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help please!! Have trouble getting hard / premature ejaculation

September 09 2015

I have never had a problem with this while I'm young but now when I got a bit older I feel like it takes a lot of effort to get it up and sometimes it never comes up. And when it does come up after a lot of effort I blow quite quickly. Feels as if I get way too excited and just finish really quickly. Has anyone had/have this problem? Is there any solutions to this? How do I stop this? Best thing you have done and worked for you? I just want to rock the bed and not be a quick 4 minute person. Help please - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    See your doctor

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    9 years ago

    About vitamin V. Party performance can be difficult. Never leave home for a party without it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Totally agree.See a Dr. There could be manyreasonss, some with an easy solution. Very common so don't delay so you can return to stress free play.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    It works.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Do NOT turn to Viagra... (OR the other same sort of drugs)you obviously have an issue, and need a REAL doctor.. NOT a prescription Doctor..Your choice...Make the right one :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Your profile doesn't say if you are a smoker. This can cause the problems you are talking about. Like others have suggested, seeing a doctor is the best advice. LG

  • yankmychain56

    yankmychain56

    9 years ago

    When i was younger, i used to be a human jackhammer, fuck and cum, not miss a beat, keeping fucking, and cum again, STILL rock hard. would do this until my GF would beg me to stop. Her thighs would be raw and she couldn't stand up. made me feel good. sadly, this is no longer the case.two things i found work VERY well:FINGERS AND TONGUE. Get her in to a few orgasms doing this first, THEN go for it. Viagra can work wonders, but it she will 'help you along' by stroking or sucking you hard between sessions, that works wonders. had a gf a while back who just loved that cock, and once I exploded, she would be on it is a heartbeat, and it would be about ten minutes before we were back at it.Talk to her about it, and see if she can 'help you along'. maybe try new, kinky stuff to get you both worked up. use toys on her first. work it until she is having seizures or until the damn battery goes dead, THEN go for it. Even without viagra, i have found that I can do 'pretty well' after the second or third time around if she 'plays nice' and helps me along on the way. we aint getting any younger....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Go see your Doctor, you are way to be young to be getting into Viagra/or similar. Could be a simple solution........ And stressing about it doesn't help the situation either. If your parter works with you and is patient that could be all you need. But I totally recommend a Doctor. Good luck Gypsy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry, only just saw this post... I hope in the time that's past, you have sorted your problem. One thing you need to know, as most agree, there many causes for what's happening to you... Some physical and some psychological... Whichever, Viagra isn't the solution for a bloke who's 29 years old. You shouldn't need it at all and if your Doctor suggests it without having you visit a Shrink , Sex Psychologist or Counsellor... you need a new Doctor... Quick. It's true that your ability to 'get things moving' and the time it takes to 'recover' for the next round IS affected by AGE, but NOT 29... If your were 59 it would be considered more an age problem... but even then, some of us have experienced no problems even by then. It's all governed by many things... Hormones, stress, sleep (getting enough) and of course, confidence... You've surely heard of 'Performance Anxiety'. A bloke worries about getting it up (for a million reasons. The more he worries the less it's likely to happen. An understanding woman is the main cure for that and if you're with the same person on a number of occasions, it can be sorted out in only a couple of meetings. You just need to 'kick a couple of goals' and your confidence is restored and you are fine from there on. I've used Viagra a couple of times, and it works for me... The times I used it, it was because I was a bit anxious about things (for whatever reason, that's private), but all was fine and once I'd proven (to myself as much as her) that all functioned well, I was fine there after... There should be no need for Viagra for you, unless a qualified professional advices it's use for the above reason... Anything physical should be able to be treated in short order. An exercise they may get you to use is called the 'Postage Stamp Test' - Look it up on Google and make sure it's not physical.