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friends with benefits

January 25 2014

What could we do without them...... From listening to you growl, to being your extra for a night, to having around for a good laugh...... What do you enjoy most about your friend with benefits?

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  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    when I find one.

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    11 years ago

    Passion, excitement, anticipation, uncomplicated, friendship, fun, laughter, reciprocated respect, breathlessness!!!!!!!! ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I really love the sex. But I love sleeping next to him. Its just as good. I love being close in every way. I love connection with any lover. Without it I dont think its worth it. It makes sex better. Id rather fuck one lover im connected too than any others im not. Ive always picked my lovers this way. They draw me to them. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    It would be difficult to priorities whether it is the friend component or the benefit component... But I'm sticking with friend. A person can get as shag any day with a little charm, (and perhaps a good foundation and blemish cream) but good friends are hard to find. Hugs Gazpacho

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    don't know it yet Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The best thing about FWB is that they go home ... ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Not sure yet got to find one - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' when I find one. - maybe too forward? LOL .....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The unexpected text messages of promise that make me instantly wet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MissKay' The unexpected text messages of promise that make me instantly wet. Hehe....... I think it is a bit like pavlov dog theory isn't it. Sometimes it gets to a point that any time you hear a phone ping with the you have mail message it makes you go just a little wet. A bit inconvenient when you are at work. That is why I give a regular lover his own ring tone...... otherwise I would be a mess all day. hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    They know my body, desires and limits intimately (and I theirs) and we can share closeness, laughs and comfort while maintaining our separate lives. .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm with you on that one girl as soon as someone takes me as there FWB ill tell

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ha Ha. Gets phone to change tone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Kind of like having a Clayton's boyfriend really isn't it. LOL You get all the good bits and they leave all the bad bits at home!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A FWB is like your favourite pair of jeans.. They always fit me well, and always feels great..

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    Seriously. You have sent one flirt and have no photos and ask me against your relationship status. Can you please update your profile. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Mea: They know my body, desires and limits intimately (and I theirs) and we can share closeness, laughs and comfort while maintaining our separate lives. And Meeka: Kind of like having a Clayton's boyfriend really isn't it. LOL You get all the good bits and they leave all the bad bits at home! Beachlover: At its best......Passion, excitement, anticipation, uncomplicated, friendship, fun, laughter, reciprocated respect, breathlessness!!!!!!!! ;) and finally Beautifulthingsxx: Sleeping next to him I really love the sex. But I love sleeping next to him. Its just as good. I love being close in every way. I love connection with any lover. Without it I dont think its worth it. It makes sex better. Id rather fuck one lover im connected too than any others im not. Ive always picked my lovers this way. They draw me to them. SNAP!! Gazzy you get it, now that you're back can you bestow upon the lesser educated twats out there this is how it works for the majority not the minority even in casual affairs?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Like others have said They know my body, desires and limits intimately But also there is that trust, knowing you can push those limits and boundaries and explore together yet feel completely and utterly safe ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That you can see them when you want to, go out for dinner and/or movie, hot sex. then they go home and you can forget about them until the next time. blissssss.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sometimes the benefits are he will fix a glitch in my computer, change a light bulb I can't reach or bring take away when I don't want to cook.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When you find some one you can explore with, know them, understand their limits and fantasies, they get yours & it's so good. No need for all the day to day complications. You meet for regular pleasure because you click so well sexually. Its an awesome feeling.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like how I don't have to worry about waxing or shaving my twat or legs if I can't be bothered.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    He sounds like a very understanding fb Meeks. A keeper! Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Agree totally with previous comments posted. Looking for a replacement for my last FWB...he was absolutely amazing for so many reasons!!! The perfect FWB.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' SNAP!! Gazzy you get it, now that you're back can you bestow upon the lesser educated twats out there this is how it works for the majority not the minority even in casual affairs? You cannot teach a person empathy lil missy. Some of the characters around here are about as connected to the emotions of others as Charles Manson. HugsGazpacho xxx[Love your avatar btw, very hawt!] You got my number, right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That my FWB respects my hubby and that I know I can relax completely with him because of this......... Better still is when I want that little extra or to go somewhere when hubby can't and hubby suggests I call him :)........ Happy, happy moments.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your user name could be a possible factor in this equation.... otherwise, your profile sounds great! Superb even. Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If fantastic sex were erased from the picture, and you still think the person is fucking cool, you may just well have struck gold!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Thank you I like my cuffs and heels too. No I didn't get your number lol not the one I can phone you on anyway....besides Lil missy is a good girl 😇 I love that bigmamma's husband embraces their lifestyle....same as 3 other friends living the "good life" (slumps) wish I was that lucky and could be a wife's welcomed respite. Not sure if that's how I should have put it ~ Indy, lil miss behavin' xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love it when you get the friendship part so right that the sex part is just effortless. My fwb is living 400km away so we're more friendly than sexy for the most part

