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girls that don't like you going down on them
July 20 2011
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Some women have a very sensitive clitorus and if treated wrongly during oral sex it can be extremely discomforting. Maybe she had a bad experience once before you and did not want to go through it again, or maybe when you did your enthusiasm got the better of you and you "pushed" it for too long and too hard. It needs to be treated with respect. Ultimately, it is her body and you do what the woman likes to make the sexual experience pleasurable for both of you. There is also "communication" to discuss with them how to best experiment so that issues such as your "loving to eat pussy" might be accomodated. ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some women are quite particular and want to know where that thing as been in the last say, 24 hours? Not many like it if you have been licking postage stamps all day. Now that nearly all of them have those nasty little things from Lelo...some of them even expect us to be able to use it to communicate with them. Talk to them then slip them the tongue...they seem to appreciate that now and then. | Not sure all this new age liberated woman stuff is helping the cause... | ...are you? | | Thought about "shoe tongue" humour but that went out with Velcro.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Now my preference is for a bit of greyhound or roo even. Pussy is such a delicacy, much like truffles, soo hard to find but gawd heavanly to taste. AMEN. PRAISE THE LORD! HALLELUJAH! ;)at eagertongue4u think it comes down to her being self concious despite the fact she was pretty easy on the eye, liked to have sex in the dark.......ChasingMidnight "Not sure all this new age liberated woman stuff is helping the cause... | ...are you? "i am trying, oh lord i am trying :) |
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
It could come down to her upbringing as well as some of the above! Maybe she was "conditioned" to believe it is "dirty" down there and didn't want your tongue anywhere near her for this reason! The only other thing I can think of is that she can "smell" herself...doesn't find it pleasant and therefore doesn't think that she is "clean" even straight after showering! What is it with you guys in a relationship and not being able to ask your significant other why they have a problem with a certain thing? Surely it can't be that hard ... not as hard as picking your nose or farting in front of her...COMMUNICATION! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally I prefer to be fingered, there is only 1 guy that I have met who actually made me cum from going down on me & let me tell you that took ALOT of effort hahaMost of the time I feel that licking is not stimulating enough for me, it could be I am not sensitive enough to be licked so I generally go for things like vibrators, fingers & licking all together I don't like just licking alone it's just not enough for me ;p
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
But then I learned it was a combination of the guy using the right technique, me relaxing, and having something to do with my hands...Generally I stiff find oral too 'specific' in the sense that I like my whole body to be involved, but when done properly it is quite enjoyable ;)I was also raised strict Catholic so that may have had something to do with it...HTHCheers,MS(the female half)
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naughtymissxena
13 years ago
It used to do nothing for me, but as i have grown older i am finding some things i didn't like when i was younger now really do it for me. I only have just (finally) had my first orgasm from a guy going down last week, (my girlfriends and i had a few drinks to celebrate) and it was a total shock to me as i thought it would never happen. My advice is don't give up. One day some talented man is going to completely rock your world. Stay naughty, XXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
my partner says 'wog chicks' dont like oral sex....... I guess it has been his experience - and that is giving AND RECEIVING ??????for me - its a combination of gentle but firm, totally get off when I cum and he sucks my clit right into his mouth..... OMG - its all over for me then.... talk about floating !!
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jensta
13 years ago
Love my pussy! Kissed!tease my clit, with tongue lick it, taste my sweet juices ,with tongue explore every bit of my pussy lick my clit suck it goodfuck! my hot pussy with tongueguaranteed oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooorgasm!!!multiple times & want to Fuck Hard! xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
to all guys out there if u have never enjoyed the experience of watching the woman ur with and enjoy looking up at her face while she cums harder than she has ever cum before u have all missed out!!!!! lol part of my routine.....if u want to call it that is making sure 'she' enjoys a few times before the actual sex ie slow or hard grinding takes place....and even thru all that i will hold them on a knifes edge and journey down to enjoy the sweet taste....c'mon we have tongues for a reason!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe that's why the ones I have met all seem to like it.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Quoting 'newstart64'my partner says 'wog chicks' dont like oral sex....... I guess it has been his experience - and that is giving AND RECEIVING ??????for me - its a combination of gentle but firm, totally get off when I cum and he sucks my clit right into his mouth..... OMG - its all over for me then.... talk about floating !! I'm sure he has tried to go down on every "wog chick" around...pftttt! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
