RHP

RHP User

M62 F64

how long?

December 12 2011

have we all been doing this stuff? the meets for play etc.....for me it starts way back in the pre-internet days....(i think i was 18).....when we had to buy contact mags and do this whole thing thru the mail....then it was mobile phones, and emails, now its easy peasy with chats, messaging, and the like.......... who else remembers the printed publications like...'Searchlight'. or 'QCD' or even' Rosie', 'Australian Sex Paper' and 'Flesh'?? and how long it took just to receive a first response to an ad? or a reply to a letter......

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    20 years here!

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    13 years ago

    Only since the divorce in 1998 .... but can remember the Rosie magazines my husband used to hide around the house for the 20 yrs prior ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    its amazing how we take the internet for granted...and how instantly all this happens....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    to these kinds of things.   I remember in my single teen days getting Aust sex paper - no luck of course but i tried hard!   Every time i am single i keep coming back to something like this for "NSA", then drift back into a long term relationship kind of behaviour.   Never done it with a partner though - they all been religious tea totlers! Not the next time though, lesson hopefully learnt :):)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We brought one on holidays 26 years ago, we liked the pictures and stories and didnt take much notice of the adverts, that wasnt for us sex with others....lol Come to think about it thats the holiday that our first child got concieved. We kept buying the contact books,for the sexy read, perving at those strange swingers! like how can you swing when pregnant and with a young family, so we didnt. Untill our children were all old enough to be left at home........20 years later.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well for us we are younger than all the people that have replied. Although We are only 34. We have been together from the age of 19 . So in our early 20s we looked up some adds the Adult section of a brisbane new paper. We attended a few swingers party's back then. Then met a few people privately. I think Jane got hold of some sex papers at an adult shop to at the time but I don't think much become of them. I think we responded to a few person adds from another smaller local paper at the time to. So perhaps 14 years ago is guess. Got the internet at home few years later although we took a brake from it all for a few years although being who we are we dabbled in it from time to time over the years but usually just stumbling on those experiences by chance and a cheeky attitude. Its just been the last few years that we have ramped it up some what and taken advantage of the net and the likes of RHP. Tim

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    just realised how long.....first play as a result of looking for someone was at age 18.... lol thats 31 years ago! for shel it was much more recent...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Never seen one of those publications. 18 months I have been on line and meeting people, prior to that I had no need or even interest really.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    some of us have been doing this for a very long time, and for us at least, its nothing new. i had friends who owned one of the first sex shops in brisbane.... a lingerie store actually... their notice board caught my eye, lol..and the story began there...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Oh i thought you meant swinging....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'couplesint'Oh i thought you meant swinging....lol Shel and I have only been married for 2 years.... we both dabbled previously, she with her ex-partner, and myself as a single. this is something I found as a very young man....curiosity got the better of me, and although it was a slow process, did manage to meet some wonderful couples and play...... doing the whole thing via snail mail took forever lol.... i dabbled here and there, between relationships, and it never really went away.....imagine my surprise when a conversation with my soon to be wife led her to suggest we try as a couple...lol....

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    Kid in a Candy Shop still hehehe Prior to this was in a 20 year vanilla marriage.....and to be honest l will not be going back to that life style. This one is way more open, honest and adventurous.....for me anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Wow what an eye opener.   Happily married couple for 12 years and it just keeps on getting better. It's great to be able to share this fantastic new experience with each other.   We are constantly amazed at how many like minded couples and singles are out there and think that this would be one fantasy left un-satisfied if it wern't for RHP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit'Kid in a Candy Shop still hehehe Prior to this was in a 20 year vanilla marriage.....and to be honest l will not be going back to that life style. This one is way more open, honest and adventurous.....for me anyway.yea know what you mean.... my exes (all except one) were never into any play... Shel however, is just the right amount of adventure to want to explore all this...... what fun we've had too lol

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    72 hours since we put our thoughts into practice. Still got lots of practice to go though ;) We tried a club, don't think it's anything we'll be doing regularly (the club scene). Still yet to have a RHP driven experience (although we read about the club here).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    "And getting caught in the rainIf you're not into yogaIf you have half a brainIf you like making love at midnightIn the dunes on the summer capeThen I'm the love that you've looked forWrite to me and escapeYes I like pina coladasAnd getting caught in the rainI'm not much into health foodI am into champagneI've got to meet you by tomorrow noonAnd cut through all this red tapeAt a bar called O'MalleysWhere we'll plan our escape..." .Beyond comprehension for this net based noob.