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help needed
April 08 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi baby, well getting dressed up sexy for no reason at all is a start.maybe in the mornings,turn the music up abit dress abit sexy,don't be shy about touching yourself alittle as you get ready for the day. Have a couple of flirty hellos down at the shops with a stranger or if to shy then even some hot eye contact. See that you are sexy and then you will start to feel sexy. A good sexy man always helps to get that spark back in you. Good luck baby and I hope it all comes back.xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
every morning go out in to the sunshine, no sun glasses on and get some sun in your eyes especially in winter go walking , get fitter go to a dance class a drawing class and get naked with strangers
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cbdlivin
12 years ago
I have found my mojo hiding behind the couch sometimes, it tries to leave but I find it eventually....
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
My 2c First, you need to rule out any biological reason affecting your libido, and self esteem. If those facets are ok.... take the time to think what your 'mojo' means to you, and for you. If you simply want back what you had, and there are no physiological impediments (point 1) then creating a personal map to reconnecting with what's missing, with defined pathways and checklists will help. RHP might even supply someone prepared to be the friend you need to take the time to climb on that bicycle again. I assume that's part of why you're here. But if you're just using the forums for some instant advertising (lol) I suspect the offers to 'help' will follow this reply! DG DG
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inspirit
12 years ago
some lemon and salt and suck away....oh a hot hunk helps as well ring TR for a few leads... I'm pretty sure TR is onto her 3rd or 4th black book by now sunshine my arse ...indeed TR nice advice though.... lmao
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RHP User
12 years ago
I buy a dress that shows off my curves and some sexy heels. Then I plan a night out with the girls. Go out and have fun, get attention and have a laugh. Works for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me making sure I am well groomed, maybe some sexy lingerie or start wearing the outfits that make you feel good. You know what I mean. Wearing high heels means my hips start to sway which always makes me feel sexy too. Go get your hair done. I guess pamper yourself a little, it always makes me feel good about myself which invariably leads to me feeling sexy. Also exercise and sunshine, the sea all those things make me feel good as well. So I guess what I am trying to say is make sure you feel at the top of your game and that you do things for you first and I often find your libido will start flowing back especially with some harmless flirting. :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks everyone i have tried most of what you all have suggested. I've lost 12kilos which is good but had to go buy new wardrobe (hate shopping lol). I've been to the doctor thanks mischievouslad and i had followed his advise i guess he's right it will just take time to heal. Oh yeah I'm not advertising no need to do that on here really is there. I honestly just wanted others opinions. Well i guess ill just have to jump on the boat again and get naked with a stranger lol. Thank you all very much apprentiated. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
2 glasses of French bubblesRed nail polish on toesSexy music (refer to Ms_D's thread)Black lace stockings and suspendersShake but do not stir ...INSTANT MOJO!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well done on the 12 kgs x But it's what you are happy with remember not what the mags say. I'm sure it will come back. It's like anything you loose, keys nickers purse. If you want them you will find them. Xxx
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
I am going to go out on a non sexual limb here. IMHO If you are happy with your wellbeing and state of mind in general (outside of sex) then it ripples through and gives confidence to all the other facets if your life. Nothing wrong with trying a new hobby or re exploring one you love but haven't done in ages... Cheers, W. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello partygoer101 For me i always see "bad times" as a way to measure "good times"If we did not have bad times in life we would not be able to understand what a good time is.Head up ,keep smiling and shake what your mumma gave you :)
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discreet_liasons
12 years ago
A weekend camping, cooking over a fire, exploring the state forest, waking up and peeking out the tent to see wallabies and kangaroos then a morning bath in the 10 degree creek water. Works for me and you have some great outdoor options close to home. People suck and I find a short stay well away from them helps. If you're not an outdoors girl a weekend pampering yourself with a massage, beauty treatment and some sexy clothes should do it, preferably in Melbourne where the clothes shopping rocks!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It really does. Expect something and when it doesn't happen you go on a downward spiral. Live in the present and keep expectation in a box. Don't try too hard. it will come naturally and when you least expect it. Don't discount sunshine inspirit. It provides vitamin D and makes people feel good. Good job in losing the weight. I've only lost 9kgs and it has plateaued. All the best and let us know how it goes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feel good about myself when I am good to myself. I don't have a lot of money to spend on myself, but lathering myself in a luxurious body lotion and giving myself a mani/pedi and facial makes me feel great. All while drinking bubbly and playing great music of course. When I spoil me, others want to spoil me too. Funny that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