love it and love giving it in return. Just please don't change tack on yr partner when you've got her almost over the edge, nothing worse than breaking that momentum. Get that right and you'll have a woman who'll ride u so hard till the last drop is squeezed out of your cock & screamin with her 2nd or 3rd orgasm of the night/session. mmm, yum. Time to wake up my slumbering other half now, lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'naughtybutwell' to all guys out there if u have never enjoyed the experience of watching the woman ur with and enjoy looking up at her face while she cums harder than she has ever cum before u have all missed out!!!!! lol part of my routine.....if u want to call it that is making sure 'she' enjoys a few times before the actual sex ie slow or hard grinding takes place....and even thru all that i will hold them on a knifes edge and journey down to enjoy the sweet taste....c'mon we have tongues for a reason!!!!!!!!! so agree. as far as i am concerned the more you get your lady worked up the harder she will go you. the more pleasure you give the more you receive. a bored root is a boring root.that is why i am 100% vagitarian ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, the only time I don't like a dude going down on me... is when he's doing a shit job. I remember when I was only 18... I fell asleep whilst my then boyfriend was doing it... YAWN. I never came from oral sex until I met (MR) Foreverlove though... He is the ONLY guy who has ever been successful in this area with me. <3 (MRS)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I also agree it could be past experiences. I hated my ex going down there (it was uncomfortable and I felt unclean) but with my partner now I love him doing it. He does it just right, and I feel more comfortable, open (and I cum, which I didn't before!) That definitely helps...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Before I met my partner I hated oral.1. I was young and shy2. Most guys were way too rough and clumsy3. It was like my pussy was being desensitizedMy partner of 21 years gives the best oral you can imagine. He is sensitive, careful he doesn't stay with one type of action for too long I suppose you could say he mixes it up.He really arouses me slowly til I beg him to put it in!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I recently asked my ex gf why she didn't let me do it much because the lady before couldn't get enough, I was the first male to make her orgasm from oral sex. She said that it usually didn't feel like much at all to her sometimes and the other times she was so aroused that she just wanted intercourse and didn't have the patience for anything "less". She was also very shy about her body and didn't like being so exposed and vulnerable or having me in such an intimate area and action. If she was a little more confident about her body and trusting of me she may have enjoyed it more. Oh well.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo'she was so aroused that she just wanted intercourse and didn't have the patience for anything "less". I confess that I'm guilty of that ... Which is a pity really, I suspect it robs me of a lot of potential pleasure LOL. . There was a time when receiving oral sex was the only way I would reach orgasm and my most intense orgasms have come from oral sex. . I think oral sex requires patience and most probably an attitude of pleasuring for pleasure's sake rather than giving with a view to the orgasm end game. . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
An old school friend of mine doesnt like oral of any kind....giving or receiving...she thinks its dirty...doesnt understand why anyone would want to do it...let alone receive it... . My old flat mate has just recently seperated from his GF (if he had listened to me in the first place..........anyway moving along) he was telling me she has no sex drive whats so ever and when she was in the mood the quicker sex was over and done with the happier she was....foreplay was non existent..and there was no way she was giving or receiving oral - that just prolonged matters....and yet she seemed to think this was normal behaviour.... . While it isnt all that common on sites such as this, it is not unheard of...previous experience....upbringing....what ever the reason...if she doesnt like it dont force it! , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
That fucking four bottles of champers at the 5 star in the spa trick always works C'mon Charles even you should realise by now that it's high time to change the bait . My eyes can't handle one more big roll like that !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh right now I feel soooo cheap, DGT...thanks for that! You only offered me a six pack and rumble in the caravan parked out the back.... | ....I would still say yes you know. | | A little cramped for the Nikon...I'll bring my Canon instead.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Oh right now I feel soooo cheap, DGT...thanks for that! You only offered me a six pack and rumble in the caravan parked out the back.... | ....I would still say yes you know. | | A little cramped for the Nikon...I'll bring my Canon instead. It's a rumble out there CM got take it where you can If that means hooking something up to the towball, so be it
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
To flip the coin here....how many profiles have you girls seen where it says "Oral Receiving" only! I have seen many male profiles with that on it! I just click next and move onto someone that likes to get it and give it! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' To flip the coin here....how many profiles have you girls seen where it says "Oral Receiving" only! I have seen many male profiles with that on it! I just click next and move onto someone that likes to get it and give it! xFunlovingx i find it strange that any guy wouldn't wanna go down. i love to go to an all you can eat muff buffet
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' To flip the coin here....how many profiles have you girls seen where it says "Oral Receiving" only! I have seen many male profiles with that on it! I just click next and move onto someone that likes to get it and give it! xFunlovingx I think we have similar approaches . Kisses Focus
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tamworthguy46
13 years ago
I have only ever had one girl that objected to me going down on her, I was 18 and she was 17 , and she would say" don't hun I don't like it" .....Which would be the same reply every time i tried it on her.......She loved to have sex in general, so not going down on her didn't reaky phaze my lust for her, ......I never realy queried or or tried to make some psycological evaluation from it all, I just took it as she didn't like it !!!!!..........and after we split up, I asked her best friend one day, How she was going, and her friend said that she missed the sexual part of time together. She was also my first love, and i still think about her to this day occasionly.....I suppose that's another story !!...lol Cheers tam
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' has anyone noticed that many sex swingers clubs have alcohol spa's and sex...?? i wonder if this is classifiied as "bait'...as well..?? .... I can't help but wonder what kind of awful guys these clubs must be worried about when they go to the effort to market their venue based on draw cards like "No Single Men!" and "Men must be with their partners at all times downstairs" . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cant think of anything better than extended foreplay and the going down on a girl..... I have only ever been with one girl who had never cum from oral... After about the 4th attempt and 30 mins later...
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