M56 F59
flacid males we have had enough
September 16 2013
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
Perhaps the whole experience got to them. I know at my age, all sorts of things can affect performance. Perhaps try a swingers club or a party which would allow you to have a choice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sounds like a song..maybe just get in a hot single guy for your wife. If you are having all the fun, might be a way for her to get some fun.It can happen no matter what or who you are with. Its all in the new, thats the rush Not everyone can stop themselves from blowing but if they can go round the second time or use their mouth or hands then thats they key.have funLadyT
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sples2
11 years ago
I have found the same thing happen to me. The guy either can't keep it up or it's all too much. I have found that if another female willing to share herself with you then at least you get some fun out of it. My first FF experience was really really good and it made me feel part of the scene. I think when the other guy can't keep it together and seems to concentrate only on his other half then she gets all the attention and you feel like a third wheel. Who knows why it happens but maybe the newer they are the harder it is for them or they do get overwhelmed by the moment. I have asked my man to watch out for me and if he sees this happening that he comes back to play with me so that I don't miss out on the action and leave the other guy to deal with his other half.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's called performance anxiety. Most men have experienced it at some point in their life. Ease up and change your expectations around the outcome and i think you'll find everyone enjoys themselves more.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is easier for a female than a male, this could happen even with a single guy, anticipation, expectations, anxiety. Maybe the second time round with the same couple would be better less of the above. Every new encounter is an experience in itself, best to go into each with no expectations, be relaxed and most of all have fun. D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Liquiddersire We have experienced exactly the same as you guys. One theory is the other female knows her man is hopeless in bed that's why she wants more. Or The guy is selfish and only cares about himself. But Not getting it up ...no excuse there is Viagra Then there is: Male insecurity / female bi play, the other guy does not want another another male around to share his wife with...He just wants your wife and so does his wife without the other guy around.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was with this gorgeous drop dead beautiful sweetie , full on kissing fondling and all as hot as hell ' then all of a sudden.. kaput ? my raging hardon disappeared while still in her hand. Yes still in her hand. Naturally i felt quite embarrassed and as much as I wanted it to come back , it didn't . Talk about disappointment all round.. Performance anxiety for sure.. It does happen so try not be too disappointed .. The guy hates it more than you...
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
ive seen this a lot , and its happened to me when ive being abit too tipsy lol happens to porn stars all the time apparently .. watched a doco on porn ages ago where they talked about this . Some guys even if they have a 10inch monster , once they see all the cameras , peeps etc staring at them , there 10inches becomes clitoral lol That's why its good to see the same couples more than once , the first time is sometimes awkward , the second or third time will probably be a lot better once there more familiar with you . Were more comfortable playing with couples we know and done it before with ... but then there are those times where some hot/drunk couple pulls us of the dance floor and into a room full of orgy goers and in seconds were naked and going at it lol no time to think in those situations and they can be great also
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RHP User
11 years ago
And has happened to us as well ! We have found a lot of guys lose the erection when they have to put a condom on - or they are all about them and don't take the time to make the encounter sensual, teasing and erotic. Are too rough (big turn off) or timid. It takes a lot of time and effort to find the right people to play with and it can be very disappointing when it just doesn't come together. All you can do is keep trying. When you do find the right people it's great fun :-) I think the biggest problem is finding 4 people that are all mutually attracted and compatible (it's hard enough finding 2 !!) Don't give up - keep searching - some day a couple or select single will blow your mind ! It's a numbers game.
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smo669
11 years ago
I think you've been unlucky or made an inadvertent bad choice. check the validations, Keep trying, you will find a star performer
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Was with this gorgeous drop dead beautiful sweetie , full on kissing fondling and all as hot as hell ' then all of a sudden.. kaput ? my raging hardon disappeared while still in her hand. Yes still in her hand. Naturally i felt quite embarrassed and as much as I wanted it to come back , it didn't . Talk about disappointment all round.. Performance anxiety for sure.. It does happen so try not be too disappointed .. The guy hates it more than you... for being honestIt happens to women as well, we dry up like a well in the middle of the sahara but with us, its not such a problem as there is always lube and also the fact that most guys dont care anyway. They are up to their balls in you and just wonder why there is so much friction and where the smoke is coming from.When having threesomes with FFM sometimes guys just go off like a home made ginger beer bottle, not much they can do about that, but its the selfish ones that then go, ohhh have to go Aunty Mary has my dinner in the oven...or my mates are waiting outside in the car so we can go to the pub.
