endowment & confidence

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I have yet to meet a man who is happy with the size of his penis. Many want more. Some (very few) would actually like less. Do not let it affect your confidence levels as there is a nut for every shell. The average size is 5 to 6 inches and this is about what the average woman can comfortably handle. I am a self confessed size queen. I am built to handle the big boys with a cervix that is very very far back. So far that the doctor has difficulties locating it during internal examinations. My current partner is less than well endowed but manages to keep me completley satisfied. It has nothing what so ever to do with the size of the penis. It is the man attached that is important. Do not spend one more moment lamenting your lack of size.......... . go forth and fornicate young man! . You will eventually find that one woman who thinks yours is the purrrrfect size!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  "Of course I won't laugh," said the Nurse to the patient, "I'm a professional. In over twenty years I've never laughed at a patient." "Okay then," said Bob, and he proceeded to drop his trousers, revealing the smallest adult male organ the Nurse had ever seen in her life. In length and width it was almost identical to a AAA battery. Unable to control herself, the Nurse tried to stop a giggle, but it just came out. And then she started laughing at the fact that she was laughing. Feeling very badly that she had laughed at the man's private part, she composed herself as well as she could. "I am so sorry," she said, "I don't know what came over me. On my honour as a Nurse and a lady, I promise that it won't happen again. Now, tell me, what seems to be the problem?" "It's swollen," Bob replied. She ran out of the room. If that’s no help... check out the other posts as these type of questions must be fossils by now, maybe a better way to have put this is.....I have a x size penis would any of you women be interested if all my other boxes are ticked?! Confidence in the mind is far better than your bodies shape, form, colour, size get that part right and you should be ok at least for that night any way. Not too cocky though...pun intended!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hon,Its the connection and physical attraction with a guy that matters ....not his penis size.Penis's come in all different shapes and sizes and you should be proud no matter what size yours is.Its all about how you use it during a sexual encounter that matters.A woman who likes you for yourself and who you are wont care what size your penis is.If you read through the forums there are plenty from women who have dated guys with large cocks and have not been satisfied.......so it seems it is better to be smaller that gigantic.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I just clicked your profile mate and saw you'd listed 5"-6" and average width. That's not small, that's bang on average. In our culture we sometimes use "average" as a euphemism for "not very good". But that's not what it means mathematically. Google a picture of a "Bell curve". It means that you're in the middle with the majority of other men. Most of the men you know are in that middle region too, as well as most of the men you see walking around in public. Some are bigger, some are smaller, but there are more men with bits aroundabout your size than there are people much bigger and people much smaller combined.   If that was too small for most women that would mean the MAJORITY of men in society weren't good enough. Which is nonsense because society isn't made up of a majority of men sidelined, awkwardly shifting their feet, while men with 8 and 9 inch monsters had lines stretching to the horizon of all the women just waiting to have a satisfactorily sized prick. That obviously isn't the case. Yes, there are a few profiles on RHP specifying that they only want cocks of a certain size or width. But they're the minority of the profiles. As you'll see in the many threads on cock size the majority of women DON'T want a large cock as it can hurt, and they definitely don't let them near their backdoors. Even guys who are under 5", and are therefore below the average, have an angle in that they could be popping bottom cherries left right and centre with their unintimidating equipment. If I had one of them that'd be how I sold it and would milk it for all it was worth.   But as it happens, like the majority of men, I'm around a similar size and length to you. I don't have a problem finding condoms that fit and I've never had a woman say "stop, you're hurting me" or "you're not putting that anywhere near me." I get to enjoy the sensation of being completely engulfed. Ask men with 7"+ if they can say the same thing and whether a large cock is all it's cracked up to be when it comes to confidence.   And, like you've already figured out, confidence is way more important. Unless you have that you're not going to get "lucky", even if you were hung like a barnyard animal. In almost every situation women are going to see the rest of you before they see your equipment, and by then they're going to be into you as you are enough not to care.   Final bit of advice: if you feel small because you're comparing yourself to guys in porn, don't. Those guys do porn because they're not much good at anything else, their large cocks and washboard chests are their best assets. As for the women who are subjected to them, I feel sorry for them. They're doing it for the money. I'll bet few if any of those scenes actually feel good to the poor things. Every time you hear, "Oooh, you're so big, oh! oh! oh!" have in the back of your mind that she's acting. She's probably thinking "Ouch. Ouch. Ouch. Slow the hell down you big ape. When will this be over?" A lot of their facial expressions seem to say that even if their unconvincing dialogue says another. So you probably don't have a promising future as a porn star, but that's a good thing...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The men with above average penis size place the on display so often that it becomes average in our minds. Women using this site to fullfill fantasies rather than search for a mate will place penis size higher in priority on their list of criteria than they normally would. Add this to the sheer volume of men competing for attention and the sparsity of flirts and messages from the justifiably selective ladies can suck the life out of you if you let it. The truth is, there is just as much variety in women's gentitalia. Some find it painful to accomodate a large penis. In the Karma Sutra it says that there is no such thing as too big or too small just mismatched.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  After an extensive empirical study of many,many penises of all shapes and sizes, my finding is this, the average penis of a caucasian man is five to six inches. Some women prefer larger than average,for all sorts of reasons,a longer and or wider vagina than normal, or just because they can. Most women OP, are more interested in what is on the other end of a dick.Are you an attractive man,not just physically but as they say,the whole package? Women love men who pay attention, listen to what we say,and who genuinely want to please us.x Hugs H PS.A confident man is a sexy man.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Lots of women do not care one bit about penis size !! Some prefer smaller and don't like big ! I like big cocks, visually and I like the feeling of being full and stretched ! I would never NOT marry a man based on his cock , but I do choose play mates on their size. I am an exception , most women just like you to be into them , attentive and a sensual lover . Nothing is more attractive than confidence - some like big , some like small , find someone who fits you and all is good :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  so can someone tell me the size of that sucker???   i figure if it makes me gag then its plenty big enough   but if you know how to use your tongue, fingers and anything else you can get your hands on....then it doesnt matter   so forget about the size and concentrate on other things that make sex great'   Hugs roxxy

