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how to get someones attention...
September 22 2014
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rc_80
10 years ago
Oh man... Mrs Rocker set herself up with a single profile recently. I couldnt believe the bullshit she got sent on a daily basis. 35 messages in one day, and only two of them were even polite, or "conversationally". The rest are all about what these fat fuckers would do to her, if she would just 'take a chance' and meet them that night. Or how big their 8 pack is. Or how many "bitches" they have pulled. Or how they can do a better job of "fucking" her, than "your husband could". And the ones she did decided weren't too bad, over the next week or so, all pretty much turned out to be just the same. She'd explain her situation, would reply to every message, etc etc. After three or four messages it would always be the same "So are you going to meet me or waste my time?". Or "Hey, i messaged you last night and you didnt respond, what the fuck?!?!" One guy decided to message our couples profile because "he was sick of waiting for a reply". Or, when she says she wont even consider meeting someone without face photos, she's called a "slut", and they send through fifteen more cock shots. Unbelievable. As a guy, i'd rather not meet someone who responds positively to "Hey, wanna see my big cock up your arse, baby?", as a first message. But what do I know... I'd never have the disrespect to message someone in that fashion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
In his username, he's probably going to be awesome. Otherwise, I can't help. Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr.Fun,you are fond of cross dressing,but sorry you just aren't Awesome...she left the building to follow her....something or other..:-) :-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a wonder you ladies dont give up ,lol Completely agree with you,surely some foreplay is required it's not tinder for gods sake! Just be yourself ,chat get to know person ,sure the quality will rise to the top! Rhp is a mine field but some gems can be found,good luck miss princess xx
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
my user name doesn't quite fall into your 'dislike' category - just had to think of something on the spot when I joined up, and a few of the other, let's say, less subtle ones, were already taken up. Being on here for only a week, you still got a long way to go, and hopefully you'll get the drift of who just likes to have a bit of fun with you, and the more outright arseholes. You're only a young 'un, so undoubtedly you will attract a fair amount of interest from the young guns who think it's cool to impress with crassness. Unfortunately you'll have to wear this for a little while, until you start to read a few profiles and get the gist of who is more likely to impress you with wording other than "You're hot - wanna fuck!" Give it some time and patience - I'm sure you'll get to enjoy in due course. And btw, welcome to our site. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
In the pub all the time. I must go to the classy places I guess. Depends on your needs, who says it and if the moon is full. Many men think this is a free hooker site, and who can blame em. If they get on , and do not read the forums or the profiles and their dick goes into over drive. They just cant think. I always just answer back and say, that approach does not work for me and has it worked for anyone else? I will also give em a few hints on how to approach women and about the pictures. Its part of the process of RHP. Just be kind , or use the block button to filter out the people that do not interest you
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow fit, that sounds romantic with that opening line "Do you like anal!!" NOT!!! lol! I always try to be polite and make my msg correspond to the individuals profile.. AKA, If she states she likes pub's over clubs etc then I'll mention a few nice pub's i like to drink at.. It can be a bit disheartening when you put a bit of effort into a msg (say 2 paragraphs, not a novel) and you don't even get a response (roughly 85%) or it goes unread(roughly 10%)... Thus, like a man you just have to suck it up a bit and move on.. the joys of online dating :) As for men/women telling you how much better they are then your previous lovers, their the best sex you've never had etc etc.. That's like a person saying they know how to dominate a person by belting the crap outta them.. There's soooo much more to it than that.. they simply have no idea!! "insert delete button here!!" lol! All anyone can ask for is for mutual respect.. if a person's a douche.. then douche them down the drain, if they're polite then reciprocate.. simple! :) G x PS Rockercouple80, i can't believe that crap.. blimey.. I've chatted you guys in the chatroom a few times and you guys are awesome!! seriously WTF is with some people writing to you guys like that!! :/
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RHP User
10 years ago
when I first joined RHP, I received an average of at least 50 messages a day and countless more flirts, for months and months. I remember there was a women's leader board in hot chat re who was on the most hot lists - the leader was on well over 1000 in a fairly short space of time from when she joined the site. I think the competition was even harder for men back then, perhaps because it was earlier days, even more men, and far less women. And still the huge majority of messages from men were tasteless "wanna fuck/suck/cuck?" classics. I think it just goes with the territory. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Thank you, fitprincess......... ive been saying this for a long time I dont care if its a so called sex site ..... .... which is ironic really, that those who say that are also the ones complaining they cant "get any", or even illicit an email reply. You dont walk up to a woman in a bar/library/street/coles/ or the beach (where a woman may be wearing as much or less than the OP is wearing in her photos).... thrusting your dick/arse/abs in her face and blurting out..... "Hey, my name is (IE) Massivedonkeydickcumon yourfaceheapsyouregonnaloveit.... how about you bend over and I jam my fist up your arse while I pump your pussy unti; you explode all over me." And you dont do it at the beach where a woman may be wearing as much as the OP is in her photos. MASSIVE chump move. Women in here, are women outside of here too, and visa versa.... and they ahve the same tolerences, the same standards and the same preferences........ so who teaches the morons in here to try that dribbling sex offender type approach when you KNOW the result its going to earn you. Consider being blocked, a kick in the balls .... the prize for being a dumbarse.... and being ignored, is your reward for being boring, uninspiring and intellectually unstimulating. It starts with then sitting there... thinking hard about what they will choose to call themselves.... and they come up with a dipshit name, thinking if I try hard to present as they do, its going to make all the differnece.... in a sea of other dipshit names. Cue the angry mail DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes, a bit of raunchy can be hot. I'd prefer that to completely unimaginative ' hi, how are you' banalities that go nowhere. Although some things said are just so freakin eeew! even I can't believe the gall. My number 1 eeew first message was - so what do you think of condoms? My answer would have to be- well if they stop people like you from procreating...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'cutie4u77' Sometimes, a bit of raunchy can be hot. I'd prefer that to completely unimaginative ' hi, how are you' banalities that go nowhere. Although some things said are just so freakin eeew! even I can't believe the gall. My number 1 eeew first message was - so what do you think of condoms? My answer would have to be- well if they stop people like you from procreating...... - Posted from rhpmobile hahaha, I love my raunchy and nawty talk babe.. But "hey wanna Fck" isn't exactly a good thing straight off the bat... maybe after a msg or two first then all good, let the temperature rise :) G xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Classic forum responses from the RHP boys here; thinly-veiled advertisements on themselves as white knights
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RHP User
10 years ago
I didn't sign up to stroke women's egos, I'll give a compliment where it's due but generally I keep the first message to the point. Most times I get a reply, even if a majority of those are politely declining. I think the key for getting attention is sending something that doesn't scream depraved and desperate.
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RHP User
10 years ago
....and to Mrs Rockers experience. It makes staying nice and maintaining a profile on this site quite tedious. I can't maintain it for any period of time so tend to come and go. My current profile helps cut it down but 20+ messages and countless flirts a day is still a lot to get to. The good news for guys is the percentage of decent messages is really low, so if you can be polite, engaging, personal or just decent you'll stand out.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had a message only yesterday from someone who wanted to "do things to my hot pussy" so I politely told him first messages like that didnt impress me at all. He wasn't a younger guy, either, I actually find most of them to be respectful. This guy was in his 40s. Its all good and fun once you have been chatting and theres a connection there, but for a first message, its a complete fail. However, yes, some women like it, we are all different and thats what makes life and people interesting.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well glad we are not searching for a single guy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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brent3250
10 years ago
showing someone some respect in a message should be common decency but unfortunately because it's online respect seems to fly out the Window....it's a shame some people are like that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Miss Koko you have a pussy cat ,that's nice,lol Funny how different rules on here to real life,surely people don't walk up and speak in such a crass way! Can't see how this gets u laid ,each to there own I suppose xx
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On_Safari
10 years ago
What's your favourite sex game? (Shakes head like WTF!!) My reply "Hide n seek, you go hide and maybe I'll come find you....like when Hell feezes over." ~ Indy: Feeling a rewrite coming on
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whatever mood u feel like that day...Then block.. For me, it can be insulting, funny, crass, overly sexually explicit, (as in...& u buy this shit? U poor deluded bastard..) nasty.. Who cares what u reply with...(the men don't..!!) I think ALL women on here are ammunition for the woman haters, soft cocks, Drunken Saturday night loners, etc etc... Please don't let it bother u... Its their problem - NOT yrs... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is a hard balance I am sure to find the appropriate approach. But clearly the sort of messages are out of order to anyone who is of sound mind and not off their face on some substance or other. A respectful approach would to me seem best. But not boring in imaginative . The hard part is putting something like that together. I'll let you know if I ever work it out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' What's your favourite sex game? (Shakes head like WTF!!) My reply "Hide n seek, you go hide and maybe I'll come find you....like when Hell feezes over." ~ Indy: Feeling a rewrite coming on My favourite sex game is hide the strapon in the dumbarse.
