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does winking at a girl work on any level?
November 24 2014
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Missb4u
10 years ago
cheeky and playful, but read the situation right as women can be fickle creatures and what one likes one doesn't. I love a cheeky wink if the banter is there and a sexy smile, it can be flattering. Best one ever was when I was busted checking a guy out and by the time I drew my gaze up to his face he was watching me and winked with a big grin... very hot. But I also love a good wolf whistle
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's a difference between a toothless old man and a respectable looking dude IF the woman thinks it's disrespectful ??? I'd doubt it, it that context.... However, why not just try winking at a woman you find attractive and see how she interprets it herself?? Or.... Are you just scared?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
so sexy getting a wink or a whistle, although it has been a while and I am not sure if guys are allowed to do that anymore so I guess you have to take the risk as to whether it is going to be received well or not.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I sit at the bar.. and IF I catch the eye of a lady.. I Simply...Lick my eyebrows.... AFTER her jaw has dropped..and she looks at me again, I "Wink" then... This is the ONLY way I have EVER had any success with a wink.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So very subtle yet so very very sexy indeed
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will wink at you, cause there is cum in my eye! Ohhh sorry just put my glasses on...oh right it's a wink? Well yes that's a sexy thing , I like a erm wink. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Read the post and had to laugh. Of course it works, and of course it does not work. There is not one solution fits all. I wink all the time, more of a nervous twitch. A beautiful woman looks my way, wink wink can't help my self and I am constantly fighting them off. Dude all you need is confidence, when you have that, you can wink, stick your tongue out, or belch out "I want you baby." Its not what you do, its about confidence, knowing how to read another person, and timing.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I like cheeky, so I don't mind a wink, followed by a cheeky grin.....😜
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6exxy
10 years ago
Cavey you devil lol Yes a good wink works 😀 with a cheeky smile.
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kristenswinger1
10 years ago
I love a good "panty wetting wink", this has been lost over the years! My man makes me weak at the knees every time he winks at me...... Bring it back boys! X
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Seachange
10 years ago
Depends on the situation. but definitely more subtle and more interesting than the 'Oi'! Lol How sexy is that when a well presented man catches your attention from across the room, gives you a sexy slight - even cheeky - smile and then followed by a wink.... hmmmm.... let the conversation begin.
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inspirit
10 years ago
I have had a guy who works for a company we outsource our IT to, wink at me a few times when I have passed him. I just smiled back with a wrk smile. He is quite cute tho and single. Maybe he is on RHP and seen me. How do you respond to a wink. What is the gesture. Political Correctness does my head in. Being in the real world does my head in. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Why wink? What are you trying to say? "Hi?" So say HI! You've already caught eye contact so why wink when you can smile. Ditch the wink from your body language. Its cheesy and inappropriate to someone you dont know, and it doesnt say anything good. A smile is far more engaging, and can be used as an indicator of acceptance to approach.... and talk. A smile and a chat will get far further than any wink ever will.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like the wink it's cool but the line between cool and sleazy is very very fine. God I wouldn't wolf whistle these days, tacky, and risky, see the harassment thread !
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I have had a guy who works for a company we outsource our IT to, wink at me a few times when I have passed him. I just smiled back with a wrk smile. He is quite cute tho and single. Maybe he is on RHP and seen me. How do you respond to a wink. What is the gesture. Political Correctness does my head in. Being in the real world does my head in. - Posted from rhpmobile Lol. Just do what you do best, as you did. Even if he is not on rhp, obviously you ane an attractive woman to get his attention. Enjoy. Else, grab the cables he has and tie him up on your office chair and do you wicked ways with him. Stuff the PC acts before you lose your mojo. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You could give him the bird and see if he sits on it :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I have had a guy who works for a company we outsource our IT to, wink at me a few times when I have passed him. I just smiled back with a wrk smile. He is quite cute tho and single. Maybe he is on RHP and seen me. How do you respond to a wink. What is the gesture. Political Correctness does my head in. Being in the real world does my head in. - Posted from rhpmobile winking 101. When you ask a man if he is married and he is up to his balls inside you, and he winks and says no. You know he has been married for 25 years and has 14 children, a hire purchase and gets more sex at home than hot meals, but he is sick of the same old meal. If a man winks at you while playing poker, you can bet your life your chips are going to be pillaged. If a man winks at you at work, it means he wants to meet you over at donga five in the dead of night so he can feed you tube steak while your pressed up against said dongers wall. if a man winks at you when you say, do you practice safe sex and is that condom still on? then you know that you will get some disease you cannot spell that has no known cure except setting fire to your pink bits, or you need to apply to Centrelink for the single parent benefit. If a man winks at you when at a pub, as you walk past him, it means your skirt is tucked up into those bright yellow pants you swore you would never wear again, and you thought what the heck nobody will be lifting my skirt anyway. If a man winks at you on a construction site( do not respond) I did this once and waved and smiled. He said not you, you old bag I am winking to the woman behind you. He now cant wink his , black eyes are to swollen shut If a man winks at you over dinner, and you cooked it means you never got that Jamie Oliver chicken paprika quiet right. For men. If a woman winks at you, drop your pants and insert cock immediately.