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RHP User
11 years ago
thanks we are hopoing its a problem that we wont encounter much of any more but im hoping miss gets a good fucking soon as i seem to be having all the fun.she just said to wright in that if any one could help us out for a good night please contact us sooon LMAO
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montyv12
11 years ago
When with or trying something different it all becomes over whelming and the anticipation takes charge and so on when judged on a single performance do the new partners ever think may be he's let the moment get the better of him or that the act itself is not normal with couples I have found in the past its a real quick the sex that is all over before it began type of thing some times people need a few hours to relax and enjoy what they are being part of then performance comes naturally the people that give up after a dud run you have already broken the ice and got together I would bet that it was a short quick visit type of thing for me I prefer a arvo and a night not just a rushed quicky maybe I'm wrong but only the people that play will know
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of the reasons I was so taken sexually with Mr Wefuk is that he just kept going and going and after he came he was hard again in no time at all. I put that down to just being the way he is but also to the fact that he has been in the swinging lifestyle for over 20 years now and nothing much bothers him as he has seen and been involved in a lot of different play scenarios. I'm not so experienced and only recent to the lifestyle by comparison. I'm not trying to brag but just point out the obvious that some men are like that and some arent. I just got lucky as I am sure so have other women. It happens I guess and you cant get cranky about those that have whatever issue or performance thing going on. When you get together with other people for play you either get lucky and have heaps of fun or you don't. I bet they dont mean it to happen. If your getting unlucky more than lucky then maybe you could look at how and who you are choosing to play with. Maybe you need to get outside of your normal selections and try people you normally may not have played with. IDK All I can do is speak from my experience which isnt as vast as some, but I went outside of my usual choice of man and I found my soulmate and a great fuck. Some men come quicker than others and I don't think that those with premature issues would be totally honest would they. After all it's not the best selling point when trying to get others interested is it if you do have an issue with lasting the distance. So there is no magical answer for you as people will not be honest at times in thier quest for play. I also suspect that it doesnt matter for some men if they cum quickly so long as they 'get it in' albeit frustrating they have to go with what they have been dealt with in life or seek medical help and as I said if they tell what happens then they are less likely to get a fuck as more pleasure is always better than a little bit isn't it :). Would be interesting to know the statistics on just how many men cum quicker than they would like to. I bet there's a huge percentage and I did read somewhere once that the issue of premature ejaculation has many different reasons from physical to psychological. 1 it was to intense for the male to start with You may have to ask those you are chatting to in the hope of play how long they have been ejoying the lifestyle for. I suspect that if they are experienced and have been in the swinging lifestyle a long time that if there are no premature ejaculation issues that they will last longer as the nerves are less likely to be there due to being an experienced player. But then again some people might get anxious every time who knows. Too many variables for your question I guess as everyone is different to some degree.2 the women in the couple seem to be the ones that want a good time If they are a normal couple and both in this lifestyle through personal choice they will both want a good time. One of the best questions I like to ask is: Why do you swing? An answer that always brings up warning bells for us is if the person says that one of them is not getting what they need in the partnership/marriage so they swing to fill the gap. It's said in many different ways but means the same. If this comes up we avoid play with that couple as we truly believe that if a couple doesnt play together well then that is likely to transfer over into play with others. We love the chemistry between who we play with to be good. This also applies to single women we play with. We don't like playing with women who have poor relationships at home. We have found through experience that if they are happy at home they are great to play with. Our experiences are not deffinitive of all of course. Also ask them if swinging or play was a joint descision or was it driven by one of them. If both didnt want it then both will not be putting the same effort or enthusiasm into play times. Beware the couple that plays where once partner agreed to swinging in an attempt to keep his or her partner for fear of losing them if they didnt play. Happy healthy couples where both are happy and driven to play are best or at least they have been for us.3 some people think they want to do this but it over whelms them When we play with someone new if they appear nervous or uneasy we take it slow and move up the pace if we feel they are coping well. Communication is the key. Some people dive straight in and some don't. Sometimes some people need to soscialise and get to know before playing so don't always organise play on the first meet. Waiting can sometimes help you work out if it is right for your prospective play mates. If that happens straight away then YAY your lucky but dont expect it. Some of the horniest times we have had have been after non play meet and greets and getting to know people first for a while. Those curious couples that have never done it before and just want to see if they like might just back out at that all important time or perform porely just to get the fuck out of there so to speak. Other new couples dive into the lifestyle and love it. You just cant tell till play happens sometimes. If they are new then ask lots of questions prior to deciding if you will play