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  13 years ago

  On here, where it's usually stated up front what your stats are, and as women have the pick - I usually go for the thicker guys. But if I find a guy's profile really intriguing and interesting, I'll message/flirt and see where it goes irrespective of size. I've actually chatted with some real honeys from RHP (not knowing their size) and find myself really taken by them. A lot of sexual attraction happens in the mind, long before you get your cock out.In real life (where there usually aren't stats sheets or dick pics); I go for guys who are smart, fun and make me laugh. Then it's like a lucky dip when you get their pants off but the surprise is a nice thing.I dated this guy once who had a 'dick stretching' contraption (for want of a better term), and I thought it was the stupidest thing ever. He was completely average/normal size and knew how to use it VERY well. He stopped using the stretching thing after a while but I remember thinking that was a sign he was hung up on size and perhaps hadn't had good feedback in the past, which is a total shame because he was a good lover.

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' I am an exception , most women just like you to be into them , attentive and a sensual lover . Nothing is more attractive than confidence - some like big , some like small , find someone who fits you and all is good :) This is brilliant, succinct advice DeliciousCB. Having an average cock you're not going to be recruited by couples looking for that "big cock" experience, or the women who are out and out size queens, but it still leaves some variety I think.If you can use it, it doesn't matter. I actually have found, to my surprise, that there's something about the way a smaller cock (5") hits the wall of my vagina that is absolutely mind-blowing. Of course, as said above, pretty much every guy is dissatisfied with his cock. Just like pretty much everyone else is dissatisfied with some part of their body. Work your good features to your advantage and the rest doesn't even get noticed. :)

