M54
fly in fly out workers
September 26 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am shying away from FIFO workers on here. My experience with them has been that when they are on site we chat heaps but as soon as they are home I don't hear from them. Guarantee as soon as they are back on site I get a text or call tho! If I was to find one who actually wanted to catch up and see me when he was home tho I think it's an arrangement that could work perfectly. The hard part is finding one that is happy to give up a night with his mates to come have some fun. I wouldn't enter into a relationship with one tho. It would be strictly a FWB situation
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RHP User
13 years ago
The arrangement can work fine, as long as the guy isn't too dead set on sex on the first meet. If they're ok to just chat with no expectations and make sure there's a 'click' and then move on to a casual relationship, I'm all good with that. But that really just comes down to the type of guy he is, not the FIFO barrier.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well for me, I tend to shy from them....Find FIFO workers unreliable, and some are selfish. Also had a similar experience like SHMiss. I have only met 2 guys ( they are best mates ) and they drove down and met me at a lovely restaurant, great dinner n laughs. We remain friends. Now they drove down only going on my pics ( naughty pic was not up then... and talking 2 times on the phone. The rest... have been not what I seek or time wasters.. I def think they were really attached.. ... Ohhhh and there was one recently that stuffed me around..Works at Woresley..lol sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have been talking to a couple of guys who ar fifo, we tend to keep missing one another, so am still unsure, would think it would probably be a very casual thing. Did meet up with one guy, wham, bamb thankyou mam not a word since. Thats ok I wasnt keen.
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RHP User
13 years ago
They tend to want to want to chat because they are away , then when they come home on leave expect you to be available for them during the week without even considering that you might work. Generally un-reliable. If I make a date I keep it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah basically with guys that are FIFO I have found ( the majority of them) to be unreliable.... heaps of messages..maybe a meet... and then they go away and when they come back they expect you to be avail at the drop of a hat.. which doesn't work with me as i work two jobs... one guy got pretty agro that he came back and I happened to have my period.. I mean how dare I?? lol..needless to say i haven't seen him again.... ne ways yeah i wouldn't go out of my way to meet anymore FIFO workers as its just a bit too much effort and I much prefer regular sex with someone who lives fairly close by. In saying that, every individual is different so I wouldn't completetly count a guy out because he is a FIFO worker..however my experience has not been great so far. xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have had a couple that are all hot and sweaty messaging, texting, sending pics and wanting pics but only when they are away and not hear from them when home. But had one stop in on his way home this week for a to stay over having never meet him before and will definitely have him over again. Meet another one having not done any dirty chat beforehand and had an amazing time with him too - just wish they were on opposite rosters and life would be perfect! I've had local guys muck me round more so i'm not put off by fif -o just sick of time wasters in general.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey gals - i find the fifo guys very convenient if youre not looking for long term commitments...theyre here for fun - isnt that wat we r looking for - and ive not had any problems with time wasting when it comes to making play dates....
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RHP User
13 years ago
To have more than one on the go, do a fifo roster for when they are home. Can call it the get in and get off and get out quick roster.
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RHP User
13 years ago
FIFO workers aren to bad, I did it but hard being all the way up, wen I made a date I stuck to it and always respected the other persons lifestyle!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh sorry just read u wanted girls view sorry
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RHP User
13 years ago
Girls: I have been living on moining camps since pretty well full time since 1980.. I WISH I had the internet back then.. :) Let me tell you.. MANY MANY of the guys on here who are "Single", simply put, ARE NOT! They sit and flirt and lie, then they wank :) BUT girls, when they go home, they go home to their wives, NOT the girls they play with online. I dont drink, nor do I really socialize, BUT, I do listen and watch and observe... OH BROTHER.. and don't I LOVE to get males THINKING.. I watch ladds come up, and listen to them all around the crib rooms and bars telling their stories, about contacts on here, liasions with barmaids, domestic staff, co workers and locals.. SO, I wade right in, telling them about MY contacts on here.. I tell them I am on various sex sites and never go back to Perth without without a minimum of two new ladies.. and ALL my ladies are attached women who KNOW their husbands and boyfriends are playing up on them.. I will even suggest I have Possibly had sex with their wives, because they will KNOW they are playing up. Girls; i did meet a woman on here, who taught me an interesting lesson. "A girl can look her man in the eyes and LIE to him so easliy and he is so adsorbed in hiimself he will believe her - BUT, the very moment her man strays.. she KNOWS." you ALL do, to some degree.. HOW you acept it, and HOW you deal with it, is entirely up to you all, and you all do differnt things.. OR go into denial. "Lady in question" had one of the most interesting ways of paying him back... :) And girls: I LOVE to tell the story.. you want to see some of the faces blanche. OK, I DONT do anywhere near that well on here, NOR would I IF i were on other sites - but, look at me FFS :) The boys DONT know that.. and the stories I can tell sometimes hit hard.. I have been ridiculed, ignored violently threatened.. and just about eveything in between. Just my point of view girls.... Maybe I am wrong BUT.. think about it... you're a good looking girl.. offering a good sexual liasion.. he is ALL for it online.. then, he comes back to city.. and he ignores you... BELIEVE ME.. he has a wife/girlfriend who he is living with :) good luck :) caveman...
