to look at - could tell no self-pride in the way she dressed. We were both gobb smacked and questioned each other about as we both felt a little sad for the man in a way as he did look quite a little embarrassed/reserved or something. But when I do see an attractive couple/friends out - I think it's pretty awesome to see them dressed well and with pride. Sometimes I comment how attractive they do look and eye catching, to whom ever I am with. No jealous or anything like that..just an all round positive comment to see people enjoying themselves, smiling and having self pride. I know I'm not being judgmental or shallow, as I have discussed this topic with many of my friends and they too agree with me. Foxy
-
MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I didn't answer your original question - was too busy thinking what others wrote and thought about that. LOL "Do women find guys with girlfriends more attractive" Depends. A) If they are with a girlfriend/partner - not really - I like to check out what they are wearing if anything. B) If they are with "a girlfriend" as in non sexual out for dinner/drinks or something - sort of intimidates me a little if they have tooo many female friends and NO males friends makes me twice - but on the other hand it does not worry me, males can have female friends as non-sexual friends. Foxy
-
RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with Tulips (sorry I don't know how to do the quotey thing nor do I know how to format here properly, sorry:( ) I'm rarely checking the guy out but the "competition" I do think the same way at times, and because of the work I do. I guess I subconsciously cast a professional eye over what the lady is wearing, how she holds and carries herself, how her hair and makeup is styled etc and from a pro point of view I run through my head how I would "improve" on her look And, at times I do think, "Jesus, how did that happen ? , and what is it EXACTLY that guys want/look for ?"
-
Dryphuz
10 years ago
when someone is looking at you and not at the person you're with. And you can tell when they're just glancing and when they're 'looking". It's not that women never look at me when I'm alone, its just that it seems to happen far more if I'm with a female. Even if thats my sister or i just stop to talk to an old friend. And its not that I'm checking out other people while I'm with someone, but if you normally attract little to no attention it becomes really obvious when several pairs of eyes keep turning to you. I still think there's something to it. Assuming I'm as attractive as i think i am (hahahha , i can't even type that with a straight face) then it is possible they were jealous of the girl i was with and was trying to see what it was she had that they didn't... The answer was probably a university degree and her own handcuffs...
-
Seachange
10 years ago
Can't see the correlation. sorry if it does not suit the answer you are looking for.
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 14361 Comments: 120840
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1355 Comments: 14709
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2425 Comments: 17234
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2405 Comments: 12737
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 794 Comments: 5154
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1148 Comments: 6957
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 622 Comments: 2145
-
LGBT
Topics: 156 Comments: 1150
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share