dress up style and etiquette going to a swingers party

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  You should wear what turns you on and makes you feel your best. Flats or thigh highs... slacks or latex, it’s really up to you. You’ll attract attention when you feel comfortable and sexy. Themed events go off the best when all attendees put in effort to the dress code for that night. I don’t think latex looks slutty, I thinks it’s powerful and erotic. It’s in the eye of the beholder. I don’t quite understand the last line of your comment, hopefully I’m on the right path here... turn up expecting nothing, have fun and find your relaxed space wherever that may be. Be verbal in your approach to men. Invite them, ask (or direct?) prior to play or whilst you are engaged. Be prepared for rejection. Be clear in what you want if you have a specific fantasy you are trying to enact. Always be direct if you don’t know your playmates. Don’t skirt yes/no answers unless you are willing to roll the dice on how playmates will interact with you. I hope this is useful? Cheers, L_D. ✌🏼 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  6 years ago

  Do you mean hover over / around your female partner ? She should always be the one who decides who is going to hover over and play with her, or not. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Freaky_Fun

  6 years ago

  Well firstly find out if there's a theme which can make it easier to decide. Secondly, wear what you feel comfortable and sexy in. If you feel good in latex, go for it. Myself, l like getting dressed up in thigh high boots and body stockings. I'm not going to a Tuppaware party and l can't exactly wear that to a P&C meeting 😂. As for whether other people have a bad opinion. Not my problem. At what point do you let them play. You don't. It's totally up to you what and who you do. You can say no at any time. There are strict rules that everyone gets told. You don't have to play at all if you don't want to. I often go and not play, l enjoy the social side and catching up with friends. Lastly, you have each other. Have fun. And don't overthink it. FF ❤️

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  At a BDSM event there was a couple in attendance, she was wearing a plain red dress that wouldn't look out of place in the supermarket aisle. Blinked and it was gone as she grabbed the cane to deal with her hubby on the cross. Underneath a full leather corset and leather suspenders. Wow. Wear whatever. Usually doesnt stay on long.

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  Bazingal

  6 years ago

  Wear what you're comfortable in and play with who you want to play with. Don't stress and enjoy yourself :)

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Sluttiness is the name of the game. What every makes you feel sexy.

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  JohnAnn2227

  6 years ago

  Hi, If we are going to a swing club I usually wear a sexy low cut, short dress with killer heels (knickers are optional). The dress wouldn't be one I would wear locally to a restaurant where we could run into people we know. John wears dress jeans , shirt and leather shoes.If it a house party of someone we know though, I strip down to lingerie and it is usually bra, g-string , stockings and suspender belt or baby dolls (all with heels). John wears boxers that I have bought him a size too small.End of the day wear what you are comfortable with. If this is your first time swinging you will be nervous enough without also pushing your boundaries of what you are comfortable wearing. Good luck and enjoy!

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