is it me or i just?

Comments

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  English is my second language... so I can't be sure - but even your post is a little - erm - scrambled. But hey - it's been warm here... Your profile would make me question why a single guy is looking for discreet fun... that's if I was one of the over-paranoid women here that is - I mean I don't mind.... Also the "drink me" and "orgasm" references are too close together... it cums across as sleazy (pardon the lame deliberate pun). Of course Sweetpetite could be right too - maybe you're too far down for alphabetic searches and competition is fierce. PS - I know Sweetiepie... I know!

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Trying to be constructive here, but here goes....my opinion. Your header to your profile says "give me a chance" and yet the tone to your "looking for" says to me that if a girl flirts you and you think she is "good enough" for you, you'll give her a chance??? lol Seduce don't demand...just a suggestion However if this makes perfect sense to you, then no need to change it. It will reflect who you are. And if YOU think you're good looking, then you are :-) Jx

  reply

  like

• 

  wannabyummymummy

  15 years ago

  the line in your profile that says 'if you are of some interest to me i'll jump into chat' is probably easy to read the wrong way.Your profile in general seems good, and i don't think you are that hard on the eyes, you may find it easier if you have a membership though and can messages as well even if it is just a trial one for a month and see how you go.I would advise that if you do that send a flirt to test the waters first if she responds well then take the time to write a message, not too long winded but a bit about who you are and what you would like to find.Proof read your message for mistakes ( not a bad plan for forum posts too ), use paragraphs to break it up a bit and try to show some of your personality in the message, ie sense of humor etc.This is all just my opinion of course but it is a tough game here for the guys, the forums are full of tales of the uneven ratio of men to women and the girls that dont reply or the ones that don't show up but i think the reason you never hear success stories from the guys is that they are too busy get laid to write in the forums lol (mmmmm doesn't say much for me now does it??)Either way good luck with it.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Wow that is the key. How would you seduce in your first message to someone? All you can do is show that you read their profile. Or is this where we go wrong? Should it be more like? Oh one bright star. Just looking at your pic makes me go hard with anticipation. As I imagine your ruby red lips hovering above me. etc.................... Should I go on. Do you girls respond better to this sort of message than ones like. Hi I really think that we would hit it off together do you want to catch up over coffee. My messages aren't really that lame but they are too the point and if they want to know more they can read my profile. Which I know I need to fix up. Maybe next week.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Reading this post I was thinking up all sorts of smartarse things to say... but sweetiepie has put me off my game. Mate, women are not going to come to you on RHP just because you have a profile. Plus you are at a disadvantage if you cannot communicate well in writing. We know that in life, being able to write well is not always the first thing on a woman's mind when looking for a man... so I suggest you use this site to attend events, the social events... Your personality can shine in person without having to write it down and you can use rhp as a starting point of mutual interest. Hugs Stalky

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Look, for me, it's the hat. And I like looking directly into someone's eyes when I'm looking at their headshot - perhaps I'm just a tad fussy and awfully anal! The single/discretion bit was slightly suspect too, but to each their own *shrug*Either way, I was unfortunately sidetracked from your dilemna upon reading of Sweetiepie's arse confusion ... I was curiously awaiting Stalky or the good Doc's reply.Stalky has however, come through as usual and I think he puts it well. Shine on indeed! ... Just don't make me choose which arse I like best.

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have not read your profile..I am just going to be honest on the pic I see here.. Lose the hat.....always good to see hair..And have a hair style..Short hair is easy even if you have not recently had it cut..Bit of hair wax ..get the fingers working there ..And ya can look cool. Trim up..or clean shave.. Glasses..nothing wrong there..but watch the lighting..too much reflection..There is always the option for contact lenses.. I don't wear glasses..but have green colored lenses ( purely cause I love green eyes) lol.. Which I wear from time to time. Hope my honest opinion helps huggies and good luck sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxx PS..Stalky is right..Get out to meets and MEET!...Let your personality shine

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  sweetpetite41, thanks for the advice i really appreciate it and will try your idea,thanks Tom

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  perhaps your example of a seductive line was a bit fake and easy to see thru...lol but yes, catering to a woman's ego is usually a good way to get her attention...and making things misterious and flattering can feed a feeling of being special, attractive,desirable...i myself still get weak at the knees when my hubby of 10 years starts stroking me from behind telling me how amazingly sexy i am and how much he is aching to pemper , pleasure and take me...i could be wrong here but i suspect most women would....and of course naturally i would want to show him how greatful i really am for his effort to make me feel special.... it's like having a lovely steak from a paper cup with plastic cuttlery and a lovely vintage wine to go with it from a plastic cup...the meal still taste lovely and the wine makes you light headed...but picture the same meal on a beautifully set dinner table with crystal glasses and candle light...maybe a quartette playing some relaxing baroque music in the corner...and you get my point...

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ................................... Amazing even! lol Jx

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Now move back from the camera! LOL....Ya looking like ya pic i in ya face kinda thing.. Keep going.. Like the hair by the way huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxx

  reply

  like

• 

  Sweet_violet

  15 years ago

  I am liking your hair in the pic! Sounds like everyone has given some great advice, but I'd take sweets advice and move back from the camera.. Perhaps a smile. I love it when I can see someones profile pic and they look like a happy, open faced person. That's what attracts me :)

  reply

  like

• 

  RHP User

  15 years ago

  do you often repeat yourself...??as in *spank me...spank me!...harder...HARDER!!...*...heheand fancy mixing up JG and Stalky...tsk, tsk...oops...just repeated myselfJose...

  reply

  like