with a particular couple. Pick your partners wisely. It does take practice. I would rather have less play and better play than lots with hits and misses. Work out some play rules for yourself and stick to them. eg: If your wife is bi then aim to play with bi women and not bi curious if possible. Sorry bi curious women. Sex is something I like to enjoy and I don't gamble my fun and hope for the best. I want women I play with to love playing with me as well as my partners cock. Unless I can tell you are really into women I won't play with you just to get some ff time. Geez am probably going to suffer the critical police on here again over that last comment. It's a bit like knowing you like butter and then buying margarine isnt it. Buy the butter and dont get the margarine as all you will get is margarine unless the marg is in denial I guess. lol am now rambling about food. Sorry. Ask more questions perhaps OP and you will get more of what you are looking for. Think about play with those that maybe didnt work out afterwards as ask yourself what you could have asked of them prior that may have given you more insight into your playmate maybe. Not saying that this is the definitive answer but it helps. Most people will answer the questions you have so long as it doesnt appear like you are interrogating them.
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Yes happens also with MfM remember if it is a single guy they are entering your world your relationship they feel on the outer.Good advice from the the above posters. Remember this is about been fun relax. Most guys will stay and play hoping things kick back in some do a runner. like tuscan says. hey we are all just here for the fun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
...stage fright.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you are the host then you accommodate to those that enter your home. Do I judge a woman on how wet she can get, nor never do a I judge a man on how hard he is. If its not working then it is my fault for not reading him and not trying hard enough to relax him and get him hard. 98% of male erectile dysfunction is in the mind, the same with 98% of female dryness. He or she comes too soon, well could you not tell silly man you are. I pride my self in the fact that I have the passion and understanding to put the time in to relax the individual to a level of excitement that pleases all. If you can not do that then don't blame anyone but your self. You did not turn him on and the only one at fault is you so learn to let go of demands and give rather then take. Or spend time to work out if it clicks before you meet.Your self centered arrogance stinks in your post OP and maybe you are just no good at making people feel desired, you sound like you have a lot to learn to turn on a man. Remember that word foreplay, it goes both ways. What is very important is humility, so what if you are hard, maybe you should deflate the little guy rather than prance. Beauty you say is only skin deep and you do not need the beautiful people, as long as that get it up on demand Seems one of you does not do it for most, now why blame the others. I am sure they have fun themselves.Again foreplay is not just a thing given to women. Men require it just as much as women do. A single word, a wrong move, a sly look or sound can destroy the mood. Turn me off and nothing will happen, turn me on and I am rock solid all night longYou want sex then learn to make them feel sexy beyond your wildest dreams or you will for ever be disappointed. Its not there fault but yours.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
When I went to my first swingers party in my 20s I came to soon but after that I was ok. So they should have a good wank the day they go to meet or to party. Performance anxiety is a bit harder to deal with and no short answer but when you meet the right couple it will all work out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi! Lady T:) How are you :) That's well said Hun and so correct too. It will allow both Mr Mrs to enjoy others. Who said the invited Partners have to be In a Relationship. As long as all agree to the boundaries just go for it.. Frankly whilst we're on this subject what's with Couples in general only Flashing the Female . For 1 thing I'm so over seeing Boobs in My Face and the Guys Face is no where to be seen. 2 A lot of times Couples tend to complain that they're receiving way too much attention from Single Guys and they're not Interested in the Poor things. But what do they expect when the female is up there for all to see, like a Neon sign come get me!! If they're a couple then they should share the Profile Pic together.. This is My opinion and it's not meant to be all Couples are doing this, but there seems to be quite a number who need to Play fair ,give both sexes a chance to view them as a couple. You may get what you seek .. Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Written from the male perspective hereEarly on for me I had some troubles with staying hard due to nerves. Obviously every guy knows how frustrating it can be to be in a situation as hot as swinging and not be able to get it up. Its FML whenever that happens.Best thing we started to do was go back to each other so it was more comfortable, just for a bit, til everything relaxed. So now when that happens to the other couple we are with we suggest swapping back, although not always does the other woman want to. We have seen wives say 'no, I'm fine' when asked to go back to their under performing husband. Have tried Viagra in the past and let me tell you the mind can beat it!! I've been so nervous that it hasn't worked at all. I was at an orgy many years ago, got stuck talking to the wrong girl, everyone else had paired off, then got locked in the toilet with the broken door handle. No V could help me with my confidence that night.Anyway, now I have no problems but I can sympathise with guys we come across that do. I know there is a few women out there that I have frustrated during our swinging career. I feel like I should apologise.My wife has the same frustrations with it now, same things happening to other guys. Even had one guy who couldn't stay hard unless he was looking at his wife getting fucked. Of course that did not appeal to my wife when the guy she was with didn't even want to look at her. So, a bit over inexperienced couples lately.
