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embarassing bodies

July 19 2013

I simply can't make sense of why anyone would go on international television and display themselves, their bits and their defects so graphically. There's not enough money in the world to convince me to do such a thing!   But, it makes me wonder. How many times are people deeply insecure about a physical flaw that they assume a lover could never accept, and yet it turns out their lover doesn't even blink an eye about it? Or even better, their lover understands how much it troubles them and goes out of their way to reassure them, show tenderness and loving compassion?   Has someone done that for you? Or have you maybe done that for someone? How much of a difference did it make to give or receive such acceptance and kindness? Did it put the insecurity to rest for good?

Comments

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Sometimes it is a feeling that needs to be expressed. A mother is absolutely beautiful and it is a gift a man has for to love her, if she loves him back it is blinding. There is nothing more attractive than that. Well that is what I feel anyway,but I feel proud to see things just perfect.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have so many, sometimes it limits my sex adventures way too much. Then I think to myself, f#k it, if they don't like they can lump it. Sometimes I even get compliments!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I dated a guy who had been in one of the bars hit by the Bali bombings, and his back and shoulder were covered in severe burn scars. He felt self-conscious about them, while I thought they were indredibly sexy.     I'm not sure it put his insecurity to rest though, as we were only together for two months.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    In return for showing there condition they get some or all there medical free. We are adults and these things are a fact of life so to see it is knowledge. Good on them for the courage

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I went out with a guy for a couple of years. He was so lovely but I did notice that after a that after a while together that I had not ever seen his bare feet. I asked him about it and he avoided answering which of course made me more curious. I noticed that we never showered together. He never took his socks of in front of me (I just thought he was a cold fish) and he never wanted to go to the beach with me. Turns out he had webbed toes and was completely embarrassed by it. I really wish that he believed me when I said it was no big deal to me but it was obviously a big deal to him. We've all got some sort of weird shit going on. It how we perceive them in ourselves that's the catch. It's not up to someone else to comfort of reassure us, that's our job to accept our weird shit and either get it sorted or move along.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's coming to Oz. http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/entertainment/sydney-confidential/embarrassing-bodies-australia-doctors-have-seen-it-all/story-fni0cvc9-1226650405229

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for posting that, I was scratching my head about what this thread was in relation to....I'll check it out and return :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It amazes me that they are too self conscious/scared/embarrassed to go to a local Dr, but as the op stated they show themselves off on tv lol. Silly bloody poms... And I guess soon to be silly bloody Aussies My ex gf was told from an early age she was the pretty one, and treated as such, with the age difference, I always tried to reinforce that her inner beauty as being more important to me. Hp xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Embarrasing Bodies is an English show. The first time I put it on I was looking straight in the eye of an old lady's prolapsed arse. It is often hard core and you would not believe the people that go on the show.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It sounds like my kinda show lol. But in all honesty, I'm somewhat guilty of being like some of these people, but I wouldn't say I was embarrassed at all. I'd say for a long time I've been in denial actually. That was, until I met some really good people, and have recently been able to find a major problem with me. $2500 later and that problem is slowly being corrected. It's not a problem with my looks though, and if only it was accompanied by something physical then perhaps it could've been detected earlier. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I'm so glad they're coming to Australia!!! Maybe they'll help me with my penis reduction, being a cross dressing little person with an 18" sword can really intimidate people!! I was thinking about trying to have it reduced to 12" and see if I could donate the other 6"'s to someone in need.....yes it's used BUT look at the experience it's had.... ;-D. I love embarassing bodies and I think it's great those people can help others out through awareness and education.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Television taking advantage of Fat people for ratings? Well I never!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    *puts her Dr role play hat on*I'll write you a referral to attend the next bi orgy. There will be several gentlemen who won't mind an inch about the size of your strap on.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I'm serious!!! It's NOT A STRAPON it's REAL!!!! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am thinking of going on the show. It's embarrassing for all the real cocks around me, they just can't keep up with my constant hard on. Don't wish to brag, but baby I can fuck all night. Thought I might head over and give those Embarrassing Body doctors something real to talk about. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meekas_Strapon'I am thinking of going on the show. It's embarrassing for all the real cocks around me, they just can't keep up with my constant hard on. Don't wish to brag, but baby I can fuck all night. Thought I might head over and give those Embarrassing Body doctors something real to talk about. ;-) I love that your profile lists you as "Attached". If you go on the show, can you please fuck that awful blond right out of Dr Christian's hair please?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'Meekas_Strapon'I am thinking of going on the show. It's embarrassing for all the real cocks around me, they just can't keep up with my constant hard on. Don't wish to brag, but baby I can fuck all night. Thought I might head over and give those Embarrassing Body doctors something real to talk about. ;-) I love that your profile lists you as "Attached".   If you go on the show, can you please fuck that awful blond right out of Dr Christian's hair please? lol yes its like he should be on Baywatch.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes I am attached but we are in an open relationship. We work better as a team as I find I am useless without her. ;-) I do so enjoy rooting blonde men. They squeal like little girls. So delicious. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Embarrasing Bodies is an English show. The first time I put it on I was looking straight in the eye of an old lady's prolapsed arse. Somewhere out there is a strap-on joke waiting to be made.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I lost a huge amount of weight several years back. I actually didn't have sex for 4 years because I was so self-conscious. It took spending time with naturist friends to change my thinking. Prior to the weight loss, they were pure perfection: huge, extra perky and perfectly shaped. Now, they lack volume and I'm not a fan, but as long as they're healthy, I grudgingly accept them and am happy to trade being the girl with the perfect rack with being the lady with the nice legs, ass, abs and arms.