M45
getting her into kink
November 21 2014
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Obviously watersports is not a first date activity that you bring up ...... In saying that I would roll it out in the first couple of months when you start talking about sex and what you like /don't like, safe sex etc. If she is a plain Jane then isn't it better to find out if she is either into it or can accommodate your needs early on in the relationship before you have too much emotional investment. If she can't or wont and starts running away screaming once you tell her, isn't it better that you have filtered that early on so you can spend your time and energy finding someone who you can share that with you in an honest and open way? That's not to say that a previously vanilla person can't become kinky when introduced to it with the right partner As you say yourself its a huge fetish or yours and sexual comparability totally matters in a relationship and even more so when there is a kinky partner I reckon. Let say you are with this person for 5,10,20,30 years. Can you live without your fetish ..... ? Cheers, W.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find that a good time to find out more about your partner is during the "after glow". Maybe ask her questions by starting with "have you ever thought about .......", or "what do you think about .........". As Araps suggested though, I would also wait a while. Good luck ;)
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Put some R.Kelly on and give her a 4L glass of water..... L4Q is right.... the post glow banter is when you should open up and talk about past experiences, things which have turned you on, and things which interest you both. Don't forget to listen to her..... and not focus on your fetishes... she may have her own which don't interest you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's my view that most of all of these kinks/fetishes - my apologies for grouping them together - should be part of your initial screening process of any person. But... I do tend to have some rather ideological views about these topics at times. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Depends on whether you want to form a real relationship with her or are you just looking for someone to pee on you, if its the former then I would suggest you might want to spend time getting to know her& building trust...if not then dont waste her time or yours & lay it on the table....just my thoughts
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RHP User
10 years ago
You dont provide enough information to adequately give you help to broach the subject.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' It's my view that most of all of these kinks/fetishes - my apologies for grouping them together - should be part of your initial screening process of any person. But... I do tend to have some rather ideological views about these topics at times. - Posted from rhpmobile But that all depends if a kink is a must have or a nice to have or a might like to try doesn't it? Or do you feel that the OP should have on his profile......"Looking for a caring woman, who is down to earth, sexy and confident, likes long walks along the beach, must like animals, and must be prepared to piss on me every day - no exceptions. "
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bring it up NOW before she gets to like you. Don't wait a moment longer !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That'd work :p. lol I like to think that I follow a bit of a process... That is messaging determines real vs fake and establishes a basic level of rapport. Phone conversations then test each other in vocal dynamics and a continuance of rapport building, while also exploring ones interests, kinks, fetishes. Then finally the meet...this final step is where they finally test their chemistry face to face, and further developing that connection before pissing on each other under the boardwalk....as let's face it the few cans of jimmy will be well and truly starting to play havoc on ones bladder.... AND.... Taking care of tinea lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally (don't go taking my word for anything, just from a female kinksters perspective) I can be as plain Jane or as kinky as the partner I'm with chooses, providing the chemistry is right of course. That's not to say I won't attempt to push the boundaries even with the most vanilla of man at some stage. I think the idea of telling someone you've met off the cuff (away from RHP for example) all about your kinks in the early days is a bit ridiculous, and extremely daunting! vanilla's don't tend to take too kindly to such things :// I'd be careful with that.... Someone already mentioned that moving a vanilla person into kink is totally possible, and I'd agree with that but only if they're truly kinky at their