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    @Unrushed1 An Enigma perhaps? You may be correct. I shall contemplate your suggestion of a name change to one more reflective of my profile. Thank you for your comments regarding my profile, much appreciated. It's good to hear positive feedback.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I kind of like it when all your friends... some with benefits & some with the occasional benefits all get together for dinner and a night out of fun. I like that! All sitting there eating your dinner and being oh so civilised but seeing the naughtiness shining in everyone's eyes. LOL............ Haven't done that for awhile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's not like every guy hasn't tried.... right???? 😅

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    [Nervous laugh assuming you are referring to my "Who do you love?" post...]

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm actually having one of those next weekend.... Two friends with benefits and another two (yes, if your reading this, you know who). The best thing is that we are going to get to just have dinner, drinks and relax together......

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    If I fly back down and find a date can I come. I do a wicked table service? Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Have I got a man for you!!! Any time your down here, I will arrange one :). Your to beautiful.. Enjoy

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Indi, all talk and no bloody action Mado Tara xx

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Dance on the tabletops at the Sugar Mill and the Slip Inn?!?! Faaaark did you see the heels I was wearin'? ~ Indy, Risk Analysis is a Killjoy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You would have had every arm outstretched just for the chance to catch you should you ummm 'topple' lol

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Too busy looking at your tits, they are magnificent

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    You mean step back so they didn't get squisheded....😃 amazing how I can walk on water and leap buildings in a single bound though hey? Sooooo Bigmumma what time's dinner?

  • GezWouldGo

    GezWouldGo

    11 years ago

    I'm with Mr Green.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Each are different one likes to vent and get drunk and then have angry sex, the other is shy and likes to talk about anything and is really into her lingerie

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    11 years ago

    Benefits are good when you have one, thankfully so far we have ended up with really good friends after the benefits ceased.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You tell me what time your flight gets in and I will have it hot and waiting!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's all good if u can stay friends but often one falles for the other then it's hard to b friends again - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Wildewillsy76

    Wildewillsy76

    11 years ago

    I enjoy the company and obviously the sex. My FWB and I catch up twice a month. We use each other not only to satisfy the sexual part of our lives, but we also use each other to bitch about things that we wouldn't normally talk other people about.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I really don,t know what I may want. A truly facefull friend , a lover conciderate... with warmth. passionate and the possebillitiy to lo0se control over the human what ever. Love that....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'MissKay' The unexpected text messages of promise that make me instantly wet. Hehe....... I think it is a bit like pavlov dog theory isn't it. Sometimes it gets to a point that any time you hear a phone ping with the you have mail message it makes you go just a little wet. A bit inconvenient when you are at work. That is why I give a regular lover his own ring tone...... otherwise I would be a mess all day. hehe Lol I thought I was the only one this happened to!!! Its so bad and I get so annoyed when its an sms from someone else! He sends naughty ones too that make my pussy twinge then I look up remembering I'm in public and can feel my face get all hot because I'm blushing!