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Plain
11 years ago
Well having a syndrome which gives nearly uncontrollable High Blood Pressure, I have to take medication to treat the symptoms. The side affects of most of these medications inhibit me physically in two ways keeping the old fella standing to attention for a decent period of time and early on in the piece not even capable of rising to the occasion. Viagra and the like are not options as they could kill people with similar conditions. It took three years of patience, an understanding GP to get me back to near normal. So if you have any type of Blood Pressure Medication check the side affects and discuss with your GP as this could be the cause of having these issues and what ever you do only take Viagra or the equivalent with their advice and guidance as it can be lethal.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh I forgot to mention Alcohol. If your getting into the drinks together at all then that can and does cause brewers droop in most men so hide the beer, lol. And a big BS to those that think it doesnt, c'se it does :)
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madotara69
11 years ago
Each guy we have played with, only 2 and a bit, have began flaccid, Tara was beginning to feel she was cursed, but we kept the play mate feeling comfortable with the anxiety and all in good time everything went well.As for blowing, shit, I start blow about 30 seconds into things and carry on blowing untill we are all blown out. It is how I get my rhythm, and think of it as being similar to a woman having multiple orgasms. Isn't that what it is all about.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ciallis.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My hubby has his issues (which I don't agree with) and he lets them get the better of him. I have found that going to a couples club where I can get satisfied and if he is in the mood then he can to works really well for us.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Another reason: The wife gives such good blow jobs the guys are out of control and come the moment they enter...lol Butt that's real easy to fix, the guys that have these problems if they cared should give the lady excellent oral first! Or pull out and give oral ...even if her husband has been there first!
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
In our experiences there have been a few men who have been flaccid.... I thought it must have been me - the whole not good enough in looks body etc.... But my wonderful husband has assured me that it wasn't me, it was them :-) It can be disappointing for all involved, but that is life. Don't let it turn you off.... Mrs C x
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RHP User
11 years ago
i did not think i would get such a great response. we have only been in here a little while and i have had the little fella go a little soft but only for a little while maybe and also while putting a condom on, i then bounce right back and get into it . lucky we don't drink as i know that could be a problem also . i do k ow that at times if my head is not in to the game 'i'm not either. i am hoping this one couple will com back for another play as we found them to be just the people we would like to hang out with.cheers richad
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Damsexpartners'It is easier for a female than a male, this could happen even with a single guy, anticipation, expectations, anxiety. Maybe the second time round with the same couple would be better less of the above. Every new encounter is an experience in itself, best to go into each with no expectations, be relaxed and most of all have fun. D So true. I had only once in my life been unable to achieve a hard-on (due to waaaayyyy too much alcohol, normally that didn't bother me either) but the 1st time I met a RHP lady I was overwhelmed and couldn't get it up. Fuk! I was mortified and of course said the ol' chestnut "It's never happened before.. I'm really sorry". Even I thought it sounded like a bullshit excuse! LOL. The lady was really nice, cool and much kinkier than I was used to (which was great) and I got her off about 5-6 times but I just couldn't go there myself, which was still disappointing for both as she loved to please. Mostly it was guilt (lots of it), but also a little performance anxiety. Thanks for posting a balanced perspective, and although it can be tricky for male or females, men have huge expectations on them to, ahem.. rise to the challenge. Too many women think guys are all stoopid and too easy to stimulate. If you are the female and you aren't getting a response try switching it up. By that I mean instead of grabbing his dick and flailing away try stimulating his brain a bit more, like do a sexy dance or lap dance (if you are cool with that). Maybe try getting yourself off and have his face close to the action - the mix of visual (pretty good for most guys) and pheromones is likely to give it the best crack (pun intended!). Happy hardness to all! : )
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP that they are not forum lurkers
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captainkaos
11 years ago
it may be to the guy being nervous about screwing the other guys partner whilst he is watching. There could be many reasons. Using condoms may also be one. Having sex with your usual partner without a condom then having to use one for the swinging couple may have something to do with it....?