core, almost like an 'awakening'. If they seriously aren't though, you'll never change it and one day I'd assume your kinks will get the better of you (they always have me) and move on. And that's not a bad thing as I'm learning... Not a big fan of giving straight out advice (everyone's different) but if I did, I'd say gently gently! Just test the waters with the simplist of kink moves and watch closely for her response, it's ALL in the response. Example: If you don't think she's into anal, get her on all fours and while your penetrating her v-jay jay, lightly run your thumb around her rim but don't over do it! Then talk about THAT during the after glow. I wouldn't advise talking of 'past experiences' during that time! Doesn't matter if she wasn't into it, try a little something else and again reflect on it with her after. You'll soon work out if there's room for kink or not :) Not so long ago if someone had of straight out asked me to play watersports I'd have run a mile!! And really, I still would if it was just joe blow down the road! But if it was someone I had established trust with (I'm talking kink trust) and felt a true desire for them, I'd absolutely indulge :P Slowly - build - trust (Hope that helps) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
First advice. What the hell are you doing in a relationship and she does not know you have a fetish? If you have a fetish you owe it to them to let them know before they get attached. If its just a bit of kink you can live without, but fetishes have to be shared and best told before the first time you have sex. Its just common courtesy FFS Anyways I have told you off, but try to remember that if there is a next girl. Water sports is not for everyone, but not for reasons you may expect. She may be OK with it, unless she has been living in a nunnery all her life, she has heard about it. But if you are laying together in the bed and beginning to play and you ask her "let try it". Unless she is a super kinkster, her very first thoughts are going to be. "What in the bed?" she may say it out loud. If you say yes, her very next though will be directed not at you but the bed, "Oh my god." at about that time she will be getting up and examining the bed with her eyes. I hope you are getting where I am leading. Its not the act its the mess that turns most off. You need to assure her that she is not sleeping in dried up piss. You dont want her imagining your place as an open toilet. Don't say lets do it in the toilet. My best advice for the Plain Jane is in the shower. So start showering together. Its about the only place you can drop that clanger. If she really is that plain, the showering together is a big step, give her time to get used to that first. I assume you watch porn, personally when I meet someone and its going to be a sexual relationship, I want to see what they watch, or read (many women prefer to read erotica than watch it), that gives me a clear unambiguous idea of what they are into, I am not afraid to ask, not everyone is though. All women know guys watch porn and everyone is curious about their new partners and will wonder what they watch. So don't hide the porn you watch, don't shove it in her face, but it should be somewhere where she can find it. If she freaks, you can blame it on a mate or that you where just curious. If she finds it and says nothing just start being more and more casual about where you leave it, like dont close the browser tab, dont clear your history or use incognito modes. Best of luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Start out with having a shower together ? Once settled into the shower simply say you need to pee and check her reaction ? Ask her if it's ok to pee in the shower and if she say yes then say carful I'll pee on you ? Then you can check her reaction ? Either she will freak of she will say no issues pee away? If it's pee away say to her feel free to pee on me ? Not my thing (water sports) but good luck either way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
to be the pisser,not the pissed on,or both..I have no desire to be pissed on,that would piss me off:-) ...but if you want to call me Loo,go ahead xxFreya
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inspirit
10 years ago
Go in and pee between her legs........... might break the ice darlink. It's quite hot too. IMO.
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inspirit
10 years ago
I am haveing a momintary relapseeee..
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is your fire and your passion that will awaken all kind of desires in her.If she is feeling alive, sexy, and is ravished by you frequently….she will open up to no limits.Every woman has the capacity to indulge in the most incredible experiences when she trust and is awaken from within… Treat her well…indulge her and inspire her trust…..The rest will flow naturally !!!