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MisterGreen' The best thing about FWB is that they go home ... ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile ^That.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    11 years ago

    While we're at it, anyone care to take a look at my profile and see if it makes sense and conveys the lighthearted approach I was going for or if it just seems like one of those bitter old bitch profiles? I'm so new to anything but the benefits-only approach I'm still a FWB work-in-progress... Cheersxx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't have a Friend with benefits. What I do have is One male Friend with no Benefits, just company and movies and Hiking and talking to. And I have One male who is just a Sex only Partner(not really a friend) but if I need some porn star quality action I can get it and know it is worth it, while I look for someone who wants a partnership. I prefer these 2 fellas that I have known for 4 years and feel comfortable with because you know what???? They have stuck around, not like the one date wonders I have met in the last couple of years. So yeah If i want sex I can get it and if I want to catch up with my companion friend I do....I just need to find a man so I can combine the 2 together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    looks ok to me direct and to the point Hope to find my beneficial friend before i go grey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Looks lighthearted to me. But I'm not your target market!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigmamma1' I'm actually having one of those next weekend.... Two friends with benefits and another two (yes, if your reading this, you know who). The best thing is that we are going to get to just have dinner, drinks and relax together...... I mean what?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love the sound of his voice, it gets me wet instantly!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What a brilliant idea, to take dinner to the room and make the men into serving platters........ Ohhhh I can't wait to get to dessert!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Her smile, her boobs,her arse, her fist, her kiss but best off all whilst I watch her have sex with my husband I know she knows I love the show

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've been in the FWB in the past which lasted nearly 3 years. It was fabulous to say the least. It's exhilarating, frightening, and at times an absolute emotional roller coaster. But be warned. The jealousy monster has to be kept on a very tight leash and the rest of your life still needs attention. Would I do it again? In a heartbeat :)

  • blackbig

    blackbig

    11 years ago

    The best thing when you are both tuned to the same wavelength . One of my old FWB is a good friend to date, 10 years after we met. We are living in different states. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • blackbig

    blackbig

    11 years ago

    Your profile is fine. My only advise is you don't have to be too detailed in what is and what isn't included ... That could easily be discussed with a sizzling cup of coffee on the table. FWB is meant to be relaxing , free and fun. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    11 years ago

    I love that it's for now, there is no thought of future and you can be totally open and honest-about everything... And so can they. These are better connections than I've ever had with a "boyfriend".. I love the total lack of definition of what a fwb actually is :)) Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have been meeting the same sexy lady in Melbourne for the past 5 years and when we are on the phone we both react in the same way even after so long times of not chatting.She is gorgoeus, sexy, a great friend and lover.I hear her voice and my body reacts and I know what to say to make her body react.When we do meet the passion, seduction, rediscovery of each others bodies always ensure a night of extreme pleasure. Would love to find some one in WA that I could also enjoy this journey with???

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    If you can avoid crossing that line . Hard to do with so mush passion and intimacy involved ....bitter sweet - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Violetincredible' I love that it's for now, there is no thought of future and you can be totally open and honest-about everything... And so can they. These are better connections than I've ever had with a "boyfriend".. I love the total lack of definition of what a fwb actually is :)) Xx No inhabitions , no barriers just there to enjoy and explore, seduce, play and enjoy one another.Just wish I fitted the profile violet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Slightly mischievous and funny, but very clear. Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' While we're at it, anyone care to take a look at my profile and see if it makes sense and conveys the lighthearted approach I was going for or if it just seems like one of those bitter old bitch profiles? I'm so new to anything but the benefits-only approach I'm still a FWB work-in-progress... Cheersxx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Rather then having a friend with benefits, I prefer the term "taking a lover"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Feeling free, being truly honest and open about what you want from each other and the option to walk away kindly with no feelings being crushed if and when the time comes and if possible still remain friends :) One off sex just doesn't float my boat, there needs to be a connection, a friendship :) Sex is rarely good the first time around, it gets better as you get to know each other, and if it's good and gets better over time, who wouldn't want to go back for more? :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'JezzaBriz' Rather then having a friend with benefits, I prefer the term "taking a lover" That's a double FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hey Missb, Id like a chance too Nice profile ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    just sex however it comes, not a word said

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have to find a friend first too.....so I can tell you which part is better So come on ladys ..contact me