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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Gonads, not gonna lie, your profile needs a decent overhaul (perhaps starting with that username). These are the things that stand out to me:1) Your pics aren't very good quality - blurry, and the one of your legs is - to put it blunty - boring. Try to bring out a bit more of your personality in your pics, make them a little creative so they stand out. And I'd suggest putting the cock pic in a separate private gallery; a lot of women find them a turn off and we know you have a cock, all guys do, but if it's in a PG you can show it to women who do want to see the goods before buying.2) Fill in all the 'Ask Me' sections - it's annoying when you have to ask someone for that info, particularly about things like smoking status which matters to a lot of people. A lot of the time if the info isn't immediately able to be seen, women will just ignore your profile and move to the next one.3) Take a few minutes to improve the spelling and grammar in your About Me section, or have someone else do it for you. Doesn't have to be perfect, but it does make a better impression and looks like you made more of an effort; at the very least write 'and' in full, abbreviating it to 'n' makes you look lazy.4) Take out the bits about your 'tool', about being the best at going down, and at giving a woman the biggest O of her life. I'll tell you now, so many guys put these types of outlandish claims in their profiles and for most women it's actually a turn off. For one thing, most women have had the encounter with a guy or guys who have bragged about their amazing oral skills etc., and promised in their profile that the earth will move, but in reality they turn out to be huge duds. For another thing, even if you have some skills, you really can't promise that you're going to give a woman the biggest O of her life, it's just not at all realistic. It's something that's been discussed many times in these forums and many women say that they now completely ignore guys who put claims like this in their profiles, as they find it's the men who don't feel the need to brag that really have the skills. 5) Take out the little fictional story - again so many guys use these and again I'm going to be blunt, unless you've got skills when it comes to erotic writing, they all just sound corny.Just write a bit about yourself that gives an idea of who you are but don't brag or make claims that you can't possibly live up to. Most women see right through all that sort of thing. It is a good thing that you've paid for a membership as reality on here is that men have to do most of the approaching. And that is most effective by sending messages, flirts are pretty much a waste of time and many women ignore them.It's also good that you say you always practice safe sex.....however maybe think about whether you really mean for 'all' activities (because that would include oral sex, and not many people use protection for that). Most people that say for all activities, actually mean always for intercourse.Hope that helps, and good luck

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  If someone has ask me I assume the worst. Married smoker with a drinking problem...... NEXT! :P

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Well gonad80 it wouldn't matter if you gave your profile a overhaul or anything else.. The truth is that most people on here are only window shopping or wasting other peoples time.. I have ok profile and I have only had one response back,considering I have sent a cple out.. That's my opinion... Kingdong rocks 😀

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hey Mr Gonads, I don't mind your stories I reckon there maybe some lonely women or couples that are just looking for a hot young stud to fuck might go for that. But your pictures better be of a pretty hot guy though! As a guest, as lot of single girls are, I can't see your risqué photo so to me you are just a blurry foot. So it depends, woman that want more of an ongoing sexual arrangement might not really go for that as you have said nothing about yourself.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hey Mr Gonads, I don't mind your stories I reckon there maybe some lonely women or couples that are just looking for a hot young stud to fuck might go for that. But your pictures better be of a pretty hot guy though! As a guest, as lot of single girls are, I can't see your risqué photo so to me you are just a blurry foot. So it depends, woman that want more of an ongoing sexual arrangement might not really go for that as you have said nothing about yourself.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thanks for your effort in replying :) so your saying.... Basically "chuck the whole profile in the bin" AND start again :p And to think I was gonna write my own erotic novel bahaha... I'm looking at my profile through different kinda eyes now. Yep it does suck :) Much appreciated :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  In agree to some some degree.... Hense the reason I don't take it to seriously, just enjoying having a laugh and maybe meet some genuine people :)

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  I think you should be following this topic closely ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  One part of me wants to offer tips on better profiles. The other wants to say ....a profile should reflect an individuals ability to craft a profile all on their own, without influence of their target market.... potentially adding the "saying what you want to hear" factor. DGI- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  to figure out that the blurry pic was a side view of your feet!!!!!!I thought it was your hands clasped in a meditation pose.......just follow what Luckdragon said ...unlike DG I think that if you ask for feedback and are prepared to actually take the advice given,that in itself shows that you at least are trying.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You should take ALL the advice that Luckdragon offered gonads, right down to the name change. Your profile is on the same par it's reasonable to expect the same results. Trust me, there is no shortage of on women this site who meet and play you just aren't offering anything that a hundred other men aren't offering.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Go to drinks night and have a sticky beak around.Also .... dont listen to the women in forums , they are all playing hard to get... bwahahah !

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Scrotum or Ballbags to achieve better results.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Erm.....deep French kissing??? I'm curious to know what is that exactly??? To me, it sounds like you wanna drill through her throat like you're exploring for oil!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The first thing people see in a Search is your Pic and your User Name . The first thing people see is blurry feet and a name that conjures up the image of a droopy scrotum. So , essentially , you've turned most people off before they've even got to your Profile blurb . GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Kaleidoscope'You should take ALL the advice that Luckdragon offered gonads, right down to the name change. Was going to see the exact same thing. Luckdragon said it all. Lucky, maybe copy and save that reply somewhere. I think it'll come in handy again and again.

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  inspirit

  11 years ago

  Falls off stool, picks self up and continues too read then laughs again. What's my profile like girls. I am seeking a hard cock with a brain. Think I will have any luck?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You looking for theory or observed results ?Changing the content of your profile will not make 1 iota of difference to the number people who view the profile ... It may improve the response rate from those who choose to view it ? The only thing that will increase the number of views is the picture with username and tagline a distant second.You get chosen or your don't ... enjoy the ride but don't expect too much as you'll only be disappointed.

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