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Last year I jumped on a up elevator and locked eyes with one of 2 girls coming down . The closer we became the stronger the eye contact then finally the nice smile just as we were about to pass . Without thinking ' I winked and her big smile beamed right back. Just like you females' we men also enjoy a little innocent flirting .. You just have to be smart enough to choose the right person.. If the vibes are bad' it just wouldnt happen.. Once I get to know someone and feel comfortable' I love engaging in a conversation then halfway through what they are saying ' I wink ? This ever fails to bring a smile and causing them to lose track of what they were saying... I usually get a playful hit but never have I had a negative reaction..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quote .. Miischeiviouslad Ditch the wink from your body language. Its cheesy and inappropriate to someone you dont know, and it doesnt say anything good. If done at the appropriate time its most welcomed... shhhee.. Talk about a kill joy ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
its true, i guess its all in the confidence. But good to know you can get away with a cheecky wink without offending anyone
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can wink at me with an eye full of cum anytime ha ha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'illcoveryourface' You can wink at me with an eye full of cum anytime ha ha - Posted from rhpmobile but then I got something in my eye at the airport. I think it was a fifo worker, it was just a shower of cum and all I could see was a flash of fluro those fifo guys are tricky lil fellas.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The wink is such a sleazy thing to do ! My thoughts
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP, when I decided to wink at a girl, I don't do it to see if "it works". Personally I do it because I've noticed her, and it's like paying her a compliment. Mostly though if I'm just walking past though, I won't wink, usually just a nice big smile. But either way, it's just about trying to make her feel good. If she's not into me, I've got no problem with that. I meant nothing sinister or ulterior motive wise when I winked/smiled at her to start with, so if she gets the shits with that, that's her choice. But I guess there's a time and place, and having privy to the insight into how vulnerable women can sometimes feel, when I'm heading down the elevator in my track pants and t-shirt after I've just woken up looking dero as, I'm hardly going to make a flirt if we're the only 2 people in there. Last thing I'd want to do is make a girl feel unsafe or cornered. So usually in the shopping mall or walking past on the street I find the most non-threatening, or walking past in the coffee queue. In my 20's though, I suffered from a large lack of confidence in the women department, and had the self belief that women just weren't into me, so I never used to do this. Let alone thinking about talking to a girl that might actually smile/wink back.
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inspirit
10 years ago
He will be in again this week - I might just wink back........ Will keep you posted hehe
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me' Quote .. Miischeiviouslad Ditch the wink from your body language. Its cheesy and inappropriate to someone you dont know, and it doesnt say anything good. If done at the appropriate time its most welcomed... shhhee.. Talk about a kill joy ? Wink at all the people you like..... .......I'll be the one talking to them instead. " "
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Why wink? What are you trying to say? "Hi?" So say HI! You've already caught eye contact so why wink when you can smile. Ditch the wink from your body language. Its cheesy and inappropriate to someone you dont know, and it doesnt say anything good. A smile is far more engaging, and can be used as an indicator of acceptance to approach.... and talk. A smile and a chat will get far further than any wink ever will. It seems you don't know the power of a well timed wink. Maybe you should study up on this time proven technique?
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Did this to a guy on a train a while back, he smiled but looked completely uncomfortable at having been found attractive. He practically crawled over top of people in haste to get out at his stop......maybe I should've remembered to put my dentures in that morning? 😇 Indy the Gummy Lioness
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Who gives good wink, nearly as much as one who gives good nod but nowhere near as much as one who follows through with engaging, stimulating and witty conversation.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Winking is like a hangover from cheesy 70's ad campaigns to sell chicken, or tickets to the cricket lol To a stranger..... never. To someone you already know, as... say... acknowledgement that "I feel the pain you are enduring talking to that dork"..... yes... it can be fun and funny.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like all teaching, or learning those that cant teach those that cant do. The general view from what I can see is that women are telling you what they like. One simple sample of what women want, I can see the smart men are taking note.