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
It cracks me up that people think its ok to send someone theyve never spoken to before a question like that. Yes this is a sex site but where does it say insulting others is fine? These same dickheads then no doubt would whinge about men : women ratio being tipped the wrong way - i wonder fucking why!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey, I've met some awesome, lovely and hot guys on this site. They're there! I've found that the 'barrage' settles down after a few weeks in. But most importantly, work on getting your profile explaining you, what you're after etc. Guys tend to respond with more respect when you've taken the time to detail your profile. Hardly get any crude ones anymore, if I do, then block/ignore. Just screen the conversation and imagine a real life conversation, trust your instincts, if it feels odd, just move on. Good luck. There really are some great quality guys here! - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
My favourite sex game is actually snap because someone stacks the deck when we play pokehim (aka pokeher) xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Get past the pictures read the profile, that should tell you how to write your message. But you all know that. I'm preaching to the converted.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find it interesting that one person promoting manners and respect in this topic started his communications with me, by messaging a long seduction story about his massage skills that lead to surprise anal and how much I'm going to enjoy him doing it. You know who you are. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A username including cock, dick or sexy is not going to work for me. Trying too hard it screams. Initial messages that are respectful and articulate and that show that they have somewhat read your profile, and tailored their (possibly cut and paste) message will work best in my opinion. Anyone whose message is 'wanna fuck', 'do you like anal or head' deserves no more time or attention than they've put into the message itself. DELETE! I'm particularly amused by the men who, after you politely advise they're not your type, respond with 'are you sure' (umm yes), or 'I think we'd be a good match let's meet (actually I don't, hence my decline), or 'you don't know what you're missing out on' (thanks pal and nor do I want to find out). Enjoy the journey. EK x - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'AstuteandCute' I find it interesting that one person promoting manners and respect in this topic started his communications with me, by messaging a long seduction story about his massage skills that lead to surprise anal and how much I'm going to enjoy him doing it. You know who you are. - Posted from rhpmobile Just like everywhere else in life, you'll come across hypocrites here too I'm afraid.... Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
No, no no, nooooooo. NEVER ignore, NEVER.! That would also be JUST AS RUDE as going up to that same someone in the street that you will ask if they like anal & how big are your tits. Like Isa was saying, imagine a real life conversation- if someone walked up and started talking to you about something, you wouldn't just look silently at them, or turn & walk off, or look in the other direction not saying a word. THINK how YOU would feel if that happened to YOU. It'd be rude wouldn't it..?????? I don't know why ppl do it...???? Oh, and before they bang on about "I get sooooo many emails, if I had to reply to them all I'll need a secretary." Well, that's just life, that's RHP. Don't hate the player, hate the game. If you open them up, we see that you've read it- we won't know if you'll come back to it later or you just forgot so we might keep sending to garner a response from you. So If you don't want to respond, don't open them- if you do, the simplest thing is to use the 'automated reply' to make things easier on yourself. I dump flirts without reading- can't be arsed with em. Good luck with your quest.
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rc_80
10 years ago
no doubt a serial offender
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