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RHP User
11 years ago
all of the above , and if they are forum lurkers im sorry but i was only trying to find out more or less how to play it . it all so looks like it is a common problem and i fully understand as i have had moments where it has flagged a bit. i think the first guy was not in the head space and it looked like he was only there to support his wife which was way cool . the second we went and were hosted but the couple drank and were drunker than we thought . the last couple we are hoping to see again soon and i think that was first night nerves and excitement which i absolutely understand .and i like the stage fright comment which i think i might have cheers richard
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ciallis (Preferred) or Viagra. There is no shame in being nervous or a touch shy. It happens to all of us sooner or later (Or much later for some.) Typically, just relaxing and losing myself (The male) in the moment is enough, but I usually have one of the above handy as a 'just in case'. xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, me again. Using a condom as an excuse for ED is a show stopper (Forever.) If you're worried about it, sex it up a bit. Make it playful and part of the 'show'. It has to happen, so enjoy it :) xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes condoms are tricky. Hadn't used them in many years (long term relationship) and had forgotten just how much of an interruption they can be. Safe sex is a must tho so.. Simple solution: I open the pack for her but ask if the lovely lady can get it on for me, and encourage her to keep stroking. Makes the best of it all round I think? Lady is busy - rather than lying back thinking of England (LOL) and I'm still being stimulated by her hand and attention. Even better if (positions allow) I can be nuzzling/tasting her pussy or massaging her clit whilst she is looking after me. Doesn't have to be a chore. : )
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RHP User
11 years ago
from my weeee little time on this site, 99 percent of men bullshit about how big and how hard they are...not your fault, good luck finding any one
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RHP User
11 years ago
performance anxiety from a social, psychological view, practice usually makes perfect
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have meet so many men that have been unable to get any upward motion down there at first. But I do know that, I spend time and care and let them relax. Use my words and kindness in such a way that there is rarely a cock that does not in the end come to attention. Drunk or not. Make them feel sexy and wanted and you will get that hard on you desire.One that works so well is, "It does not matter, don't worry, I love a flaccid cock, easy to suck, soft cocks turn me on. mmm, yummy" minuets later they are so hard. Does it really matter if they do not get hard. Please that is the pressure that we must distance our selves from.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'I have meet so many men that have been unable to get any upward motion down there at first. But I do know that, I spend time and care and let them relax. Use my words and kindness in such a way that there is rarely a cock that does not in the end come to attention. Drunk or not. Make them feel sexy and wanted and you will get that hard on you desire. One that works so well is, "It does not matter, don't worry, I love a flaccid cock, easy to suck, soft cocks turn me on. mmm, yummy" minuets later they are so hard. Does it really matter if they do not get hard. Please that is the pressure that we must distance our selves from. Very good comments Blindman. Ha ha - almost makes me wish I was batting that way.. Alas, no - I LOVE women far too much and it's not for me, but good luck to ya fella. : ) It is amazing how many women (and bi/gay men too?) approach men's cocks as tho they are purely mechanical and operated by a flick of a switch. Especially in this age when men are expected to understand the complex working of female brain/sexuality. There is a dual standard here for sure. Perhaps if more women experiencing problems with their guy's soft member approached in the way Blindman does, there may be a lot more satisfaction all round?
