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help?

August 11 2014

Hi all, just wanting some advice for a new member here on RHP. Would like some second opinions on my profile/pictures. Im looking for casual and i guess some just hot fun now and again. I'm not exactly looking at dating but if it did come along i wouldn't be against it. What i guess i'm asking though do i need to change anything wording wise and picture wise *this is to the ladies* should i use different pictures to grab your attention? When messaging a girl/lady i am never rude with my messages or straight to the point. I like to use humour and just see if they want to talk or even go out for a drink etc. I find most women dont reply though or just dont even bother. Am i doing something wrong? Or is it just the fact they get 100 messages a day and i get lost in translation? Some tips would be much appreciated, thanks.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's informative on what women want and how they think

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Seems fairly casual and laid back to me, which is a good thing. Your validation says you have a killer smile, so maybe show that killer smile in your profile pic?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's great that you have not used standard, generic sentences in your profile, but generally I am attracted to profiles with more information in them. I also notice that you have not checked any fetish interests. For me, I like to see at least some there so I feel like the person is comfortable with what turns them on. I perceive those who hide it to actually be pushy about it when it comes to the crunch. I think a pic of you smiling would be a great addition, as well as some more info about your personality, interests etc. Well on the way though xx good luck! Ps - what you say is true - women are inundated by so many messages on here, not only does your profile need to stand out but so does your message!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sounds like you are running an add for a free hooker. Some women are into the random sex thing but you are the one who will have to do a lot of the hard chasing to find who they are. At the moment your profile doesn't stand out at all. Maybe if you had a look at lots of men's profiles to get an idea on how you can improve your profile. There are loads of guys asking this very question in this forum, I think you could really benefit from reading those old threads because at the moment you don't have anything that would most likely grab a woman's attention. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Do you really think that standing in front of the mirror in your underwear is really a classy shot? I think women like to see classy shots, particularly of guys dressed up nicely or doing something interesting in their photos. We like to see someone charming and interesting if you know what I mean. Every other dude has the same shot so you are not going to stand out at all. A face shot is really good though. But always have a smiling nice shot that shows you in the best light. Some guys have their mug shots up where they look like serial killers. I don't know what they are thinking!

  • OPNmarriagecpl

    OPNmarriagecpl

    10 years ago

    You've already got a validation so you can't be struggling to find attention that much. Maybe some free advertising in the guise of advice seeking? On a more constructive note; be a little more creative in your words about yourself and expand upon what your looking for. Being happy with any "random" sounds kind of off putting. Mrs😈 - Posted from rhpmobile