M46
i been on the site about 1 month still not met anyone ! what am i doing wrong ?
June 08 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its the profile pic of your dick. Pics like yours are a dime a dozen. Also your profile doesn't say much about you, it just brags about your dick. - Posted from rhpmobile
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JessicaRabbit
10 years ago
Have you actually looked at your profile overall? If so, what made you think that it was a stand-out profile? Your profile is 'you', so to answer your question, it's both you and your profile that are 'wrong.' There's a lot of competition on here, you need to stand out from the pack. A few dick pics and a hastily written profile won't achieve that. Are you aware that Guests can't see restricted photos? So put your junk away, firstly. Upload some torso pics, or heck even your foot if you want to remain anonymous. A lot of women don't want to see your junk at all on here, anyway. Your username (in my opinion) is unappealing and lacks imagination/personality, as does your profile write-up. Your profile overall screams 'any hole is a goal.' Remember that although this is a sex site, most women are looking for more than an anonymous screw - even if they are looking for less than a traditional relationship, they don't want to be treated as a piece of meat. If your profile is an accurate reflection of yourself (and not a poorly-written reflection of your haste to get laid) then don't change a thing, because that's you. If this the case, sorry to say that this site probably won't work for you. Jess xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
As JessicaRabbit mentioned other guests (and many women here are guests only) cant see cock pics. So you are appearing as a blank grey outline in your profile picture. So many cock pics on here for those that can see them that they really all look the same after a while. Save the cock shots for your private gallery to share with someone that wants to engage with you. An appealing profile pic with little bit of mystery is nice as long as the details are filled in on your profile. Full points for not leaving any "Ask Me" blanks in the introduction section. Show some personality in your About You section. Something that attracts people and makes them want to meet you. So what are you looking for as far as fun? Do you only want one-night-stands, develop a Friends with Benefits relationship, maybe just a casual Fuck Buddy. A bit of thought in your profile will be a good start and then it depends on how you are contacting people. A thoughtful message will be better received than most flirts. Try and engage the person you are contacting ... not a Hi how are you? Good luck LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
How would you introduce yourself to someone in public? Would you take your dick out and expect them to shake it instead of your hand? Most people want to know who you are before they take their clothes off and jump into bed with you. Like I said.... Just a thought!
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inspirit
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
am high on stamina am very thick and hung , i love kissing and foreplay and love doggy and more am great at giving multiple orgasm
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RHP User
10 years ago
Haha. I like that. I reckon for a large proportion of guys it's probably true to.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Saying that you are thick may imply to some that you are not very bright...put up a face pic in your profile ..a smiling one,not an awful selfie..Write something about YOU.not just your cock and your tongue.and good luck x x Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
What do you find attractive about your profile? - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Not sure if you had signed up with the expectation of getting laid with a finger click simply because this is a site for adults to meet for consent sex? If this was the case, then this is what you're doing wrong OP! Who says sex is always guaranteed just because of the nature of this site? Also, like others have pointed out, the word "thick" does have other meaning and it is indeed an ordinary term to use in a profile description, IMO! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women hate being treated as a sex objects. It is the single biggest reason profiles are ignored. Your profile shows no understanding of this.Your profile just shows another guy looking for a quick root.Demonstrate how you respect women. Its more than just words. Women are way better communicators than men, so shallow platitudes will not work. Write like you are talking to a respected friend. When you get that part right and talk to them not about them.Then you will get the attention you are after.What you do with that attention is then up to you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Please don’t brag about how good you are at giving multiple orgasms. We’ll decide that for ourselves and showing off just isn’t sexy.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Grey ghost. Woman can pull it off because they are in demand. Men cant because there is so many of them. You need something to differentiate between the other male ghosts. And not a diccy piccy as everyone else has already said. Think outside the box if you dont want to put your face up. Be creative
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ten Commandments of male profile writing?
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
To the topic author..... It seems that with the focus you've put on yourself and your dick..... you don't have room left to meet other people and be interested in them. Get it?! Ditch the self-appraising sexual resume..... focus on what someone should even bother to TALK to you first. Its really not much different than how that works in the non-virtual world...... ironically.... where you aim to meet people from here. Most guys in here fail to grasp that most simple of concepts and end up complaining about their experiences in RHP.Don't be most guys. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think the 10 commandments of profile writing period lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That would be most helpful. Thank you ever so much. :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
1:Dont be a dick2:Dont talk about your dick3:Dont show a picture of your dick on public display.4:Dont lie about the size of your dick5:Dont say your dick is available if it does not belong to you. (ask your wife first)6:Dont think with your dick7:Dont think that every one loves your dick as much as you do.8:Dont think anyone believes your dick can make them cum just at the sight of it9:Dont forget to describe the person attached to your dick10:Dont forget that women dont have have dicks and thus dont think like dicks.