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I'm pretty honest and open about my needs, my wants, my fetishes, my kinks with anyone I plan to meet with and I want to know these things about them as well. I'm not asking for them to be into everything I'm into but if they are then that's a bonus. What I find I'm more looking for someone who is open, open to experimenting, open to experiences, open to pushing boundaries, open to communication and wants someone to share all this with. I personal couldn't go back to vanilla and probably wouldn't consider someone who was. I guess it just depends on how much you need it and if you're willing to compromise on your fetish or not....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well put MissShy.. For me, water sports/fisting and heavy bondage is a leaning towards the extreme sides of things..This may freak quiet a few people out (both men and women), so when it comes to some idea's you may wish to try this scenario.. Say you're both laying in bed after having a nice sexy session...bring up the topic of funniest sessions you've heard of, or craziest stuff you've heard one of your mates/her girlfriends had got upto or got caught doing...take it from there and drop in the subject like.. "babe, this contractor dude i once worked with said he had a chic that wanted him to pee on her etc etc..." pay particular attention to her body language when you say it (or any other topic you may wish to try with her) and judge her reaction.. if she cringes and cuddles into you then fair chance she's thinks (the discussed topic) is a bit freaky.. Be patient mate, and don't push everything at once...like pealing an onion.. one layer at a time.. :) Good luck champ, Giddy :) Quoting 'ShySub255' Personally (don't go taking my word for anything, just from a female kinksters perspective) I can be as plain Jane or as kinky as the partner I'm with chooses, providing the chemistry is right of course. That's not to say I won't attempt to push the boundaries even with the most vanilla of man at some stage. I think the idea of telling someone you've met off the cuff (away from RHP for example) all about your kinks in the early days is a bit ridiculous, and extremely daunting! vanilla's don't tend to take too kindly to such things :// I'd be careful with that.... Someone already mentioned that moving a vanilla person into kink is totally possible, and I'd agree with that but only if they're truly kinky at their core, almost like an 'awakening'. If they seriously aren't though, you'll never change it and one day I'd assume your kinks will get the better of you (they always have me) and move on. And that's not a bad thing as I'm learning... Not a big fan of giving straight out advice (everyone's different) but if I did, I'd say gently gently! Just test the waters with the simplist of kink moves and watch closely for her response, it's ALL in the response. Example: If you don't think she's into anal, get her on all fours and while your penetrating her v-jay jay, lightly run your thumb around her rim but don't over do it! Then talk about THAT during the after glow. I wouldn't advise talking of 'past experiences' during that time! Doesn't matter if she wasn't into it, try a little something else and again reflect on it with her after. You'll soon work out if there's room for kink or not :) Not so long ago if someone had of straight out asked me to play watersports I'd have run a mile!! And really, I still would if it was just joe blow down the road! But if it was someone I had established trust with (I'm talking kink trust) and felt a true desire for them, I'd absolutely indulge :P Slowly - build - trust (Hope that helps) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did you say you have just started seeing her? Well as said by Araps just roll with the first couple of months with what happens, then ad your relationship blossoms, slowly coax your sweety into it. First & foremost communication is the key to relationships, be careful, sensitive and good luck buddy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Geez mate' give the girl a chance ? . Some girls I perceived as a plain jane to begin with' latter turned out hot as hot.. Dont discard shyness, lots of people hold back so my advice is to slow down , be patient and see how things turn out..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow i got some mixed responses there lol well i might just wait i can do with out it . Next time if there is a next time i think i'll just try and meet someone on here that way it's all on my profile she knows what i like. Thanks for all your help - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your 'first advice' looks very different to your last bit! And how could you possibly know or even slightly anticipate how this girl is likely to react? There's great danger in assumptions!!! Do you seriously expect people to lay their fetishes on the line before they even hop into bed with someone?? My fetishes are VERY personal to me and I absolutely DO NOT share them with someone I've just met!! Aside from obviously scaring the utter crap out of them, I also have an entire vanilla lifestyle to protect! Do you not understand that people's vanilla existence (society says we all have to have them) can be destroyed after being outed about their fetishes? Things aren't that black and white! So you told off the OP, and now I've growled at you :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
It didn't allow me to 'reply' for some reason
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RHP User
10 years ago
