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guys turning down two females
July 29 2017
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jedi_knight
7 years ago
Never ever said no to that!
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swingalingson
7 years ago
I know guys who say in the past they got greedy with 2 women and things went pair shaped. So they prefer ine on one. For Other guys 2 women is a pure fantasy. But put it into reality then that is a different story. Guys that never been in that scenerio would probably if an offer were given to them, they would not take it seriously and not take the offer at all. Also he might be a 3minute brother. If it is 2 women for a threesome he might only last 1.5 minutes each. For us guys it is passable to cum in 3minutes. But under 2 minutes if anyone found out it would be embarrassing bahahahha.
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Cos based upon what I feel from your post...your attitude is expecting and entitled.... If that's how you came across face to face as well, I'd have walked before an offer of sex was even put on the table. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That guy must be one loser to turn down two women, that's every guy's dream to have it! Even 3 or 4 women & one guy is awesome! Lots of drugs & stamina required - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha wow that is very unusual. Me on the other hand 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
7 years ago
Somebody that knows what they want.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We all know what we want, cock pussy ass mouth breasts & men & women who enjoy doin all these things - Posted from rhpmobile
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lovebitten
7 years ago
Two hot bisexual unicorns - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Will I do? Haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
But I also admit the whole FFM thing doesn't really do it for me, it's way down on my list. I don't think I would turn it down if offered though. Maybe he's had one before and wasn't that fussed?
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inspirit
7 years ago
Who may of felt intimidated to perform. Perhaps you should of of said ring a mate for partey 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
A third party can feel like they are only present to fulfill a set role, rather than being an equal partner who's desires are also valued and met. Perhaps he was seeking an intimate encounter, rather than a wild night?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sure is a great thing, but maybe not everyone's cup of tea. If it ever happens again, let me know! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
While anecdotally it's every man's fantasy (and I'm no exception), that doesn't mean it's the case. Every man doesn't have to be interested in FFM or FMF just as every woman isn't interested in MFM (even on sites like this). It also could be like Betty described. He could be wanting the intimacy and vulnerability of a private coupling, or he might be inexperienced and unsure in a group, or he could actually be experienced with groups but looking more for MF at this time. His priority also might be trying for something ongoing leading to a FWB or a relationship, and he doesn't feel he would make that kind of connection with either person in that situation. There are many reasons, it could be one of these or something else. Hell he could also take the cautious view of "it's probably too good to be true" - scammers/fake profiles on sex and vanilla sites play on men's basic desires (although perhaps less likely depending on the extent of your prior communication and from your question you are likely to be real). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Also, as mentioned above, plenty of people here have written about similar fantasies that have gone pear-shaped in reality, especially if it's organised with others you have never met. Many look for attitude and character first, we won't just take any sexual offer just like we won't date anyone that offers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
My thinking was fake profiles? You too?
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Lol I was thinking the same.... ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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LeMerovingien
7 years ago
Qtsex do you accept every guy's offer to mmf with their friend they just mentioned? Just because you have more options as a woman on this site doesn't mean you're entitled to whatever you want. I'd definitely be a bit skeptical if I was on the receiving end of that offer though I'd probably just ask for more info than turn it down.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey Cometogether, your profile pic is the spitting image of Colin Firth on my iPad? Do you also have an English accent? A threesome with an English man. Sounds fun!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Do you have a twin brother perhaps? Now that would make a hot mess! :))
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RHP User
7 years ago
that you find his preferences so offensive you have to ridicule him, I'd say good call.
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Livingandloving2
7 years ago
Why you sound perplexed about this. Women turn down " the ideal fantasy" scenarios all the time for many reasons. Surely no different for a man to do the same? Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
7 years ago
I have one female so far and she's itching for another girl, impossible to find. Usually it's the girl who says no.
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Personally speaking, and in broad general terms relating to my own experiences only..... ..... I do prefer one to one as I am strongly sensual tied up in my masculine dominance and I like focussing my attention on one person. However, I do enjoy the different dynamic and energy of three people occasionally But it has to be the right three I haven't turned down 3 because it was three..... but I have decided to pass based on the dynamic of the three involved, as is everyone's preference and right to do so. Each to their own and do what feels right to you, and all involved. All that said, and fantasies aside...... some people struggle to include and satisfy one person.... let alone adding another into the mix and making that worse. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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Spiritual_Lust
7 years ago
Said no man ever! If ever I get a one in a million chance to experience a 3some with 2 hot bi girls, I wouldn't say no. There's a thing called stamina which I understand some people don't have in abundance. If I blew my load early, I have a perfectly willing tongue to keep things fun and interesting until I'm ready for seconds and thirds. I've done that with a single partner, but could definitely try 2 hot girls, just sayin . . . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
That has two females who played together ... I APPLAUD the young man who knows the limitations of play with two women. In our experience we have had over 10 plays and only 2 of those plays were the men successfully able to meet the needs of two women, even though we are bisexual. A possible disappointing play is not a favourable option over a a great one on one play :) Secondly, a first meet or play is daunting enough without the pressure of added people. Mary xx
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SugarSugar69
7 years ago
A man has choices too. It's no different to a woman saying no to two guys. Don't take offense. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Everyone to their own, but if your still keen........ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
At all the guys here offering their services instead Much as most men have FFM as a fantasy, I think that there would be many who if actually became a reality wouldn't know how to properly satisfy two women at the same time. Stamina may be one issue but even stamina alone doesn't cut it. It's one reason why FFM is actually way down on my fucket list (have had foursomes but not a FFM). As other people have pointed out there could be a number of reasons why this guy didn't want a threesome, and the people who are being all judgy of him - including you OP - should be pulling your heads in.