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RHP User
13 years ago
You want a reality check about the FIFO guy youve been emailing, msning with, texting and getting all hot and heavy with etc...then be at Perth Domestic on a Sunday nite at around 6pm....................I live rite near the airport and Ive had many a gf come stay with me, all excited about lobbing down to the airport to meet her new bloke back down for a week .....only to get down there and finally identify "her man", from his grainy pic... and watch from a distance, scoop up his 3 year old toddler and his arm around his missus shoulder, while shes holding the other baby !!!......oh its a loved up affair rite out side Skywest's terminal.... when the swing ends !!! Oh and heres another FIFO trick........you meet a guy here in Perth - he tells you he works up North for such such company...and his swing is like 3 up, and one week off...ok fair enough.......oh he works for the company alrite...pushing a pen behind the desk at the Head Office located in Adelaide Terrace....I cant begin to tell you how many of my g/f's have fallen for that trick.....he forgets to tell you his not acutally working at Paraburdoo...he goes home for 3 weeks to his cosy little over mortgage property in EllenBrook and plays for a week with you !!! - telling the missus his off to a business conference in Singapore !!!!...yep..Ive had that happen to a close g/f and a few of her acquaintances... My best friends hubby works at Cloudbreak...and his tales of what goes on reflect very much on what Caveman said... Sure FIFO can work for some ladies....excellent if you are prepared to face the reality of what it is..... Its FIFO of your pussy !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im very sorry ladies, but I have taken the sexiest FIFO man off the market. Hehehe.It all depends what you are looking for. I can say first hand that if you are looking for something serious then it takes a lot of honesty and trust to make it work. For just a FB, seems like a pretty good arrangement to me, as just when youre getting sick of him, he goes away, and you get your own space most of the time.Mrs 2ezee
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
is that most of them don't have their own place.I've spoken to a few FIFO workers and they all live in share houses (or with their parents) because they don't like paying rent while they're away. Then when they're home they don't play at home because their housemates/parents etc are there. I will invite people to my home for social visits, but it is very rare that I invite somebody over for a play; and for me getting out of the house is half the point!So, FIFO with their own place or who stays in a hotel (or who doesn't mind playing while their housemates are home) - not an issue really. The rest of them - meh.MS(the female half)
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
How very kind of you to share MS Quoting '2ezee' Im very sorry ladies, but I have taken the sexiest FIFO man off the market. Hehehe.It all depends what you are looking for. I can say first hand that if you are looking for something serious then it takes a lot of honesty and trust to make it work. For just a FB, seems like a pretty good arrangement to me, as just when youre getting sick of him, he goes away, and you get your own space most of the time.Mrs 2ezee
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RHP User
13 years ago
haha im a fifo worker myself its not only guys what everyone doesnt realise when they have never done it is that its a life of its own and nothing to be jelous about i see alot of couples split over this because the partner who isnt doing it thinks that the one working ridiculous hours and having no life being totally controlled to make a better financial life for themself and family is living the dream hahaha what a laugh all the fifo workers know exactly what im saying it is difficult if you have a partner that doesnt understand better off single then
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montyv12
13 years ago
The deal with fifo guys are we work away from home Yes I've heard the same thing people dont show or he has a partnerGetting back people are not honest I've been let down many times by now showsMen want sex with no strings women say keen to meet but never showThis is a dating site not Facebook if you just want to chat go catch up with friends While you may think I'm single minded i am just giving my viewI am a fan of this site but your not really going to find the man of your dreams hearif you do the ground work has already been laid with how you meet in the first placethankfully I've got female friends that enjoy good company,Holidays,Meals Giftsand don't carry the scars of a man hater from a previous experience all in all its your loss if you choose not to like FIFO guys and thankfully theres lots of cool chicks out there that will
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montyv12
13 years ago
Quoting 'montyv12' The deal with fifo guys are we work away from home Yes I've heard the same thing people dont show or he has a partnerGetting back people are not honest I've been let down many times by now showsMen want sex with no strings women say keen to meet but never showThis is a dating site not Facebook if you just want to chat go catch up with friends While you may think I'm single minded i am just giving my viewI am a fan of this site but your not really going to find the man of your dreams hearif you do the ground work has already been laid with how you meet in the first placethankfully I've got female friends that enjoy good company,Holidays,Meals Giftsand don't carry the scars of a man hater from a previous experience all in all its your loss if you choose not to like FIFO guys and thankfully theres lots of cool chicks out there that will Quoting 'tahtia' haha im a fifo worker myself its not only guys what everyone doesnt realise when they have never done it is that its a life of its own and nothing to be jelous about i see alot of couples split over this because the partner who isnt doing it thinks that the one working ridiculous hours and having no life being totally controlled to make a better financial life for themself and family is living the dream hahaha what a laugh all the fifo workers know exactly what im saying it is difficult if you have a partner that doesnt understand better off single then
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SHMiss'I am shying away from FIFO workers on here. My experience with them has been that when they are on site we chat heaps but as soon as they are home I don't hear from them. Guarantee as soon as they are back on site I get a text or call tho! If I was to find one who actually wanted to catch up and see me when he was home tho I think it's an arrangement that could work perfectly. The hard part is finding one that is happy to give up a night with his mates to come have some fun. I wouldn't enter into a relationship with one tho. It would be strictly a FWB situation
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RHP User
13 years ago
my ex was a FIFO worker and I handled it quite well :)
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