If one partner is vanilla and the other is not especially if being honest and upfront is not a part if the relationship. Honesty shared with lovjng care is a precious thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Glad we could be of service champ.. good luck. Giddy :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' I find that a good time to find out more about your partner is during the "after glow". Maybe ask her questions by starting with "have you ever thought about .......", or "what do you think about .........". As Araps suggested though, I would also wait a while. Good luck ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok, here's what you do*. Plan a lovely picnic at the beach. A beach with limited toilet facilities and poor mobile coverage. Pack up a proper picnic hamper (one of those wicker ones with wee salt and pepper shakers) with some delicious chickpea and feta salad, a pork pie and several beautiful cheeses. Red and white checkered napkins and a beautiful white blanket. Just when it can't get any more romantic: BAM! Oysters and sancerre. You suave mo-fo. Hold hands. Walk barefoot. Compliment her hair and notice that she had a pedicure. Drink lots of water. Lots. Suggest a swim.....wade out a small distance ahead until you spot a non-lethal jellyfish (this is where it gets really clever). Let the jellyfish sting you....just a little. Go full Al Pacino. Limp shore wards and writhe in the sand. Natural concern! Through gritted teeth suggest the only solution at hand to treat a jellyfish sting; she's going to have to pee on it. You know! It's not ideal but the pain is intense! Please help! Eye contact. Vast torrents of pee. Immense relief....almost sexual. Tender embrace. Declarations of love. Machiavellian as fuck. *Please note the *science* here is based entirely on an episode of Friends. Peeing on jellyfish stings can actually make them worse. Instead use saltwater, vinegar or a solution of baking soda.....hmmm, maybe put some baking soda in the picnic basket.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'NoFuzz' It is your fire and your passion that will awaken all kind of desires in her.If she is feeling alive, sexy, and is ravished by you frequently….she will open up to no limits.Every woman has the capacity to indulge in the most incredible experiences when she trust and is awaken from within… Treat her well…indulge her and inspire her trust…..The rest will flow naturally !!! I don't agree that every women would just open up to a man with no limits. For example no matter who much I love a guy I don't think I could get into scat... use his mouth as a toilet say. I don't like men that talk shit. I don't mind a bit of role play but I might not want to dress my man up as a baby and breast feed him all day everyday.... and then as he is about to come whip off his nappy and try and smother him with in. (and that is a real fantasy right there) I have a lot of friends who wouldn't even know this sort of thing exist. That people piss on each other for pleasure. So it is something you introduce gradually I think. I know 4 years ago I thought it was yuck but I would piss on someone now if they asked.......... if they wanted it every day. Maybe not so much.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with SubShy girl. I don't think you need to tell potential lovers everything. I can also take a very long time before I really open up to a person totally. Months in fact. Although obviously with the way I probably talk and the fact I go to sex parties etc would probably alert someone to the fact that I am not the average girl I suppose.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Now I pissed on myself!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ShySub255' Your 'first advice' looks very different to your last bit! And how could you possibly know or even slightly anticipate how this girl is likely to react? There's great danger in assumptions!!! Do you seriously expect people to lay their fetishes on the line before they even hop into bed with someone?? My fetishes are VERY personal to me and I absolutely DO NOT share them with someone I've just met!! Aside from obviously scaring the utter crap out of them, I also have an entire vanilla lifestyle to protect! Do you not understand that people's vanilla existence (society says we all have to have them) can be destroyed after being outed about their fetishes? Things aren't that black and white! So you told off the OP, and now I've growled at you :P Grr back at ya. If you have a fetish it means that it is part of your sex life that you can not live without. It will come up in at some point and for some that is more than enough to want out of a relationship. If the person had known from the start then all that emotional investment would not have be a waste and I am sure they would have preferred to know before they fell for you. If you can happily live the rest of your life without indulging your fetish and without feeling resentment for having to hide it you should not call it a fetish, its just some kink you are into. I don't have a fetish per-say but I am BI and on a few occasions (when I started online dating) when things started to look like romance I have felt honor bound to let them know. I am glad I did as some showed me that despite the lovely outward demeanor there was a bigoted little monster inside. The ones that took it in there stride are still good friends today. Keeping secrets is not a way to enter a relationship, opening up very early on with your deepest darkest secret not only allows the other to see the real you, but also is the first step in building trust. Apart from group sex, I do not fuck anyone that does not know who I am, but that's me as I can not separate love and sex, or is it I cant get aroused till I feel the love. Though now that you have exposed the secret I am pondering what salacious fetish you must have locked away that would scar mere mortals just to hear it uttered. The mind does boggle.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I couldn't disagree with you more :P You admitted you don't have a fetish, so maybe you should quit while you're behind?.... Being bi I don't think classes as a fetish? I guess that's in the eye of the beholder but I'm also bi, and have no problem telling anyone about that either. I'm pretty sure people aren't at much risk of losing their jobs, kids or hell even going to jail for being bi!! Yes you're quite right in saying being honest from the start and opening up about your deepest darkest secret does let the other person see the real you, and also provides them with a very real opportunity to OUT you to the rest of the world! People are afraid of what they don't understand. In my world, trust is earned, not freely given and I personally have zero issue separating love from sex :) lucky me! I guess you're destined to die wondering ;) Thanks for the banter x