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RHP User
7 years ago
He had a better offer and you aren't as irresistible as you assume? Judging by your entitled point if view I'd say he made the right call. Just because you are a unicorn doesn't mean you are entitled to pass judgement on others sexual preferences. Believe it or not but you aren't the answer to everyones dreams and fantasies.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Too many men confuse their ambitions with their abilities. To meet the emotional and sexual needs of multiple playmates EQUITABLY takes a very special person! And our profile, designed for such play originally, definitely proved that 'talk and action' are not synonymous in group play! And no, please don't respond to this post that 'we just didn't meet the right bloke'. We met at least two men, one I've decided to keep ;) who showed us what an awesome threesome looks and feels like :) Mary xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wasnt offended and didnt berrate his no thanks!We are particular in what we want. My girlfriendis on shore leave froom the Navy and we like to play up when the mood strikes usYes two bisexual girls are amazing in bed but sometimes we need something we both dont have lolIt is interesting to read the comments thoughI think we scared him off lolWe are looking this Saturday night for a hot couple or guy in the CBDJustine
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RHP User
7 years ago
wouldnt do a fmm not my thing lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
i didnt start this post to get taken down or judgedwas genuinly interested
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lol at some replies... better to under-talk and over-deliver :) (However of course you still need to show people you exist, somehow...)
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Prior to you meeting said man..... You hadn't met the right bloke....else you'd have not recognised the right bloke ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Beachlifetwo
7 years ago
Last weekend, Mrs Beachlifetwo, was visiting friends and decided to join them in bed and make out with the wife. Whilst the husband we believe being a little intimidated sat out and just watched. It's all ok though as this weekend I made amends and had a threesome with the same two women. Very happy to ablige. But I do think some men are intimidated by any group sex scenario.
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RHP User
7 years ago
After reading your profile and your view that it's a "buyers market".....maybe he didn't like what you were selling ;) I would've been turned off by your entitled unicorn point of view too. Bisexual women aren't a turn on for every man and I'm also one of those guys that prefers going deep one-on-one rather than the group situation. Not all men just want to get their dick wet lol Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
7 years ago
Not him so can't say.. maybe ask him.. Personally id live to exerience ffm but they're hard to come by - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Why you'd actually find this surprising! I certainly don't fuck every man or men (multiples) offered to me and I know first hand my hubby has knocked back the exact same offers on occassions..... and one on one encounters for that matter. So high fives to the bloke in question for actually having the balls to know what he wants and sticking to that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Look I really don't know wht to say. Something does not smell right. At first is hard to believe that he turned two unicorns down, Something is seriously wrong with him or he is just a bit different. We can organize to have some drinks in my next time in Sydney if you would like. You can come with your girl friend, will be a pleasure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
She was just putting it out there. Don't attack to cover up your own performance anxieties. It's ok to have the doubts or fears, it's human. Men have performance thoughts, just as women have fears of being attractive enough for their suitors. All real to themselves. The OP is comfortable in herself and guys subconsciously see her as being superior and in control. Make some people a bit nervous perhaps and therefore need to chop them down.....?