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JessicaRabbit
10 years ago
http://redhotpie.com.au/Article/Top-Tips-For-Single-Male-Profiles-1073 This might give you some quick pointers and kind of backs up a lot of what has already been said here. Jess xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a woman I don't see the OP treating women as a piece of meat. The way I see it, he is pimping himself out as a piece of well hung meat ready to perform for women and their was his meat in the shop window. The women that answer the forum questions usually want a man who is witty, charming, can carry a conversation, etc. I am not sure if all women want this though. That is how I see it anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe you are correct and he is not right into the full absurdity of the "Looking for fuck." elegance that is on lucky a minority of male profiles. He does indeed start of rather nicely with his hobbies, it has a level of boyish charm that is endearing. And though boastful I would not think what he describes as stamina and natures gifts are lies. Indeed assets here of some value. But its that little bit about the multiple orgasms that betrays the motives. Who knows maybe his talents are so, and may such a man have the hallway to his room paved with gold. He may not be Einstein, but he knows that he is pedaling BS. I dont know how many women see that as overtly contemptuous, I dont have a female mind. To me its meat market haggling. Its the OP that is having the problem with his profile, I gave him a little advice, with as always, my tongue in my cheek. Really I have found you can write what ever you like on a profile, it does not seem to make a lick of difference. Its the mind set that counts. Thats the message I was hoping he may read and if not him maybe someone else. Why, who knows, to much time on my hands, too little compassion in my heart. Though It would pay if someone find out if its true, what a monumental waste that would be if no one believed it true.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Done. Stir, you write one for female profiles. I rarely read them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Talking to a woman rather then treating her like she is here to be some disposable toy to play with... You are a paid member, go into chat and actually talk to someone like you would if you were have a coffee with them.. Ask questions, be interested and don't try and push for a play meet after 5 minutes. Maybe chat with some interstate women/couples, people you are unlikely to meet so you can practice being personable without the desire to invite them over straight away. Be funny and if you cant be funny then be interesting - you are more likely to be remembered for that then the generic comments in your profile.. You have to remember - just because this is an adult dating site it doesn't mean that all morals are out the window, most people actually want to get to know you before they get naked with you. If you are expecting just to send out a generic message and just straight into bed then you are sorely mistaken - just because people are on here doesn't mean they don't have standards - everyone wants to be treated with respect. On that, I believe respect is even more key on this site then others/in the real world as people are trusting you with a part of them that many shield from the others in their life.. Well that's my take on it anyway... Budda
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi beautiful hi beautiful am very thick and hung how you doing ? want some fun ? And there lies your answer - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
ok Thanks for the help !
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
@Jay..... I'm not going to pass judgement on disclosing private messages and the senders..... but..... you DO highlight the obvious reason why sooooo many guys fail. And really..... it's worrying that it's not do obvious to the people writing messages such as that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you can be forgiven for thinking with your little head when you first join. I think I made a similar error when I first joined to be honest ... Although I am a fast learner :p. but yes JayJay, most women are after a bit more sophistication. All the normal social niceties apply as they do in your normal everyday life, even if I am baring my arse! ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
1 month and still no action? You gotta make changes! 1. Take no notes from the above posters2. Show your cock on display! BE A MAN! Things will soon change...
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timeforacuppa67
10 years ago
Blindman 67 Omg are you for real, the reason you think yiu understand. " what women want " is because your as close to a pussy as the come. Jesus what an arse licking comment. If I were a woman reading your patronising remarks I'd tell you. " your actually wrong" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'timeforacuppa67' Blindman 67 Omg are you for real, the reason you think yiu understand. " what women want " is because your as close to a pussy as the come. Jesus what an arse licking comment. If I were a woman reading your patronising remarks I'd tell you. " your actually wrong" - Posted from rhpmobile LOL while i don't endorse foul language, i do have to agree the amount of arse licking comments from males on forums is seriously out of control! Men of Australia - GROW some balls! Don't be afraid to say what you really want to say! Speak your mind! Don't hold back! Freedom! So many arse lickers it's not funny!