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I agree with SubShy girl. I don't think you need to tell potential lovers everything. I can also take a very long time before I really open up to a person totally. Months in fact. Although obviously with the way I probably talk and the fact I go to sex parties etc would probably alert someone to the fact that I am not the average girl I suppose. Being devils advocate here. I can understand that it may take some time to be in the right stage together in a relationship to bring something up like a kink or fetish but let just say that you spend 6-9 months or more building a relationship up to the point of being able to say something big like that. What happens when you do tell and the other person takes it really bad (ie "you freak !!") and say you've a prick for leading me on for 6 months. Or they say that as much as they love you they will never be able to do it. .... which leave the option for the person with the fetish do I stay or do I go made harder cause there are more feelings involved. Do they then settle for someone even though they know they will never be able to indulge your fetish cause they just can't go there for you and then potentially being burnt in the long run as resentment grows. Sure your narrowing down your field of partners for a relationship by disclosing earlier but by saying it earlier your also focusing your time on the people who potentially could go there with your fetish and who are also a match relationship wise. For me its definitely not first date but somewhere around 1 month, 2 months max. Cheers, W
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hear what you're saying, I really do. Lucky for me, I'm FINALLY at a place in my life where I'll know very early on if someone is likely to be open to kink or not, and know myself well enough to know what I can and can't live without but wow, it's taken a lot of trial and error to reach this point! The reality is, every time you start a new relationship with someone, you're taking a risk. You can't possibly expect to know all there is to know about that person and half the time, they're not even sure themselves. People don't always act and behave in the exact same way with one person as they have or do with another, and further to that, people are likely to change their behaviors over time. Haven't you ever been in a relationship with someone and at the 6 month mark thought "who is this person?" I was 18 when my then boyfriend who I'd been with for bang on 6 months decided to punch me fair in the head one day for not much reason at all. He was angry after a shit day at work and I asked him the slow down (he was driving like a maniac on a dirt road) so he ripped on the handbrake, pulled me out of the car by my hair and cracked me in the face! You don't think I felt ripped off?? That wasn't a once off, that was actually a big part of who he was (and still is with his now wife) and do you think he mentioned that to me when we first started dating?? My point is, shit happens! You put yourself out there you risk being hurt. No matter vanilla kink or whatever. No one starts out (or I would like to think) with cruel intentions, and not everyone can tell within themselves and in something new if they actually can or can't live without a certain kink or fetish with a certain person. Just like you can never be sure that you'll always have a healthy sex life with someone. It's a risk we all take...
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are all free to behave as we see fit, but we all must accept the consequences of every thing we do. I am not here to enforce rules, but neither will I restrain my opinions. I base what I know only from my experiences and those that I have encountered along the way. On the whole I learnt my moral code via the trial and error method, and I am somewhat a slow learner. I am at a stage where I am not in need of a relationship, though not dead to the concept, or closed doored I am wary. I wish to protect my own sanity, I also want to not hurt those I love. One of the biggest lessons I have learnt, and took me 44 years to learn is that you can truly love many and that it does not require a 24/7 ongoing committed relationship to be in love. Those that demand me in isolation will get nothing. Why waste time in one doomed relationship after another in the hope that the next will bring perfection. I have yet to see a perfect relationship. Sure some pass the test of time, some are committed to a shared goal, but perfect for ever after, I have never seen it. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but why bother with all the effort reeling one in only to throw it back. I bait my hook for what I desire. Life is to short and perfection does not exist. I lay my self as an open book to those that show interest, if you can not relate, then I just say good by. No need to cut strings, burn bridges, see tears, and hear screams. I am selfish and only want people that like me, not the dream of perfection they may wish me to be. I say try it, next time there is interest, blurt it out, because its pretty god dang awesome when there is no baggage to hide.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why not ask her if she has read 50 Shades of Grey....the film is coming out in the New Year..In my opinion this is a non threatening but revealing way to start a discussion....if she hasn't read it,maybe you could start s book club for two xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
She has read them i have seen them in her draw. I'm just going to wait until the time is right. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Was the time ever right,what happened?xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Trying but very hard she is grossed out by nearly everything this is going to take a long time. I believe everyone has a fetish she just needs to find hers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' My best advice for the Plain Jane is in the shower. So start showering together. Its about the only place you can drop that clanger. If she really is that plain, the showering together is a big step, give her time to get used to that first. I assume you watch porn, personally when I meet someone and its going to be a sexual relationship, I want to see what they watch, or read (many women prefer to read erotica than watch it), that gives me a clear unambiguous idea of what they are into, I am not afraid to ask, not everyone is though. All women know guys watch porn and everyone is curious about their new partners and will wonder what they watch. So don't hide the porn you watch, don't shove it in her face, but it should be somewhere where she can find it. If she freaks, you can blame it on a mate or that you where just curious. If she finds it and says nothing just start being more and more casual about where you leave it, like dont close the browser tab, dont clear your history or use incognito modes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought your advice was on point! I used almost exact same ideas ages ago on both shower water-sports and the porn and it worked a treat :) was after a few months though and after i had a feel for the woman.