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Was directed to the guys
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Put phone away when drinking Shiraz
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RHP User
7 years ago
Been in that situation and believe he may have been very scared or intimidated or maybe bisexual as he quite likes the whole cuckhold bi scene and loves his trannies :) they hide behind the facade of being in control when in reality there thoughts are so out of control. Oh well his loss move on and giggle about it :) not everyone knows what they want or willing to actually tell you. There maybe one unicorn out there you will find that may want to share your fun and vice verse. There is always Hope ❤️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
There are many reasons someone might sit out on a session not just intimidation. I've played in most situations and had a lot of active fun but have also taken a backseat at times. All depends on who you're playing with and the connections between parties. I find lately that I am more cruisy as I've done it all but my partner is quite new, so it's more about focusing on her enjoyment. I always go into anything with a fluid outlook, what evolves is never set in stone and some of the nicest experiences I have in memory had little to do with the act of intercourse.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Go with the saying the same guy said to me each to there own! Lol but be nice if clear communication so you understand :) everybody is on a different journey and we all want a connection to a special one just don't hurt others on the journey I say ! Ps lies come in many forms one being not speaking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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dessert_guy2004
7 years ago
It's not often that two women looking for a male ..so either they got scared or thought it is fake ... A shame ur meet is just for Saturday evening 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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youandus33
7 years ago
i agree sounds like a wanker lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Put phone away when drinking Shiraz Where's the fun in that?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'youandus33' i agree sounds like a wanker lol that your profile makes you sound like a wanker with all that yelling. If anything, this thread is showing how it's not only women that are disadvantaged by all the ridiculous stereotypes around how the genders should behave sexually. It's utter bullshit, and completely unacceptable, that a man who turns down a threesome with two women (two complete strangers at that) is called a wanker, or that something is assumed to be wrong with him. The judgement from some of the people on this thread is disgusting (particularly from the men who are obviously trying to make themselves look good and hoping the OP will bestow her attention on them - honestly guys you don't look good you just look desperate).
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Mic drop - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I couldnt think of anything worse, gayness really doesnt do anything for me two woman or two men pleasuring each other whilst i observe, i have had a few ffm threesomes but the women have only pleased me not each other. I found it alright just did it coz apparently all men have that desire.but it was never my fantasy beforehand and i would take it of leave it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'youandus33' i agree sounds like a wanker lol that your profile makes you sound like a wanker with all that yelling. If anything, this thread is showing how it's not only women that are disadvantaged by all the ridiculous stereotypes around how the genders should behave sexually. It's utter bullshit, and completely unacceptable, that a man who turns down a threesome with two women (two complete strangers at that) is called a wanker, or that something is assumed to be wrong with him. The judgement from some of the people on this thread is disgusting (particularly from the men who are obviously trying to make themselves look good and hoping the OP will bestow her attention on them - honestly guys you don't look good you just look desperate). Not everyone wants the same as the others whether here or in the big wide world .... their choice. Thank goodness we are all different. Different likes and dislikes, preferences and choices. I don't question what others like/dislike as long as they respect that I have my likes and dislikes as well. If it aligns, then fabulous. If it doesn't - it doesn't. No need to call into question someone's sanity or to call them names if we don't like the same things. Surely this site is about being inclusive not exclusive? My 2 cents KH
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Mask_007
7 years ago
Is a few good points in check hear: Is something to be reworded if he know his limitation or if is not what he is into, and have the courage to say so. If definitely something to be happy about. In the other hand I believe that you would be very appreciative if he explained the reason why!!! As we noticed over a vast majority is something man would not turn down a opportunity like that with two hot unicorns. As saying all of that. I do agree with: Hornyalltime72 quote: " Go with the saying the same guy said to me each to there own! Lol but be nice if clear communication so you understand :) everybody is on a different journey and we all want a connection to a special one just don't hurt others on the journey I say ! Ps lies come in many forms one being not speaking " - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I agree absolutely with what you said, but can not, after several read throughs, work out how/why you have quoted/addressed LD? Youandus called the guy who turned down the OP a wanker - surely that's the epitome of being judgemental? At least LD had Youandus' comment on here, plus profile, to base her judgement on. Could you also please point out where LD questioned someone's sanity?? Or was being exclusive? I'm clearly missing something 🤔 My 2 cents? Your post really appears to be a personal attack. Inclusive indeed...
