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good first toy? how did you get started?
July 25 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
I started with a 'show bag' from sexpo which had a bunch of different toys in it - which let me get an idea of what I liked best so then I could go buy a better version of that. You could consider cheaper ebay versions just to get an idea and then get a higher end one of whatever she likes best.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...enough said.
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RHP User
8 years ago
First time, forget the toys, her hand will get her there the first time, but tell her to have patience. Takes practice and time, in the beginning that is, takes me seconds now lol, but vigorous stimulation when new to solo play, can be too much, the clit is very sensitive and doesn't need much. It's more learning to relax, that's the problem most women have and they also don't realise they can have other orgasms by not stopping or using different stimulation or stimulating just the clit, but no internal stimulation. The woman's body is incredible. Strongly recommend ignoring all the advice you get on a forum and find someone genuine and honest to show her what to, show and tell, explain how it all works, mind and body. It's not always easy and I don't believe toys are a magic solution. Step A.) Undress Step B.) Turn vibrator on and use Step C.) Orgasm 😉 doesn't work like that, well it does now but having already engaged my brain, relaxed, watched porn lol I use my hands to begin until I'm swollen, then left one to pull the hood back towards the end, but two fingers go inside to tease the gspot, also keeps the juiciness happening, brings the juices up each time, and the right hand to operate the vibe. But whatever she does, lube/oil always at ready, always have it and use it often, actually promotes stimulation and orgasm, oil at least, probably because we're not tensing, fully relaxed, and that's the key thing 😃 sorry, I use a simple bullet vibe, cheap online, and honestly, the money women waste on expensive vibes. Absolutely not necessary. Money or a fancy vibe won't give you the best orgasm or any orgasm at all necessarily IMHO
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why do you have to degrade women? Sorry I have seen you have run ins with a lot on here . Why start another one ? Maybe have a kit Kat
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' First time, forget the toys, her hand will get her there the first time, but tell her to have patience. I think they didn't mean "first time" just "first toy" - as they said in the topic title. OP: a nice thumpy bullet/egg can be cheap and non-threatening - though you can get decent wands for not much money now. If you meant the 'womaniser', thats a lot of coin for a toy, I'd save it till she knows more about what she likes in toys. Summer - the lelo egg was pretty strong. Was the We-Vibe Tango stronger than that We-Vibe C shaped 'couples' thing? that just felt light and 'buzzy' - high frequency, but low amplitude/strength to the vibration.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Igbore everyone on the forum ? Just your point of view? You should explain your self or apologies....
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RHP User
8 years ago
huh? What am I apologising for? The op said his partner wasn't into solo play? Which to me says she doesn't orgasm. Sorry, but that's reality. You can talk around it any way you like. I tell it like it is, not meaning to be offensive and I didn't think my comment was. I'm a bit offended by your agro. What problem do you have with my comment? This is a forum and people will respond differently. It appears I have struck a nerve?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Sprinckles' Igbore everyone on the forum ? it actually sets up quite the logical conundrum - how does one advise that advice from the forum should be ignored? ;)
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Off topic a wee bit? Dont think the OP asked the abc of masturbation Suppose you are the expert with the name. But ignore me. Ignore everyone. What the fuck does anyone else know about fucking themselves? You are the expert quite obviously.😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
My womaniser - yes it's expensive but it takes a lot of time to get me there usually, and it finishes me off within 25 seconds from start to finish. It depends on how sensitive she is? I'm very sensitive so a strong vibrator actually kills my vibe. A glass dildo is also another basic but fun toy to have in a starter collection.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hope I'm in topic here - we first started by using her Impulse brand deodorant can because it was always handy and we didn't have a proper toy. It was long with a rounded base and allowed easy penetration. Then we began using a suitably shaped shampoo bottle for the same reason and because it is much bigger. We then decided to by a small and a large vibrator. Mrs doesn't like the vibrating though so we don't turn them on but use them as dildos instead. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
8 years ago
A good start'd be a sex swing and a mate.😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lelo has brought out the world's first wireless music vibrator called ''Siri 2'' replete with eight vibration modes based on the genre of the music! *....and she's buy-ing the stairway to heaven*. Fuck that...try to keep with with the fingers of Yngwie Malmsteen!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MidnightCruisin' Lelo has brought out the world's first wireless music vibrator called ''Siri 2'' replete with eight vibration modes based on the genre of the music! now i've got legs stuck in my head... "She's got legs, she knows how to use them / She never begs, she knows how to choose them"
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RHP User
8 years ago
Tonga truck loved it still have it 😳😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Tonka truck. Nice. I can't recall my first toy. I did have some wooden ones. I've even made some wooden ones for my friends in recent times. 😳 They loved playing with my toys, I loved making them. Win- win!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agree with soft and curious, womanizer is incredible at providing multiples, also helps increas sensitivity with increased blood flow, and works well with reverse cowgirl. The satisfyer is new, same thing but can go in water. Otherwise, simple vibes are good, personally like the wands as they are great for massage, the therapeutic types😊😊😊 Dont be she in spending good dollars, they tend to give better happy endings and you really can't put a price on that😊, plus her shoes are probably more expensive and she only puts her feet in those😊😊😊 Good luck and happy endings 😏😏😏
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Sawadee
8 years ago
my mother use to cut the bottoms out of my pockets so I had something to play with...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok just got a eva it is a good toy, easy to you's and works well grate couples toyim not shore of cost but load's of fun , glass dildo a amazing ,we have worn out two rabbit style vibes also NU SENSUELLE TOUCH bullet vibes any way hope this helps
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RHP User
8 years ago
thank you all for the great feedback. i noticed the womaniser mentioned a couple of times, and we did have a quick look at that at adultshop. i think the fact that its touchless, the pressure waves, etc, would probably be far better for her, taking into account her sensitivity, fatigue, etc. the fact it helps to enhance blood flow i think would make a major difference. i'll probably pop in to adultshop today and have a discussion and perhaps come home with a suprise... as we had been talking about that particular unit a bit since our outing on saturday we tried out earlier just a cheap ebay vibe she bought a little while ago, but just a few fairly similar modes, no speed control, mobile phone could probably vibrate better... although she did get some stimulation from it, gently rubbing it up against her clit. but clearly not a winner. so perhaps wednesday might turn out to be quite wicked...
