RHP

RHP User

M40

i never get anything back

December 29 2009

sex

ok i know im new well just come back from not being on here for ages but i find that i never get looked at and the only people that look at me are guys not sure why either. i know ur goin to say buy a full membership that heaps but i like to see that i might get some attention be4 i buy and im not talking about sex either just to get to meet new people. i did have a full membership at first but i never got any reply's or anything.i think that my photos are ok there face picsive tryed to fill out my profile as much as i canand im not tring to come out slazy either any help would be good thanks sebrule

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Check out the "True or False" post in Guys Ask.   It might give you some insight as to why women don't respond. Its a hot topic at the moment... and ferociously debated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Your profile is fine.. No Cock pic good star.. Your words don't make you sound up yourself and gods gift to women   Oh But do you come with the ball gag and blind fold as well?? The way a few women like there men gagged and quiet hahahaha     TIT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Seb,   I agree with TIT_WITCH your words just dont make sense the comment about 18 months no sex makes it sound like you were in Jail...sory just that was my first thought.   The submissive pic you have seems like a good angle to work to be especially if you are a very submissive male it might help if in your profile you talk a bit about that as well.   As far as getting responses, you have to put in effort when you send messages, you have to stand out from the crowd in short you have one shot to sound interesting. Read the profile of the person you are contacting tailor your message to that person only. It should be obvious to who egt the message you have read every thing EVERYTING in the profile.   I get plenty of responses and plenty of flirts too and I am old married and I smoke...but I write well, my profile is unique and I have a cute ass...Perhaps it is the last one that helps. Actually it is my profile that attract people the most.   Have a look at mine and you will get the idea of a profile that does attract attention even if it is a simple I loved your profile flirt from some one miles away.     Mike

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ummm....well since I am not into ball n gagged ...so I saw that pic and quickly flicked off your profile.Scared poor lil me..lol   soz...each to there own kinks..I know I have some too...lol.   huggies   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey i just checked out your profile and i'll be honest and tell you what i think...   Your info in the paragraphs - I always read this section if i'm interested, even if it's a lot of writing. But your information is just- to be painfully honest with you - dull. It's boring. You need to re-think what you've got up there, be to the point, be honest, but be original.   You sound just like the thousand other men on this website. Find something that's unique and individual to you, that someone will read and think 'wow, that's interesting, i wanna know more.'   Good pictures, more of you with a friendly, open smile would make you seem more....approachable.   After all that though, you do have a nicely detailed profile, that seems open and real which is good, but you need to be attention grabbing to set you apart from the millions of single men on here. Think of an interesting bi-line for your profile and maybe consider changing your profile pic.   good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ok thanks for that i forgot about the ball gag pic but ta for all that thu

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    yeah sebrule i understand exactly what you are saying the same is happing to me as well. so now you know you not alone in noticing  and to make it more interesting too do we upgrade now as only half price or not ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    sebrule i've had the same reaction with my profile and i've upgraded a couple of times and on the rare occasion that i get a reply the person i'm talking to just stops talking.  i'm going to go and have a gawk at my profile and see (from the comments here) where i could change