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'slippery_halo' I just clicked your profile mate and saw you'd listed 5"-6" and average width. That's not small, that's bang on average. In our culture we sometimes use "average" as a euphemism for "not very good". But that's not what it means mathematically. Google a picture of a "Bell curve". It means that you're in the middle with the majority of other men. Most of the men you know are in that middle region too, as well as most of the men you see walking around in public. Some are bigger, some are smaller, but there are more men with bits aroundabout your size than there are people much bigger and people much smaller combined.   If that was too small for most women that would mean the MAJORITY of men in society weren't good enough. Which is nonsense because society isn't made up of a majority of men sidelined, awkwardly shifting their feet, while men with 8 and 9 inch monsters had lines stretching to the horizon of all the women just waiting to have a satisfactorily sized prick. That obviously isn't the case. Yes, there are a few profiles on RHP specifying that they only want cocks of a certain size or width. But they're the minority of the profiles. As you'll see in the many threads on cock size the majority of women DON'T want a large cock as it can hurt, and they definitely don't let them near their backdoors. Even guys who are under 5", and are therefore below the average, have an angle in that they could be popping bottom cherries left right and centre with their unintimidating equipment. If I had one of them that'd be how I sold it and would milk it for all it was worth.   But as it happens, like the majority of men, I'm around a similar size and length to you. I don't have a problem finding condoms that fit and I've never had a woman say "stop, you're hurting me" or "you're not putting that anywhere near me." I get to enjoy the sensation of being completely engulfed. Ask men with 7"+ if they can say the same thing and whether a large cock is all it's cracked up to be when it comes to confidence.   And, like you've already figured out, confidence is way more important. Unless you have that you're not going to get "lucky", even if you were hung like a barnyard animal. In almost every situation women are going to see the rest of you before they see your equipment, and by then they're going to be into you as you are enough not to care.   Final bit of advice: if you feel small because you're comparing yourself to guys in porn, don't. Those guys do porn because they're not much good at anything else, their large cocks and washboard chests are their best assets. As for the women who are subjected to them, I feel sorry for them. They're doing it for the money. I'll bet few if any of those scenes actually feel good to the poor things. Every time you hear, "Oooh, you're so big, oh! oh! oh!" have in the back of your mind that she's acting. She's probably thinking "Ouch. Ouch. Ouch. Slow the hell down you big ape. When will this be over?" A lot of their facial expressions seem to say that even if their unconvincing dialogue says another. So you probably don't have a promising future as a porn star, but that's a good thing...    LOVE this post! If I was a bloke, I'd feel much better :DAnd for the record, average is wonderful for me. I have a girlfriend who's new partner has a large penis (so she says) and she has said she wishes it was a bit smaller...they are limited in their positions. I say embrace your penis and learn to enjoy the enjoyment it brings

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Nothing hot when you are slowly feeding your cock in and feel a pussys woarm streatch around your cock and ...that feeling lasts all the way down to your balls.........Perfect..mmmmmm

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  13 years ago

  Mate. Be confident. Be courteous. Be polite. Be intelligent. Truth is that there are some guys that are...well.....underhung, to the point that they have zero chance, no matter what. They can ooze whatever they like, out of the bedroom, but are fucked, once there. Your cock is an extension (pardon the punn) of your self, and nothing more. If you can turn a woman on, and woo her, to the point that she's expecting a great night in the cot, you're pretty much there. She won't even look at the size of it, when she's in estacy, from the other things you have given her, in the lead up. I've slept with a couple of ladies, who's dimensions were far too great for ANY man to fill (and i'm talking fucking FARRRRR)....and they were as happy as can be, from the simple act of genuine, heartfelt, primal lust, and genuine intimacy....not my cock size. Fear naught, and get out there....and DO IT!!! "I think, therefore I am"

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  From my perspective a mans " size" is irrelevant, I am a woman who loves many forms of intamacy and sexual acts besides fucking the pussy. There are other sexual acts that can be performed eg, anal, fisting, rimming just to name a few. AS long as both are grtting satisfaction and reaching climas who really gives a flying fuck. Remember the art of foreplay and the innocent flirtingis just as exciting as the act of sex. I have had a few experiences of late that have brought me climaxing without fucking, and Im the type of gal that loves to give oral and can cum this way........... shit bro its not all about the allmighty cock and size. Have confidence within and you will go a long way

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  mines perfect......for me that is.....i have truckloads of fun with it......others seem to as well, and its even had complimentary remarks made about it..... I'm average......in length and girth. no bodies ever complained i had too little, or too much, or that it doesn't do a good job.... i don't envy others who might be longer, larger or fatter, as it really doesn't matter.......to me, or to my wife............

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