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blackbig
10 years ago
Ginbased I like it..😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is about do you trust her enough to ask/tell; and do you beige that you have built the trust in you from her. I have been asked by males and female to participate in watersports. Just not my thing. Pissing in the show, I could careless, but pissing on someone or them piss on me... Nah. That is me. So, while I wouldn't think them a freak, and would do other things, just not that. If it's a deal breaker, its a deal breaker. But maybe thee might be something you enjoy more. Build trust first and talk about things in an abstract way first, then personalise things. I'd be asking her about her desires, fantasies and fetishes first and perhaps trying some of those first.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
THE best answer so far is from -quality also you don'tsay how close you are to her as in is she worthholding onto.Some ladies even from a site like this are deadin the bedroom.
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fortands
10 years ago
Piss the bed first, see how she reacts...😱 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow, your fetish seems to be about you, and it can come across a little selfish, why not ask her what she wants? what she is interested in? I found out very quickly that if you start to explore and fulfill desires, fantasies, kinks for women that they become more than willing to fulfill any of your wants and needs. There is so much more to it and how you view her in the bedroom that i wont go into now.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like to think I'm pretty much up for a fair bit of most things in the bedroom, at 22 I wasn't much different then now so when a guy I liked a fair bit asked for the 'golden' shower I thought ok this should be a piece of ( scuse the pun ) piss (was just too easy) anyways 3 litres of water and 2 hours later he gets in position and......nothing , I tried really hard but just couldn't 'release' that inhibition . And honestly no matter how hard I tried I could not see a sexual thrill in it. Yes at the beginning I told myself that I'll give him it for all the women out there who've had men' pissing 'on them in life, one for woman's superiority ( I was a bit of a feminist in my 20s ok) but nope not a trickle. All I could say to him in a effort to lighten the mood was ' I think my mum toilet trained me too well.' - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
It was his kink.... just not yours.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I have 4 subs but one wants me to choke her and pee on her but for some reason I cant oblige.I don't see choking or peeing as healthy kinks I would rather dominate and make them squirt.Best you talk to her and find out her feelings on that kink and see if she has any you can do for her.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Coop.... Be careful what you wish for... You may open that can of worms, and discover she's into scat or Roman showers... A wet bed may be the least of your worries!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Far out you have just jumped a massive amount of steps lol. I think the best way is talking about experiences and possible fantasies. If she is still abit closed on the subject drop hits every now and then. Probably going to get a smashed from some women on her about this, but if she is a good dunk meaning flirty, very talkative drop some hints then and this would work best when you both are tipsy as you can blame the alcohol in the end. Good luck
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RHP User
10 years ago
Remember pee is sterile lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'hayabusa24' Remember pee is sterile lol Nuh-uh.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I have a pint of my finest vintage of "sterile" pee...... chug a lug! Welcome to the forums...... just remember..... noone knows everything.... especially at 28.
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