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hotwifes

November 09 2012

Are there any hot wives on here? I would love to know more about it. I would love for my wife to give it a try. Were you into the idea at first or did it take some persuasion? If so, how did you come around to the idea? How did you go about it? Any advice?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To enjoy swinging you have to have the 'want' and the desire to be indulging in this lifestyle, if not there's not much point trying to pursue it as it'll end up being a fizzer, which could cause your marriage grief as its being driven by one, not two.To some swinging could be a fantasy, for us we enjoy all aspects of the lifestyle, the initial meet n greet, the flirting, the attraction, the kissing, foreplay, partner swapping and of course the naughty stuff. We ventured into it as we have the trust between us, we know what we want out of it. To put it bluntly, we enjoy having sex with others, its nice to look over and see your partner indulging in sexual stimulation with somebody else. Sit and talk with your wife, listen to her desires, then go from there..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And I admit Im tired...pulled an all niter baby sitting 3 kids !!! (RHP is so working for me )   Are you asking if there are any hot wives out there into other women ????????????   Me confused...   BTW - its not hot if you have to persuade...ever

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    do you want her to be happy or do you want to get off watching her get violated ? (That is how she would feel)the bottom line is she must WANT to do it. if she does it to please you, then that also is trouble, as she might feel that she cannot sexually satisfy you.maybe watch some swinger porn. take her to a swinger party but JUST WATCH and see if she is in to it.This is something you have to really be careful with if you want to keep her.I have found out the hard way, that women are strange animals, and will do one thing and say another, then blame YOU for their years of trauma that YOU put them through.and you didnt even know you did it. She would hate you ETERNALLY unless she was completely for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What is the topic?   Who cares, if someone wants to share their hot wife or there's one here looking for some fun I'll put my hand up to help sort this topic out.   PS is your wife home today?

  • MandN

    MandN

    12 years ago

    Sounds fun swaping a wife for the night ;)   We've tried something similar to that, wasn't too bad.   It's fun to try something different, and you learn to appreciate what you have and that others are also fun/nice, sometimes it also helps you see what more you should be doing to make it all work.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In your profile you say that you and your wife have seperate rooms,does that mean that you no longer have a sexual relationship,or that one of you snores,or that you are from royalty or the aristocracy. If you no longer have a sexual relationship then perhaps if you suggest that you would love for her to have a lover or two she might jump at the chance.Sounds like atm she may be a luke warm to tepid wife. Is this a cuckold fantasy that you have OP,hence your question? If all of the above is true,then I suggest the problems in your marraige wont be fixed by convincing her to become a ''hot wife''.

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    12 years ago

    What is a 'hot wife'? I read that as having an attractive wife, but I think I'm wrong.MrsSplicey