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RHP User
10 years ago
on that second part. you get my drift
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Winking is like a hangover from cheesy 70's ad campaigns to sell chicken, or tickets to the cricket lol To a stranger..... never. To someone you already know, as... say... acknowledgement that "I feel the pain you are enduring talking to that dork"..... yes... it can be fun and funny. Seriously? that is never funny unless your in high school.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Seriously. Its about rapport. No rapport... and a wink is creepy and 'says' nothing. No great speech ever started with a wink.None.Ever. So while others are happy to wink from across the room.... ...... I'll be the one approaching with a smile and both eyes open, and engaging her in conversation... ... leaving the winker in the corner to go home wondering what might have been if only he kept both eyes open, on her, and brought them and their mouth closer to actually say something.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Miranda Kerr started it , now look at them... Nearly all models give that cheeky wink on the turn which is much much more refreshing compared to that old straight face death stare. .?
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RHP User
10 years ago
let alone a wink in real time, little rock. Move on. There are some that are not wrapped up in their own little world. They are the diamonds, rest of them are the coal, pick of the rest are coking quality : ).
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RHP User
10 years ago
A nod is as good as a wink..Why not smile and nod as you walk past if you feel silly winking...accosting women on the street.. well that's a whole other thread. xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
seems the stable factor in any approach be it a wink, a smile or a nod but I feel each of these gives a different vibe about the person. A wink seems a little cheeky, a smile seems warm and a nod is direct but without the eye contact, none of them mean anything. I love a good set of bedroom eyes, take me now.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The way some ppl are talking here is as if a guy walks around winking at every girl that walks by.. WRONG... Winking is a selective thing and it goes hand in hand with the smile and the nod if the chemistry is right.. Horses for courses. When the occasional opportunity arises and I wink , it was because something she gave off triggered it. But then again' I could have just as easy gave her a nod or smile.. Depending on where or when it could develop into a chat but in most instances ' its just something that happens at the time.. and everyone goes merrily about what they were doing. Seems most ladies here are of the same opinion... much to the disgust of one person who stops everyone and wants to chat ? sheee..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_me'Seems most ladies here are of the same opinion... much to the disgust of one person who stops everyone and wants to chat ? sheee.. That could be seen as harassment !
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
That itch under your skin.... Jay..... is me. BAHAHAHAHAHA Drop the wink..... you should just.... suck their fingers and grab their crotch instead... I guess.
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RHP User
10 years ago
nudge,nudge,say no more..Eric Idle...Monty. Python. :-) xxGreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have been called a right lil winker Nice non intrusive way to catch a pretty ladies attention , sort of social foreplay - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Seriously. Its about rapport. No rapport... and a wink is creepy and 'says' nothing. No great speech ever started with a wink.None.Ever. So while others are happy to wink from across the room.... ...... I'll be the one approaching with a smile and both eyes open, and engaging her in conversation... ... leaving the winker in the corner to go home wondering what might have been if only he kept both eyes open, on her, and brought them and their mouth closer to actually say something. I am talking and your in the corner listening, and whimpering and promising not to voice your opinions every again when adults are talking. Now go to Meekas room and ask for strap on number five.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love watching a guy wank. Wait... No, that's right.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love flirting, and when I was younger wouldnt think twice about winking at a man who took my eye. Years ago I was out with my friends one evening and spotted a gorgeous blonde guy. We exchanged a few sultry looks and then he winked at me. As we were leaving I gave his bum a cheeky grope. We ended up going out together for a few months. If I winked at a hot guy now he would probably run for his life. Ah, the good old days.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I love flirting, and when I was younger wouldnt think twice about winking at a man who took my eye. Years ago I was out with my friends one evening and spotted a gorgeous blonde guy. We exchanged a few sultry looks and then he winked at me. As we were leaving I gave his bum a cheeky grope. We ended up going out together for a few months. If I winked at a hot guy now he would probably run for his life. Ah, the good old days....... If your kneeling down and his cock was in your mouth and you I think he might just right back at ya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dare ya, This weekend.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And then give me a big grin !!! Better still , if he walks up to me and we begin chatting !!! You never know what may develop, out of such a harmless "wink" !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
With which eye?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im being very social this weekend, a music festival on Saturday and St Andrews celebrations on Sunday, so I shall blink a few winks and let you know my success rate. The present forecast is between zero and five per cent, watch this space
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RHP User
10 years ago
You would need to bigger , uglier , stronger to get under my skin..lol. . Easily brushed , don't listen to me, listen to what the ladies are trying so hard to tell you... Sheeee
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is a wink, do right, is a non intrusive way to say that you've noticed them. I use it when I've noticed them overtly checking me out, or they've done something embarrassing that I noticed and they were looking around to see it anybody saw. If I get the right response, a flush of embarrassment or cheeky smile, I will go and say hi shortly after. I now have an opening line.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Don't get me wrong... I know how people use a wink... and thats their choice as much as it is mine not to. But if the point is to acknowledge someone.... you've got that with eye contact.......then what do you hope to achieve?! If you smile..... as is socially agreeable to the vast majority of nice people on this planet..... and they maintain eye contact, or smile back.... then you've determined that theyre at least friendly enough to engage in conversation and learn about them.... just as you said. And thats why you're looking at them in the first place....... right!! Im simply saying that a wink is an unnecessary... and potentially offputting move... when you already have eye contact anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
She didn't realise cum gets ejected at 80km/h and she's now having trouble seeing lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And you reckon i talk shit !! Keep up the good work champ ! As i acknowledge with the lowering of my right eye lid commonly refered too as a Fucking Winker !
