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first time male at a swingers event

September 08 2020

hey all, I was curious to know if its a normal thing for a single male to go to swingers events or not, or if there are specific ones made for us haha looking to attended one some time in the near future if they are still happening in these times but not sure how or where... do I need to attend with someone? im located in Sydney.. thanks for any advice :)

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  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    Hi SP As far as I’m concerned it is a great thing when limited single males are allowed to attend events and parties . A lot of events do not include them . It can be quite daunting and off putting for us ladies with an abundance of single males . Resembling seagulls on a hot chip . I can’t be of any help with Sydney events . We attend a regular event in Melbourne where single males are welcome . It is capped , depending on the amount of couples and single females that have booked . For instance 80 couples and single females , there would only be 10-12 maximum single males . There is a vetting process to check their level of respect and they are informed of the boundaries , rules and obviously understanding that no means no . Good luck in all your endeavours . A x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    yeh its probably a bit more normal now than a few years back- best one to check is out is "Our Secret Spot' which has 2 clubs at Annandale and Darlinghurst- its only the Annandale one that single guys can attend and the numbers are limited- you have to register first tho via their website and be approved to buy a ticket- ive been to several parties there and the hosts are awesome

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    Its my understanding there are special nights where selected single guys are permitted albeit at a inflated entry fee ? Why ? Because they can.. Better if you can find a partner to go with you ....

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    Perth clubs let single guys in but they have to pay a lot more than single women and couples. Maybe go with a female friend the first time. I would like to see more single men at the clubs but they are mostly geared up for couples. Be respectful........good guys usually earn a good name and will be welcome back.

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    4 years ago

    I love it how many just say "take a woman with you instead". In any case the only play events I've attended in my own solo right are gangbangs or mini gangbangs (players house parties), the other events with a specific criteria to limit single males, I've never met the typically stringent physical and/or other entry requirements for. In any case IF I was going to a general mixed event as a single male, I would be there hoping to FIND a woman, a bit ironic that I should have one ready beforehand to reduce the entry costs lol.