lift your hand up, jump and just pluck it from the sky. Mojo needs its own freedom from time to time, let it fly away. If you had it it will always be in reach if you need it. Its just a matter of timing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' I am going to go out on a non sexual limb here. IMHO If you are happy with your wellbeing and state of mind in general (outside of sex) then it ripples through and gives confidence to all the other facets if your life. Nothing wrong with trying a new hobby or re exploring one you love but haven't done in ages... Cheers, W. - Posted from rhpmobile Yes, I agree, this has worked for me in the past. I find every few years I need to change things up a bit (whether it's a new hobby, reconnecting with old friends, making new ones or just getting out of the house more) or I fall into a bit of lost mojo. Good luck OP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh yeah....nailed it... But OP, after you've dressed up, take a good hard look in the mirror, and lightly run your hands over your body, feeling it, and acknowledge to yourself how each part of you feel, and blow yourself a kiss, and say "I love you"- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find I lose my mojo when I haven't had enough sleep or excersise. Also when I've been eating crap food or drinking too much alcohol. Also if I'm hanging around people who are negative. Change all those things and bam! The return of the mojo!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'partygoer101'Thanks everyone i have tried most of what you all have suggested. I've lost 12kilos which is good but had to go buy new wardrobe (hate shopping lol). I've been to the doctor thanks mischievouslad and i had followed his advise i guess he's right it will just take time to heal. Oh yeah I'm not advertising no need to do that on here really is there. I honestly just wanted others opinions. Well i guess ill just have to jump on the boat again and get naked with a stranger lol. Thank you all very much apprentiated. - Posted from rhpmobile I think you are well on your way to reclaiming your mojo. Much respect and good luck
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Well done on losing 12Kg that is a great thing that you have done for yourself..... Going and buying a new wardrobe can be fun, but daunting at the same time.I too go through phases of having no mojo.... many factors can affect this.... But only you know how you feel within yourself and only you can fix the problem. You can go to doctors who will prescribe medication, you can see a pyschologist who will give you ideas on how to help you through this, you can dress sexy, get your hair done, drink champagne etc etc.... but you have to want to change how you feel about things and changing your thoughts about how you look at yourself.....Remember thoughts are just thoughts... nothing more.Surround yourself with people who are going to lift you up, who are going to love you for you.... Who are spontaneous, who know how to laugh and who are positive in life.... Dont let your life slip away being unforfilled....Come and spend some time with me...... x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'some lemon and salt and suck away....oh a hot hunk helps as well ring TR for a few leads... I'm pretty sure TR is onto her 3rd or 4th black book by now sunshine my arse ...indeed TR nice advice though.... lmao who Moi nahh its BIG black book! I also lost my mojo for a while, it happens if I get crook, got vertigo for a while no good when you get a head spin if your on top, or you puke ...very unattractive. Also went flat re my painting, but last night after a drawing class I stayed on at my studio ,music up and painted over a lot of my work, clean canvas ready to start again today. But I do go to the beach twice a day, swim in the morning and swim in the afternoon. I make it right up to May before I freeze my tits off. Thats a bugga as men will not talk to me with out my hooters.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had some lovely responses to my question thank you all. I'm taking one man's advise and I'm heading out camping. I have forgot how much i love camping and its been a long time since I've done it. So Saturday after work I'm off camping me myself and i. My poor swag has collected dust lol. So thank you all kindly xoxo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
sometimes it is absolutely fine to take a break,spend time by yourself.I find that these things are all about timing and inclination....and meeting new people is sometimes just plain exhausting,with or without the hot jungle sex. Enjoy your camping trip OP. x Freya
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RHP User
12 years ago
A sexy sound track, a glass of bubbly, a candle lit room and getting lost in the rhythms. Reconnect to your body as it moves to the beat. Mmm mmm.
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lovman8
12 years ago
Great to hear about you losing the kilo's and there has been lots of good advice here, but I suspect you're more likely to find it camping than spending too much time on rhp
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RHP User
12 years ago
There always has to be one doesn't there. Don't assume anything as you know nothing about my life. You have a lovely day though loveman because i won't let a smart arse comment like that ruin mine. Cheers Partygoer- Posted from rhpmobile
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