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RHP User
7 years ago
So sorry KH I think that I may have misunderstood your post entirely? I really do apologise for being so reactive. Betty
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes, I completely misunderstood KH's post. I have no idea why I even considered it, as KH is not one to make personal attacks. Totally my bad 😑
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes was agreeing with LD. Perhaps I should have been clearer. I just thought people would realise that 'quoting' someone didn't mean I was disagreeing with them. If often means (IRL) that you agree with the sentiment. You're correct I don't make personal attacks. After being on the receiving end, I know how hurtful it can be and how it can cause the recipient to feel as if it's not worth making comments or observations. I often read posts and not comment these days as I don't like to be attacked for my thoughts. I am very circumspect these days due to being attacked in the past. Imagine how this man would feel reading the comments here. Would people say the same to him in person? Don't get me wrong - everyone has a right to their opinion. However, deriding someone for their choice is not helpful or warranted. I was hoping my comments would bolster LD's post - not undermine it. I believe in being inclusive and not deriding people for their choices. This man mentioned by the OP made his choice based on whatever criteria he has. They are his criteria. Who are we to question his sanity or sexual prowess.? As I said - each to their own. Thank you for realising this and retracting your comments in this thread and in your PM. KH
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Sleepercell2014
7 years ago
As a guy; that MAY have been a fantasy to cross my mind for a moment or two... As a teenager. But as I've experienced women over time I've come to realise that it takes a concentrated effort to really pleasure a woman right- 'turn her out' & curl her toes right. So it then it stands to reason that if a guy has to divide his efforts and attention; then he will at best do half the job on each of his two partners. I know some of you guys are going to scoff at my assertions, but that's just my humble opinion as I'm not one to think in terms of a porn flick or a superhuman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Single_Guy4U
7 years ago
Or so I thought the day after. Was involved with a lady casually a few years ago and went to her place for a game of cards and a few drinks (with a few of her friends), end of the night I lost in the cards and everyone went home except for her female friend. I was supposed to stay the night and when I went to go to bed both were in the same bed. Had the opportunity to sleep with both (and they were agreeable) but thought I would be taking advantage of the situation given that both were pissed so my conscious got the better of me and I went home. Next day I thought it was the worst decision of my life, but later decided it was the correct decision, as taking advantage of drunk women would have made me feel guilty later.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I mean, seriously? - Posted from rhpmobile
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P69D69
7 years ago
Back when i was younger, i was dirty dancing with a chick at a club, both our hands going everywhere. Back then I was a one woman man, wanted to find someone I could love for life. And I did find her, been married 25 years, best decision i ever made. Anyway, had a bit to drink, the chick tells me she is bi and points to her girlfriend next to us, I was shocked,walk to bar for another then it sank in, i just walked away from my first offer of a 3 some. Too imbarrassed to reapproach, and still uncertain if it was what I wanted at the time. Many years on living the married life, i have never had the opportunity. Though happy for my wife to forfill her bicuriosity while i be a good behaved observer. If i get invited to join, thats bonus but not fussed. OP not everyone wants what you want, maybe don't stereotype all men as the same.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks, I'll take as a compliment! As someone famous once said"we all look like somebody, only some of us look like someone famous" or something like that, cheers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
This Colin Firth dude must be one hell of a handsome chap, lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Who would ever knock that back! Even if you were intimidated and blew your load early! I'm pretty sure two hot bi girls will have you hard again in no time! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I would say devilishly handsome!! But i am a Colin Firth fan. :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Each to their own in any scenario. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I prefer one on one myself tho i very much enjoyed 2 girls i would like to try 3 girls that would be great as there is allways enjoyment for all then - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Would there be 3 girls out there that would like to do this with me??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Although it's one of my FuckIt List items (more specifically, I've always wanted to experience gettkng a blowjob from two girls at the same time), I've always been told to be careful what you wish for. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well found a guy last night who was respectful fun and lovely Had a great night and early morning Tick!
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cbdlivin
7 years ago
Without knowing the guy if he has always had just straight one on one sex, he was probably just intimidated by the idea of two woman and how well he would perform. Guys do have a tendency of being a little sensitive about those sorts of things and some people instead of trying something out and giving it there best shot or double shot as the case may be will avoid the situation. I am sure you will have notrouble filling the spot as in a good 3some, nobody has trouble having fun with the whole scene keeping everyone very horny.
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swingalingson
7 years ago
if the two girls were tipsy or any girl in a one on one situation it is a no go! I rather wait till they are sober and able to make proper decisions. So yes in the past I have on numerous times said no if a girl was drunk passed on the offer. Full consent is so important
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well has been an interesting thread and made me think about what we were asking and what he was looking for! There was more to the story from his part but was being discreet as well On another note has anyone been to newbies Friday at the couples club
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RHP User
7 years ago
As long as the girls are bi and play with each other as well re fingers tongues n toys etc n not just look to him as that would be a bit daunting perhaps but imagine two Bi unicorns going at each other with tongues n vibes etc in a 69 and joining in with a skilled oral tongue..strong fingers and a hard thick cock.....heaven ....yummy!!
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Supernova
7 years ago
This actually happened?!?! I...Just....cant.... *Jumps out the 10-story window*
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RHP User
7 years ago
its not for everyonelast weekend met a couple and a few single girls and can understand not why guys get overwhelmed
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not a big deal for me, two women double the pressure
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
We love the pleasure another female brings to us. My patrner loves pleasing two girls and i love watching him with the other lady Two girls is twice the fun!We sent you a message QT
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justme1980422
7 years ago
missed opportunity for sure - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm thinking there may have been a bit of intimidation or performance anxiety? While it can be a lot of fun, there can be a bit of pressure as you dont want to let either partner down.
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m3bmw
7 years ago
And then the little kid punched the bully and the whole school erupted in cheers. The next day Coke was installed into the school bubblers. OP same as your other thread, your posts reek of someone vying for attention and validation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wouldn't have ran - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Lol I would copy and paste the reply I received except I believe in discretion! From everything that I have seen been asked if I'm into or asked to try that was very mild Coke from bubblers no way! Nothing surprises me online anymore
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