experience / reputation

June 09 2014

A mate of mine has a lot of luck with women, but also gets turned down a lot, as he has a reputation for being a real ladies man. He has been called a male slut before but he seems kinda proud of it. I was wondering if knowing somebodies history or rep would make you think twice about getting with them? Is it different for men and women?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    he probably gets knock backs because he is bad in bed. Women do pass that info on you know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is wrong, Meeka? I'd don't take notice of what people say about others. I prefer to make up my own mind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Did I say it was wrong? Just offering another alternative to the ladies man reputation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I know a guy is a real player, even if he is hot, I will stay away from him. The last thing I want for myself is to be seen as easy. Associating with these guys, in my mind, puts me in that frame.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I guess I am mostly referring to rl here, out and about with people I associate with and know. Does not specifically relate to RHP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    whats happen's if the person is a introverted virgin.... does that improve or ruin the persons reputation to get laid? perhaps there is two sides to a coin?

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    It shouldn't bother me but it really does. I don't think I could ever trust someone that I knew went from bed to bed. BUT Isn't that hypocritical as I don't offer exclusivity and don't expect it and this is an adult dating site and people do sleep around. I think for me it would come down to what I wanted/expected right at that moment and can that person meet that immediate need. Yes, callous and harsh I know but real. I certainly wouldn't fuck someone just because they had a reputation of being very good in bed. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • twintownjack

    twintownjack

    11 years ago

    Before judging the person maybe consider the following:Medical studies and related opinions vary among professional psychologists, sociologists, clinical sexologists and other specialists on sexual addiction as a medical physiological and psychological addiction, or representative of a psychological/psychiatric condition at all. Proponents of the sexual addiction model draw analogies between hypersexuality and substance addiction or negative behavioral patterns similar to gambling addiction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Crabs jump??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Of whatever medical/psychological/psychiatric condition they may have, if I knew for a fact that they had slept with multitudes of women, I would avoid at all costs!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I just want a one time fuck, I don't care about his reputation, as long as he has safe sex. If I wanted a relationship, I'd by pass him!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like to make my own mind up about anyone in any given situation How people are with one does not necessarily reflect how they will be with me I take little heed of others people ideas or opinions as people are naturally come from their own perspective which may not even come close to mine. People, like art is/are subjective I give everyone one a chance and make decisions based simply on how they treat me and the important people in my life Gossip, innuendo, rumours , Chinese whispers, 3rd hand information etc, I totally ignore as it is loaded with other peoples prejudices. If I'm interested in someone, I'm interested in them and to hell with everyone else's thinking. I'm a big girl. I can make my own decisions and own my mistakes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As long as the person treats me respectfully and honestly in our own interactions then their sexual history has nothing to do with me. However if they are known to manipulate or disrespect in any way, I would avoid them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    are just out for "numbers" .... the more they can get, the more validation. I knew a guy who said that once a woman said "yes" it was all over for him ... I am the other way around, if you have great sexual rapport with someone, that is the most satisfying.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    By definition, everyone who isn't me is an idiot anyway. I always make my own mind up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The one with all the ladies around them during the night that seems to get all the chicks does not actually achieve brilliance as every one thinks as most have stated this so called man slut may be struggling to bed a fine lady as most turn for the quiet achiever alone desired lonely with love waiting to be revealed !!! What do they say its the quiet ones you gotta look out for . And take the absolute glamour alot of time guys do not try there luck as they see a true hot woman as a no go no chance being entertained by silver tongue yet needing passion not performances !!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What is a multitude? I think that would differ from person to person. Plus, experience may enhance skills. I have no idea what my reputation is, on here or in real life, as far as my sexual habits are concerned but if someone decides to reject me on the basis of what somebody else has said, that's their loss.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    What's Trash to some is Treasure to others....🎀 Foxy