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RHP User
8 years ago
This one time at band camp😉😉😉 Actually first vibrator for the wife was a rabbit one with a smaller shaft. First comment was, I'm not putting that in me, few more drinks and daring and 30seconds later omg, omg OMG!!! Lets do that again, now hooked, and have a very large assortment, lead to buying a Sybian. I suggest, research your toys and slowly progress, it certainly makes sex a lot more spicy and has never detracted from the physical has actually made her more sensitive and responsive. keep having happy endings 😈😈😈😈
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RHP User
8 years ago
In terms of vibrators.... I have a Womanizer - my favourite. A Tango and a We-vibe couples vibe. A doxy and a sentimental favourite a JimmyJane 6. I'm assuming it is to use together while having sex? My vote would go with a clitorial stimulator. I adore The Womanizer - most effective toy I've used and makes it much easier to have multiples, unlike my experience with standard vibrators. But being as it's expensive, what about just a little bullet like the Tango or similar? Personally, haven't yet had much luck with the We-Vibe couples vibe. Didn't sit or work or feel comfortable for me. Maybe I need to spend more time with it ^^ Wands, like the doxy, hitachi or many others - but there are many can be fun, and can have lots of different attachments. But I find the doxy way too intense for myself. At Maxx Black they did have a bullet/ clit type vibrator that you can use as a bullet but also was suitable to be comfortably placed in the underwear (to stimulate the vulva and clit) - with a remote - that looked like fun. But I don't remember the name. :/ Have fun shopping and experimenting :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
For more solo play - I'd definitely be sinking my money into a Lelo INA Wave. Look amazing.
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madotara69
8 years ago
Our first sex toy was Tara sitting up on our top loader washing machine on spin cycle, her idea too and the magic happens as the arousal begins to be released by the organ up in the brain, for her a cocktail of Essential Amino's, (the emotion's arousing), oxytocin, (a gift she sends and picked up by sensory glands, hits the reward button, the feelings of being wanted with lust and passion, the want to be with her), oestrogen begins flowing and puddles in the very footsteps that led us to the moments rising, testosterone begins to give her pussy twinges, her voice takes to sensual moans, fantasising, stimulating vibrations, in the heat of the moment, naughtiness, sexually liberated, trusting, mischievous, horny, wet, wetter, OMG so much better, myotonia (all that tension building around the pelvis, pussy, cute little bum sitting on spin cycle) released with a simultaneous flood of hormones (intensely pleasurable feelings) climaxing in orgasmic intensity, her wet little pussy in contractions rhythmic and the magic of such amazing physical sensations, feeling so fantastic.. is to be there with her when she cum's. Even better when I cum too. :) Yeah the washing machine was a good start, the bullet we have is the newest and has 21 modes, hard to hold onto it's that powerful, purple too, her favourite colour and she just loves all 21 of them, no 11, 17 in particular get a bit splashy as her clitoris erection pops out from under the hood, oh my how the kids sleep through even with her face buried into a pillow.. must be conditioned to mum being so happy when she get's a massage, dad must be doing her feet again, so ticklish, or just plain out sleep through it. Fatigue you mention, maybe you could try a supplement called 'Essential Amino Acids', originally called CHEN, Chinese for AROUSAL and that little organ up in the brain may well gain the energy to overcome the hinder of fatigue, at least give it a nudge, it's good for you both anyhow, the building blocks of life. Bet you weren't expecting these thoughts. Food for thought
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RHP User
8 years ago
in the W corner, quiter than a mouse, more ergonomic than a qwerty keyboard and longer battery life than youe fitbit ....the new womaniser! plus some wild fire female oil. this is a suprise, we were talking about going back to look together, but i thought, eh...why not add to the spectacle of what may possibly soon happen so i once it is opened and taken for a test run, i'll report back with results. to be continued... also, thanks madotara, going to order a 250g lot of the Essential Amino Acids and see what improvements that may bring amongst the rest of things being taken at the moment. and everyone else for all the good feedback and your own perspectives, much appreciated
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RHP User
8 years ago
Our first toy was a simple, no bells and whistles, can't-remember-the-brand vibe we bought on our first day of marriage. We've added all sorts over the years, from vibrating cock rings to the wi-vibe, and even a rabbit we bought in Amsterdam, but the first one has remained her favourite.
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RHP User
8 years ago
so the "toy" was revealed yesterday. we gave it a go when we got home after charging in the car on the way. well... in her words "ive only ever felt like I've almost had an orgasm like that before in a dream" yesterday was just a light run, but it sure had her wriggling like a snake being charmed. ...fun times ahead! - Posted from rhpmobile
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