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I'm gonna wink in that very scenario very soon and see if he winks back😳 lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its what happens after the wink.......do you follow up with a conversation or just turn an d leave - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like winks, they're bold and cheeky and they usually make me smile. As long as they're not like the wink Tony Abbott gave during that radio interview where he was talking to a female phone sex operator.That was vile, in my opinion.
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JessicaRabbit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Why wink? What are you trying to say? "Hi?" So say HI! You've already caught eye contact so why wink when you can smile. Ditch the wink from your body language. Its cheesy and inappropriate to someone you dont know, and it doesnt say anything good. A smile is far more engaging, and can be used as an indicator of acceptance to approach.... and talk. A smile and a chat will get far further than any wink ever will. Not sure why everyone is labelling you a kill joy, I find winks just creepy to be honest. Smile is so much nicer. Jess xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'pyrogirl1969' Its what happens after the wink.......do you follow up with a conversation or just turn an d leave If a guy winked at me and left, I'd certainly be more likely to remember him the next time I saw him.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did I dream this or was it real? Guy smiles, girl not wanting to be rude, smiles back, guy walks over starts to talk. Blindman over hears conversation and interrupts, "This sounds most interesting." and drops a quick little wink at girl, girl flashes a brief but unmistakable smile followed by pursed lips. Guy looks Blindman up and down completely unaware what just happened then returns to his talking. Blindman returns to his game of pool, needs to sink the black in about 2 minuets. The wink is part of flirting, taken on its own its useless.
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RHP User
10 years ago
pretty much the best response to a sexy wink to signal that the interest is mutual...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone to their own, but I find it hard to believe any woman wouldn't like a cheeky little wink coming from someone you were attracted to ? I said all along , I would only wink because a signal she gave off warranted it. But then again, I'm a fairly playful guy anyway. IF ' I ever got a negative response , I'd think twice , but so far it's always been positive....
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RHP User
10 years ago
timed right from guys I find attractive could make me blush *massively* Or it could be 'creepy', 'meh', or 'do you have something in your eye?' type of scenarios...
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RHP User
10 years ago
but only if the guy is cute and under 30 ;)
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chevtrek
10 years ago
They work for me 8 out of 10the good old wink.Second is a big cheeky smile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well it seams that the wink may work as a pre flirt warm up as many women have expressed that if the wink comes from the right sort ( what ever that defines is up to the individual ) then they will reply in a favorable way by either blushing, smiling, or running over to pour water in your eye to get the sand out So the wink sorts out your chances, wink and she blushes, odds are good, wink and she shows disgust or indifference, odds are low. In terms of effort against prospective returns, the wink rates very well, even for us old uglies the return is well worth the almost zero effort and time required to execute, when you compare the wink against the time and effort of the chat up you are miles ahead. Though the wink is in its self no garentee of a home run, the same is true for the chat up. People have usually subconsciously decided whether you are worth their interest in about the same amount of time as it takes to wink. so why waste valuable time with the dead end chat up when you could be talking to someone more suited to your desire to notch the bed post. So in conclusion to this thread, my deduction is that the wink works very well at sorting the good from the bad, providing instant feedback and making it easy to avoid the, "You don't have a chance at all, they are not in your league" time wasters. More over the wink, unlike the smile and the chat, has no ambiguity over its implied meaning. "I am horny and need some, give me some sugar baby." If you are worried that the recipient of the wink might think you are creepy and will destroy any chances you might have, you are just fooling your self. If she thinks you are creepy for winking, she is pretty much going to think you are creepy for any type of approach you make, you can not reduce a zero chance. We all know that people who judge you on just your looks are shallow and ugly on the inside and will give you no joy despite their drop dead perfect 10 dreamy sexy outside bits, they should be avoided. So go out and wink like there is no tomorrow, there is nothing to lose, and it will only increase your odds of getting to home base, after all that's all that matters.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'How do you respond to a wink. - Posted from rhpmobile Ask him if he's got grit in his eye?
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