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does size matter.. bbw
October 28 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sitting on the couch with the cheese and crackers! Glass of wine anyone? . In the past these topics have been reduced to two camps. Those that ARE larger women and the people who like them. Those that feel larger people are unhealthy and not attractive at all. . Many years ago my first love critisized my weight. When I pointed out that he was meant to love me for my mind and personality... He looked at me and replied .."it is not your mind and personality I am fucking is it?"- Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden'. Many years ago my first love critisized my weight. When I pointed out that he was meant to love me for my mind and personality... He looked at me and replied .."it is not your mind and personality I am fucking is it?"- Posted from rhpmobile Ouch!!
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
If you identify as a BBW..... that tells me that you think it matters..... and the guys who specifically like BBW think it matters.So.... obviously.... it matters.People like what they like.If they like larger women, they'll want to meet youIf not.... they wont. DG
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden'. Many years ago my first love critisized my weight. When I pointed out that he was meant to love me for my mind and personality... He looked at me and replied .."it is not your mind and personality I am fucking is it?"- Posted from rhpmobile Oh damn !! sorry I shouldn't laugh I know, but that is a pretty funny comeback lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Big or small, who cares!!! I love women who know what they want!!! Confidant enough to be on this site in the first place!!! Big or small I want to pleasure the woman head to toe if we have made a mental connection and both want to meet!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Confident Bbw women are sexy. Different people like different things, but personally I love Bbw women and love meeting them
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are all different with different tastes - we like what we like cause we are individuals.Imagine what the world be like if we all liked the same and looked the same??A little boring and ordinary??Yeeeeeeeeeeeeees people like BBW and people like pocket rockets.I am my own judge and take ownership of my choice of what I like because I just like what I like.Different minds, bodies and souls appeal to me.It's not just "body' I go for or one thing in particular.FOXY*CHEERS handmaiden, pops on lounge with large bottle of champers*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Although I prefer the pocket rocket size girls with smaller boobs I do however find larger girls that take self pride serious rather attractive but we all have our head turners that we go for more then any?? Mines a little natural red head to b honest ;),,
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
As the brain is the best sexual organ then for me size is not an issue, its who the woman is that matters
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does my bum look big in this??? I don't really know darl, does it feel big?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am short and round......yes I am.So for sex only and not for a relationship yes it counts how my sex partner is built.I believe I choose the body size......for me its tallness. I found to have sex with a lean tall man is much more easy then a short male with a tummy.....With a short bellied male, we two are colliding in a way....and he needs a pretty big penis. I know this sounds now wayyy way mean. But thats the truth.For falling in love with someone and being in a partnership its a total different matter....you are not falling for someone because he looks a "good" you falling in love because you like this person and all the other part suddenly dont count.So being on RHP tallness counts for me.... a 1.87 to 1.90 man to my 1.50 short round body is just a sex match made in heaven
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sexiness comes in many shapes and sizes!
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
To all the fence sitters who say size is not important I will ask a question. Soo ..... It is only the mind and personality that attracts you to someone and physical attributes play no role whatsoever in the chemistry ..... seriously !!Everyone, whether like to admit it or not, has preferences be they age, height, personality etc etc and appearance is just another one to add to the chemistry mix and to me this is totally okay. For me I know what I like and am in no way offended if I am not peoples cup of tea either as I know won't be to everyone.There said it ! ~Off to join Handmaiden and Foxy on couch with a few cold beers and snacks~
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madotara69
11 years ago
To ignore those pheromones, Everyone gets horny.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
My theory is...when one is lonely and really horny they will root what ever!Size and who that person is does not come into it.It's not til later when they get over that stage is when one knows what they look, for as they have been with that many body shapes that only a particular size turns them on.People become more fussy..would that be the word??? because they know what they want.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe for some when there horny and lonely but for many if the attraction is not there they have a hand for self help and friends to assist with the lonely times.. I've walk away from attractive lady's based souly on there minds being OMG
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
I would have to agree with that theory somewhat (as mado mentioned) and not getting into gender generalisations here but the hornyness factor does play a part, as does RHP women to men ratios. With the other head taking over the decision making (usually after a few beers) and personal preferences become secondary.
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precious142
11 years ago
Im so with you on your first comment. I have chatted to many guys to whom size doesn't matter, but obviously it does.... I am a size 22 and a work in progress, but after meeting them, don't hear from them again. As you said - no need to be offended if both not suited....just makes the fun a hell of a lot more enjoyable if you are.... Plus add a few bevies....... FOXY - I prefer to call it "selective screwing"- works for me!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Size does matter! We all have different taste buds. I'm a BBW and am very happy and confident in myself. I'm attracted to very tall muscular men and lucky for me there are plenty of those that are really attracted to BBW. For me looks aren't the b end of it all ... Without the personality it can still be a definite no go zone. Just be yourself and enjoy! Sara xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My mum is a little short Italian woman (size 18) and my dad is over six foot tall thin man.The things is tho, even tho they are opposite in body shapes they just love and adore each other.My parents and sex...nah AIN'T GOING THERE!! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love that..."selective screwing"FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love that..."selective screwing"FOXY
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precious142
11 years ago
Thanks...........
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm chubby and I know it. I was once comfy in my own skin but after being married soooo long and now separated, I know longer know what category I fit into. I'm out of practice when it comes to men as all the men I know at my age are married. And let's e honest profiles are hard to go by. How do you know some one has a clear idea before a meet. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The meaning is big beautiful women, that's what I love. In all sizes there is beauty and in all sizes there is unattractive. To me it's there attitude that can make the whole difference, the way they dress the way they act and there sex drive. I mean who really wants to be with someone who has a super model body that dresses in rags, has there head up there ass and is a star fish in bed. I much prefer a big woman that dresses nice with a good attitude and is kinky as fuck in bed.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But that's just my taste. Everyone is different.
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
There is personality, intellect and that sexaul presence. Seriously, there are some girls out there who are so hung up on being fit and trying to be sexy they just dont exude sex. There are also some thinn slobs. There are also larger ladies who are just naturally sexy. Just take people as you find them, play with those you like, don't bother looking for a type.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've always preferred bigger women for as long as I can remember, but I've encountered a few problems meeting BBWs on online dating sites. There is a smaller number compared to average-slim women on sites like RHP, and the BBW/BHM/Body Positive meet ups I've been to haven't been that successful. Heavyset people are marginalized in society, especially sexually, which is a horrible issue. Over time things will change, it's just the waiting and getting the message out that's the frustrating part.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'GMerst25'Heavyset people are marginalized in society, especially sexually, which is a horrible issue. Over time things will change, it's just the waiting and getting the message out that's the frustrating part.I hope you are right there GMerst25! I have a large frame to start with and will never be considered thin even at my skinniest where you could count my ribs. I understand that everyone has their own tastes, and I have no problem with that at all, I know what I like and don't like. I just wish more people would look past the physical features and look within a person to see whether they are nice or not.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hate it when a bbw thinks there not sexy because of there size when the sexiest woman I know is about a size 20. I know don't want a chook carcass, I want the full bird. I don't mean to offend thin women because that's there thing but I love curves. Size 12 and up for me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sadly bbwdream some of us get more negativity from others repeatedly, it starts to take some effect on us even if we don't want it to.
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