  • HereToPlease77

    HereToPlease77

    11 years ago

    Would you have a ONS with a woman who had a rep of being easy / slutty? Not sure if I would, but I guess it depends on the woman.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    My guess is.... Your friend is going to meet a woman one day, who'll turn his world upside down...The poor fella won't know what's hit him...just you wait OP.. He'll turn around and go WTF was I doing?? Haha then watch, his cocky behaviour change.....😎 You know OP people go through stages in their lives...sometimes they make poor choices and good choices to find out who they are. Sometimes people will sleep with as many people as possible to feel needed and wanted..I think a majority of people have done that...and those who say nah, well pigs bum to them!! *blows raspberry* Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Funlover, I suppose what a person is looking for would also influence their decision on this. If you have heard that someone is a player and goes from woman to woman..... yet you are looking for a committed relationship well you would assume that this person is not right for you. Do you miss out on meeting someone special. Yes you might, but that is life. As for your reputation, you little forum slut. LOL. I have never heard anything about you except that you are a nice guy. I am a little disappointed that I haven't heard about any of your perverted sexual practices. Damn the ladies are letting you down there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Mr well dressed and extremely stylish too cool for school mr funlover and yes what a gentlemen Meeka mr funlover requires you for an evening of absolute terror in delight . I personally will shout you two dinner if Meeka you scare the fuck out of our man with one of your weapons of masstrapon destruction! Hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigocean72'Meeka you scare the fuck out of our man with one of your weapons of masstrapon destruction! Hahaha Weapons of ass destruction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'If you have heard that someone is a player and goes from woman to woman..... yet you are looking for a committed relationship well you would assume that this person is not right for you. If I were looking for something more serious I would stay away from promiscuous guys (I'm not fond of the term "player"). But on here I don't have an issue with it, unless I found out the guy wasn't using protection or treating women as disposable objects. Oh, or if he was blabbing about who, how and what. Kissing and telling is not cool.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But I don't give a flying fuck "how easy" a woman is... I'm more interested in whether I actually find her attractive and likeable... And I'm not keen on ONS either... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Weapons of ass destruction! They are kept until the second date as I don't want to scare off the punters. Dinner would be grand BigO. I will turn up in my most feminine dress and pretty heels, and a bow in my flowing hair. I will behave like a well breed lady that I am. Then BAM... I will whip out strappy and pound him onto the table just before main course. See how Mr Funlover reacts to that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Seems to be a bit of a topic at the moment, I shall respond thusly. If I can do it yours first, I'll consider let you do it to mine.............for at least two seconds before screaming no and running from the room and to the nearest airport. Hey BidO, have you heard of bros before his? I definitely won't be trusting you to 'have my back' after this. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Was suppose to be hos.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I will have your back Funlover.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You just said the same thing. The only opinion/reputation I count when deciding whether I'll go to bed with someone is my opinion of the person in question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But I didn't want to put words in your mouth... While meeka was feeding you strappy... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Understanding there are risks in that. . But that's life lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If you heard that someone was shit in bed would you avoid them, or would you still meet them and make your own judgement?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I heard that they were selfish mutherfuckers who didn't dive a shit about their partner... ? I might leave... Or I'd ask them why I might have heard negative feedback about them... 😉 might spur them into lifting their game... 😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like to find out what all the fuss is about. If the rep is all its cracked up to be. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It is not your back that requires assistance my friend but i will get dinner and i was a first aid caddet for many years and Meeka will only frighten your perfect cheeks into a blushing state its obviously your second date that will be your biggest concern and that date my friend i will have your back infact you can rest your head on my shoulder my friend i shall comfort you and rub your back as this will hurt a lot Bahahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' If you heard that someone was shit in bed would you avoid them, or would you still meet them and make your own judgement? I was told by a fellow forumite that she'd heard the guy was meeting had very little sexual experience. (They hadn't actually met though). I went out with him anyway and was very very happy I did.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    11 years ago

    I like a ladies' man who knows how to play NSA with grace, honesty and a fun attitude. He knows what's up and isn't going to get all butthurt when the fun's over, he'll wish you well in your endeavours and go off in search of new adventure with a wink and a smile (hopefully, if I played my part well, a wistful smile) There's the other kind of ladies' man who isn't worth my time, he has to lie to get it, sneak his way out after it and/or doesn't want to accept that you're not ruined for all men from here on out. They're hilarious to watch in their natural habitat but I wouldn't bring one home. xx Sarah