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how,can i get my girl to do anal play or to do anal
May 31 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
'get' her? heres how it happens...you ask her.....she says 'yes' or 'no'........simple.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
So she likes your finger, but not your cock. Clearly she has her own reasons for NOT WANTING you to.... and I have to expect you've discussed (pressured?!) her about the issue. So if she dorsnt want to..... asking us how to bypass her disinterest for your desire seems rather insensitive to me. 2c DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mate all ready tryed asking hence why im asking for other ways to get her keen to try....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mate all ready tryed asking hence why im asking for other ways to get her keen to try....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wanna no ways to make it not hurt and for her to want it as it to feel good to we tryed it hurt now scared to try again that's why I'm asking ways or how to do it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its her butt and her decision. Simple.
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
That you need to talk honestly and as DG said without pressuring. Just cause you like it doesn't mean she does or is obligated to like it. What worked for me was to take it slow over a period of time and not just one session. First touching then introducing a finger. When comfortable and enjoyable with one then progress to two etc. Each time talking and checking in with your partner about how she is enjoying it etc. Then once comfortable with more than a couple of fingers then try anal as long as you are both agreeing with lots of lube and a hell of a lot of foreplay. If you try to do it and she says not or is uncomfortable etc she is not going to relax and will hurt so it will make her less inclined to try it again in the future.Cheers,W
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RHP User
12 years ago
No one told you life was fair. If she isn't into it, she isn't into it. You just have to respect that. Although I would definitely ask if it is okay if you can do the deed with other women. Maybe while she does you at the same time perhaps? Daisy chain of bum love. :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hoping its just a case of poor choice of words but thinking actually that you want to find a way to override her choice to say 'no'. Clearly anal play is incorporated into your sex life and enjoyed (fingers and strap ons). My advice to you is leave it up to her - she obviously knows you're keen for more, so drop it completely and trust that if and when she wants more, she'll ask for it. Pressing anal (or any unwanted sex act) is sexually unhealthy for you both. Big Fat Thumbs Down :-(- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Had a lady(who is an old school friend) ask me "why is it, that I don't gag on my bf's cock, but I do on my toothbrush?" "Well.....clearly your toothbrush is bigger" was my reply. Yes people its a joke!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You cant make someone like having a cock up their arse. If she wants to progress from your fingers I am sure she will let you know. Forget it and move on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have had very painful experiences in the past, but persisted because hubby craved it so much. Went to a sex shop, got sold some anal glide, it's a line with jojoba and other stuff in it that relaxes the muscles. IT WORKS! Now, I still save it for special occasions, but the thought doesn't make my eyes start watering. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
remember the lovely film with that Marlon Brando chappie.I think he used a lot of butter,maybe try a whole pound of that first,then if she still says no at least you haven't wasted lots of money.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's auntie Edna!!!! Xxxx No means no sweetie until she changes her Ming IN HER OWN TIME. You pressure her, you lose.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I missed you! And: My butt, my choice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' No one told you life was fair. If she isn't into it, she isn't into it. You just have to respect that. Although I would definitely ask if it is okay if you can do the deed with other women. Maybe while she does you at the same time perhaps? Daisy chain of bum love. :D Daisy chain of bum love LOL!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well, Mr funcoupleintofun, you've certainly alerted the "Female's Anal Protection Agency" advocates above here..So minus all the lecturing and making you look like an evil male stalking a woman's butt....Try (over time) a series of butt-plugs, starting finger size working up to...well, the size of you..If denied, maybe your Ass should go on strike (sit-in protest would be apt)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You should respect her wishes, the more you put pressure on her the more you drive her away.The previous experience hurt, you have done nothing to reassure her otherwise, she is probably concerned you might get carried away and not stop when asked, just like your persistence in wanting to do anal on her, maybe you didn't prepare enough or was way too rough. Is the strap on as thick as your cock, if it isn't then you are being somewhat unreasonable and selfish in thinking it is not different from her using the strap on.Give it a rest and don't pressure her.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
OK.... seeing as the 'she' wrote the topic about a penis pump for your "good size cock".....http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/penis-pumps-40827...we know she posts, and have to assume she reads these forums too.So how does 'she' feel about reading the way you've worded this topic?!DG
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