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'timeforacuppa67' Blindman 67 Omg are you for real, the reason you think yiu understand. " what women want " is because your as close to a pussy as the come. Jesus what an arse licking comment. If I were a woman reading your patronising remarks I'd tell you. " your actually wrong" - Posted from rhpmobile Oh no did I infer that some guys had no clue how women think. It is hard to tell which post that was, i do it all the time, just to let you know that if you feel you have something particular to say in regard to someones post the "reply with a quote" button is useful to avoid ambiguity. You will find it just above the post you wish to comment on. If you were a woman you would tell me I am wrong? but you are not a woman and thus am not telling me I am wrong. OK thanks rather nice of you to say all that. Your attempt at insult failed. The patronising was directed towards men, maybe some women would fell it inappropriate of me to do so. That is up to them but I fail to see how that would infer I feel superior to them, as the subject was men, and hell yes some of you monkeys struggle with the basics, its hard not to be patronising. What is of course interesting is your use of the term pussy. Now I read that twice and you are kind of saying that I am as close to being a woman as it gets. 'you're as close to pussy as they come. ' "pussy" to mean "like a woman" (in the context of your post) or a more general meaning of "weak". See this is rather insensitive and condescending way to use the term pussy. I dont think any women would care to think I am like them or even close? Nor do i think women would consider that pussy is at all weak. Thank you though for demonstrating to me how to think like a dick, seem I needed the lesson.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are you being sarcastic bloke (just asking) as the OP did have his cock on display. Good on you OP for changing your username, great choice and decision hope things start to improve for you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-Ten-Commandments-for-writing-a-male-profile-48927 Just for you x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'want_this_hmm' Quoting 'timeforacuppa67' Blindman 67 Omg are you for real, the reason you think yiu understand. " what women want " is because your as close to a pussy as the come. Jesus what an arse licking comment. If I were a woman reading your patronising remarks I'd tell you. " your actually wrong" - Posted from rhpmobile LOL while i don't endorse foul language, i do have to agree the amount of arse licking comments from males on forums is seriously out of control! Men of Australia - GROW some balls! Don't be afraid to say what you really want to say! Speak your mind! Don't hold back! Freedom! So many arse lickers it's not funny! Your right I am over sucking up, it gets me no where. Time to speak my fucking (sorry) mind. I am always so ultra careful to suck up and really get my tongue in deep, even to my shame pull the cheeks apart so I can get in deeper, make the more intimate shallow connection, just a bit of a peanut so that I may impress everyone, I know what shit tastes like. You are dead right, I will grow some balls, pull my pants up and speak my mind. What a fool i have been to try and please everyone.. Thanks want_this_mmm its easy to forget who you are when all you want is to be in other peoples pockets. Never again will I hide my personal view. Lets see where shall I start.Men, not sucking up to them any more, 1 in five are just pigs, no concept of anything but their little heads, sex starved fumbling retards. Really. Little wonder they cant get laid. That felt good... Thanks want_this_mmm great advice, and to keep in the spirit, what a totally arrogant handle you have, do you make them beg if they say yes, that must be fun..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'want_this_hmm' Quoting 'timeforacuppa67' Blindman 67 Omg are you for real, the reason you think yiu understand. " what women want " is because your as close to a pussy as the come. Jesus what an arse licking comment. If I were a woman reading your patronising remarks I'd tell you. " your actually wrong" - Posted from rhpmobile LOL while i don't endorse foul language, i do have to agree the amount of arse licking comments from males on forums is seriously out of control! Men of Australia - GROW some balls! Don't be afraid to say what you really want to say! Speak your mind! Don't hold back! Freedom! So many arse lickers it's not funny! Your right I am over sucking up, it gets me no where. Time to speak my fucking (sorry) mind. I am always so ultra careful to suck up and really get my tongue in deep, even to my shame pull the cheeks apart so I can get in deeper, make the more intimate shallow connection, just a bit of a peanut so that I may impress everyone, I know what shit tastes like. You are dead right, I will grow some balls, pull my pants up and speak my mind. What a fool i have been to try and please everyone.. Thanks want_this_mmm its easy to forget who you are when all you want is to be in other peoples pockets. Never again will I hide my personal view. Lets see where shall I start.Men, not sucking up to them any more, 1 in five are just pigs, no concept of anything but their little heads, sex starved fumbling retards. Really. Little wonder they cant get laid. That felt good... Thanks want_this_mmm great advice, and to keep in the spirit, what a totally arrogant handle you have, do you make them beg if they say yes, that must be fun.. Much better!
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RHP User
10 years ago
From what i have seen of recent times women are running this site by the powers of their you know whats lol Quoting 'want_this_hmm' Quoting 'timeforacuppa67' Blindman 67 Omg are you for real, the reason you think yiu understand. " what women want " is because your as close to a pussy as the come. Jesus what an arse licking comment. If I were a woman reading your patronising remarks I'd tell you. " your actually wrong" - Posted from rhpmobile LOL while i don't endorse foul language, i do have to agree the amount of arse licking comments from males on forums is seriously out of control! Men of Australia - GROW some balls! Don't be afraid to say what you really want to say! Speak your mind! Don't hold back! Freedom! So many arse lickers it's not funny!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Put a nice face pic or chest shot if u want to attract a woman to ur profile. I personally don't look at profiles with no public pics or just pics of dicks and if a guy contacts me, they better b ready to show me their face before I show mine. And just because u show someone ur pics, that doesn't mean they HAVE to show u theirs. Guys who think that really piss me off and I will tell u where u can stick it.
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