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have had a couple of experiences exactly like that and my wife has missed out on those occasions. I feel bad for her once I realise I have had a good time with the other girl and my girl has been disappointed. She has even blamed herself at times.Seems to be one of those male mechanisms. When its needed it fails. Move on guys we have.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well you maybe have just met a few that are about themselves or like it has been stated "stage fright" . I guess I'm lucky in that for me it is all about the lady and making it fun and satisfying for her. You'll find the right people , guess its just been a case of bad luck , happy searching .
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've haven't had it happen yet but since I was getting older I thought it might happen. But I met an amazing lady and we decided to try something fun and risky. We met in a change room in a Myers store. I dropped my pants and she knew exactly what to do and needless to say I had no problems as I was terrified of not being able to "get it up". I can't take ages to cum but never blown early. Sometimes I wish I could.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When a long-held fantasy becomes a reality there are certain expectations all round. Guys feel like dorks when they can't get it up or worse still they do get it up and then that damned cock takes charge and decides to hang limp. Let's get it straight... It's nobody's fault. The guy WANTS to fuck but his mind is elsewhere. The greatest solve for the entire problem is to make the would be stud go a little slower...AND more importantly is to delve into exactly what his fantasy really is! It may be he'd like to see you masturbate, use a dildo or whatever or it could be {in the case of a 3-way} he'd be as hard as you could imagine if you fucked your partner first... kind of a ''living'' porno that's cemented in his mind.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wefukugood' Oh I forgot to mention Alcohol. If your getting into the drinks together at all then that can and does cause brewers droop in most men so hide the beer, lol. And a big BS to those that think it doesnt, c'se it does :) Equivalant is Brewers Drought ! Oh yes, some women cannot hold their licker
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RHP User
11 years ago
All I can add to this is it happened to me last week I was with a real hot lady fr some afternoon delight and half way through nothing. Now I know how it feels and I must say it was all in my head my mind drifted off to other matters that are haunting me personally and low and behold a limp little fellow down below. So if I offended any one I'm sorry I now know. I did manage to get back up by ridding my thoughts of any thing but this lady in front of me and we ended up having a great time. I also seem to have no problem with my partner when I'm with her so I'm hoping it was only a once off. Lucky I'm off traveling in NSW this week and can recharge a little. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Certain meds can impact too..Viagra isn't always the answer tho. I don't take it personally- can happen to anyone and often well worth persevering. Being empathetic and understanding is the respectful way to deal with it, and there is so much fun to be had with fingers, hands, tongues & mouths ;) totally get the frustration when all you want is to feel that throbbing cock deep deep inside you!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Perhaps it's the pressure of having to deliver infront of another guy? Why not try playing in a separate room to start? Maybe leave penetration for as long as possible til the anxiety passes and he's more relaxed and can give it the full effort?!- Posted from rhpmobile
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
Guys have a lot of other body parts other than a cock.... I find a lot of those other parts just as satisfying... Lol :P Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
When looking for couple go for ones that are validated that way you know they are not brand new and can perform- Posted from rhpmobile
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threesixty
11 years ago
Guys and girls, The expectations and the unfamiliar context of sex in a group situation could be the reasoning behind the poor effort from the guy? Seeing his partner with another MM/MFF may just tip him over the edge. Lots of fore play and interaction between all involved and an open and clear mind can work wonders to make you feel at ease and get you more into the experience of a group thing! Attending a swingers party to see the working of a group event could also help to make the M relax and let go and enjoy it more... Just a thought people... We are all here to have fun.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Soft dicks can still be used. Try this: The man without wood gets on top. The woman uses the head of his dick as a dildo, rubbing it on her clit & up & down her lips. He lets her have total control, taking as much time as she wants. She gets pleasured & wetter. Sometimes, things can just slip in at just the right time! And, there's still two mouths left for the other guy!
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RHP User
11 years ago
but nerves do play a lot into it and yes a few drinks do help but to many can be a bad thing again. We agree with tohottonot more than one meeting with same couple helps as well providing they are a couple you choose to pursue> And at the risk of copping abuse for our next few words but sometimes age plays into it but this is why we have Viagra. We read and looked at your profile liquidesirezz and can assure you that there is one man here quite hard for your wife and a female that is hungry for you both Best of luck guys
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