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October 30 2018
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RHP User
6 years ago
They make their profiles invisible so that they don’t have to deal with the repercussions from their behaviour.. nothing like a good disappearing act to let the flames die, hope what was said was forgotten then reappear like nothing’s happened. In this instance it doesn’t seem like there’s much lost on your behalf as you weren’t interested in him anyway... Or they could genuinely be going through a real life crisis whereby they need to be absent from the site so as to deal with what they are experiencing... 🤷♀️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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SxcMissM
6 years ago
but they vanish so that makes it hard to find out if there is an interest oh well his loss
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deepestpurple
6 years ago
After you said no thanks he's blocked you so you don't come up in his searches anymore and he doesn't waste time looking at your profile and realising you're the one who wasn't keen. It's a search optimisation technique that is pretty common. I have NFI what this has to do with facing the repercussions of his actions. Finally a guy who doesn't get abusive when rejected and has simply moved on with his search and his character is being questioned? Seems harsh. Hopefully he sees this forum and discovers that you have potentially had a change of mind and unblocks you. Assuming he is still interested. What chance this is a case of you wanting what you can't have?
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RHP User
6 years ago
His loss... if that’s the way they play an initial contact then what do they expect to happen? Got to be around and active to keep on top of interest - plenty of men in the sea wanting to be caught - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
You said you replied with "you're not what I'm looking for" but next post you state you may have been interested?? Are these poor blokes now meant to keep persuing and persisting despite a clear and polite rejection?? Which i might add we've all been vocal in the forums over the years that it's a no no. I wish it was a standard feature that once a match has been denied..... boom.... gone...... never to be thought of again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
6 years ago
I also find the same thing with female profiles. I see a new one and click on it and it's already unable to be seen. Are they blocking before any interest has been shown. Have noticed it a lot in the last while. - Posted from rhpmobile
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deepestpurple
6 years ago
Quoting 'SxcMissM' but they vanish so that makes it hard to find out if there is an interest oh well his loss You may have been interested so you told him that he wasn't what you were looking for? Oh yeah definitely his loss. Do you realise that "you are not what I am looking for" is a nice way of saying "I am not interested" around here?
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Service_man
6 years ago
Quoting 'sweetnsensual' I also find the same thing with female profiles. I see a new one and click on it and it's already unable to be seen. Are they blocking before any interest has been shown. Have noticed it a lot in the last while. - Posted from rhpmobile I've often wondered about that also, I see an interesting profile headline or image and just want investigate--not even thinking of contacting owner --and its annoyingly invisible. Wondered if there was a set filter on who can open the profile page I.e male --or age limit etc--but I don't think RHP is sophisticated enough to do this - am I correct?
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RHP User
6 years ago
...and don't forget that this is the internet? Shit happens unless you choose to block them and the clever ones will hit on you the next time you visit Woolie's. Forget Kmart... that's to cheap and nasty!
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
They can hide their profile all they like but you can still reply to their comments in the public space.... So if a reply is regarding their public comments as it’s suggested and not for malicious purposes, there’s nothing stopping you from replying to them....is there?? On a note of sending messages and generating a level Of interest and then disappearing, personally I just write them off as a clever fake and not give it any further thought.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
No wonder there's a lot of confused men here. High Five sista! Thank you, you've made me look unreal. 🙋 Ms Foxy
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
in that regard. Have had the same happen to me a numbr of times by women here too. Equal opportunity But as some have noted, you told him you were not interested, so he probably decided to move along. Tall
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SxcMissM
6 years ago
He wasn't not what i was looking for i meant that as he wasn't completely a no and the last reply i got before he did invisible was id love to meet you i should have worded it better (it sounded better in my head) we had swapped pics and as i said before i could respond he donned his cloak of invisibilty to be clear i didn't say to him he wasn't what i was looking for hence the post and my confusion i wasn't very clear with my original post
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mango69er
6 years ago
Gosh. Guys just cant win on here. Sounds to me the guy did everything he should of. Your not getting unwanted messages from someone your not interested in. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SxcMissM
6 years ago
"Hey back! Thanks for yr reply. Wow very hot n sex gallery pics .what turn on and the pics of yourself are gorgeous!! love the lingerie too...wish you could see my naughty pics!! im in XXXX. id love to meet if you like what you see and are keen" now i want to reply to that but due to profile being cloaked like a klingon starship its funny around here one slight typo or wrong word how quickly the judgement comes out and sadly there is no edit function to fix the original post
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Tall74nHard9
6 years ago
You've muddied the waters a bit here, and perhaps you may have done the same in your conversations with the guy (?).It appears he has taken the interpretation as a "not going to happen", so he has followed through wih his actions accordingly. Can't change the past, so perhaps move on into the future. Best wish may be for him to see your posting and unerstands, but don't dwell on what could have been. More fish in the ocean to try and hook... Tall
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deepestpurple
6 years ago
Quoting 'SxcMissM' "Hey back! Thanks for yr reply. Wow very hot n sex gallery pics .what turn on and the pics of yourself are gorgeous!! love the lingerie too...wish you could see my naughty pics!! im in XXXX. id love to meet if you like what you see and are keen" now i want to reply to that but due to profile being cloaked like a klingon starship its funny around here one slight typo or wrong word how quickly the judgement comes out and sadly there is no edit function to fix the original post Seems there has been a miscommunication. The way your OP reads is that you told him thanks but no thanks. This place is pretty brutal, people use it for all types of reasons and they use the block function for all types of reasons, try not to take it personally. All the best with your searching.
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
time to rebait the hook and go fishing again ,don’t sweat it ,don’t overthink it, you will go 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
forgot the words crazy or loopy la la - Posted from rhpmobile
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SxcMissM
6 years ago
firstly we exchanged 3 messages in total one from me 2 from him i am unable to respond to his last message which is on display here my reply to him was a very simple hi how are you going i opened my pg as he had for me and then he replied and i cannot not sure where i told him i am not interested trust me i have an auto reply if i am not and i wouldn't have started this post if i flat out declined him) my original post was iLL written hence everyone's confusion
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Considering you've now filled us all in on the original posts confusion and we have a clearer picture. Also considering you both opened up your private galleries straight up (whether or not they're intimate is irrespective) I now think mayhaps he actually got what he wanted (pics.... a pic collecting troll) or he just wasn't that into you and has moved on. Either way, bullet dodged babes. Onto the next, and there always is.....😊👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
He's married. Gets his kicks from hitting up people and when things get into that territory, panics and disappears. Not unlike guys that arrange meets but never show. Some sort of mental thing that internally gives him validation that he still has what it takes but misses the other part of his brain that is trying tell him that he is a pathetic time wasting arse wipe
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zzzyyyxxx
6 years ago
we get blocked by people we have never spoken to, used to think that was odd, so dont take it personal, its there decision, we just shrug & move along. :)
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